And I mean real friend, not some fuck buddy or the guy you hook up with. I just found out one of my friends has a 9 incher and I can't stop thinking about it. He's on the pic.
>>1642858Pic or it’s not real your mission is to at least get him to show it to you. Also how do you know of this info that he has a 9 incher
OP is this you
>>1642866maybe I did see it>>1642882lol no. good reverse search or we have a same friend?
He's gorgeous. Post more please.
>>1642858Are you Aussie? I think I know this guy
>>1642885Don’t tease us like this we want to see his meat. At least give us some story like you sucked his cock or something
>>1643001I want to see the penor
>>1642858Your friend is a CUTE!A CUTE!
>>1642991Lol I didn't suck him I just saw it when he was drunk and showed it.
>>1643152damn now i want his cock as well! is he gay?
>>1642858>>1643001>>1643002found some more of him!
>>1642858gonna need proofsomebody catfish him
>>1642858Send me his snapchat
>>1642858>>1643001>>1643207that bulge tho...9 inch cock straight into my mouth>>1643215while you're at it, post proof
>>1643226doesn't have one. not even ig.
I have friend who is 24 cm. I'd do everything to suck it and have him do me. Hot guy too, build body and masculine
>>1643240not true, he has fb and ig
>>1643267oh you're right, he does have ig. my bad.
>>1642858>>1643196>>1643207>>1643215>>1643606anyone catfish him please! need his nudes!OP, any other hung friends like him?
>>1643642you mean like handsome as fuk and with 9 inches? i don't think so lol
>>1642858Thought that was h3h3 from the thumbnail
>>1643749too bad lol. whats his ig?
anyone catfished him?
a friend of mine.... This is the closest to naked that I've ever seen him. :P
I have friend with 20 cm dick (I saw it because I maowfish him once). He start to getting fat since he found gf. What can I do to keep him in shape?
>>1645420>What can I do to keep him in shapelmaothe most you could possibly do is become his gym buddy
>tfw the biggest cock I've ever seen IRL belongs to my older brotherDefinitely gave me some guilty impure thoughts when I was a sexually confused horny teenager.Not to mention insecurity and penis envy when I finally realized my dead-average dick was done growing. Apparently he hogged all the big dick genes to himself.
>>1645488How big is he and how small are you and have you seen him hard?
>>1645489Yeah we shared a room and he wasn't exactly the most modest, so I saw him hard plenty of times. Mostly from morning wood, but I "accidentally" walked in on him jerking off on several occasions.I never inspected his cock up close or anything. And I know better than to trust my own memory too much, considering how impressionable I was at the time. But I can tell you it bigger flaccid than most hard cocks I've seen... big enough that he used both hands when he jerked off. I'm about 6" even now, and I'd estimate that his is about 50% bigger, so maybe 9-10"?
>>1645493>2x6=9I'm guessing you're not a math major
>>1642858I wouldn’t know. I never really looked at my friends that way. We're bros, I’d never think about the, sexually
>ginger friend that i grew up with has a ~7.5x6 I always was curious since I grew up with him, but we both learned each other was gay and have been hooking up since and holy shit it's fuckin huge. i think ginger's are usually pretty hung
>>1645497you're a dumbass, anon's math was correct
>>164549750% of 6 is 3. Guessing ur not a math major either faggot
>>1644523>>1643207>>1645189someone should catfish him, his cock must be amazing!! just look at that bulge. >>1645378he's kinda hot. moar!
>>1645497>50% of 6 is 12>multiplies the number by 2 instead of dividing itWow anon, you're truly fucking retarded.
Good buddy of mine. Saw him in full glory one night. He honestly has a 10/10 flaccid.. couldn't even imagine. Hgnnnn
>>1645709what a hot friend you have there! moar!how big's his dick?any fooling around?
>>1645720Hearty. Boys got girth on his side too. That picture is actually from a few years ago, he's got a DELICIOUS beard now. He's quasi-straight, so we haven't really done anything. I've made out with him a couple of times at parties and there has been some mutual touching, but honestly he is very confused and I couldn't bring myself to do more with him. Once again, he's a very good friend, and I don't want to feel like I'm pushing him towards something that he might not actually want. Bonus pic: he's got an A++++ Ass.
>>1645735Is he wearing a thong? Vid?
good job op. now when your friend is curious as to why his images are circulating, and he reverse image searches himself, he will find this thread archived.
>>1645735that looks like an amazing ass! wanna lick his butt. can you show him with a beard? need more fap materialsounds not-so-straight desu, what does 'made out' and 'mutual touching' mean?well he obv wants to on some level, why not?
>>1645797>obv wants to on some levelWhere do you get that idea from? Maybe he just needs a fucking friend.
>>1645797He's always been affectionate with me, but typically when he's drunk and we end up alone it turns into a little make-out fest. We kiss and feel each other up when this happens, but I try to de-escilate the situation most of the time because we work together and are also much too good of friends. He ends up weird with me the day after usually, hence why I'm not trying to actually fuck him. As much as I want it, I wouldn't risk our friendship. At the end of the day, he may or may not be straight.. but it's up to HIM to decide. I'm not about to take advantage of his curiousity, especially since he seems so weird about it.
>>1645832Holy shit a somewhat normal and decent friend on 4chan, isn't that a sign of the apocalypse or something?
>>1645832To cont.. I honestly love the fuck out of him too. Couldn't hurt him like that. In my head I'd love to believe that he actually wants me the way I want him, but in reality I know he is just lonely, curious, and knows he can trust me with those feelings.
>>1645836That and I'm not horny enough to post a fake story about me banging that sweet ass.. lol
>27 posters>no pics
>>1645837>but in reality I know he is just lonely, curious, and knows he can trust me with those feelings.That sounds more like an assumption than anything, you know how poor those can be. How about being real with him for once, if you're good enough friends and mature enough you'll be able to work through whatever issues and sexual tension you might have. Letting it fester and taint your friendship might ruin it anyways, it's easier to come clean with someone and find out how they really feel and what they really want than going under a bunch of assumptions because you're afraid of any confrontation or consequences.
>>1645841I'm working my way towards that. (In no way defending myself for being a pussy).. He has a tendency to close himself off when it comes to most gay subjects when we talk normally and will instantly start defensively talking about chicks. Makes it hard to really talk to him. A few nights ago we were in very deep conv. on the phone, and he begun telling me, "I have to level with you about something that has been a part of me, but I am not ready to talk about it." I can only guess what that implies, but I feel it is something we have to talk about when he is ready.
>>1645839Who has nude pics of their friends?
>>1645848oh god the drama. you sound like a decent person, anon, but this "confusion" stuff from your friend bugs the shit out of me. it's like the guys who come here and post threads like "i'm not gay but i want to suck dick what does this mean" just fuckin suck one already or don't, who cares what it "means," stop agonizing
>>1645832>>1645848you really do sound like a decent friend. but the whole thing feels like he is at least a little bi or a closeted gay. Bi-curious straight guys who just want to bang and have fun would not be into the whole touchy-feely thing after making out with a dude.I mean seriously, even the most open-minded straight friend would not openly say "something of you has been part of me".well if you are careful and lucky enough, you might get yourself a bf or a fwb! at least you know he is not a homophobe lol.
>>1645871I feel he might genuinely be in the closet. Unfortunately his friends tease him ALL THE TIME about being gay, so I think that has had a weird effect on him. He's pretty bro, and over-does it to a degree that we all know it's a facade.. I don't think he has had much exposure to gay men who aren't flamboyant, and meeting me has ref changed his own internal perspective. Its just a bit of a waiting game at this point. We're having a "friendsgiving" at his house this Sunday, and he asked if i can spend the night with him to "help him cook in the morning".. so we will see where that goes i suppose. ;)
>>1645866I agree. It is VERY frustrating. Im holding out hope for this one though..
>>1645501>ginger's are usually pretty hungThat apostrophe killed my boner
>>1645915It's always the bros.....
>>1645501idk, it seems to me like ginger guys are are either small or huge, no inbetween
>>1646291i'm ginger and pretty average length but super thick
idk about hung, but i found this guy on instagram and he looks hot as shit@let_me_lift
My friend teases me so bad
>>1646524tell us more, how do you have these?
>>1646293Show us on >>>/soc/ and link back here.>>1642858I have three friends, all straight. They're brothers, 10 months apart from one another.I've seen two of them and they are indeed huge and the third I know only by reputation.
>>1646508So...He's not a friend.And he's not hung.Why are you posting him in this thread?There are plenty of other threads asking for non-hung, non-friends.Maybe post him there next time.2/10
>>1646524>My friend teases me so badMen like that are scum. If a friend of mine did that to me, I wouldn't speak to him again.
Friend for many years, was my roommate for a while, found this just before he moved out. Wish I would have gotten to see it in person
>>1646827Here's the other
>>1642858Don't have friends lol
Str8 friend I work with. He hung, and he knows I take pictures of him. Had some childhood trauma so nothing will probably ever go down. But god I would worship that dick
>>1649345ignore traumasacquire dong
>>1649351You're a bad person, anon.
My co-worker has a huge fucking uncut dick. I know this because he's shown me convos he's had on grinder with dudes raving all about it the day after. Apparently the dudes he fucks tell their friends and he gets hit up with random guys trying to fuck.He tells me all the time the crazy kinky things he does and it drives my dick crazy. I think he's either trying to seduce me (i've been in a relationship with a girl for 4 years) or just wants to brag. But motherfuck if he downright asks to bang I might just throw away the best relationship I've had my whole life for a taste of that cock.
>>1646519aww yeah, 5 inches! totally huge bro!GTFO here with that
I have a hung buddy, guy Ive known for upwards of a decade, was always into him sexually and started getting into him emotionally over the last few years too. He’d pretty frequently be bulging hard whenever we hung out and uploaded some social media shit which casually showed it off too, including some guitar playing vids and stuff which were hot af anyways. Add to that he was cute and dorky in the best way and we always got along as friends, I hoped hed make a move so much. Was never totally sure if he was BI or not, some days he’d send signals and some days he’d do the opposite, he was never really open about anything though and I never felt confident enough to take a chance, outside of some shitty drunken stuff and casual-friend invites. Always wanted to become fwbs (BF is the dream but i keep my expectations low) but nothings come of it so far, heres to hoping I see him when he’s back in town and he hits me up, I need someone to stretch out this asshole its too tight
Throw back to that time I got a friend to agree to sending (hard) nudes to me because "art" purposes
>>1649613Also I got alittle live photo shoot
>>1649617And finally a last and unenthusiastic side pic
>>1649578I know the feels
>>1649615literally non existent ass, but still a cute guy.
>>1649578>I never felt confident enough to take a chanceStory of my life, best of luck to the both of you though, hopefully you get to make each other happy at some point.
>>1645378Is he a firefighter? He looks hot
>>1642858>posting pictures of someone you know personally without their consent>on an imageboardI don't understand thisYou don't think he'd feel violatedYou should at least respect his privacy but cutting out the faceTo answer your question my best friend had a 10 incher, I even saw pics, and his bulge was really large in personIt bothered me for a while because I liked him but he was straight but then I kinda got over itWe're not friends anymore though because he became really paranoid this year and then he discovered I had liked him
>>1649827I know, I hope we do too. I had really hoped to hear from him directly but that hope is sort of fading at this point. However he has my phone and knows my facebook, they will both always be there if he ever wants to get in touch and connect. I feel like we've just missed each other too many times in the past. I'd love to hear from him, what he said wouldn't matter, but that's up to him.
One of my friends was showing me a picture on his phone and while he was scrolling through his photo roll, I saw the thumbnail of one of his nudes and his dick looked massive. Even if I didn't see that, he loves going on and on about his tindr hookups and how he's never been deepthroated. He isn't even really attractive but just knowing he has a big dick makes him 1000000x more hot to me. He knows I'm a fag too so I think he just likes teasing me.
>>1649387People will find a way to spam selfies wherever they can on this board.
Had this one guy in high school who was kind of a friend. We were in the same group but it was a pretty big circle so we didn't really talk much.Basically I'd just hear all the time how fucking huge his cock was. He fucked a few girls I knew and rumours got around how they couldn't even get it inside them because it hurt too much sometimes. He was pretty fucking hot overall too, so everyone who swings that way wanted him. Anyway at the end of school we all rented this place at a bay nearby, and stayed there for a few nights over new years. NYE everyone got drunk as hell and it got pretty loose. People walking around naked, couples fucking in the showers, etc etcHe was there and very drunk being taken to the bathroom by his girlfriend at the time when I ran into them. I was very recently out of the closet then, and he sorta jumped on the opportunity to make me uncomfortable and pulled out his dick. It was flaccid but massive, didn't really get a good look at it but he sorta half-yelled at me "hey you're gay, right? Do I have a good dick?" And then stumbled off before I could even respond. Later on that same night a bunch of the boys, all straight, decided to get a group shower and invited me in with themI declined cos of pretty low self esteem at the time and also I just knew I'd get a raging boner and it'd be uncomfortable for everyone involvedI still wonder if I should have accepted and fantasise all the time about sitting on his huge dick in the shower, surrounded by a bunch of my very fit mates
I am the hung friend, generally.When I was in college I met a dude who I became friends with and we ended up tag-teaming his GF. He's pretty big but I was bigger and she went crazy for it.
Does no one else care about this big red flag?>>1649371>4 years relationship>WOW big dick!!1111!!!11111onezzzz>motherfuck if he downright asks to bang I might just throw away the best relationship I've had my whole life for a taste of that cock.Fucking sluts! Can you be worse than this?? Throwing away a perfectly good relationship just for a quick fuck.I wish you died impaled by a big monster dick IN your asshole and your girlfriend finds someone better than a hungry insane cockslut.
>>1653998There aren't words for how hard this needs to be bumped
My best friend is huge and I sucked him a couple of times and we fucked once. The thing is it never felt sexual, at least for me, anyway I don't let him go there anymore just in case it can make our friendship different.
>>1645832>He ends up weird with me the day after usually, hence why I'm not trying to actually fuck him.have you ever imagined that he's "weird with you" after because you reject him and won't fuck him?If he ever willingly felt up your dick during one of these totally-not-gay make out sessions, then yeah, he wants the d. You are the one making it weird.
One of my close friends from highschool.
>>1651513Probably the most wholesome story I’ve heard on this board. Wish you luck buddy
>>1654376More about this pls
>>1655602What this hotness from?(phone and now facebook are on btw...)
>>1654492>tfw still haven't heard from him
>>1654376We went in my other friends party held at the beach. He got so drunk in there he agreed to do a lap dance on this ugly ass fag spencer. I think spencer kissed him that night, idk i was drunk too. He's also pretty open minded even when hes not drunk. Agreed to show me his dick before. It was a girthy 5.5. not bad for a half asian.
>>1657551>tfw that makes your mouth legit water
>>1645497That would be 100% bigger sweetie. How embarrassing
>>1649371>>1653985updateTold him I liked him, he likes me too, we've been fucking for the past week, I can hardly walk. gay sex is bomb, breaking up with gf for this guyno egrets
>>1658819>gay sex is bombIt's fun and all, but ultimately just pleasure driven. Throwing away four years of history with someone who could actually bear you children is perhaps not the smartest decision.
>>1658902(assuming the story and follow up are real, at all, which is dubious) the relationship couldn't have been that great if he was so eager to throw it away, so maybe it's for the best
>>1658819>we've been fucking =!= relationshipYou mean to tell us you've thrown away a four years relationship for a fuckbuddy? :facepalmIf you're so desperate for big dicks wrecking your asshole, why were you in a relationship with a women in the first place???>>1658913You're not wrong but this whole thing is sketchy if true. I still see the red flags.
>>1658902>staying in a joyless relationship for the chance to reproduceWho does this...?
>>1658933>why were you in a relationship with a women to begin withdenial
>>1658934I know right, what are these people talking about?
>>1658934>>1658938I think you're overestimating how long sexual "joy" lasts in a relationship. Even if you marry the guy of your dreams, you'll still want something new and fun eventually in which case you'll have the same problem of "oh noes, I'm in a joyless relationship".I'd argue that reproducing and working to have a stable family is a far greater joy than fucking a new attractive guy every few months.
>>1658938Yeah, right. Relationships are all about sex, I'll dump my gf/bf for the first rando with big dick that wants to get on with me. /sSluts irk me. I'm not the other anon, but there's people that would like to breed.
>>1658940That's not what I or I assume that other guy, was talking about at all. I was referring to this line and nothing that you just said, you perma-triggered closet queens.>Throwing away four years of history with someone who could actually bear you children is perhaps not the smartest decision.Like the ability to have children should be the main decision maker in relationships, regardless of happiness or compatibility.
Have this quasi-hot friend at work. One of my coworkers was fwb with him and told me about his 8x6, and he bulges a lot around work. I'd believe her. Pic is him.
>>1658944Also, wtf are you talking about?
>>1658950illiteracy is still a huge problem i see
>>1658944You're acting like happiness is impossible unless you get whatever you desire sexually.Not really.
>>1658952>You're acting like happiness is impossible unless you get whatever you desire sexually.What the fuck is wrong with you people? I get some people are so blindly triggered by the idea of getting dumped for someone with a bigger dick, but relax for 8 seconds and read what I wrote and do your best not to extrapolate that into all your insecurities. I was referring strictly to baby-making as a reason to stay in a relationship and nothing else, which is exactly why I quoted it and said that's what I meant, holy shit lmao.
>>1658953While we're on the topic of not reading in one's own insecurities, I was not stating that the guy should stay with the woman only because of her ability to bear children. The emphasis is on the existing relationship, which is actually pretty significant if they've lasted four years. Presumably this indicates a certain level of compatibility. I am not saying baby making is the only reason to stay in a relationship. No one says that.
>>1658961Are you serious right now? Is this guy serious? Holy shit I literally couldn't have made it any clearer in that last comment and yet you're still arguing about whatever bullshit situation leading up to it that I didn't even fully read. I was talking about that line specifically, not whatever happened with that guy and his partner, again, hopefully this comment will get through your thick skull this time but I feel we're both wasting both of our time.
>>1658961And by the way, yes you were, that's exactly why you wrote >Throwing away four years of history with someone who could actually bear you children is perhaps not the smartest decision"Actually bear you" meaning that this person is a woman and can give you kids and therefore less pointless, if we're going to keep adding a bunch of connotations to what the other person is saying.
>>1658963stop shitting on this retard its making my head hurt>totally not a samefag btw
>>1658964You mean there aren't 3 angry anons defending this retard and it actually might be one person so flustered by the idea that they'd be dumped for a better sex life that they have to pretend other people are agreeing with them? Even though anyone with a brain can see that they actually agree and they're not really arguing over anything?
>>1658965I think you might be right, totally not me.
>>1658962>>1658963I'm sorry to break it to you, but you're the one who is functionally illiterate here.
>>1658967>6 minutes later>more projective criticismThe mind of your typical reactionary overanalyzing tumblr user folks.
>>1658968Sorry dude, but I've got better things to do with my time than refresh this page every 10 seconds to see if you've responded.
>>1658970But you're free enough to uselessly argue and make yourself look like a reactionary dope on 4chan? It's funny how once someone gets exposed on their idiocy they're all the sudden "too good and busy to deal with you" lmao you frequent this website and you defend things that don't need defending, you're not a step above anyone and don't even pretend otherwise.
>>1658970Also I'm at work atm so don't act like everyone here is just sitting around waiting to see what you have to say, trust me, nobody on the face of the planet is.
>>1658971You got upset that I wasn't responding to you quickly enough and bizarrely interpreted it as evidence of me being a reactionary tumblr user. I corrected you. I'm not sure what it is that you want.
>>1658974>>1658940>>1658944Tumblr is where people of your ilk spend most of their time. I thought you were too busy and were doing too many important things to spend your time here? And you take my tone wrong, I rarely get upset reading this site, it's just far too easy and oddly satisfying to shit on some of the people here and their laughable statements.
>>1658939>>1658974Quoted the wrong one but you hopefully remember what you said now.
>>1658976Yes, this is what I wrote:>I think you're overestimating how long sexual "joy" lasts in a relationship. Even if you marry the guy of your dreams, you'll still want something new and fun eventually in which case you'll have the same problem of "oh noes, I'm in a joyless relationship".>I'd argue that reproducing and working to have a stable family is a far greater joy than fucking a new attractive guy every few months.Lets assume that I am very stupid. Would you respond to this clearly and without wasting both of our times with ad hominems?
>>1658979No because THATS NEVER WHAT THIS WAS ABOUT? This is painful, you're a painfully stupid individual. It, like I've said so many fucking times now, was about that mans assertion that the ability to have children made the relationship worthwhile on some level, or at least that's how I interpreted it. Maybe his intent was different than how it was receive but either way it was nothing that had to be defended or corrected considering the context of this board. You had nothing to do with it, assuming you didn't write that comment. Man, it hurts me knowing that there's hordes of people like you out there and they all can vote. With each passing day Trumps election surprises me less. >Lets assume that I am very stupid.So far beyond that it's ludicrous. By the way you still haven't left yet, convincing attempt at appearing like you don't care anymore though.
>>1658981This was also me:>It's fun and all, but ultimately just pleasure driven. Throwing away four years of history with someone who could actually bear you children is perhaps not the smartest decision.I'm not saying that the ability to have children should be the sole reason for entering into a relationship. As I think I later clarified, a relationship lasting for four years implies a certain level of compatibility. It seems a shame to throw away a long term relationship that could lead to a lifelong family for a quick fling that can't be anything other than sterile.
>>1658992You’re arguing for something I never disagreed with and then misconstruing the issues I had with it. At no point did I imply that you said children should be the sole reason for entering a relationship, the fact that that’s what your brain turned it into says a lot. You must be absolutely unbearable to talk anything real with, you sound like you’re giving a shitty college presentation on valuing relationships nobody asked for. Again I don’t support what he did, I disagreed with your statement in the only way it could logically be interpreted without further clarification, the fact that you still haven’t understood it is frankly baffling to me.
can you stop ruining this thread and post pics of hung friends or catfish the guy in the OP. thanks.
one of my best friends now, and former flight instructor i worshipped is at LEAST 9 inches, really thick and he's uncut... and it's driving me fucking insane wanting to know why he wasn't cut (in the U.S.) pic related he also is gay and teases me for looking like a jew (i'm not) ugh, why won't he just breed me.sorry for stupid snapchat picture
>>1659083super gay face
>>1646519looks good to me though
>>1658299Bump for more sad ben
>>1659083>gay face>snapchat>dog faceInto the oven it goes
>>1659083>dog filternot even once
my bi friend will tease me with dick pics and snapchat videos but i think he's anxious about letting me suck him off, i've also never approached him about it since i dont wanna jeopardise our friendship
>>1659120>>1659138>>1659140more monster cock for me
>>1659155he constantly teases but wont breed me :|
>>1659318Gonna keep bumping this shit till I hear from you, you either know who it is and wont take a chance or this is somehow someone else, cmon man I messaged you about 10 times and never heard back, what have you got to lose.
>>1659156hot! any more teases.>>1659142whats his sc?
>>16591559in huh? Well thank god because he's missing a chin.
>>1645915anon what happened?
>>1659723They're probably happily dating/fucking now and nowhere near this piece of shit board *COUGH COUGH*
>>1659737Bump for this and I'm out of here
>>1654376 oh shit lol i meant 6.5 wtf... More of him btw
>>1649578I have a friend. I don't know if he's hung, but I've fallen in love with him. And he doesn't love me back. Wiser words were never said : It's over, bc it never was to begin with. Move on. Find somebody, who won't run over your heart.
>>1663327>Move on. Find somebody, who won't run over your heart.It's not a choice sadly, If I had the option to I think I wouldn't care about him as much as I do but it is what it is. And as far as the second line, he's sent more than enough signals my way, I think more sexual attraction than romantic, but whether anything will come of it, I'm less sure. I just really like him and felt like he really liked me and thought we'd be good for each other. Maybe I'm the only one who thought that.
Thread needs more pics, like guys with big bulges in sweatpants and things like that.
>>166340Dayum looking at that pic again, did your cock get bigger? And you shaved and are looking all skinnyfit... and of course handsome as always. I'd def dick you if you were back in the area, to make up for the dicking I never gave you. Maybe trade some hot vids and pics too. Beyond that, it was so far in the past and we're in such different places... any romantic feelings I had have faded. Either way you're cute and you turn me on.
>>1663410To be clear I'm referring to years in the past, in a place I no longer live, in what was a couple months. It's hard to go back to that.
>>1663392I say fuck that anon, keep your hopes up and wish for the best!
>>1663444It depends on the situation I guess. Some things are less possible than others.
>>1645915It's been 1 month, anon. Update us!!!
My mate is hung always a big bulge in his joggers, seen him hard with morning wood turns me on loads
one of my friends is hung as fuck and jokingly brags out it, little does he know i jack off to him every night.
How evil would I be for catfishing a friend? I know it wouldn't be hard because he's single and is in a bunch of lewd Discord servers.
>>1644523Ig gone. Did y'all kweens spam him asking for d?
>>1649578Don't make a move, don't force your buddy to choose, it's shit, putting yourself into situation like "love me or not" is the worst scenario you can get, just spend some more quality time with your buddy, like you two can emotionally depend on each other
>>1664758I tried that, I wanted to do it the "normal" way it seems for straight guys which is a drunken mistake or something spontaneous occurs to drop the barrier (really fucking annoying desu, why cant it ever be "hey lets go hang out ;)" and then you can fool around nbd, but I guess that's admitting your gayness to yourself on some level and they can't fucking have that) but it just never happened. Aside from the fact that he would on and off respond to my texts, and the only way I saw him was through other friends. And things just felt tense enough that the only way anything would ever happen is being direct. In addition to all this it seems a lot like he's already fucking some of my other friends and quite possibly fellow marines, which makes it hurt and makes me bitter simultaneously, so theres been more than one occasion where I said "fuck this and fuck this guy". At this point I've basically given up. There's too many men in the world to be treated this way by one and to still keep trying. I just wanted to vent it out here, thanks for the input though. All in all he's more than a little bit of a prick (literally and figuratively a big dick) and I just haven't been able to file my feelings away, and I'm not happy about any of it. Oh and he's one of the more emotionally callused over people I've ever met or at least the worst at handling it, the idea that you can emotionally depend on someone at some level who can't even talk to you or be real with you at any point over the stretch of years seems laughable. He's a self professed asshole and a shit communicator, those are his words, not mine. I'm just waiting for reality to catch up with my feelings.
>>1664758You know what, I just decided to block him from all social media and remove him out of my life as much as possible, thank you for making me realize this. It's pointless sitting around hoping to hear from someone like this, when he's made it so perfectly clear he couldn't give less of a shit, and probably fucking around with other guys while I sit here with my dick in my hand. I'll leave my phone on in case he ever wants to reach me but I'd be shocked if he ever does. I'm tired of waiting, I have a lot to offer as a BF and plenty of guys who are interested and I'm in my mid 20's now. I don't like sounding arrogant, but I know I'm pretty hot, pretty smart, and being from a really rich family doesn't hurt either. I know there's someone better out there willing to be real and direct with me instead of toying around like a bunch of coy 13 year olds. I'm done with any sort of fucking games since that's apparently all he wants to do. Or maybe he's not playing a game at all and he just doesn't care, or wanted my attention. I know some people just like to feel wanted and couldn't give a flying fuck about the other person. Either way...Damn I wish I'd come to this conclusion years ago. I guess your emotions don't work like that. Well you probably didn't mean for it but thank you for prompting in answer with me. I guess that's why being honest can be so good, it can help reach resolutions and peace in your own mind so much quicker.
>>1664769Although I am not intended to draw you into this conclusion, it's still a good news you are now starting to get away from false hope, it always takes time to realize something, don't blame yourself too much on that, cheers mate
>>1664794I don't blame myself as much anymore, there's just nothing you can do with some people, as hard as you try. I didn't handle it well but I know I tried, and I put myself out there and embarrassed myself enough, which is far more than he can say. I'm logging off this site now, for good. My phone will be on if he ever wants to reach me, but I don't ever expect to hear anything so maybe I'll just leave my goodbye to him here, like this, on this pile of shit website. It seems fitting.
>>1664480as long as you dont show his face, then it's not evil at all
>>1664799I should add that I get a shit load of spam phone calls and text is the way to go, unless on a number I already have. Idk why I'm saying this, I just really miss him. I wanna hang out and chill and watch parks and rec while we lay close on the couch together, after a chill night of drinking beers and talking, and if things get sexual, great, if not, OK, I still miss and want him as a friend. But there's been so many times... We watched the Oscars together one night and it felt like we were already dating, the way we were sitting so close and talking softly to each other, my heart has basically ached since then. Austin always makes me feel like this, ugh... Anyways sorry, I'll wrap this up.