[a / b / c / d / e / f / g / gif / h / hr / k / m / o / p / r / s / t / u / v / vg / vr / w / wg] [i / ic] [r9k / s4s / vip / qa] [cm / hm / lgbt / y] [3 / aco / adv / an / asp / bant / biz / cgl / ck / co / diy / fa / fit / gd / hc / his / int / jp / lit / mlp / mu / n / news / out / po / pol / qst / sci / soc / sp / tg / toy / trv / tv / vp / wsg / wsr / x] [Settings] [Search] [Home]
Board
Settings Home
/lgbt/ - Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, & Transgender



Thread archived.
You cannot reply anymore.



File: 1523884280885.jpg (103 KB, 708x1000)
103 KB
103 KB JPG
How do I stop having broken bird syndrome focused on trans girls?
>>
>>10431695
Bump
>>
>>10431695
having what faggot
>>
im not familiar with broken bird syndrome D:
>>
>>10431708
i don't know what he/she/me's talking about, either.
>>
File: pepe.jpg (35 KB, 550x422)
35 KB
35 KB JPG
Brainlets itt
>>
>>10431708
what is google
>>
>>10431695

Realize that every tranny is a lost cause. I think in the end technology will make me cute, but you don't want to stick around 20 years with me while I wait.

>>10431712
>>10431708

>https://pairedlife.com/advice/BrokenBirdSyndrome
>A man with broken bird syndrome will flock to these types of “damaged” women in hopes of fixing them
>>
>>10431695
Oh shit op this explains me.
>>
File: 1512356856833.jpg (40 KB, 500x452)
40 KB
40 KB JPG
>>10431695
pls don't stop anon, we need people like you :c
>>
>>10431731
No
I feel like I'm using you and it's not healthy for either party.
>>
File: 1517968138340.jpg (41 KB, 500x730)
41 KB
41 KB JPG
>>10431750
how is it using us?
>>
>>10431695
Find a trans girl who's only stressed out about normal life problems and gives zero fucks about whether she passes or not, but still puts effort into her appearance and is cute.

i.e., a unicorn.
>>
>>10431763
because in reality it should just be that I go on a date with a girl that I like, but whether or not she's trans is just pure happenstance

instead I seek them out on this board since that's where they are, and I feel like a rotten person for it
>>
i think i have this in reverse, three guys i have tried to date were clinically depressed to the point of realising they were unable to have a regular relationship
people can only be fixed if they want to be and try and make a change themselves
>>
>>10431789
there is nothing creepy or weird about being the light in a tranner's life that makes it worth living. ():<
>>
>>10431695
I have the same problem. I fantasies about having a t-gf that I can love, support and make feel like a cute girl.
>>
>>10431976
Then do it! Love her forever and ever and make her the happiest girl in the world!
>>
>>10432003
Not him, but I don't know any trans girls and I avoid them because I know I'd just be exploiting them
>>
>>10431695
I know this feel.
It's nice to feel needed, I sometimes actually fantasize about cuddling a crying transgirl, telling her we don't have to leave the bed until she feels better, how ever long that takes, if it's hours or if it's till we fall asleep. Spending time to do things to reaffirm her femininity like carrying her around and buying her perfumes and stuff.

I think the crux of it is my emotions will very much reflect her, if she is depressed for any reason I think I would be depressed because it would be a failure on my part. I think I just really need to feel needed.
>>
>>10432003
I don't know were to meet one.

>>10432012
I don't feel like I'm exploiting them I just want to help them.
>>
>>10431695
so you just have shitty self esteem and this makes you feel better?
>>
>>10432065
I just feel hypocritical since it's only trans girls and not other groups that I want to help
>>
Oh fuck I just realised that this is why I date fucked up girls, and don't have a problem with transgirls.
>>
Semi-related, how do I stop seeing sadtranners as a deus ex machina for incels?
>>
>>10433551
Try not being such a piece of shit?
>>
File: 1532092637938.jpg (62 KB, 736x509)
62 KB
62 KB JPG
>tfw was a chaser with broken bird syndrome and now i'm a boymoder who wants a bf who's like this but only in a good way
>>10432028
fuck
i wish i had this so much
when i just don't want to leave the house cause i feel so ugly we'd just cuddle and i'd be held so tightly the hours would just pass by.....
and when i woke up he'd be there for me...........
>>
>>10432028
Are you single...
>>
>>10433563
That's pretty much the plan.
>>
File: celestinaEating.jpg (119 KB, 1280x720)
119 KB
119 KB JPG
fuck me like i had a moist crevasse, grind into by vermilion space as hard as you can.

Broken bird syndrome is when you attach yourself to a small thing that may die. Some care for a short time some not at all and some care for them under such great Bart like protection that the egg grows up to be a lizard.

Bird being a woman as in a broken women.

Some of us are incels, some of us are agender, some of us are sluts, but we are transwomen and transmen.

Broken bird syndrome is when you are protecting an living thing from dying.

My advice, pick someone with goals additionally to transitioning like getting a Masters working 2 jobs and living within their means. Stuff like that.

I'd say that the most important part is to learn to love your bisexuality and that you are really into men and women but dont want to be a

androphile
or
gynophile.

Rather bisexuality and understanding the fluidity of gender in which /pol/ understands us as gender norms.

I feel that gender norms are unfair to be only dependent on gentiles . Gender norms and conditioning should be the choice of the parents and kid.
>>
>>10434018
No, I meant it in a who cares way. I wasn't calling either those 2 groups pieces of shit.
>>
>>10431695
>tfw bf and I are both broken and broken bird chaser
>>
>>10432028
What if she was sexual, like so sexual would you love her in her happiness and her tears... this bipolar roller coaster.

Would you love her penis or vagina, nothing or uterus and Fallopian Tubes.
>>
>>10434052
Mixed feelings on that one friend because I don't even want to see your tears.
>>
>>10433884
Yea but I doubt you would be close
>>10434052
Sex is good, I would want to have it when ever she does. Both pre op and post op would be fine if that's what you are arguing
>>
>>10434132
aww isn't bisexuality the best!

>>10434084
would you want to feel my flogger and leash?
>>
>>10434270
>would you want to feel my flogger and leash?
At this point I might as well I am too soft to be a top. This is bullshit wtf.
>>
I've been emailing a guy I met on here for a month. I'm wondering if he's just like this too.
>>
>>10434051
jelly of this feel
>>
>>10431725
Oh shit i absolutely have that
>>
>>10431695
Lmao oh thank god OP I am a broken trans girl who needs a savior. Like seriously guys, I was practically begging this one girl (I’m a bi trap) to save me and cuddle me. I was even telling her all about how I have trauma shit from my past and like how sensitive and girly I am but never got to be treated like that. Anyway long story short she has me on a leash right now (metaphor) and she likes hearing me cry over the phone because she knows she can end it but won’t even let me know how she feels. I send her pics of my breasts as payment for her being like my impromptu baby sitter. Lol I just wish I had a strong knight (male or female idc) to save me
>>
File: fbsa2tm1w.jpg (491 KB, 1280x1063)
491 KB
491 KB JPG
>>10438163
jesus christ
>>
>>10438163
Kind of want tbhon
I don't know how bad that makes me
>>
Don't think of broken bird syndrome as a problem, think of it as a strategy. You're investing in partners who society would normally neglect who might be good picks otherwise. You're also leveraging what are probably at least okay nurturing skills making you an especially good pick.

This is essentially the same strategy as Barney Stinson's Investment strategy but you're concentrating your efforts on one mark.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xqrYjUEkmQs
>>
>>10432028
Are you me? Does this make me a bad person?
>>
>>10438306
Yeah it's also a "diamond in the rough" thing, which tbhon is motivated at least in part by low self-esteem as well as an unwillingness to settle and make do.
>>
>>10438848
Wow anon you just have it all figured out. Now explain away the stuff you do for me.
>>
>>10438163
okay just be in cali
>>
>>10438163
Midwest?
>>
>>10434024
>>10431725
>>A man with broken bird syndrome will flock to these types of “damaged” women in hopes of fixing them
As a "damaged" "woman" (tranny), I feel like the types of man who does this is going to be among the worst at fixing me.




Delete Post: [File Only] Style:
[Disable Mobile View / Use Desktop Site]

[Enable Mobile View / Use Mobile Site]

All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties. Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.