How do I, as a straight man, find a husstuss irl? No escorts or grindr.
>>41674216You, as a gamp, don't.
>>41674216where do you think husstusses hang out irl, man?
>>41674216You could've easily left your sexuality out. Clearly you're looking for attention by calling yourself "straight". It's ok to like dick.
>>41674219>A gampWe GAMPs are just a type of heterosexual. I'm not even a strict one since I like cis women too.>>41674230Apart from gay bars (no luck there, maybe just going to the wrong ones) or grindr (never going there), I don't know.
>>41674216At church
>>41674216She got srs so you can’t be a bottom chaser
>>41674216There's essentially no shot at a functional happy healthy straight heterosexual relationship between cis m and trans woman without using grindr or equivalent app. As a tranny who has been heterosexually dating for years, I can actually explain this in detail like a professor Jiang lecture but bullet points will have to do.>1. Poolsmainstream straight men want a cis woman. For the minority who who would consider something with tranny. No healthy relationship is going to start that way. No one deals with rejection well and trannies are no exception.>2. the stealth conundrumFor a trans woman to succeed in a mainstream dating environment she has to be either stealth or stealth passing. It's not actually being stealth that is the hard part: it's the conundrum. If she tells him she's trans she is dating a man who may see her as less than a woman. If she does not tell him, she is dating someone who might not ever accept who she really is.>3. CommitmentOne of the things poisoning modern app originated relationships is the hesitance to commit due to fear of missing out on someone better. A straight man will always be afraid of committing to a tranny because he is worried about settling. But on grindr, a tranny seeking a monogamous relationship is desirable relative to the swarms of old hairy pozzed gay men looking for casual.[1/2]
>>41675302Already have to correct typos:**>1. PoolsSentence two should read "for the minority who would consider something with a trans woman, they will usually be seeing her as a downgrade from the start, and may wonder what else is "wrong" with her.
>>41675302[2/2]>4. Risk/reward: one of the other problems with modern dating apps is the unenjoyable user experience. Most interactions don't go anywhere, most dates don't go anywhere, if you do get a good hookup that person will often ghost you. In short, it's demoralizing. Trans women are probably more vulnerable to demoralization than cis people because it threatens their identity. This means bad experiences will cause trans women to self select out. On grindr Expectations are much lower, casual sex is expected, and crude behavior is normalized. Just by acting reserved, polite, and normal a trans girl can quickly distinguish herself from the pack. Right from the get go she has sex in the bag if she wants it, and if it goes well the guy will probably want seconds-- and it's the second dates that lead to relationships. In sum, grindr is an environment where trans women get the handicap that cis women get on straight apps. They are praised and propositioned to basically just for existing. It is very easy to out compete fags on grinder. Instead of competing with cis women with better proportions you're competing with gross men no one wants, not even most gay men.
>>41674216GAMPs are cursed because they either have to be groomers or rich, the 10/10 hussy is essentially illegal. And those ones usually get SRS. Anyway, go to Philly
>>41674216Depends what kind of girl you’re lookin for??
>>41675302>One of the things poisoning modern app originated relationships is the hesitance to commit due to fear of missing out on someone better. A straight man will always be afraid of committing to a tranny because he is worried about settling. But on grindr, a tranny seeking a monogamous relationship is desirable relative to the swarms of old hairy pozzed gay men looking for casual.This is a woman perspective (congrats on entitlement-passing ig?), men's fear of commitment is not FOMO or honestly even actual fear, it's just calculation and experience of rewards we get for commitment. A LOT of women out there think "commited" means "now that he's locked down, I can give him less while expecting more". We catch on and don't invest in more than hookups because why would you invest with a negative ROI.Points 1 and 2 are kind of redundant and could be rolled into point 4, but I can't argue with 4 tbqh.
>>41674216Discord: Angelic.txtLet's see if we vibe. See you!
>>41675424is the invite open to any other anons?*wink wink*
>>41675424>she doesn't know
as a "chaser" of 20 years i am compelled to write my book on dating trannies successfully>when you're young date older ones so you gain experience, your youth excuses your ineptitude >when you're older date the younger ones because you know how todone
>>41675252>She got srsFuuuuuuuuccccckkkkkk. I never woulda had a chance with her even if she was unmutilated since I don't live in the US>bottom chaserFuck off. Just because a man prefers a gock to an SRS hole, it doesn't mean you want said cock in your ass.>>41675343>PhillyI'm not american.>>41675360One that is pretty and has a cock. I'm okay with vag too but since trans women can't get them, it's gock or nothing.
>>41674216>as a straight man
>>41675844I'm after a passoid so I'm still straight.
>>41674216Why not use Grindr? Unironically it's where they congregate, I hooked up with three of them there in 2023.
>>41675548Okay let's try
>>41676269>not accepting requestsoh, you're *up there* up there...
>>41676307I'm just down here actually lol. I have time now, I'm open to talk on discord for a bit!
Does anyone else think its weird that the gay board is overrun by people who want to have sex with the same sex but have all these restrictions on how you can have sex and which parts can be sexualized and want to larp as heterosexual couples while claiming to be gay allies?
>>41676351>does anyone else think it's weird that 4chan is full of weird peopleno?
>>41676329still not openi'll put mine down anyways @anonfromthesea
So glad I got SRS and no longer appeal to chasers, who are always low value men.
>>41676443Chaser here, I prefer SRS. You're probably not that high value though so I'll have to pass, good luck out there!
>>41676131Dating apps are shit for finding love. For a one night stand maybe.
>>41677096If you want love, date cis women. Trannoids are for porn and escorting. If you find one who claims to be looking for a relationship, what she's really looking for is a gullible rube who will pay up once she's got him hooked by saying all the right things.
>>41677113This is unfortunately truet.chaser who has been stung (no pun intended) too many times
