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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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Men, what do you think of women who live in vans/motor-homes/other converted vehicles?

I'm considering it (I'm well-aware there are many other and more important things to consider before making such an enormous decision) because, even though I know it will be very difficult, I like to be challenged, I love to travel, and I want to learn more about my country—its geography, its cultures, its people. However, I also don't want to inhibit my chances of meeting a good man.

See, I haven't had sex yet (I'm 19), and it'd be easy to establish casual relationships and see if they grow into anything, but I'm not like that.

I
>don't smoke, drink, or do drugs
>carefully budget my finances
>am not an Instagram hippie
>am able to settle down if I find someone

I will be able to
>shower regularly
>live near a metro for a few months at a time or longer

Basically, I want to both live in a van for a while AND find a long-term partner, but I don't know how contradictory these things are and need your help, fellas.
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Does this sound good for a girl? How do I get a gf?
>20
>6'2
>aspie
>not a virgin
>lean and muscular
>look boyish and young for my age, people call me cute
>love dogs and try to pet every doggo I see
>metalhead
I want a cute gf again :<
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>>19141738
You're 19, you have time to fuck about.

Living in a van isn't all it's cracked up to be however.
I've traveled alot with my band when on tour. After about a week it gets more comfortable, But I'd never do it again if i didnt get payed for it.

Go travel for a while, settle down when you lived a little bit. Alternatively meed somebody who wants the same lifestyle as you. Lots of guys like to travel. My brother owns a camper that he takes out at least once every other month. And I'm sure he'd skin his penis for a girl that doesn't nag him for doing it
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What kind of role models do women have? In all seriousness.

>hillary clinton
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How do you cull jealousy in a long distance relationship?

We're both suckers for eachother but the second someone else comes in as a contender for the other's time and attention, we both flip our shit.

Wat do.
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>>19141738
wow, just tell me you're from europe.
I would *love* to have a gf like you
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Ladies, so I recently discovered that a girl from my dorm during my first year at Uni is on OKCupid, so I decided to check out her profile. She seemed like a nice gal whenever I saw her despite never really talking to her a whole lot. Now obviously I'm interested in starting something with her (something serious or maybe not so much), but I haven't really talked to her in like 4 years. Do you think it's weird if I just message her out of the blue to get some coffee? Do you think it would be less weird since we kind of know each other?
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>>19141843
See each other more.
No real cure. Jealousy is what tears these things apart>

If people cant spent time together they eventually look for someone they can.
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>>19141843
Long distance is not for jealous people.
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>>19141780
>aspie
Automatic nope.
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My RL experiences would lead me to believe I am attractive. According to 4chan, I should have no trouble, but I've never had a gf and habe no confidence with women. What gives?
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>tfw I saw my younger female cousins again after a while today, and got to spend a bit of time with them and talk with them..

God dammit I wish I could just be open about the fact that I want to spend time with them, because they are like younger sisters to me and I love them, but ever since my aunt basically implied to me that I am a pedo for wanting to spend time and stay in contact with my cousins I have been super fucking anxious about how I conduct myself around them. Especially the younger one, who turns 13 this year, breaks my fucking heart. She obviously knows that her mother disapproves of her being too affectionate towards me, like in the form of giving me hugs etc, but she still does it whenever her mother isn't around to see it. Even today, as I left, she came to hug me and I spun her around a bit, like I used to in the past. When they were younger, I gave them piggyback rides, let them sit on my lap, jumped on trampoline with them, and generally just spend a lot of time with them, and I loved every minute of it.
I still like it when the younger girl is affectionate towards me, and in no way do I try to stop her or shit like that, hell I'd love to just spend time with her and let her act all cuddly towards me like things used to be in the past. However, at the same time, there is now this nasty feeling of guilt hanging all over it, and I think she is aware of it too, given how she never initiates such contact when her mother is around to see.

I dunno what to do. I guess she will grow out of it eventually, like her sister who's few years older did. She used to basically have a crush on me and frigging kissed me once (still the only time I have been kissed by a girl), but now she is far more distant, which is hardly surprising. Such childish crushes on older relatives fade away naturally and it is good that they do.

I guess I am posting this here for any useful advice members of the opposite gender might be able to give me about this situation.
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>>19141870
>According to 4chan, I should have no trouble
What literal retard told you that all you need is to be attractive?
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>>19141870
Have you seen the movie ''Even bigger Jaws''?
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>>19141780
My fiancé is aspie, we've been together for 5 years and it was great.
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>>19141843
Move in together, spend more time together, trust each other.
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>>19141878
>Family Guy
No thanks
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>>19141898
But they were right.
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Do women hate love?
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>>19141876
Have a normal relationship with a adult female and people wont think your a pedo retard.
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>>19141909
Women can't feel love.
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>>19141911
>Have a normal relationship with a adult female
How do you suppose a socially anxious and inept loser who was raised by 4chan would go about doing that?
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>>19141913
Wrong picture, sry.
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>>19141922
rong bigdure sory
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>>19141917
For starters not hanging out with little girls.

And leave this bucket of crabs

Talk to your colleagues, or friends, or people on the bus stop. Do what Terry Davis did, figure it out, everybody else did
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>>19141909
>spent a day with my bf
>he just left
>I'm sitting here literally staring at a picture of him because I miss his face

Y-yeah we do.
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>>19141939
>yeah we do
fug eye kne it ::DDDD
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>>19141947
He's very cute anon, you'd hate being in love with him and far away from him too.
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>>19141953
yeah i would hate being a faggot
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>>19141936
>For starters not hanging out with little girls.
I don't exactly hang out with anyone because I have no friends here where I am living right now. The only people I know from here are my aunt and her family, including my cousins.

>And leave this bucket of crabs
Too much of a part of my life to leave behind. This is the only form of online socialization I can stand. I fucking hate normiebook and other shit like that.

>Talk to your colleagues, or friends,
I do, how is it supposed to help?

>or people on the bus stop.
Nigga I don't want to be stabbed.

>Do what Terry Davis did, figure it out, everybody else did
Who the fuck is Tarry Davis and perhaps if I have failed to figure out this thing that supposedly everyone else has succeeded in figuring out, I have some fundamental flaw.

Also, you aren't even really offering any actual advice on my initial post, other than "lol get a gf".
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Women, is she not into me? I’m confused. Should I just stand her up tomorrow? Or am I overthinking
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>>19141963
>Tell him how to not look like a pedo
>HUR DOOR IM A LOOSER FOR THE INFAMOUS PEDO WEBSITE AND I WONT LEAVE IT BUT AND YOU"RE NOT HELLPING ME NOT SEEM LIKE A PEDO.

Your aunt was right. I wouldn't let you hang around my kids either. Wouldn't want your retard rubbing off on them
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>>19141973
>grab food

this is how americands speak
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>>19141980
If you think that wanting to spend time with your younger relatives makes you a pedophile you are fucked in the head. They are my cousins for fuck's sake, am I supposed to act like they do not exist if I visit my aunt, when they themselves want to interact with me? What should I fucking do, not let my cousin hug me because her mother has some fucking issues with familiar affection or some shit?
And again, you are not actually offering me advice, just telling me "lol get a gf so u won't look like a pedo".
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>>19141831
bump
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>>19141984
You mad bc you can’t get a bloke or lass to take you out m8? You went through the time to find a picture and misspell your comment all bc I said “grab food”
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>>19141999
Well at least I ain't not no underaged amerilard
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This is Q for women. How often does cheating occur based on your or your friend's actions. Why? As I lose weight, in a few months I'll be much better looking. At this point my worry isn't losing weight. It's honestly a fear of being hurt emotionally.
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>>19141995
Want simpler advice? Kill yourself.
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>>19142024
What is your problem?
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>>19141997
>tfw no tall gf
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>>19141780
>aspie
>not virgin
>likes dogs
>metalhead
You would have to be perfect in every other way to make up for these
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>>19141831
>>19141997

Not really any specific one but I like traditional women
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>>19142031
Europeans are faggots
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>>19142019
Sporadically.
Of all my friends, just one of them ever cheated.
I've been seeing my bf for 5 years and I can't even talk to other guys without feeling bad.
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>>19142032
She is 6'2, that is too fucking tall. 5'10 would be perfect.

inb4 manlet, I'm 6'4
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>>19142041
yuo miss spellled yuropeen
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>>19141913
Sure
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>>19142041
How is that relevant to the question?
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>>19142041
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Lets say you meet a girl, she's basically everything you want in girl. And she is interested in you. But theres one problem, she's black (or what ever is a different race than you) but she's universally cute.

Would you still date her?
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>>19142045
We're all 6'4" on the internet
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>>19141909
As I said before, I don't hate it at all, but sometimes it's really hard and painful to love someone
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>>19142060
Nah.
The only reason to pursue a relationship is to eventually found a family, and I do not want mixed race descendants.
I would never date outside of my race.
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>>19142043
Why is it that you did that?Was it the guys fault, or was your cheating not necessarily the guy's fault? Should I even trust women? Or is it going to depend on my judgement of that person?
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>>19142045
>6'2"
And I want to die over being too tall when I'm 5'7"
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>>19142064
>I don't hate it at all, but sometimes it's really hard and painful
Sooo...... anal?
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>>19142060
nope.

Kids end up being all kinds of fucked up.

maybe asian, half asians look cute
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>>19142060
Tttttthhhiiiissss fool
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>>19142081
Well I do anal actually, well, did once.
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>>19141831
I don't really like the idea of having a role model, but the first person who came to my mind when I read your question was Flannery O'Connor.
Stunningly intelligent, witty, sensitive, extremely human.

I also tend to really admire women in science and sports, I'm often moved by the things they do. I was especially moved by a young girl from my country who won a gold medal at the paralympics, her story was beautiful and she seemed like a wonderful person.

I read it to my boyfriend and he said my role model is Melania Trump. Felt like I should include it.
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>>19142070
Me, personally, I've never done it.

I think most people cheat when they're not fulfilled in the relationship but are too scared to leave it.
I also think that there are worse things in the world than getting cheated on, and it makes no sense to be so terrified of it.

You should trust women like you trust anybody. Yes, but use your head and stay a little careful.
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>>19142041
Yeah, I'd rather be american.
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>>19142073

5'7" is about the perfect female height, femanon. Not too tall, but tall enough to have a naturally more ectomorph body-type.
That's usually exactly the type of girl I go fore.

t. 6'1" anon.
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>>19142073
Whats it like being a tall girl?

I like tall girls and I've heard they're really insecure about it

Any advice on approaching them?
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>>19142069

This exactly.
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>>19142073
>tfw 5'8"
>in a country where the male average is 5'8"

Moved to the US, found giant 6'4" american bf, married him, pregnant with his giant american son.
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>>19142090
aye you nasty guuuurrrr nah just messing with you
If you see the mayhem I survive on the toilet, anal should be a walk in the park
you go get em tiger
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>>19142105
I've heard that having confidence as a manlet can go a long way. Has to do with them (the guy) not being intimidated/embarrassed about being with tall girls. Just go for it F A M.
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>>19142062
I'm legit 193.5cm
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>>19142099
Never post that again
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>>19142104
Dunno I was always jealous of 5'3", like, that they are more cute. But it's good to know not everyone thinks so. Goodnight anon
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>>19142105
Yes, I'm insecure about it. Everyday I beat myself up because of it and feel like chopping my long legs off. Just approach them like normal girls
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>>19142118
I have 5'8"-5'9" British boyfriend. I never really liked Americans much
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>>19142045
>6'2
Pretty hot desu
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Always remember that 5'8 is the perfect female height.
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>>19142119
Anal seem like not as big deal as people make it out to seem. Yeah, it can get messy sometimes and it's not the cleanest part of the body, but once a while it is okay
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>>19142140
Oh I didn't move to marry an american, just happened to meet a pretty soulmate-worthy kind of guy and got stuck here.

My only other ex was 5'7", and I was happy with it.
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It's been 2 months since we "broke up our almost-relationship because of a single, dumb argument.

How bad of an idea is it to ask her on a date to feel out whether there's actually anything there or not?

Note: we stayed friends after the argument and dropped straight back into flirting and teasing during our friendly encounters
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>>19142151
Well good for you. Good luck with pregnancy and hopefully you raise a proud and happy baby. I'm going to sleep, goodnight
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Ladies, what's the best way to approach you?

I don't want to be talking to a girl that wants to get away and doesn't know how
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>>19142073
Whats it like being a tall girl?

I like tall girls and I've heard they're really insecure about it

Any advice on approaching them?
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>>19142166
>Ladies, what's the best way to approach you?
Don't approach me when I'm busy. Have a reason to talk to me. Try to gauge if I appreciate your approach or not (not looking at you, being very short with my answers).
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>>19142186
Not her, but 5'8".

It's odd to be taller than a *lot* of guys, but it is mostly okay.
I don't feel particularly bad about it, and in general if the guy who approaches me is around my height or taller I don't even think about it.
I wish I was born a little shorter, but it was never terrible. I look good in skirts and skinny jeans.
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>>19142186
When you accidentally the whole post


>>19142123
T-thanks, b-but im not a manlet

>>19142134
Cute, but at 5'7 don't stress about it. It's not that tall. I mean it registers, but not the genetic gigantic freak of nature i like.

>tfw no 6'4 gf to birth me a basketball team
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>>19142204
Then shouldn't they be as tall as you then? This should be easier for you then. I'd kill for an extra inch. (5'8)
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>>19142157
you've asked this in this thread already
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>>19141876
Any actually serious advice on this? How should I approach the fact that my cousins seeks to be affectionate towards me without her mother seeing it? I freely admit that I like the fact that she still comes up to me for hugs etc, as I find it adorable, but the way she does it behind her mother's back is pretty worrying.
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>>19142229
I've only ever met one girl who was as tall as me. And i instantly fell head over heals in love with her lanky ass.

Shame she was in a relationship, would have waifud her right there on the spot
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>>19142204
>was good at offensive line
>got to be too short in high school
>tfw no tall sporty wife to make collegiate athlete sons with
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>>19142233
What? No I haven't.
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>>19142269
well, then it's not stupid, try it.
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>>19141738
It depends.
If you talked about constantly traveling, then I would assume you are ready to pick up and leave on a whim and not the settling down/commitment type of girl.

If you just happens to live in a van because you're frugal or not materialistic then I would actually find it favourable.
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My girlfriend is too tight.
Even putting two fingers inside her makes her feel a lot of pain and we're trying using lube, but feels like no progress? We are both virgins.
My dick is pretty average and she wanted to try putting it inside anyway but we couldn't get even the tip in because it hurt too much. What to do?
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Girl had to cancel a dinner "not-date" we were gonna cook at her place. She said to try for next week, but I havent gotten a day from her yet. Its been like 48 hrs.

How long should I wait?
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>>19142366
a fuckload more of foreplay.
if it fails, try anal.
pussy should stretch with time, but it may take even weeks
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>>19142374
Lol, are you a virgin? What makes you think anal would be any easier than stretchy vag
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How important, in your opinion, is sharing hobbies/interests/points of view with a potential partner?
I've always thought that couples don't necessarily need to be identical, and that a lot of times opposites can compliment each other, but at the same time I can't help but feel attracted to a girl that shares those things with me.
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>>19142374
I already do a lot of foreplay, but I think I kinda suck at oral because I can't make her cum.
She says it's her fault too because she can't feel too much and she can't even get excited to masturbate at home(she does get very excited and she's the one who's most eager to try between us to have sex though)
I said once or twice jokingly to have anal but she doesn't seems to want it. I thought about putting a finger there but ended up not doing that.
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>>19142384
dunno, like 500 sexual intercourses.
if you can't insert a finger into pussy, then anal will definitely go easier. I handled gently it can be completely painless on the first try.
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>>19142397
>but I think I kinda suck at oral because I can't make her cum.
nah, it's nearly impossible to make most girls cum this way.
she has to masturbate or be fingered by you in order to stretch. It may be unpleasant for some time, but it will get just fine later.
send her some nudes or sth
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>>19142401
I can tell you are a teenager from this post. Don't give people advice on things you don't know anything about.
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>>19142386
Like 6/10.

What matters, in my opinion, is:
>you have the same fundamental values
>you want the same things in life
>you have *some* shared interest
>you're mature enough to handle differences

I like people like me, but it can be enriching to be with soemone different.
My boyfriend is VERY different from me, like - VERY. But I love him a lot, and we work out really fine.
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>>19142386
Long relationships with a person you don't share any interests with gets tedious.

I find it hard to do things we both enjoy. And this leads to frustration, that leads to arguments that unravels the whole thing.

It's not absolutely necessary to share every singe thing you like to do but having a shared hobby helps out a lot I find.

Having a normie basic bitch interest like guitar or dancing or traveling helps.
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>>19142407
My penis is 14cm long so I feel bad about that...
When I was drunk texting her once she asked me for nudes, then on the next day I sent them. But when she opened it on SC she was in a family gathering so she had to close it right away and asked me to send again, to which I jokingly replied I wouldn't. She got mad and said she didn't want them anymore and I said I was joking, but some days later I asked if she wanted nudes and got a no.
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>>19142437
don't ask her. just do it when she tells you she's bored
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>>19142423
you're wrong and I'm not.
go be butthurt somewhere else
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Why does sex hold no emotional implications to women? Why is it just another physical activity to them?
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>>19142473
you met bad women, dude
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>>19142386
You do need to meet somewhere in the middle. If you don't have anything in common, they're practically a stranger. Plus it's enjoyable to be able to do your hobbies with the person you love, or have in depth conversations about your favorite topics.
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>>19142473
What?
I never even kissed soemone I was strongly infatuated with, had sex just with the person I love.
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>>19141738
>Men, what do you think of women who live in vans/motor-homes/other converted vehicles?

If you are interesting to me i dont care what you live in.
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What's the difference between dating and hanging out? Met this girl now a couple of times and we spend quality time together as far as I am aware.
Could see her as partner in terms of goals and values, just don't know how to go any further from there. I'm also kind of unaware about social hints, so I have no idea what to do. Should I just ask if she wants to start dating? Also if she says no would that make future things awkward?
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Here's a hypothetical scenario:
Suppose you're in a solid relationship and you find yourself falling for someone else, what would you do then? would you break up immediately to sort your feelings out? would you avoid the other person and insist on loyalty? would you get to know the other person more to see if you'd want to make the switch? would you cheat?

pic unrelated.
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>>19142035
If you don't like dogs then I aint interested
>>19141867
Why not ;_;
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>>19141780
>metal that isn't slayer
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Serious question, instead of saying "I'll think about it" why can't you girls just say "no"?
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>>19142597
"No" makes them the bad guy.
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>>19142570
there is no hypothetical answer to this. It would be purely context-based.
I think I would wait for some time and then sit alone for quite some time and listen to my own feelings and desires.
then I would talk to them, starting with the new one.
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>>19141780 #
What are you talking about? Are you saying Slayer are the only good metal band?
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>>19142623
What kind of talk would it be?
>I like you, but I don't want to do anything before I break up with X
Something like that?
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>>19142649
Meant to reply to
>>19142592
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If I ask a female friend to hang out 1 on 1 in a very obvious date situation (like dinner or mini golf or something) should I make it explicitly clear I'm asking her on a date or let shit flow naturally towards romance during the hanging out?
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>>19141909
not at all but it doesn't matter because:
>>19141913
men either hate us or don't give half a shit about us
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>>19142654
more like
>I have this kind of feelings toward you.
>What do you feel to me and why?
and then
>I'm in a relationship and I still value her and don't want to hurt her or anything. I have to discuss it with her.
and then I would talk to my current gf, explaining the situation wholly and asking her for her opinion.

the things set to motion would then clear themselves on their own
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>>19142649
Yes
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>>19142687
don't treat my heart like potato

I'm sort of a faggot what do you have to say for that
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does it mean anything when a girl at my uni I've never talked to looks discretely at me when we are in the same place
am I overthinking this
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>>19142720
>am I overthinking this
Yes. Yes you are, anon.
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>>19142739
thanks
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Girls

would you cuck a guy
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>>19141738
Like other anons said as long as he also wants that same life style it'd actually be attractive. I'd personally love to have a long term gf I could travel with everywhere, and go /out/ though I can't do that right now in my life.(college)
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>>19142570
>would you avoid the other person and insist on loyalty?
this, and well before it could ever get to any "falling for someone" feels
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>>19142746
If the other guy looked like this.
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>>19142702
>don't treat my heart like potato
i don't and won't. pls stop treating mine like potato, it hurts very very much
>I'm sort of a faggot what do you have to say for that
makes me sad
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>>19142687
>men either hate us or don't give half a shit about us
Women either hate men or don't give a shit about them. That's life faggot.
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>>19141553

>guy has been asking to meetup
>"are you free on Tuesday?"
>"yes after 19, we can meet up"
>"cool, perfect"
>"great"

What now? Feel like saying something but no idea what
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Stop making fun of the "nu-male" smile because it's the best way to clock a manchild in my arsenal and they can't find out.
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>>19142840
>do you like cats?
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>>19142687
Right because girls totally give a shit about guys
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>>19142840
Send him a text sunday and ask if he's still planning on it.
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>>19141780
>aspie
>looks like a boy
>metal
the meme is real
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Why do women tear down other women?
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>>19142687
>Put all your effort into a girl.
>She smiles and leads you on, all while talking to 5 other guys
>Accepts your dinner invite, doesn't even offer to pay half
>Never sends you a 'Thanks, had fun tonight' or asks for another date, just go's about her life
>Ends up hooking up with Mr. Fabulous.
>Gets pumped and dumped
>Goes crying on IG/Facebook about "Where have all the good men gone?!"

Im so glad my current gf is a decent looker and loyal. Most girls these days want a 6'2+, ripped, wealthy, chad who will pamper them until their last breath. Anything less than whats above is treated like fucking garbage. It's happened to me and happened to friends.
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this goes out to men and women
>lowest 1-10 rating (attractiveness) for considering a ons with someone
>also how do you see yourself and are you f/m

lowest 4/10, me:6/10 guy
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>>19142255
Who gives a fuck what the mother thinks? I love my female cousin to death (She's 20 and I'm 18).
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>>19142871
Why do men try to outdo other men? Life is a competition
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>>19142874
>Lowest: 5/10
>Average: 6.5/10
>Highest: 8/10
Male. Still have 0 luck with women. Must be because I'm 5'10.
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Girls: Do some women just like drama, being difficult and all that?

I've been invited to an engagement party and they chose not to invite my partner. They both know her but they're excuse was they haven't heard from her much (this couple has also never reached out to either of us, I've been the only one making contact and I haven't spoken to the boyfriend in over a year).

I asked if my partner could still come since some people cancelled but they flat out refuse to let her come.
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>>19142544
Somebody? I would really appreciate some hints please.
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>>19142896
>5'10"
It's probably something else. I'm 5'9" and I catch eyes often enough
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do women know that most men with a plus 100 iq view them as equals to dogs?
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>>19142997
/r9k/ isn't "most men" m8
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>>19142910
Hints:
>You catch her looking at you.
>She smiles every time you look her in the eyes.
>Always wants to hang out (Especially with clingy type girls).
>She gets mad when you talk about other women.
>She laughs a lot at your jokes, even if they're stupid.
>She sends you selfies.
>She doesn't shy away from physical contact

How to ask her out:
>Send her a text asking her to go out to dinner with you
>As the night goes on, look for signs. (The look in her eye, bedroom eyes, smiling, ect)
>Get more 'physical'(If you're walking around the town square/city, be playful. Tap her shoulder and pretend you didn't do it, hide from her while you're walking, ect
>When you take her home/before you both depart say: "Hey listen (her name), I just wanted to say that I like you...a lot. And I was wondering if you'd like to go out?". Make sure you're smiling and looking into her eye, body language goes a long way.

But you have to play your cards right. There is a 50/50 chance she'll say no, leading to the end of you two hanging out. HOWEVER, there is also the other 50 that she'll agree.
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>>19142997
That's not true, we still view them as humans. Cheating human whores.
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>>19141867
>>19141884
>>19142035
>>19142592
>>19142649
>>19142862
Just to clarify, when I wrote "for a girl" I meant "in order to get a gf". I'm a boi
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Men.

Could you love a smoker?
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>>19143004
Damn that's complicated. Does it have to be beating around the Bush that much to be realistic? Is just walking up to her and asking for a date a stupid thing to do?
Also what does bedroom eyes mean exactly?
Thanks in any case mate!
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>>19143017
Not long term, no.
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>>19143017
my best friend is a smoker and i'd say i love him (no homo) so yeah sure
with that said i wouldn't live with one. not sure if i'd date a smoker purely for the practicality of it (waste of money, makes everythign smell like shit)
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>>19142999
/r9k/ isn't even iq100+
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>>19143036
they absolutely think they are though
>muh INTP genius but can't make myself work hard!!
what a meme
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>>19143017
Yeah.
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>>19143017
yeah, I guess.
but it would always be love in spite, so her other traits would have to be really attractive.
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>>19143024
diff anon
I say, do whatever you feel you should. Be yourself, because if you pretend to be someone else and she comes to love you for that, you'll have to pretend for the whole relationship or disappoint her at some point.
Want to be straightforward with her? no problem, be so.

bedroom eyes is when the pupils go down a bit, which is a sign of relaxation, good feelings in the body and also orgasm.
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Gf is turning 23 on sunday. We've only been dating for 1 month. What should I get her?

She has different musical taste so it is not wise for me to offer seats for concert or so. I've never bought jewel in my life, and although she frequently wears necklace (...) I feel like it's a bit too early for such a present. Third thing I thought of was train ticket for a week-end - travell (we both like travelling) but this also might be out of price range (~ $50)
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>>19142997
Dogs never took advantage of me or disparaged the very notion of masculinity
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>>19143070
personally, I would love to be asked if I want something specific. Fuck the surprise, I have a fantastic wishlist in my mind that no concert ticket could satisfy. In all price ranges, too.

not saying she thinks the same way, but you can as well consider straightforward asking her.
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>>19141553
[male but both perspectives interest me]
Would you consider a relationship without sex? How little could you live with comfortably? Read into this as much as you feel appropriate.
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What to think if you mention that a girl would look nice with a certain look. Only to see her like a week later with that sorta look.

Like if you mention that a girl would look nice with short, straightened hair. And then a week later you see that she chopped it off and straightend it
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>>19143107
A week later? I'd have forgotten the whole thing. "Wow, she looks nice."
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>>19143107
what's her sign
if scorpio she likes you
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>>19143097
guy here
a relationship?
no.
I guess I could be some kind of strange fwb with a girl, where we could hug, sleep in one bed, etc. but never fuck (of course without it, we are discussing normal friendship)
but whenever I'd find a girl interested in sex with me, I'd switch to her (unless she was comfortable with me being this intimate with the previous girl, but I really doubt it)

I have a huge libido and I need sex no less than once a day, preferably three times, so bargains in this matter aren't much of an option
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>>19143107
that she trusts your opinion.
why would she? well, there's like a lot of possible explanations
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>>19143097
>Would you consider a relationship without sex?
No
>How little could you live with comfortably?
Once or twice a week. But if this is a "i'm asexual" or "i just don't like sex" thing then I wouldn't be into it at all. I want someone who wants to have sex, not someone that does it just to make someone else happy.
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>>19143114
>>19143121
>>19143127

We'll this was moreso purely hypothetical.

I havent mentioned anything to her about it yet, but maybe if it comes up, I may say something
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I answered 550 questions honestly on okC and this is my personality graph. R8/h8. Am grill.
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>>19143162
all the good qualities are lacking or negative 3/10
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>>19143162
You own a pair of cut off overalls/10
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>>19143162
>political
have mercy. Never in a million years.
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I had a first date that ended prematurely because the girl had to pick up someone at the airport, normally if a date doesn’t end in a hookup then it’s fucked. I feel like reaching out for a second date can end up making me look too clingy, am I wrong?
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>>19143170
I don't but I'll buy a pair just for you, babe.
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>>19143186
You really think a close friend just landed with no ride from the airport and had to call her for an unplanned ride and she would drop her date for it?

You got ditched dude.
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>>19143193
Please do, the world needs to conform to my assumptions already.
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>>19143186
>I had a first date that ended prematurely because the girl had to pick up someone at the airport
That was her "out" call. 99% chance she just went home.
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>>19143200
>>19143212
I know it sounds like bullshit but I saw her snapchat and it seemed legit to me, her friend from Cairo landed at the airport that night. We spent a good two hours chatting over coffee and she looked like she was having a good time
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>>19143243
Okay maybe it went alright then. Carry on with the assumption things are fine, get a second date and take it from there.
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>>19143162
>political
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>fresh new girlfriend, relationship is 2.5 weeks old
>she asks my plans for the weekend
>tell her i work tomorrow, and im off sunday
>ask if she wants to spend the night saturday
>tells me shes going to think about it
>she's spent the night 5 times the last few weeks, assume she would want to
>ask her what she needs to think about
>says she "doesn't want to think too far ahead, her decions depend on her mood".

What the fuck does that even mean? All of a sudden i have a shitty feeling about this. Shouldnt someone be excited to spend the night in a new relationship? What the fuck do I say? I asked if she was okay and she said yeah. I hate being put in this position and have pseudo-plans.
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>>19142836
>That's life faggot.
apparently so, yeah

>>19142847
a few of us do

>>19142872
decent looking, loyal, and the love i'm allegedly incapable of feeling aren't enough for the only good man i care about to want to keep caring about me too. i'm not saying girls aren't shit, i know we're shit. i'm saying a good girl to a good guy will always still be just some fucking girl who ultimately doesn't matter to him all /that/ much
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>>19143285
Did you have sex when she stayed?
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>>19143333
Yep. Almost every time we see eachother.
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>>19143285
>dating for 2.5 weeks
>she's stayed the night at yours 5 nights in those two weeks
She's bored already since you're not doing anything new or interesting.
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>>19143341
Do you know what happens every ~4 weeks with unsure coming date that make 99% of woman want to not have sex ?
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>>19143294
>a few of us do
Are you telling me there's girls out there who might view as more than just a sexual conquest at best?
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>>19143346
We both like hiking and outdoors shit but it's been -15 here almost every day. It could be that but I don't think so. We go out most times we chill for dinner.

>>19143349
This is actually a possibility.
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Why would a girl give me the "come hither" eyes?
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>>19143355
yes dummy. if she's down to bang right away she's trash. are you ignoring/forgetting the conventional wisdom or...?
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To tall females (5'10-5'11 and up)

Would you date a guy shorter than you? What qualities would he need to have for it to happen?
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>>19142372
Anyome?

She offered to reschedule, but she still hasn't gotten back with a date
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>>19143435
I'm used to the idea of being thought of as either a nuisance or a trophy to women
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>>19143492
you've got it the wrong way round hun. you in university?
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>>19143445
I'm 5'10.

I'd date someone 1 inch shorter than me if he was otherwise perfect, but more than that probably not. It's a turn off.
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>>19143285
Her period.
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>>19143481
Stands to reason she was probably thinking around the same time next week. So if your plans were for a Friday night she's probably thinking next Friday night. Calm the fuck down.

Text her and keep up conversation but don't hound her about the new date.
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>>19143058
Sounds like a more feasible approach. Only thing I am worried about is that I can't have a friendship with someone who rejected me (not from my part, just never tried and thus have no idea)
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>>19143515
I am
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>>19143528
Quite possibly. I think it's supposed to snow on Weds, which is when it would be, assuming same day. Then there's the fact that u am working when we would be doing it... So yea. Haven't spokem to her since the cancelation basically. We usually don't text much tnough

I just get a bit overly anxious when she has to cancel... Usually end up doing something, but usually a completely different thing.
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>>19143543
those godawful places ruin people in such insidious ways it should be a crime for 70% of them to even exist at this point.
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>>19141553
>start lifting, getting in great shape
>get a haircut, shave
>take care of skin, brush teeth, change wardrobe
>tell myself this the day
>be out in school/public/church, see a qt girl
>sit next to them or approach
>mfw mind goes blank everytime

Whats wrong with me? Am I autistic?
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What does getting left on read mean? Game over?
>>
How do you deal with controlling people and emotional abuse?
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>>19143555
There are a few possibilities:
1) she's busy and preoccupied, had to cancel but wanted to reschedule, just hasn't got around to thinking about it yet and a prompting message from you might make her do something about it
b) she's dodging you and getting ready for a ghosting, if this was a first not-date then this is a possibility, but if you guys have seen each other before it's less likely
iii) she's doing that thing women do where she's testing to see how long it will take for you to come chasing after her because they like attention and feeling desired, in which case the sooner you message her and prompt her to reschedule, the better

>>19143599
You've been lied to. Although it's not impossible, most men and women don't just meet with no pretext, i.e. sit next to them in public and strike up a conversation.

If you want to meet women then go to activities (with your friends) where there are organic opportunities to talk to them. The bonus of this is you've already got the activity you're all doing as an in-built topic to open with.
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>>19143633
>with your friends

Looks like I'm going to have to make friends, all my best friends (we all met in the military) are in their home states now, I don't know anyone where I'm living, how do I into making friends without having to the military force us to bond thanks to the Suck?
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>>19143633
Yea, she probably was just preoccupied, or just exhausted from work.. She works a lot. And it's kinda amazing that she has any time for me.

Definitely isn't setting it up for a ghosting. Weve been seeing each other for a month and a bit. And have gone out in some way no less than 8 times.

Hmm. Maybe she's waiting to see how I'll react without hearing back.

I think I'll give it another solid day or so before I reach our again. She apparently already bought some stuff for the meal
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How long would you wait before getting married?
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>>19143618
Not always. It is worst when they don't even your message. Try to text them casually asking how they are and if they do not reply it is pretty much a game over
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>>19143622
get them out of your life
tell them it;s you, not them
then break contact forever
don't give in when they beg for a while
they will understand and give up sooner than you
meanwhile you're working on healing and building a life with people who love you
And loving people back because you can now love yourself
It requires absolute silence on your part toward the people who you want to stop ruining your life
Any kind of attention you give them will give them access to further ruin your life.
So totally ignore all their calls and letters
dont read them
don't text them
don't pick up the phone
don't open up the door
don't let them know you live.

They will leave you in peace
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>>19143618
maybe. context?

>>19143622
>controlling people
avoid. learn to spot them. when spot, turn 360 walk away
>emotional abuse
gtfo asap. make it clear (i.e. use words, be direct, act upon what you say) that you don't and will not accept the behaviour. if it continues regardless, gtfo and stay go.
>emotional abuse
...unless of course it unexpectedly comes out of left fucking field and wasn't predictable or at least suspected, in which case i apparently deal with it by slowly losing my damn mind and completely falling apart and unironically wishing i were dead
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>>19143644
As soon as you are ready imho, I was already 28 when I met my bf, waited a year before I got married. If you are young wait a few years, maybe at least 2. If you are older maybe thats a much bigger deal and you should wait less. Successful marriage is about commitment and holding tight, not about "how long"
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>>19143636
Common interests.

>>19143636
Sounds like a good plan to me. I would wait for Monday even to bring it up. In case she is the nutcase kind who is testing you, make sure to convey some enthusiasm so she knows you're interested.
>so hey, you still owe me that date! let me know when you're free

>>19143644
Minimum 3 years before proposing, which must include a period of living together of at least 12 months, with the intention of marrying no sooner than 6 months after the engagement.
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>>19143636
You have any hobbies or interests outside of the Internet with clubs in a nearby city? Can be anything from. Pottery, Archery, knitting, dancing. Doesn't have to be something you are already good in but something you actually want to learn. Then you can after the first few meetings of the club ask other members about their numbers or if they wanna hang out.

Thats the basics of it. From there on out it takes years and some shit to go through together to actually get the thing that most people consider a friend.
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Girls, why aren't men allowed to have more say in wedding arrangements? Realistically we are less interested in the concept than women tend to be, but that doesn't mean the commitment and the occasion has any less meaning to us than it does to you. And, so, that being the case, why are we not allowed to have some kind of influence over how it turns out?
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>>19143684
This is too broad a question I think to ask of women in general. I'd be perfectly happy to accommodate my husbands requests for our marriage, he just had very very few to begin with other than the people he wanted there. Talk about it with your fiance instead of /adv/ imho
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>>19143679
Yea.. I was thinking Sunday at earliest, Monday at latest.

I don't think she's testing me at this point though. We've gone out a fair bit, and she knows I love the time we spend together. It always ends up just us. Hell, we even have an overnight trip planned for a few weeks from now. (granted it's with her sister)


Annoying that I'll need to pick up some stuff for the meal, but she can't drive, so I guess I'll dead. (grew up in the city so she never learned to drive)
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>>19143681
I like hiking, shooting and weed, I also used to play bass in a garage band, thats about it
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>>19143723
And there are no clubs doing this stuff close to your place? Also I don't think any human being is as shallow as only liking 3 things.
Of course depending on how socialable you are you can also just go to the next bar and talk to random people. But since you are on this board I don't think that really reflects your character.
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>>19143828
I also like my very niche milsim video games, and shitposting on /fit/ and /k/, I try not to barhop anymore since I dropped alcohol completely.
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>>19142157
Sounds like you guys can't communicate properly or they have a committment issue. Tread carefully, don't waste your time.
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>>19143669
Just didnt message back.
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How do women feel about black guys with small dicks? pic related is me btw
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>>19143896
How small we talkin
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>>19143896
black girls don't care.
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>>19143903
I actually have a chode 5.5 inches long, 5.8 inches circumference. I might be longer if i lose a bit of weight tho but max 6
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If it's not locks or money what real things do women want in a bf?
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>>19143926
power
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How do you meet girls outside of online dating? I keep meeting up with really trashy people and its destroying my perception of women. I don't know why anyone does this, online dating is the most depressing shit ever.
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Honest thoughts on online dating?
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Condom broke and used Plan B. Can we have protected sex (different condom) on same night?
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>>19143863
It was bad communication. Thing is, looking back, it's really easy to see what she wanted from me. We talked about it a lot but I fucked up due to low self-esteem.
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>>19142386
7.5/10 important
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>>19142473
Actually it's quite the opposite. I never met woman like that but I meet men all the time that just want to get it wet or want ons or want to fuck some ugly chick they hate only because of her boobs and ass
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>>19142574
You are an aspie so I'm glad that you are not interested, also the fact that you are and chimp out seeing dogs says a lot about dogfags
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>>19142597
Some mean I'll think about it as yes. Also some are too awkward to say no
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>>19142746
No

>>19142871
Evolution

>>19142874
Lowest 5/10, me: 8/10 f
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28 y/o guy. Never had a gf, sex, or date. Should I bother trying or save myself the embarrassment and live alone in misery and self-deprecation?
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>>19142997
do men know that most women with a plus 100 iq view them as equals to dogs?
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>>19143896
>ugly nigger with small dick
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>>19143926
Intelligence and personality
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>>19144114
Trust me, I know. Y'all made sure I did
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What does it mean if MILF tier woman with child stares at you with open mouth and starts licking her upper lip? Was at a doctor and this seriously happenned. Did I make it?
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do yu hab beeg bagingoe?
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>>19144108
>Evolution

explain
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>>19143622
What's going on anon?
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>>19144103
It's not like we'll ever meet, so fuck off
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what does it mean when a girl jokes about me liking her? she said "you just came because of me" with a smirking smiley. i replied with "of course, i just came here to see you" and she replied with "knew it".
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Girls: why do you usually like to paint your toenails with really vibrant colors, yet usually do not paint your fingernails? Worst offenders are the ones who usually have their feet concealed under a shoe or the sort. It seriously makes me think most of you try to conceal fungi or otherwise fucked up toenails.
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>>19144168
We evolved to want to look the best for higher quality males to desire us the most, that's why we out each other down all the time, because we want to be seen as superior

>>19144178
Don't ask for advice if you can't take it
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>>19143599
Anxiety... sounds like a panic attack
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Okay, I'm going out with this friend (female) I like but in situations like these I don't know what to talk about so we talk about stupid shit.
I'm afraid I'm not taken seriously and I often don't know what to say.
What can I do about it?
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>>19144198
How do I get over a fear of women?
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>girl i am starting to become interested in
>has a male roommate
>girl lives free of charge because of family reasons
>claims that, guy had crush on her in the past, but she never allowed it to happen

so how likely is it that theyre fucking and im wasting my time?
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>>19144186
Some girls like painting their nails but don't want to be overly flashy, so they paint them in a place that is not normally seen.
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"You can feel safe with me, anon, we will meet asap". Sentence repeated every now and then, as soon as I asked for a meeting.

3 weeks go by, she flakes

What's the fun in this sadistic shit?
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Women,

Would you let your long term boyfriend go to a titty bar?
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>Matched with a girl on Tinder, shes about a 7/10 2 kids
>starting to have a conversation
>putting in most of the leg work here as she doesnt anything on her profile
>what little she does have says she likes writing and read.
>ask "Says you read and write? what are you into?"
>she replies "Im not into anything. I know guys on this site only want one things and they arent getting if from me!"
>she then promptly unmatches me and reports me for being a pervert.

Help me out with this one.
Is there some slang that i am missing and should avoid saying to females on Tinder?

Im 27 and recently divorced so i am not used to the dating scene in america like i used to be. I spent almost the last 10 years in Japan so naturally the cultures are different.

>tl;dr in the greentext where did i fuck up?
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>>19144351
You dodged a bullet Anon, don't fret it.
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am new on /adv/ please no bully. I see everywhere that average penis length is like 13 or 14 cm. This is false, right? I'm 15cm and I feel small as fuck, and everybody I see (not a lot but still) is bigger than me. haven't had problem with girls though but maybe that's just politeness. Please answer
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>>19144361
15cm is big enough
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>>19144361
the global average is like 14-15cm or something, google the subject and check your country's average.
Also, just so you know, your dick will always look smaller to you simply because of your literal point of view, it won't look as small to someone looking from the side.
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>>19144368
>Also, just so you know, your dick will always look smaller to you simply because of your literal point of view
>tfw struggle with this
>dick is exactly 6 inches, most girls have been very happy with it (one girl i met was a great chick but she was also quite the size queen)
>also very tall, from my perspective my dick looks really small
it honestly fucks with me
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>>19144375
I know that feel (except for the girls coming into contact with me part)
I'm 16cm and I was always worried my dick is kind of small, so I've been postponing measuring it just so I don't have to deal with a potential harsh truth, after I did I breathed a literal sigh of relief.
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>>19144375
am >>19144361, this is exactly me except for the size queen. I think for me the reason why it does is this is my first ever insecurity and it's really weird to deal with.
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what is your girth tho? Mine is very thin and it's what worries me the most
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>>19144486
how thin is very thin?
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Friendzoned myself by not escalating physically with a girl that liked me back. She seems to have lost interest because of that. What are the odds she'd "accept" a kiss now?
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You know those "most used" programs on your Start bar on Windows 10? Are they ranked accurately? Mine has Skype ranked second (above even the file explorer) but I never use Skype.

Also, how would you feel if your spouse was using Skype behind your back every day?
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>>19144495
idk like 10-11-12 cm didn't really measure accurately but it's thin
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>>19141906
What's going on in this picture?
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>>19144529
Only a problem if she was being secretive about it.
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>>19144559
And if she is?
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>>19141738
As long as you keep
>I haven't had sex yet
true until marriage, it's completely irrelevant to me what you live in. I care about your moral integrity more than anything.
>>19143644
1.5-2 years is the optimum timeframe. If you can't decide by the three year mark, just cut your losses and move on. No sex before marriage.
>>19142871
In the pursuit of """equality""", which is easier? Spending decades sculpting an exact replica of Michelangelo's David down to the marble used, or just taking a hammer to the original and putting it next to your own pile of shit?
100% of social degeneracy and human conceit explained.
>>19142997
People with high IQ's can distinguish group trends from individuals. And I think whores (not all women) are worth far less than a dog. I like doggos.
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>>19144529
>>19144576
Tracking program time.
Record it, catch her in the act.
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>>19144583
You really think it's that likely she's up to no good?
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>>19142997
Dogs are smart and loyal.
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>>19144590
>uses skype so much that it's one of your top programs and you didn't even know about it
Only one way to find out. And it isn't by confronting her, since she'll deny it if she's guilty. I hope it's something innocent.
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>>19144600
What can I use? Keylogger would only record her side of the conversation.

She never uses it in front of me.
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How do I ask out a friend i like via text?
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>>19144602
Her side of it should be enough if she's doing something wrong. If you want more, maybe you could stream your computer to another device? I'm not that good with this kind of thing, putting it mildly.
>>19144609
>hey bby show bobs pls mary me love
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How do I seal the deal with women? I go out on my own and have at least 5 women coming over to dance with me at various points throughout the night but I can't ever get their numbers or whatever. I have lots of eye contact from others as well.

I just end up doing my own thing, it seems to work in attracting the women but then I can't do anything about it.
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>>19144613
Thanks Adolf.
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>>19144602
>She never uses it in front of me.
>most used programs
:))))
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I feel like I'm being taken for granted in my relationship. What should I do? Stop doing favors and stuff? I clean for him without asking, dress up and send saucy pictures, I bake and cook things for him but I feel like...it's not enough? I wish I could tell that he was bragging about me but instead its his parents that tell him that I'm "a good woman" or "would make a great wife". I want to hear that from him.
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>>19144624
Tell him. If things don't change, then leave him. I do all the work in my marriage and that's never gonna change, but I realised that too late.
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Ah, forgot that (((he))) is back, nice to see the same pictures for 10000th time
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>>19144626
Oh no he cleans too, I just wake up earlier than him sometimes and clean to save time. I just wish I knew he was grateful, it's hard to tell sometimes. I've already told him I won't be doing a "naked apron" because I felt his reponse to my offer was lacking.
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>>19144632
You should talk to him. Probably he is grateful but has a habit of not saying it. Maybe his parents didn't teach him "thanks".
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Not exactly a question to the opposite gender, but it's a relationship general anyway and this post isn't worth it's own thread.

I like this girl, and I think we have a pretty good chemistry, but she has a boyfriend.
I don't want to flirt with her because it feels like a dickish thing to do, but at the same time I really want to.
What are my options without being a complete scumbag? DO I have anything to do apart from backing off?
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>>19144643
>I'm going to [local event], want to come too?

>Hey do you fancy going for a [drink/coffee] some time?
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>>19144639
well, you can simply openly discuss it with her.
perhaps she feels the same. It's quite likely, that she isn't connected very well with him, if you feel a strong pull from her chemistry.

or just do the dickish move and feel good yourself, instead of making someone else happy
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>>19144629
whatever, it's the high time for ignorance.
and also reporting anytime you're called a degenerate,
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Okay, I'm going out with this friend (female) I like but in situations like these I don't know what to talk about so we talk about stupid shit.
I'm afraid I'm not taken seriously and I often don't know what to say.
What can I do?
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>>19144657
>if you feel a strong pull from her chemistry.
Well I mean, we share a lot of interests so every time we talk one on one it's one of those really engaging discussions, I catch what I think are glimpses from her during class (she sits next to me) and, and I'm not proud of myself from thinking it, I think her boyfriend is garbage and I could do better.
Despite all that, I don't know if it's enough to justify making a move over.
and even then, what would I say, "hey listen, I like you"? I can't imagine what I'd do if I were put in this spot.
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>>19144665
then maybe the chemistry isn't strong enough.
if you really wanted it, you would find yourself forced to do something.
yes, it would likely be something like 'look, can we have a serious conversation? I like you a lot, because(...) and I just wonder what are your feelings toward me'
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hey girls.
I want my cock sucked.
thoughts?
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Is it ever OK to look at porn, health wise ?
Also can there be a balance to how much you think of sexuality, or should you try to avoid that and just let it happen when it counts, like with a serious partner?
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>>19144688
Stick it in a vacuum cleaner
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>>19144702
In ur mouth instead. deal?
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>>19144706
Vacuum cleaner or nothing
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>>19144711
fine. In your vagina it is. :/
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>>19144697
there were countless studies that tried to link masturbation with anything unhealthy. They failed.
now porn itself can be harmful in some very specific cases, but unless you get addicted and literally have to watch it 5 hours a day, I see no problems here, other than maybe a few viruses if you aren't careful.

the balance you're speaking of will happen on it's own.

t. guy who masturbates not less than twice daily and has meaningful, good relationships anyway
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>>19144716
I came here wanting my dick sucked. Ended up with it chopped off. I didn't expect this.
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>>19144720
Don't kinkshame me
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girls what do you thinkin about when you going to town on a cock with your mouth?
Specifically my cock hypothetically?
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>>19144725
"My jaw hurts, how long until this is over? I hope he's eaten a lot of fruit this week."
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>>19144688
>>19144725
You have to be 18 to post on this site.
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>>19144729
>how long until this is over?
the ride never ends
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>>19144731
oral sex is gud and im over 8teen
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>>19144529
She has been using it then. And often.

Women don't that stuff in secret if it's innocent. Sorry anon. Why are they such whores?
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>>19144725
Sadly I'm not really actively thinking much because it's pretty straining if you're doing a good job. I am mostly trying to keep track of how close he is and what to do with the rhythm/what to focus on next. I do get a good whiff of his precum/crotch scent and see him look down at me like I'm the best thing since sliced bread so no complaints really.
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>>19144744
>uses skype
>such whores
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>>19144780
do you like jizz on your face?
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>>19144660
Do you imply reporting him when he calls someone a degenerate?
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>>19143926
You must influence the people around you and control their actions absolutely

>>19144529
I would be furious that they use such a shitty program and suggest some better alternatives
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>>19144800
No. I like it in my mouth, on my ass/tits/belly, but I never understood the appeal of having it on your face and then there's practical downsides (getting it up your nose, in your hair, in your eyes). I am also not into degradation though.
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>>19144826
I said it straightforwardly, yes.
for all I know I was the one (perhaps not the only one) who reported him back then, which achieved that blissful ban
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Boys and girls,

what is the correct response when you find someone flirting with your girl/boyfriend online? My girlfriend told me not to mind him since she doesnt want drama but no way am I gonna let this shit slide.
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>>19144843
a crowbar.
applied either to his hands or computer
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>>19144841
Did you know that announcing your reports is a reportable offence?
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>>19144843
From what I've seen, tell the cunt to fuck off or you'll cave his skull in. They'll back off.
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>>19144846
I'm not reporting anyone now
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>>19144833
OK. Do you enjoy doggystyle and jizz in your anus?
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>>19141553
can sexual tension boil over and lead to bickering?
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>>19144841
Thanks, I will do that because guy is annoying, especially that he says all the time the exact same thing and posts the exact same pictures
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>>19144928
prob due to sexual frustrations
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>>19144965
It's not against the rules to annoy you. It's also a bannable offence to false report.
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>>19145033
That's a shame. He is really fucking annoying, but I guess aspies like being like that
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Is it normal to masturbate so hard, and intensely that your clit hurts to the touch? Any advice would be appreciated.
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>>19145049
of course. You didn't use enough lube/cream.
Just wait a day or two for the soreness to go away.
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>>19145020
that's what it seems like

up to this point a co worker and I have had a great chemistry. all smiles and consistent flirting, other employees have even commented "they should just fuck already".

but we can't really act on it because of the position we're in. then this week we're arguing and going at each others throats over stupid little shit.

wtf is going on here?
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>>19141553
Girls, just broke up with someone, we have a close knit friend group so will be going out to bars etc together. she always gets a lot of attention cause she's a solid 8/10. If she gets with people, what's the best way for me to react? It will definitely be painful to see but I don't want her to know that. If i wanted to make her freak out, besides stooping to her level what's the best move?
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>>19145057
just work on your mentalities.
Sexual frustration could be a part of it. So masterbation could help.
Try to know that life doesn't have to be competitive. Don't overthink too much and focus on respect and empathy for each other. If you make mistakes and hurt someone else, thats ok, you can make amends, and you don't have to be perfect.
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>>19145033
fuck off hitler
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>>19144725
I personally like it. I'm obsessed with men and their cocks. I like the feeling of it on my lips and in my mouth. I like to look at it and feel it. I like to lick, kiss and suck it. I like the power of making you feel good. I also like to be dominated so I love to have my hair grabbed and be mouth fucked. I like to be degraded so I want to be forced to swallow the cum and or have it on my face and hair. I sneak and spit it out because it tastes bad though.
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>>19145044
don't listen to him. Derailing threads, offending posters and trolling are bannable all right. also, nobody is going to ban you for reporting something unnerving, even if there are no rules against it.
we are not on /b/.
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>>19145087
Stop lying to people/
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>>19145084
do you get used to the taste? Like bad, but in a black coffee bitter kind of way, so its kind of enjoyable?
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>>19145098
I don't, it just tastes bad to me always and I like bitter stuff
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>>19145091
read the rules
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>>19145104
Disagreeing with you isn't against the rules.
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>>19145103
oh. But you deal with it often..so is it not bad enough to prevent you from having sex?
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>>19145109
I initiate oral so ya...
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>>19145106
but calling me a liar in spite of my words being true and provable is absurd and should be straightened in my opinion.
go and read the rules and stop bullshitting people around. It won't save your ass from being reported whenever you break the rules, I assure you.
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>>19145115
Stop lying to people, you weird obsessive mentalist.
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>>19145118
fuck off hitler
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>>19143599
Man the fuck up. What's the worse that she can do, say no thanks?
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>>19143162
>Political
>Less conservative and traditional
Have fun dying at 70 with 120 cats
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>>19142923
Maybe it's because I'm always going after girls in the 7-9/10 range
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>>19145340
If you are not 7/10+ and go for girls that are 7/10+ then you are rejected not because of the height.

t. 5'7" 8/10 girl dating 5'8"-5'9" 8/10 boy




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