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A whole week after I told her that we shouldn't talk since she "wasn't ready for a boyfriend"
Is she just looking for attention?
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>>19770593
>Is she just looking for attention?
You gathered all of this from the word "Hey"?
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>>19770594
Lmao this
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>>19770593
No one is going to be able to answer your question if all she said was "Hey"
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>>19770593
She is breadcrumbing you.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/living/2715928/breadcrumbing-dating-ghosting/
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>>19770593
I would reply with nothing but large pictures of squirrels. Not exaggerating one bit.
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>>19770593
she's looking for validation. talking to you gives her this
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>>19770744
>wasn't ready for a boyfriend
the "wasn't ready for a boyfriend" part was that she just doesn't want to date you, even though that sucks for you, and she just wants to keep you around for subconscious emotional validation and as a 'backup' to an extent. girls always do this
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Here is my take
>you started to date or talk to this girl
>after a short period of time you bring up a relationship before she does (big no no)
>or you text/call her alot
>she starts to feel like you dont give her enough space and just going on a few dates with you means you cling to her
>she gives you the “im not ready for a boyfriend”
>translation: Hold your horses buddy im not quite there yet, just take me out some more at a slower pace
>you give her the space she wants
>she now want to go out again
Its not really that surprising




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