Why don't you want a girlfriend?
I became too comfy being alone
Because women are evil and they hurt me.
I used to be a janitor at a high school and would change how the tampon disposals in the women's room. Pussies smell awful and completely turned me off from women
Because I'm honestly a shitty person, don't make much, and don't love myself. I have a lot of baggage and don't want to put that on someone. I fucked up the only relationship I ever had through my insecurities and anxiety, still a virgin tho.I wouldn't put my shit on someone, unless they wanted me to, but I'm an oblivious aspie so I probably wouldn't notice the tells anyways.I'm getting better, though. I'm using habit to dig myself out of the hole.It's still fun to shitpost on /r9k/ about tfwnogf tho. Because I do, and yet I really don't want one.
im not confident enough another person would enjoy my company and funpost on /r9k/ together
>>42459076because i want to be more than friends with them
>>42459076Have you ever had a girlfriend? Theyre insanely insecure and demanding. They want like x phone calls a week, and theyre always testing to see if you remember their birthday, your bf/gf anniversary, etc. Having a girlfriend is very often a negative, damaging experience, a good percentage of men only do it to fit in, out of peer pressure essentially.
>>42459076I cycle through phases of really wanting one and not wanting one at all. I've only ever been in one relationship, though it lasted for quite some time. I really miss the companionship aspect where I always had someone to talk to and do nice things for, as well as sleeping next to somebody and having somebody to make love to, but I don't miss having all of my money taken and being mistreated and not being able to live my life for myself. I find myself in sort of an interesting position in my mid-twenties where I have probably six years of various things that I need to take care of in terms of my goals before being able to settle into a relationship and support a family, but being at the perfect age to settle down. I'll probably compromise and marry a younger girl once all of my ducks are in a row. There are certain nights where I'm unbearably lonely, though, and am tempted to just compromise so that I can pursue a relationship now. I've always really wanted a family, and it's rough to see all of my siblings married, but such is life.
Nobody deserves so little.
>>42459076I'm schizoid>>42459325Get a hooker. Get an imaginary gf. Emotionally attach yourself to pornstars.
I had one for a few months. It was ok. I have a lot of other things to do. And not having anxiety about being a virgin anymore is comfy enough for me.
Women are a lot of work. You have to do things for them, pay attention to them, provide stimulating conversation, provide an environment where they can have fun, help them tackle their problems and provide emotional/financial support or they'll grow dissatisfied and dump you for another guy who can better cater to her needs. You're supposed to be prince charming for them and it's a lot of pressure.Same can be said for both genders though. Relationships aren't easy. I'm just tired of getting broken up with and ghosted because I wasn't good enough and I don't want another repeat experience of disappointing them and having it get broken off. These women know they can do better.
>>42459460>get a hooker>get an imaginary gf>emotionally attach yourself to pornstarsWhat about>become the gf?
I do want a gf, I just know I'm not that desirable and will be able to get a fatty at best. Why bother?
I'm terrified of having something I risk losing
Women are a lot of effort and a lot of constant pressure to be good so that she still likes you. Constant performance anxiety when I'm around them. They aren't worth that. They're pedantic and childish. Schopenhauer was right about women.I'm perfectly happy with my femboy trap gf.
>>42459076>gfI can't even afford a car
I really don't know why, the last time I actually wanted a gf was when I was 13, that was before I discovered futanari and trap porn; might be some correlation.
>>42459076I got cheated on in what I thought was a great relationship.
I do. I almost had one too before my insecurities got the better of me.
>>42460603Well, she obviously didn't think the relationship was that great.
>>42460613Yeah, tell me about it. If that bar I reached where I thought I was a great boyfriend wasn't enough to stop me from being cheated on, a bar that I'll never be able to reach again, why even bother?
>>42460635Either you weren't trying hard enough or she was that one in a million Eva Braun girl