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No /mirin/ thread? Come the fuck on, faggots.
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>>46802175
>last summer best shape of my life
>HIIT cardio/sprints/jumprope in morning lift at night

>bbq party with father's friends
>dad's friend's wife when she sees me (was doin some pullups b4 juicy pump) "Oh my, I didn't know he was so... big"

later on more people come
>some bitch was like when looking at me "oh wow.. I didn't know your son was so.. tall"

I'm 5"7 lel
>pic related kinda looked like this
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>>46802394
Here's some more.
>ruck marching with around 50lbs for 6 miles
>on my way back home
>blonde qt walking on same side as me literally looks my body up and down and bites her lip making eye contact

Also last summer
>about to get reiki massage at mall
>qt japanese grill exclaims "oh wow, you're handsome" I can feel her looking at my cheekbones and jawline
>i smile at her (I have perfect teeth even dentist asked if I ever had braces - never)
>she smiles back and I get a massage while trying not to be awkward from what I'm assuming is her mom or some shit
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>>46802452
Post face and body
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>>46802510
Not posting face but here's what my body looked like. I'm about a week or 2 from that. I'm focusing more on endurance b/c I'm gonna be a grunt in the Marines.
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>>46802522
you pretty aesthetic
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>>46802522
Mirin breh. Keep it up
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>>46803241

Thanks guys, it was really a lot of hard work and required a lot of willpower. But in the end it's all worth it.
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>Can't hang out with one of my best friends anymore because her boyfriend LOATHES me because every time we hang out for longer than a few hours, she remembers how in love with me she is and their facade of a relationship crumbles
I guess it's a mire kinda but it feels really bad
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>>46803438
What’s your routine senpai? I’m a 5’9” Manlet but I do cross country so I don’t want to get too yoked. You look really good. Should I just do pull-ups, push-ups and at work as if I was training for the marines? Big lifting won’t work or I’ll lose my scholarship desu
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>>46803543

Going to need some background here
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>>46803629
>>46803629
Thanks man. Do cardio in the morning. That can be 6 mile jog, 6 mile walk, rucking, sprints (sprint workout on youtube first video) or Millionaire Hoy's 45min HIIT on Youtube or jump rope for 30 - 40 minutes.

Lift in the afternoon. Diet must be clean as mine was pristine my skin was glowing due to the high quality of my diet.
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>>46803679
Oof I run about ten miles a day in the morning is that an issue
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>>46803742

Good on you that takes a lot of cardio. Maybe if you can try to switch up the cardio. Other than that just make sure you stretch and recover in order to go hard on the weights. Most of the cardio I do fasted in the morning with some black coffee. If I feel like it I lift fasted as well.
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>>46803678
>girl gets boyfriend
>2 months later meets me
>Click
>Like, holy fucking shit, how do we click so well? It's like we've known each other for a decade and it's only been a week
>after knowing me for a month she tells her boyfriend she's caught feelings for me
>hints to me that she's caught feelings
>hints to me that she hasn't done anything with this boyfriend beyond kissing either
>tell her outright I don't go near girls who aren't single
>she seems to get over her crush and we spend the rest of the school year being largely platonic (ie. no romantic gestures but still doing borderline shit like sitting up til 3 in the morning every other night talking)
>finish for summer and don't talk for the entire summer
>come back to uni
>she catches feelings for me immediately again
>breaks up with her bf to ask me out because holy fuck how is everything so easy with me
>tell her we should wait a while until she's fully over her ex
>claims vehemently that she is
>tell her to wait
>a few weeks later she's back with her ex
>go back to being largely platonic
>talk all day one day
>like, 24 straight hours (i was sick and had nothing else to do)
>her mum walks past her room at like 5 in the morning to pee and hears her on the phone to me
>her mum tells her she's being really fucking stupid by not going after what she clearly wants most in life
>she breaks up with her bf again to ask me out
>tell her again to wait at least a few weeks to be sure this isn't a rebound
>2 weeks later she's back with her ex, literally got back with him the day before I was going to ask her on a date
>uni ends
>says she'll stay in touch and we'll hang out over the summer
>every time I ask her she has some bullshit excuse as if I don't know the truth
I hope she wakes up sooner or later. She's going to end up trapped in a loveless marriage at this rate and I'm going to lose a friend.

Pretty shit all round.
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>>46803438
I should really start reading again soon.
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>>46803438
Do you consider yourself as having "made it"? Clearly, you can get a gf if you wanted to.

Also, did you read these books?
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>>46803816
dude you cucked yourself repeatedly
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>>46803816
lmao
It's not her it's you.
If you want a chick just go get them, what's all this "I have to make sure her feelings for me are pure" bullshit.

Why don't you sack up and ask her out for a change instead of acting like a prissy bitch.
I swear to fuck this lass has more balls than you do.
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>>46803438
>all this pseudo-intellectualism in one image
makes my teeth itch
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>>46803816
your so fucking stupid holy shit, I CAN'T BELIEVE HOW SPOOKED YOU ARE, HOW WASTEFUL YOU ARE.

>Like, holy fucking shit, how do we click so well? It's like we've known each other for a decade and it's only been a week
>after knowing me for a month she tells her boyfriend she's caught feelings for me
>hints to me that she's caught feelings
>hints to me that she hasn't done anything with this boyfriend beyond kissing either
>tell her outright I don't go near girls who aren't single
>she catches feelings for me immediately again
>breaks up with her bf to ask me out because holy fuck how is everything so easy with me
>tell her we should wait a while until she's fully over her ex
>claims vehemently that she is
>tell her to wait

AHAHAHAHAA.... OH NO NO NO AAHAHAHAHAHHAAAAAAAAAAAA OHHHH NOOOOOO
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>>46804115
I'm a moralfag. I'm okay with being one tbqh.

>>46804124
>what's all this "I have to make sure her feelings for me are pure" bullshit
That wasn't the issue. I know she has actual feelings for me. I didn't want to get into a relationship with a friend that would get fucked by her not being over her ex and then leave me minus a friend.

>ask her out
She has a boyfriend. I'm a moralfag.

>>46804148
See above. And I was right. She wasn't over her ex.
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>>46804160
SHE WAS OVER HER EX YOU FUCKING RETARD, YOU F U C K I N G RETARD

YOU JUST ACT SO AUTISTIC THAT IT MAKES HER UNSURE, YOU ARE THE ONE THAT IS F U C K I N G EVERYTHING UP.
M'LADY YOU GOTTA WAIT WEEKS EVEN TOUGH WE CLICK IMMEDIATLY AND YOU HAVE SHOWED THAT YOU WANT TO BE WITH ME. YOU GOTTA TAKE A STEP TOO, RETARD. AND YOU ARE NOT, I REPEAT. NOT. NOT. NOT. BEING MORAL HERE, THAT'S AN EXCUSE


YOU ARE THE BIGGEST BLOCKHEAD ON THIS FUCKING SITE
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>>46804188
If she was over her ex, should wouldn't have gotten back with her ex the moment things seemed uncertain.
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>>46804201
ohhh goooood...

enjoy fucking your whole life up, mr morals, i want to state again, that you are the dumbest person i have ever encountered on all my time on 4chan, nothing compares
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>>46802175
>Be me
>6'6", 215, 15% bf
>Walking down the street with my identical twin bro
>Random guy, dressed like a hobo, sees us
>Accidentally make eye contact
>oh shit.jpeg
>"DAMN are y'all twins? Fuck me you're some bigass dudes too!"
>"Y'all do security jobs? Damn lemme see your business cards."
>"Sheeeit y'all could just walk straight into the club and fuck some people up!"
>Just chuckle and smile, keep walking
>Check to make sure he's not following us down the block
>Felt pretty good desu
Who else here /hobomire/?
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>>46804160
>satisfied with a friend
>im a moralfag

You're too much anon, holy shit I'm dying.
You must be sheltered indeed if you never had to fight and cheat for your bread before.

Whatever, water like you has to exist to make sure oil can float above it.
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>>46802394
Why is that pic called adonis, which is one of the only parts of his body that can't be seen?
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>>46804247
>tfw read it as "damn are y'all twinks" first
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>>46804228
Ok. I don't mind being called stupid for not breaking my own moral standards. I don't see how not dating a girl in my early 20s is "fucking my whole life up" though.

>>46804254
Why would I ever want to fight and cheat for a bit of pussy?
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>>46803816
Man you are fucking retarded. Also it sounds like you've gone most of uni without a girlfriend. Which you could have fixed within the first week of meeting her.

Idiot.
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>>46804258
Adonis isn't a body part. It's an inbred man so handsome that two Greek Godesses fought over him. The "belt" is named after him. The filename implies he's handsome.
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>>46804289
Don't confuse not having a girlfriend with being alone.
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>>46804280
it's not that

it's your attitude man, they way you look at things are fucked, you aren't moral, i repeat, you aren't moral. You are weak and you have a big ego. Take a good look at yourself. You won't go anywhere.

I repeat again, just so that you maybe with any luck take this in, nothing in that story showed any sense of your moral superiority. you are deluded
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>>46804201
99% of women aren't secure with themselves unless they are in a relationship. He was the easiest one to get since you rejected her. Idiot.
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>>46802522
What’s your lifting routine?
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>>46804280
>Why would I ever want to fight and cheat for a bit of pussy?

Because someone else is willing to fight and cheat for a little bit of pussy, and guess where that leaves your lily white ass?
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>>46804280
You said you clicked. Here is how it goes.
Click, Fuck, Fall in love.
You're fucking stupid and everyone is telling you this. You know how everyone can tell a crazy person they are crazy? They adamantly believe that they are not? Yeah that is basically you but instead of crazy you are braindead.
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>>46804291
His face looks like someone smashed it, like he is a pre human. He is not handsome. Title still doesn't make sense.
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>>46804310
>You aren't moral
Aside from your morality not really affecting my own, tell me how you came to this conclusion.

I assume you're trying to imply that I'm using morality as an excuse to be weak, but that's not what you said. So I'd like some clarification.

>>46804319
With other pussy that I don't need to fight to get?
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>>46804352
This is a 'mirin thread not a feel sad about your stupid decisions thread after making a post that was not about a girl 'mirin. Stop posting fag.
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>>46802175
Katya is a 10/10 waifu. She will hit the wall late and gracefully.
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>>46804373
>girls breaking up with their boyfriends because they like you so much is not 'mirin
Bizarre post. I'm going to assume you're the one who mistakenly accused me of not being moral when you meant that I was hiding behind my morality and now you feel silly so you want me to stop posting.
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>>46804352
Yep, ya got it buddy.
You get to keep all that perfectly good pussy everyone just left unattended for some reason.

Have a nice life m8.
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>>46804401
>getting this mad about a random anon having conviction
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>>46804401
>there isn't pussy out there that you don't need to fight to get
lmao
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>>46804400
deluded, just like i said.

>mistakenly accused me of not being moral

AHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAA. ohhh man...ohh maaaaaaan. your ego is so gigantic and the false sense of superiority is sickening. you are disgusting.
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>>46804430
>Literally providing proof that you're the one who mistakenly said "you aren't moral" instead of "you're hiding behind morality as an excuse"
I thought this last post was bizarre but this one tops it lol
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>>46804463
you aren't moral. YOU AREN'T MORAL
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Just witnessed some thottery

>at park doing sets of weighted dips, pushups and pullups
>ptp and her skinny male friends walk past kicking a football just as I'm on my last set of pullups
>can see her glancing at me as she passes me
>they go out of sight behind some trees
>suddenly the football bounces back into view
>oops, stacy accidentally kicked the ball back ot where they just walked
>she goes back to get it
>instead of kicking it like she did the whole time she straight up pornstar bends over in front of me
>muh dick
>throws the ball back and walks off
>glances back and smiles
>pornstar bends again to adjust her leggings or some shit, idk what excuse this time
>muh fucking dick

have ye no shame?
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>>46804485
You have yet to explain which action of mine was amoral.
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>>46804400
Nope wasn't me. Please stop posting.
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>>46804518
No.
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>>46802394
You were doing pullups in front of all the guests?
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IF YOURE NOT FIT THEN ITS NOT A MIRE

SO FUCK OFF
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>>46804500
i give up. fuck you. i am only trying to help you, really. i am trying to help you.

your belief that getting together with a girl that has a boyfriend that she is ready to leave, that that isn't right. or waiting weeks, that's fucking stupid. if you click with someone you should do all in your might to get them, and if they like you too? There is nothing that can get between that except egoism. you are more important to yourself. your false sense of fucking superiority you clap yourself on the back and say that you are a good guy when your not in any way.

your fucking stupid. i said this when i replied to you first but you ignore it because you are fucking retard. you really are a fucking retard. i can't clarify and proclaim it enough. you are a fucking retard.
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>>46804559
>your belief that getting together with a girl that has a boyfriend that she is ready to leave, that that isn't right. or waiting weeks, that's fucking stupid.
Was this your attempt to tell me my behaviour was amoral? Very weird.
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>>46804280
You did the right thing OP don't listen to them. The fact that she got back with her ex proves your point
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>>46804496
Shoulda just straight up ran to her and said “hey, you’re cute, what’s your name?” Then day you’re busy atm but would like to get to know her over coffee sometime.

Something atleast.
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>>46804570
Don’t listen to either of these incel beta male virgins, in your position they would kiss and beg her to date them ASAP.

You have morals, very honourable and respectful. You did right choice, how do I know?

Chick was with bf for a year, had major crush on me. Tells me she broke up with ex etc so we start hanging out, next minute I go to her house and she begging for sex (I was pretty turned off even tho she really hot).

After she got what she wanted, lost interest and went back with ex. Worst feeling of my life, she was so obsessed with me and straight up ditches me for bf lol.
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>>46804060
Yes I would say that I made it in that realizing the only thing stopping my success is myself. Besides when you are that fit I literally felt like a god walking the earth especially after working out. >>46804258 I named it that pic b/c in my opinion he looked like a Chad back then and I wanted that same response from grills he had.
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>>46803816

you absolute mong holy shit lmao..
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>>46804864
Oh and I've always been a reader ever since I was young. I was extreme mage mode before some crazy shit in high school made me workout/do Muay Thai. I've only read like 1 or 2 on the list. Funny before I was ultra Magee mode hate normies now I'm still pessimistic less well read but insanely fit. If I had to choose I would choose mate/scholar mode.
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>>46804685
I probably would have pussied out even if she were on her own but still, if one of those twinks she was with was her bf I'd have felt like a bit of a dick hitting on her.
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>>46804542
Lol no friendo I'm not that autistic I was doing them upstairs earlier everyone was in the yard downstairs drinking shit beer
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>>46802522
>nigger lips
le 56%? Mirin, though
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>>46804570
You're actions are not moral and I'm not even the same guy. Obviously this girl has strong feeling for you and is willing to give up a lot, yet you just keep on playing with those feelings. Imagine how frustrating it must be for that girl.
Also you say waiting a couple of weeks to get together proves you have morals, but thats just not the case. It proves nothing but the fact that you're a fucking retard.
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>>46805242
At least you've come a lot closer to explaining why I'm not moral than the other guy did.

I never claimed that waiting those weeks was what made me moral. Not trying to woo her while she was in a relationship was the actions I took due to my moral. Waiting to see if she was actually over her ex or not was simply pragmatic.
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>>46803438
>the federalist papers
>no anti-federalist arguments with them
>no transcripts of the constitutional convention
dogshit list. every American should read Ketcham's book on the convention+ratification, and those who are still interested after reading the transcripts should read Bailyn's two volumes of collected writings/speeches during ratification.
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>>46804570
You do realise that telling a girl to wait like that is basically putting her in the friendzone and stating that she is not attractive enough for you to jump on opportunity to be with her? You can say that you want to be with her all you want, but if you restrain yourself from doing anything, that says more than words. Congrats on your autism, you reached near maximum levels.
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>>46805270
Being pragmatic would be getting together with her, dude, you are a brainlet

she was over him, your autistic actions just fucks with her mind. She doesn't understand why you don't get together, she feels that you are playing her. She feels alone and sad. Women are not like men.
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>>46804146

if you ACTUALLY read and reflect on these books it's not pseudo-intellectualism

reading quotes from them and repeating them back at people is
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>>46803816
Holy fuck bro you handled the situation so poorly what the fuck is up with the whole wait and see if this is really what you want my little princess bullshit you're basically saying "if we could date that would be cool but if you want you ex's Chad cock again that's fine too" obviously she's going to keep going back to him he's her support system, she wants that to be you but it sounds like your the one that doesn't know what he wants lol
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>>46803816
Retard.
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>>46802175
shit she is a real qt
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>>46803816
seriously stellar bait friend
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>>46803438
Last row is fuggen pozzed
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>>46805270
first guy here, that was EXACTLY what i was getting at. fucking retard
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>>46802522
But you're only 5'7.
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>>46805436
Getting together with someone that keeps their ex as a backup is not pragmatic at all.

>>46805703
You literally just repeated "you are not moral" over and over again without backing it up at all.

>>46805498
>if you want you ex's Chad cock again that's fine too
It's literally the exact opposite.
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>>46805706
Post body
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>>46805743
You literally just repeated "you are not moral" over and over again without backing it up at all.


>SHE WAS OVER HER EX YOU FUCKING RETARD, YOU F U C K I N G RETARD

YOU JUST ACT SO AUTISTIC THAT IT MAKES HER UNSURE, YOU ARE THE ONE THAT IS F U C K I N G EVERYTHING UP.
M'LADY YOU GOTTA WAIT WEEKS EVEN TOUGH WE CLICK IMMEDIATLY AND YOU HAVE SHOWED THAT YOU WANT TO BE WITH ME. YOU GOTTA TAKE A STEP TOO, RETARD. AND YOU ARE NOT, I REPEAT. NOT. NOT. NOT. BEING MORAL HERE, THAT'S AN EXCUSE


this is what i said, fucking retard. i said why you were a fucking retard.
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>>46804873
>>46805498
>>46805528
Any of you guys mind giving me some advice? I'm in kinda a similar situation to this dude.

>Meet girl signing up for sports club
>*click*
>We have pretty much everything in common, feel like we've known each other for years
>She's in LDR with first and only high school bf who goes to school across the country
>We hang out a lot, and whenever we do she tends to favorably compare me to bf
>One night we get drunk and are so touchy feely that people are leaving us alone because they think we're going to start making out
>Ask her if we're going to kiss because it seems like things are going that way (I realize I probably fucked up here and should have just gone for the kiss)
>She instantly sobers up, looks me in the eye, and says "No! I have a boyfriend!" firmly and goes back to being drunk
>Pulls out her phone, shows me texting bf "i luv u" before saying we should go upstairs "to lay on [my] beanbag"
>We get upstairs, and she's panting so hard that it wakes up my roommate who's pissed because he thinks we're hooking up while he's trying to sleep
>I realize she's more wasted than I thought, and we end up spooning in my bed while she sleeps it off.
>Next day when I ask what was up about last night, she says she's just "like that with everybody" when she's drunk

I'm confused. In retrospect, my gut says she wants me, but thinks I should initiate so that it's "not her fault" for cheating. I realize I'm a bitch for not just going for it when I had the chance, and I regret it. What would you Chads have done?
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This weekend
>random guy compliments my physique, asks if I play rugby
>Other random guy asks if I model
>girl I haven't seen in a month says I've gotten a lot bigger, compliments by back muscles after sex

Feels good
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>>46805795
If she was over her ex she wouldn't be back with her ex.

None of the shit you said has literally anything to do with morals. Do you just not know what morals are?
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>>46805706
Post body weakling
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>>46805952
>YOU JUST ACT SO AUTISTIC THAT IT MAKES HER UNSURE, YOU ARE THE ONE THAT IS F U C K I N G EVERYTHING UP.
M'LADY YOU GOTTA WAIT WEEKS EVEN TOUGH WE CLICK IMMEDIATLY AND YOU HAVE SHOWED THAT YOU WANT TO BE WITH ME. YOU GOTTA TAKE A STEP TOO

i truly hate you, i do, i have never felt such anger for someone on this site. I am glad that you fucked it with the girl, she deserves better than you.
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>>46805833
cuck the boyfriend
then ghost the girl
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>>46805833
She wants you. It's a really bad idea to kiss a girl who's in a relationship, while she's drunk. That's literally the go-to get-out-jail-free card for women that cheat. You WILL be accused of taking advantage of her if word gets back to her boyfriend.

Start pulling back. Hard. When she starts chasing you up to hang out and asking you why you're being so avoidant or whatever, tell her it's because you almost kissed and you don't want to get in the way of a relationship.

Watch how quickly she starts considering her relationship.
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>>46805975
Yea you said that bit already. It still has literally nothing to do with morals. You genuinely don't know what morality is.
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>>46804311
this
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>>46805996
>If she was over her ex she wouldn't be back with her ex.

that was about that point, i have already talked about morals, you are just trying to worm yourself out of self realization with words. this is my last reply, burn in hell
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>>46806011
>I have already talked about morals
Please quote it directly. Because literally none of your posts have even come close to addressing your accusations of amorality. We both know you'll reply again. Your ego demands it.

Very hypocritical for you to accuse me of being egotistical with an ego like your own.
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>>46806033
Again not that guy, but you say you didn't want to make a move, while she's still in a relationship because of your morals. Talking to her for 24 hours straight is sending some pretty strong signals though, especially considering you knew she had feelings for you. You actions were all in all amoral because you played with her feelings the entire time and when she did everything she could, you still rejected her. That's just straight up nasty.
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>>46802175
M-my wife mires me
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>>46806135
Front pics
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>>46806122
>did everything she could
She couldn't wait 2 weeks.
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>>46806157
2 weeks that don't mean nothing. It's just some random obstacle created by you, the retard
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>>46805581
You have to know your enemies, anon.
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>>46806175
And yet, if it meant nothing, she would've waited. But she didn't. Because she wasn't over her ex.
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>>46804201
Because he was available?
She was immediately ready for you then you act like a faggot le gentlesir and she thinks you don't care anymore so she goes back to him because he's a safety net
It's all your fault
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>>46806219
I don't want a woman that uses men as "safety nets".
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>>46806135
>>46806154
Can I be your wife too? n-no homo
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>>46806225
Okay then move on from her? I don't get what the issue is.
Either you want to be with her and you'd have gotten with her with the many chances you had, which you didn't so now your only option is to cut her out and move on
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>>46806261
I have?

I posted a mire (a girl's boyfriend being so threatened by me that it has become an issue for them) and someone asked me the background.
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>>46806201
No because you just fucked her up.
>Hey anon, I finally broke up with my bf, because you know I have feelings for you, let's get together, or at least try.
>Nah, let's wait a bit
What kind of signals does that send, do you think? She just didn't know where she was at with you. A relationship works both ways, you know. She gives up her relationship for you and you still want her to do more? You're just a narcissistic retard, who doesn't give a fuck about anyone elses feelings and still you call yourself moral.
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>>46806135
That's all that matters brah
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Can I post mirins that also turn into negative comments?
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>>46802175
these threads should be daily, it really helps my motivation o work out
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>>46805891
Well do you play rugby? Patrician sport
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>getting /fit
>gf starts getting jealous now that girls/homos are starting to be nice to me
>hates me going to the gym by myself, think the thots there are going to seduce me
>i would never cheat, but i can't lie that i enjoy the attention i'm not used to
>gf insists i start wearing looser fitter shirts and baggier gym shorts

she's really insecure and crazy, but i still love her.
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>>46807293
fuck dat bish for holding u back. has she no trust in you?
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>>46807293
This is gold anon, every time she get jealous or insecure you have the opportunity to reassure her and this would make her loving you even more, plus the attention you have from the others roastys.
She cares about you, don't blow this up anon, we're all goin to make it breh
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>>46807343
>>46807343

she's great other than her insecurities, but it's a bit understandable. her last bf cheated on her, plus her parents cheated on each other. i do what i can to keep that trust. i feel attraction/flattered when other girls mire, but i always make sure they know i'm invested early on while making sure they are firmly friend zoned while trying not to be a dick about it.
we have too much history to throw it away.
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>will never be mired
it hurts
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For you former fat bros, what body fat percentage did you hit before you started getting the thirsty looks from chicks?
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>>46805984
>She wants you.

Pic related.

>
Start pulling back. Hard. When she starts chasing you up to hang out and asking you why you're being so avoidant or whatever, tell her it's because you almost kissed and you don't want to get in the way of a relationship.


See, I kinda did that but for different reasons. I left out the rest of the story because of the space limit and I wanted to get initial impressions. Here's the rest:

>Decide that I can't be friends with her anymore because I'll always pass up on other thots to hang out with her. Effectively making me unable to move on.
>Last day of school before the out of state kids fly home
>I try to meet up with her so I can tell her
this and say goodbye
>She ends up being too busy packing all her shit, and I end up having to say it over text.
>She responds to the effect of "well you know where I stand with bf, so I understand your decision"
>We agree to give being friends a shot after I've had the summer to get my shit together and quit thinking about her.
>I'm completely fucked though because I haven't been able to stop thinking about her at all.

I've asked some other people, and they seem to think that I'm "in her head". I've even had an older female relative tell me that, despite how she responded to my text, she's definitely questioning her relationship and I would have been able to see that on her face if we'd spoken in person.

It's a fucky situation. I think this girl is wife material all the way, but I hesitate to cuck her boyfriend because I met him once and he is a lot like me. A nice, chill dude (I'm bigger tho :^) ) . I also doubt that stealing a girl away is a good way to start a stable relationship.
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>>46806201
based
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>>46807399
>well you know where I stand with bf,
Where does she stand with bf?
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>>46804399
Oh god that looks like my ex
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>>46803816
Y do u want a girl who is so spineless tho. What you asked was reasonable if you are trying for a good, stable and HONEST relationship.
She's disbonest and emotionally weak and has no respect for her bf. Shed turn around and do the same shit to you the moment she gets bored or loses interest. The only reason she didnt cheat on him is because you held back.
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>>46807399
Keep it up Anon. If she's truly into you,she will cave in eventually before summer ends. In the mean time,occupy yourself with other things in life,and if things don't go anywhere with her,she will slowly fade out of your life. Move forward,not backward.
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>>46807382
iktfb
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>>46805706
C O P E
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>>46807445
I don't. I want to be her friend.
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>Friend wants to introduce me to his new gf
>"She has friends bro, come to my room"
>I'm shit with girls dude but sure I'd like to meet your gf
>Get there, say hi and everything but friend wants me to stay
>It is just me, him, his gf, and two other girls
>Both are ok, nothing amazing but not bad either
>Stick around watching fucking Bridesmaids with them, I shit you not
>One of the girls gets up to get a drink, notice she has a nice ass so she instantly shoots up to like a 7/10
>She brings me a beer, didn't even ask for it and my diet doesn't allow that shit but I didn't wanna be rude
>Doesn't sit back where she was, sits next to me
>Friend sees me with the beer and starts talking about how much of a lightweight I am because I never drink, shows everyone a video on his phone from when I was trashed and damn near naked
>"Wow, anon you're pretty big."
>T-thanks
>I get up to throw my beer away, the girl meets me in the kitchen
>I realize this is my best shot to not have to do it in front of others, so I just ask "Do you wanna do something with me sometime?"
>She says yes, get her number
>Text her the next day
>Seems kind of distant, one off answers and stuff
>Ask her to hangout Saturday
>"I can't", no reason for why not
>"What about Friday instead?"
>Same thing
>Assume she didn't wanna shoot me down to be nice and actually doesn't like me so I stop texting her
>Friend later on tells me she was asking about me
>"She thought it was weird how you didn't chase her. She wanted you to chase her bro, like you gave up right away."
>If she likes me why the fuck not just agree to plans bro fuck that
>Start texting again
>She does similar shit but seems slightly more open now
>Try to make plans and she says "I'll have to see ;)"
>Tell her "You know what, I I'm actually gonna go hangout with some friends that day nevermind"
Not sure if I wanna see her anymore. All girls play games, but she seems way too into it.
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>>46807508
Smart man. Don't play that shit.
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not really worth your time, bro. just try to flirt with her and don't commit a date to her, invite her over for some food and drinks, watch tv, see where it leads.
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>>46803816
ohh no,, no no no no no... AHHHH HAHAHA
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>>46807381
seems like she is gonna be the one to cheat lol
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>>46807508
sounds hot but bitchy

hump n dump
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>>46803816
All these people are giving you shit, but I can respect someone who doesn't want to cuck other people.
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>>46807607
but....it wouldn't be cucking. she left her boyfriend. jesus christ...
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>>46802175
>have been eyeing a cute girl at the gym for ages, because she's .. well, a cute girl at the gym
>realise she has a boyfriend who is at the gym at the same times she is, but they very rarely work out near one another
>keep eyeing her every now and then
>lately had birthday and got a new neat tanktop, great for showing off lats, chest and arms
>wear it for the first time for chest day
>sit at the mirror where I know the lighting is fantastic for ones body
>notice her mirin several times in the mirror
>she looks away every time I look back at her with an embarrassed look on her face
>mfw
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>>46805487
a-anon...?
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>>46807282
I did in school (flanker), but no, not anymore
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>>46807424
She says she wants to commit to him, because it's her first and only relationship. They've been together for 4 years, which is like an eternity for a 20 year old girl, and she doesn't think she knows how to love anybody else. I understand that. A lot of the people I asked for advice said that, even if we end up getting together, she'll never love me exactly the same way as her first love.

I don't know. One the one hand, I feel like this dude deserves her and has hit the jackpot. I could almost be happy if they end up getting married. On the other hand, my greatest fear is that she'll get drunk and horny and some Chad who's smoother and has less shame than me will coax her into making that make mistake and steal her just to pump and dump. Being a beta orbiter is hard.

>>46807464
> In the mean time,occupy yourself with other things in life,and if things don't go anywhere with her,she will slowly fade out of your life. Move forward,not backward.

Thanks. That's pretty the strategy I'm pursuing. I guess I just wanted some reassurance. I'm spending summer getting more ripped than I've ever been, reading, and generally working on myself. When I see her again, I want to try to be a little more aggressive than I was before. After the whole spooning thing happened, I actually asked her if we could continue being physically affectionate (holding hands, cuddling, etc.) even if it didn't go further than that, and she said she wasn't sure. I've seen what a firm "No" looks like from her, so I figure I'm just going to go with my gut instead of asking permission. If she's not into it or I offend her, we'll have established boundaries, have a reason to keep our distance, and I'll be able to let go of her. Like you said, forward and not back.

> If she's truly into you,she will cave in eventually before summer ends.

That's the worst part about all this. Summer is basically the only time her and bf are near each other. So they're probably fucking around the lock.
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>>46807607
To be fair this guy >>46807616 is right. She'd never cheat. That's why she broke up with him just to ask me out. I still refuse to actively flirt with anyone in a relationship though.
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>>46807632
My situation is like yours, except they're together 8 years and she would never cheat
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>>46807632
i may be deranged but i would get off on fucking her and dumping her and ruining their pretty little relationship
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>>46807632
>She says she wants to commit to him, because it's her first and only relationship.
Leave her alone. Don't try to even be friends with her. You're not prepared for the heartache.

You don't even think highly enough of her to trust she won't slut around while in a relationship. Why do you even want to be with her?
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>>46807508
yeah fuck that
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>>46805833
Don't get involved with someone who treats her boyfriend like that
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>>46807632
>>46807666
i'll say this.

after the way you and she interacted. it shows that she has not integrity and all shit about "muh first relationship never love someone like that again" is just bullshit. There is nothing "pure" there. If he was the perfect guy this would not have happened, so he isn't the perfect guy for her. that simple

now, knowing this, you have to choose how to act.
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>>46807381
just keep in mind that people view their parents' relationship as normal, even if it was fucked
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>>46807666
listen to Satan bros
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>>46807616
>she left her boyfriend
For anon
If I were her ex I'd feel like shit knowing that it wasn't because stuff wasn't working out but rather that she found someone she just liked better.
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>inna church
>girl walks by
>we make eye contact
>she immediately stares at the floor and hurries past
M-mired
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>>46804399
does she even post anymore?
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>>46803816
You’re a fucking idiot. She broke up with her bf TWICE to date you.
She clearly wants to make you jealous by getting back with him
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>>46807508
Fucking this, dude.
>message three individual times with a little bit of space between each
>Duude like she wanted you to chase her more duude

fucking females.
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>>46807786
She's not doing a very good job.
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>>46807695

Don't I know it. That's the main reason she's always worried about infidelity in the first place...
She thinks that if I'm exposed to temptation, I'll fall. It does worry me, because that feels a lot like projection on her end. If she think this will be my reaction, doesn't that come from her own experience? If she were tempted, would she give in if she thought she could get away with it?
So far, she's given me no objective reason to think that she has cheated or will, despite how she grew up. I'm aware of how many men (and women) have been fooled by someone they thought was completely trustworthy, so I'm not completely blind.
Then again, it's pointless to worry about something beyond your control. You can never be sure of anybody, even if they've had an impeccable past. You can only watch how they act and how they treat you. All I know is, she is 100% focused on me, and making me happy, and I try to do the same for her.
It's an amazing relationship and I'm lucky to have her. Jealousy is a common feeling when you love someone, and I feel a bit jealous when I noticed a guy looking over at her, but I don't let it bother me because I know that she's with me, and she knows not to act over friendly with guys.
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>>46807812
Did you have any interest in here at all, for example, was she attractive to you?

Because your actions and response her makes you seem like a very malicious person.
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>>46802175
>at gym last night
>see this sexy beast doing penalty rows, same weight as me.
>make eye contact and nod at the same time, use this as fuel for my next set, as I speed up so do they, becomes a sort of race/ test of endurance.
>20. Unites later we slam to the ground at the same time, both breathless.
>walk up to them, say good job, and then notice the mirror has some smudges so I clean them.
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>and then notice the mirror has some smudges so I clean them.
what
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>my best friend from uni is a total /lanklet/
>195, 70kg, handsome enough
>meets girl at work, falls for her
>she kinda likes him back but boyfriend of 4 years
>they spend a bunch of time but nothing happens
>he asks me how to get /fit/
>I tell him, teach him, motivate him
>fastforward6months.exe
>he's still dyel by out standards but he's clearly getting there
>he made out with her 2 weeks ago, she broke up with bf last week and is moving out on friday
mfw I couldn't be happier for him
we all gonna make it
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>>46807656
>You're not prepared for the heartache.

I'm prepared for the heartache. I've been terrible with girls my whole life and automatically assume I'll fail going into any interaction with them. The only reason I'm barely convinced that I have a chance in this situation is because I've gained a shred of self confidence, and the vast majority of people that I ask for advice keeps telling me I've got a shot. Like I said, if she ends up sticking with the bf, I can live with that knowing he's a good dude.

>You don't even think highly enough of her to trust she won't slut around while in a relationship.

I think extremely highly of her. My fear that she'll get poached by a Chad is 1 part irrational fear and 1 part logical paranoia due to our circumstance. We go to a very Chad/Stacey heavy party school. Everybody there, especially in the circles we run in, is extremely attractive. We've even talked about this together before. She's admitted that it's hard being in such a place as a young, beautiful woman, who gets flirty when she's drunk and that her needs aren't being met because of the LDR. It would be insanely easy for most girls her age to make that kind of mistake given our environment and her situation.

>>46807666
Fair point. I almost feel like what I posted above justifies it, but you have a point. Women are women, and young women are the most womanly of all. Hail Satan.
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>>46807847
based and black pilled
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>>46807836
I think you have the right idea. You have two options: be insecure and jealous, or trust her and be cool. She could either be faithful to you or not. Out of the four combinations of her behavior and yours, the only desirable outcome is for you to trust her and for her to be faithful. So you trust.

Don't be a moron though, if she breaks your trust get out of there immediately and never look back
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>>46807913
>LDR

AHAHAHAHAHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA HA HAHHAHAHAHAH H AHHAHAAAA A WHY DIDN'T YOU SAY THIS SOONER AAAAAAAAAAA
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>>46807938

obviously, trust on both ends should be the default, otherwise what's the point? for me a relationship is over once cheating has happened. i'm confident in myself and know i can be happy by myself with or without a partner if it ever came to that (though obviously breaking up would be incredibly painful).
people who cheat end up just cheating themselves.
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>>46807955
I fucking did, nigger.

>>46805833
>She's in LDR with first and only high school bf who goes to school across the country
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>>46802394
kek delusions
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>>46807913
>Women are women
Women are people, doofus. Men do this shit too
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>>46807992
oh ok sorry lol.

but that makes it easy as fuck my dude, just take her. it won't work out for them.
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>>46807508
sounds like a waste of time desu find someone else
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>>46807840
I did. I fully intended on asking her out. I appreciate the opposing points of view and it's made me reflect on the situation and empathise with her better. I'll get in touch with her in a few weeks and ask to hang out and catch up. If she's allowed/wants to, I'll try to delicately bring up my side of the story and explain why I did what I did. Hopefully it can ease any hurt she may have felt.
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>>46808016
Or you could just leave this poor girl alone
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>>46805984
This. Be very VERY careful with drunk chicks. You could not even touch them and get accused of some SERIOUS shit.
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>>46808016
man, i honestly don't understand your train of thought at all then when you said she should wait a few weeks. you understand that leaving her bf was a statement of commitment, right? and you turning your back on her then makes no sense at all. It hurts the both of you.

there is nothing honest or chivalrous about it, it's just fucking up. If someone leaves someone else for you, you say yes or no. That simple. Anything else is just playing games. She has honestly done nothing wrong at all.
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>>46808001
>Women are people, doofus. Men do this shit too

The sexual dynamic is much much different in this situation. It may be easy for people in general to cheat when there are lots of young and attractive people in close proximity, but it will always be easier for a girl to get laid than guys. Everywhere, but here especially.
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/mirin/ threads always make me come to the same conclusion

all men are by nature autistic
all women are by nature thots

no exceptions
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>>46808028
I tried to. She insisted "we'll see each other again soon".

>>46808048
You ever been sitting with a girl that tells you she wants to date you and then her ex calls her phone right there and then and when she doesn't answer, he leaves a voicemail fucking screaming at her for dating you? And then she doesn't cut contact with him? My suspicions about her not being over him weren't pulled out of my ass.
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>>46808016
Jeez dude. You may have fucked shit permanently but by God if this poor(stupid, but still very misfortunate victim of autism) girl breaks up with her bf and you actually like her? don’t do that shit again. As a Christian and a general moralfag, I can understand and even relate to why you said that. But after the first time you should have gotten the hint.
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>>46808061

Makes sense to me...
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>>46808077
So what, you got scared because her ex was mad? You say to her clear and simple, you two get together, and she completely cuts contact with her ex. And if she doesn't accept that or you catch her doing something weird, you dump her. And she was over her ex fucker, that is the one thing you don't get.
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>>46803816
Jesus christ the guy that keeps getting back with her is a faggot cuck and fuck her shes so desperate for fucking attention that she'll go back with a guy she clearly doesnt like just to have someone also maybe you should have went with her but i guess if shes not patient i can see why you would not want to invest because 50% of cunts dont actually know what they want
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>>46808103
Scared? No. But I know when an ex is treating you like that and you don't make the active decision to cut them from your life, all by yourself, that there's a reason you're not doing that. She's a big girl. She doesn't need me to tell her what people to cut from her life.

>Was over her ex
Then she wouldn't be with him.
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>>46807654
this, do it for the lulz
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Lol at all of you guys thinking you're special and a girl broke up with a bf for you.

Guess what, they're infatuated and they'll eventually do the same thing to you or cheat
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>>46808139
>infatuation isn't a mire
Do you even understand the thread you're in?
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>doing cardio before lifting as usual
>only been doing it for two months so not that many gains
>I avoid looking at girls so I don't look like this DYEL fag just staring at girls' asses and legs and because there are bigger and better looking guys there so whatever I'll get there eventually
>qt thicc girl that I haven't seen before comes in and stares at me while I do cardio
>whatever she probably thought I looked like one of her friends or something
>she goes away for a bit and comes back, sits in front of me doing warm ups while also glancing at me every once in a while
>finish cardio and get ready to leave
>girl clearly staring at me from a short distance
>walk past her because that's where the power rack is
>kinda look in her direction and she's oggling me down as I walk by
>too scared to say anything or even smile because not confident enough with my little gains
shit like that still helps me stay motivated though so I guess that's good.
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About to leave gym. I have earbuds in my ears but no music. Two pajeets waiting for the elevator down. As i walk towards them because im going to take the stairs down, one of them looks at me and says: "That guy looks like he has been going to the gym a lot". Then the other guy said: "Yeah he was here the first time i went".
Made me fucking confused cus when i look in the mirror all i see is a dyel skinnyfat guy with tiny arms and a fat body.
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>>46808154

just so you know, if a girl is looking at you multiple times and you go past them, they're giving you permission to talk to them. don't push yourself if you're shy, just smile and say "hi," and move on. it's good practice for guys who don't really know how to talk to a girl, and you'll make her day just by reciprocating the attention. if you see them again, you can do the same thing. if they greet you warmly, ask them about how their workout is going or something similar.
all about building blocks, my man. one brick at at time.
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>>46808214
you know, what really made me feel bad was that she was doing it so I would notice and I couldn't do the same to her. I wanted to just smile at her as I walked past her but I chickened out.
I'll try it next time if I see her around, thanks man.
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>>46803816
Yo don't listen to these retarded kissless virgins, you did the right thing only thing I would say do differently is game and fuck other bitches don't save yourself for that obviously needy and retarded cunt
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>>46808244

think of it in her shoes. she's looking at this guy several times, maybe hoping that he comes up and says hello. she won't do it herself because she's a girl and insecure. girls have different ways of getting attention, mainly looking at you multiple times, smiling, sort of fidgeting around, moving to be in your area with no real reason for them to be there...
if you don't talk to her or smile, you're sending the opposite message you want to send. you're just trying to protect yourself from hurt/disappointment by shutting down everything preemptively.
how to fix this? practice. don't expect any interaction to go anywhere, and just start small. it's really easy to greet people and smile after a while, and after a week or so of doing this, it doesn't feel weird anymore. relationships build from small successes, there's no reason to rush or think you have to hold a 3-5 minute convo with someone right off the bat (unless it naturally heads that way).
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>>46808150

I do, but the other posters talking about their relationship issues clearly don't you fucking pleb faggot
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>>46808396
One guy posted a mire (girl infatuated with him to the point where it causes issues in her relationship) and then he was asked a question and he answered it and everything stemmed from there.

Then you came in and said "having a girl infatuated with you isn't special" even though you're in a fucking mire thread dedicated to shit like that. You're an idiot.
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Here's one that made me uncomfortable.

>be friend with this Chinese dude from college
>always try to make him come with me to the gym
>always some bullshit excuse
>fast forward for our 4th year of college
>he finally get a gf
>hey anon come to my birthday, we'll have a pool and lots of beer
>hellyeah.wav
>get there, it's a sunny Saturday
>get shirtless and get into the gym
>we start to talk
>his gf gets touchy with me
>touches my pecs and later hold my arm and try to drag me across the pool to talk with someone
>bro gets upset
>I feel good with the mirin and bad because his gf is a thot
>I find a excuse and go home
>monday comes and he asks why I left early
>be real with him
>he says he appreciates it and they had a discussion after I left because of her attitude
>he says he's happy to have me as a friend

He's a good dude.
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>>46808388
I know I probably won't get anywhere from just that lol I'm happy with just a reciprocal smile and a "hi". I'm not good at small talk anyways so I'm fine with just brief greetings.
What makes me uncomfortable is having to be the one to take the first step because I don't know if I will come off as calm or a total creep or if I will stutter or something.
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>>46808452

yeah my advice in mainly to start small. it's just practice after all. yeah, of course you'll "fuck up" sometimes, but that's how you learn and get better. i guarantee if a girl is looking at you a few times, maybe even smiling, nothing bad is going to happen if you smile and say hi to her, even if you stutter.
force yourself to rethink these interactions in a positive way, instead of thinking about what could go wrong, think about what could go right. this changes you into a positive energy state.
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>>46807508
Yeah fuck that shit what the fuck is this bitch in middle school pussy is pussy and hers was probably nothing to be missed
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>>46808449
You're a good dude
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>>46807508
What is this high school?
She sounds like a fucking child. Anyone who plays games like that is not someone you want to be around
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>>46808449
good dude; good friend
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>>46802175
I feel demoralized like Ill never be able to get mired because I used to be fat as shit and I still have flab from it pic rel
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>>46808953
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>>46807399
She's leading you on. Focus your energy on someone who doesn't play push and pull games.

Everyone who is saying "oh dude u got her she wantz u" is gonna be the same guys laughing at you when you end up being this >>46803816 retard. There are 7 billion people on this planet, go bury your dick in someone else. If she's willing to do all this garbage with you while she has a presumably attentive BF she will do the same to you, don't be struck down by your own hubris.

Block her or kill your feelings. Probably the first one since you don't seem very mature.
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>>46808967
Arms will eventually look good but Im afraid Im going to forever doomed to being bearmode at best and wont ever be able to achieve ottermode
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>>46808984
Imma level with you chief the excess skin does get better. As long as you're only on a 500 calorie deficit (and STRICT) the skin will mostly disappear. If it still makes you feel garbo get surgery.

You can do it senpai. And the fact you're critical of your own appearance at all, means eventually you will look better.
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>>46807508

you need to hit that my dude, just be more confident and she will bite
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>>46808953
>>46808967
>>46808984
dog you're still fat. You still have weight to lose. It's not permanent, but you have a long way to go. Keep at it, continue eating less, you can lose that weight.
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Friends, how do you get over the fear of rejection?

Rejection absolutely hurts me, which is weird because I've been rejected before. But it always makes me feel like shit more than I'd like to admit, and because of that I have a really hard time approaching women coldly at a bar, party, etc. I'll have a girl literally dancing in front of me and I won't do anything because I get so nervous.

I try to reassure myself logically that I must be worth something cause I think of the girls who approached me first or the the amount of women I've slept with, which at 12 partners I think is okay for someone in late 20s. I'm okay if a random girl approaches me, but I usually think they are trying to make fun of me somehow...I also explicitly remember one time having sex with this girl who I thought was really really hot and thinking to myself "How the fuck did I manage to sleep with this girl?"

I guess the better question is how do I stop hating and doubting myself. I've lost a lot of weight, but I have a deformed left ear and I'm deaf, forcing me to wear a hearing aid. I genuinely feel like a different person than everyone at times.


I don't know what's wrong with me.
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>>46803816
This is peak autism
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>>46809499
I've also been debating for about a year or so of going on dating apps...for some reason I feel like I wouldn't have any luck on Tinder/whatever.
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>>46808953
don't give up bro. we're all on a journey here. eat on a cut, lift hard, do cardio, it will be worth it.
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>>46809440
I mean this is roughly how I looked when I got to the point that a doctor was telling me I needed to stop starving myself (how I lost all the weight)
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>>46810053
Then don't starve yourself retard. Unless you're under 5'7 you can eat like 1600 calories a day and you'll still lose a ton of weight.
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>>46810077
I mean that was like 2 years ago, only started really lifting in February
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>>46808953
>>46808967
I used to look like you. I'm working off the last of the fat separating me from perfection right now. Eat right, quit drinking, and run, faggot. It sucks. I hate every fucking second of it, and would murder a man to eat fries and drink soda again, but it's for a good cause. Girls already mire me, and they may not be the exact kind I like, but it's way better than I was doing before. If a lazy piece of shit like me can do it, you can too.
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>>46810106
Why are you making excuses? You asked if you're doomed, I'm telling you you aren't. But you aren't going to look good unless you lose that weight. Download My Fitness Pal, enter in your target weight, and it'll tell you how much you need to eat to get there.
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>be turbomanlet boomer
>been on a cut and strength is REKT, but still...
>deadlift day bestlift day
>finish repping out 365x5
>D1 baseball player at my gym for summer
>"Damn dude, that's a lot of weight for someone your size"
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>>46808978
>There are 7 billion people on this planet, go bury your dick in someone else

I fucking hate this bullshit platitude. 7 billion people, minus the men minus the lesbians and trans people, minus the women who are either too young or too old, minus all the ones in countries and places I'll never go, minus the ones who think they're too good for me and vice versa, on and on. If you actually sit and seriously think about instead of just saying shit that sounds cute, that number shrinks down quite a fucking bit. Plus I don't want to just bury my dick in things anymore. I'm tired of impersonal random shit with girls who've been fucked more times than they've had a hot meal.

That said, I understand what you're saying. It's just really tough for me to find somebody else. You're right that I'm not mature. I've never had a girlfriend before because I've been an unattractive piece of shit for the majority of my life. This girl is special to me because I've never been so compatible with anybody. Maybe that's not worth as much as I think, but l really don't understand what else I'm supposed to do. Is my only other option really to "cast a wide net" and approach hundreds of random girls, hoping that the one or two who don't reject me will be worth a shit in my eyes? Is that my best hope?
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I got heavy mires from multiple girls the other day and many envious looks from guys after being cocoon mode for 3 months.

Why did this make me feel like shit? I dont like vanity.
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>>46808449
Your a good man
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>>46802394
>No chest, flat
>traps barley there
>Legs unseen for a reason
>No lats
>Back unseen for a reason

People seem to forget actors are on gear for these roles. If you don't think Hugh Jackman was on gear as the wolverine you are wrong.
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>>46803438
>Karl Marx
>that whole bottom row
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>walking through parking lot to food lion after hittin chest and back
>see highschool aged black chick lookin at me out the window from the backseat of a car
>as I walk by she yells 'steroids!' in my general direction
>kek and go get my groceries

Pic related; still feel small and fat but its nice to get reassurance from the normies now and again
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>>46804639
Unironically this.

/fat/ is full of dyel insecure losers who would throw away their dignity at the slightest hint of snatch.

Lower than dogs
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>>46804496
Why are you complaining dipshit you should have gotten her number you could be fucking her by now
>>46804753
Fuck off getting pussy is all that matters
>lolol you guys dont get any
>now hold on you cant get it like that its not cool
eat shit
>>46805833
Fucking autist

You know all these guys ITT are more /fit/ than me but I swear you guys' game is lacking
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Not my type unfortunately.
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>>46802175
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>>46810229
>Is my only other option really to "cast a wide net" and approach hundreds of random girls, hoping that the one or two who don't reject me will be worth a shit in my eyes? Is that my best hope?

Targeted nets my friend. I assume you want a woman who loves you for you, and not a random thot who will run off behind your back. My suggestion is churches. I have met so many awesome women (totally as a friends, as I had a girlfriend, who is now my fiance, at the time. NOTE: I did not meet her at church. I met her on OkCupid, of all fucking places) at the church I attend. I'm sure some will be closet skanks who use church as a way to run from their sins, but many are genuinely sweet and want to better themselves. The best part is that church is full of opportunities to actually talk to people. My church encourages us to talk to others near the start of the service, and you also have classes, volunteer opportunities (all the way from just watching the kids to doing /fit/-tier outside labor for charity), and mission trips. All of these are guaranteed to have young women in them, as well as some cool guys who might know some single women and are willing to hook you up because you're someone "from church" that can be trusted. As an aside, depending on where you are, your church can even have the pick of ethnicity. Mine has a ton of ethnic Chinese (mostly Taiwanese) people who have their own services (but also attend the main service) and the church even offers English classes. So depending on the church, you can find asian women, hispanic, black, etc. Whatever floats your boat.

Of course the bonus is that you just may find Christ and the Lord as well, as I did.
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>>46806304
Yet women always want more no matter what you do.

Fuck her she deserves a taste of her own
Medicine
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>>46808449
my nigga
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>>46810434
It's easier to debate and refute communist talking points if you've read their literature. Nothing shuts up your typical campus commie quicker than finding out you've read and understand Marx more than they do.
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>>46810502
>steroids!
What the fuck, you look aesthetic and natty as fuck dude. Why do people assume someone is using steroids because they put some work on their bodies?
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>>46803816
im with you anon, if youd gotten with her she wouldve just ended up cheating on you with her ex. just cut her off at this point imo
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>>46810502
You aren't small or fat bro. Good on ya.

>>46810538
>Fucking autist... I swear you guys' game is lacking

Which is why I asked for advice. I even specifically asked what more socially competent people would have done in my situation. So let's have it. If you're so confident in your game that you can insult me, how would you have handled things?

>>46810581
I appreciate your advice but, at the risk of sounding like a fedora tipper, I don't think Church is the place for me. I had a Christian upbringing and have spent a good portion of my life in and out of school studying Scripture and its history. I can respect that religion plays an important role in society and that it can improve people's lives, but it's just not for me anymore. I don't think that I could ever make it work with a girl so religious that she attends weekly services because we'd be too different.
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>>46808449
Nice
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>>46808449
that's what the fuck im talking about raise your niggas up lad don't be a scumbag
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>>46809499
unironically psychedelics.
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>>46811284
this, fucking based
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>>46811284
Eh. I do lots of psychedelics, and while it's helped a ton with my confidence and quality of life, rejection still really fucking hurts.
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>>46803679
what is your diet bro, you are seriously my goal body.
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>>46806201
You are fucking based.... Most people on this board would have jumped on that pussy at light speed. Instead, you literally made her break up with her boyfriend like 3 times for you and had enough self control to not jump in head first. You basically sent her to the shadow realm, I admire you very much. Keep doing what youre doing, please. You're a fucking beast.
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>>46811432
maybe you've never "broken through"
have you ever tried ayahuasca? I managed to make an analogue with 2 legal plants ( mimosa hostilis + syrian rue). I tried acid afterwards and it was much much milder and controlable. This gave me the equivalent of 5 years of therapy in 4 hours. I got complete ego dissolution during a "bad" trip and after that I've had 0 fear left in me. Going on 2 months now.
Anyone that's not living in France can make this shit for really cheap.
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>>46807742
https://www.instagram.com/smthnghappens/
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>>46811540
>maybe you've never "broken through"

I had some ego death on a couple of bad acid trips. I've smoked a ton of DMT over the last couple years chasing a breakthrough, but I've still never gotten there. I've always been kinda interested in ayahuasca, but never bothered to try because I've heard it makes you really nauseated, and I can't think of much worse than tripping balls while needing to throw up.
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>be me
>6'1 180
>pretty lean
>party at friends house
>friend brings out boxing gloves and me and another guy fight
>good pump + lighting makes me look aesthetic
>friend brought gf
>5'5, blonde, absolute perfect body
>she's drunk and starts to give me fuck me eyes and touches my chest
>immediately step back
>later compliments my physique and says I have a great body
>avoid her rest of the night

She was always low-key flirting with me. I felt bad because buddy was like 5'5 and dyel as fuck so you could tell she was wanting more. Was super hot though
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>>46810989
I think people just use it as an excuse as to why they're lazy fucks. I mean seriously, I'm not lean, overly vascular or massive; just natty as fuck. I'll give her a pass cause she was young but damn there is so much ignorance about fitness out there
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>>46804124
>>46804148
>>46804289
>>46804873
>>46805498
>>46805528
>>46805573
>>46807445
>>46807576
>>46807786
>>46808107
>>46809515
>>46808978
>>46810229

And just like that I can tell you faggots haven't been in a relationship longer than a year, holy shit.
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>in a party with my relatives and some family friends
>finish swimming in the pool
>accidentally lock eyes with a qt 14 year old latina girl who lives next door
>datass
>she blushes and looks away

Gonna get me some fucking underaged anchor pussy. That good ol folded chorizo. La pequena raza. Preteen chola hola. The Greencard Amber Alert. Free college in California. La petita mamacita. Del policia chihuahua. Border hoppin corner stoppin. Her father is a landscaper but I'mma cut that grass. Underage latinos man. I'm getting mires from underage latinas and there's nothing you can do to stop me.
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>>46812846
>And just like that I can tell you faggots haven't been in a relationship longer than a year, holy shit.

I literally admit to being socially awkward and never having a girlfriend in my post. Great fucking job, Inspector. Why don't you demonstrate your wealth of maturity and experience by dispensing some useful advice instead of being a smug faggot?
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>>46812913
I was going to quote all the things I found funny about your post, but it turned out to be the whole thing.
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>>46802522
routine?
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>>46802394
>Was doing pull ups for juicy pumps

Holy fuck so pathetic
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>at 7eleven at 2 am to buy cigs because very drunk
>hear a girl behind me say “wow hes really cute” to her friend
Felt good lol
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>>46803816
Ignore the beta cucks. You did the right thing. She seems to be a pretty volatile Thot so if you dated her right after she left her bf she would have cucked you with another guy to whom she caught feelings.

You are a true man, anon. Ignore the fucking bitch boys who lift for girls insulting you in the comments.
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>>46810502
nice nips
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>>46802175
>Go to work
>Manager calls me handsome

Few hours later two of my coworkers ask me why I don't model, "you have the face and body for it."
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>>46813130
t.
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>>46805706
w-when will they learn
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>>46813352
HOLY SHIT YOU SICK FUCK
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>>46813352

WTF
MODS MODS MOOOOOOODS
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>>46813352
W-will I go to jail for watching this?
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>>46812913
fucking kek
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>>46807847
nice
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>>46812913
>>46812921
>>46813391
its pasta
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>>46808953
>I used to
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i don't think i really ever get an actual compliment that comes from impulse and not a calculated move to get me to favor someone. the mires leave, the insults stay.
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>>46808984
I hate to break your illusions but you are just a fat shit. Give it at least one more year before you post your pics here again because you will be make fun of for being so delusional. You will realize that later on in your life how stupid you looked in these pics. Just terrible. Good luck fatty
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>>46808449
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>>46803816
Good job anon, you did the right thing
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>>46807508
Something similar happened to me. I had a crush with this cute girl and I thought she had one on me too. I didn't know she wanted me to chase her when she said she couldn't hang out, so I eventually got over my crush. Fast foward a few years, she told me she was just playing hard to get. We are very good friends now, but she gets pretty drunk at least once a year and asks me for sex. I don't feel like messing with friends so I decline every time
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>>46803438
Wow you're so nuanced and smart, anon
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>>46806225
then be gay
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>>46810502
Thicc

Also lol @ non gymrats calling ppl out on roids. Being in the iron game for a while makes you notice giveaways for roiders. U look very natty (e.g. traps/delts not disproportionally large)
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>>46811538
I agree, keep up the good work m8
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>>46807666
wtf satan
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>>46806135
>know a chick been in a relationship for a year
>makes me pretty happy but could see a ltr with her
>know if i just commit and one day marry her i'll probably be happy
but im a mong
>shes overseas for a few weeks visiting senpai, go out with mates
>usually gf comes along we go clubbing and have a great time
>this time on my own with single mates dancing trying to wingman
>now notice the extremely hot chicks paying attention to me
>max mires, mate is attractive too we complement each other
>get a huge thrill when we land some chicks but i never do anything
>start to muse the life of trying to bang random girls
Grass is always greener i guess, my only respite is when my single mates go home alone and I have my tipsy gf hanging off me telling me about the shit we're gonna do when we get home
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Barely an hour ago:

>usually wear suits at work, but it's hot as shit and a Friday so I'm wearing a polo
>bantering with the boss first thing in the morning
>just standing in the corridor with my arms crossed and talking about some meetings from earlier this week
>"You still going to the gym religiously Anon?"
>"Yeah"
>"I can tell, you're looking really big and scary lately haha"
>*reaches out and squeezes my bicep*

The 36 year old MILF boss is mirin.
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>>46813364
>>46813372
>>46813385
What did he post?
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>>46814394
Prolly "I'll delete this in 5 min act like it's gross"
Lurk moar summerfriend
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>>46804247
you're not big if you're 215 at 6'6 m8
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>>46802175
>be me, somewhat dyel but pretty good aesthetics
>going in a party, literally 40ºC so I took my shirt off
>suddenly all girls around mirin, some of them start approaching me
>feelsgoodman.jpg
>few minutes later group of girls approach and start talking to me while touching arms/abs
>exchange snapchats
>next day 2 of them start asking me for shirtless photos

did I make it? Is this what it feels like?
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>>46814540
Well, post those shirtless photos then and let's see what you've got.
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>>46807847
>penalty rows
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>>46807847
The only person who you should compete with is yourself
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>>46803816
LMFAO... you deserve any shit you get from this. Your fucking dumb cunt.
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>>46808449
Good shit my dude
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>be at work
>girl who I rec’d to my supervisor to hire comes up
>thanks me for the rec and tells me she loves her new job
>no prob
>gives me hug
>lingers
>can feel her hands feeling around my back muscles
>o..okay
>fast forward 2 weeks
>won’t talk to me
>eventually ask her what’s up
>she says she’s pissed
>asks me why I haven’t asked her to hang out yet
>we’re both married

C-can’t do it senpai, my weenie is committed to one woman only
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>>46802522
> that body at 5'7
> "big"
I would only consider that muscular if you were 6'4. What a state.
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>>46814590
*you're
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>>46803816
What a dumb autistic faggot lmao
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>>46810434
fucking retard
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>>46808449
T R U E N I G G A
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>>46807508
niiice
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>>46814626
You cant and shouldnt do it, if shes married and is acting like that you know her loyalty is nonexistant.
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>>46802522
le orgo americano
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>>46814626
>>46814939
great fucking point
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>>46807381
I was in THE EXACT same situation as you, and she ended up cheating on me; lucky for me that she did, met my current grade afterwards and she makes sure I get enough sleep and food and is actually proud of me instead of being insecure. Feels so good listening to her brag to her friends about me in front of me, it's the ULTIMATE mire bros.
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>>46803816
Go ask her out, for real this time you dummy
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>Go to the doctor
>really worried about something I have
>haven't been to the doctor in years so a new one has replaced the old guy I went to
>it's a girl
>sitting down in waiting room and a girl walks out of the doctors room
>assume it's her assistant or something
>before walking back in she stops for a second and looks at me out of 4 other people in the room
>I look back for a split second and she walk into the doctors room
>wait for awhile
>my turn I go in
>she's actually a really beautiful and attractive woman and I get even more nervous
>she inspects me
>told me I'm a slim young man with a healthy bmi

I know I'd never have a chance with someone like her but I walked out of there with good news and feeling a bit happier about myself. I'm not sure if this qualifies as a mire since I'm pretty dyel but it's all I got.
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>>46815572
She's in a relationship.
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>>46815231

hopefully you're still here and can respond quickly. how did you end up finding out? i'm the one with the jealous gf.
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>>46815774
That's hardly a mire you autistic fuck. I swear 95% of /fit/ thinks it's a mire if a female so much as GLANCES at them.
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>>46814954
COPE
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>>46814626
pump and dump mang
later file a sexual harassment case against her
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>>46815861
Well they do say that prolonged eye contact with the opposite sex for more than 3 seconds can have intimate affects for both parties.
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>>46815883
t. virgin
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>>46815889
t. no gf
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>>46815844
Friends told me they saw her, she called me to try and wiggle and lie her way out of it, told her never to contact me again, that was 6 months ago. 4,5 years down the drain, but thank fuck it happened.
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>>46803816
I have to make a post to remember this is the fucking dumbest anon I have ever seen in over 7 years of 4chan. And I've seen some dumb shit. Holy fuck you are stupid.

You fight for the things you want. You never wanted her in the first place you only wanted to feel superior to others. Kys
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>>46815996
If a woman expects you to fight for her and the split second you don't, she runs back to the security of a relationship with someone she doesn't love, then she's not even remotely worth your time.

It seems like everyone that replies to that post screeching at the guy is just an autistic virgin that can't believe anyone out there willingly turns down women.
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>>46816018
I'm that 29yr old boomer. Married for 4 years in an amazing relationship. House/car/career the works. Planning kids next year.
Don't tell me I don't know what makes a relationship work.
The fact is this idiot only turned her down to feel superior than her. Inconsiderate if he hurts her or himself
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>>46816063
He explicitly said he turned her down because he had a feeling she wasn't over her ex. She proceeded to prove him right. Sounds like he made the right decision.

>waiting til 30 to have kids
lmao
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>>46807508
You should’ve just made out with her in the kitchen. That would’ve sealed her interest in you.
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>>46816299
An actual Chad
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>>46807903
You're doing god's work, Anon, thank you very much
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>>46802175
she's so fucking cute it physically hurts me

pls gib cute gf
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>>46807508
I dig it. Ya dun good lad.
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>>46804247
>>46814469
What they said. I'm 6'3" and 215lbs and I ain't what I would call big at all.
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>>46808449
Brocoded. Well done.
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>>46810229
Seven. There are seven women for you out there.
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>>46810502
Jealous. I can't wait for the day someone accuses me of being on roids when I'm not.

>nevergoingtohappenprobablysob
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>>46811082
You never ask if you should kiss, you just do it, if you had gone for it she would be overwhelmed with horniness and attraction, and even after that you still coulda fucked her, but you just spooned her
You were literally spooning you should have started groping her, then making out, then etc




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