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Would anyone ever date a girl with BPD/Bipolar or are we just doomed to cut ourselves to death alone?
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>>46760077
I don't really want to be cheated on. If they were loyal and crazy then yes I would in a heartbeat
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>>46760077
Only if you'll date a bipolar guy
(Seriously please love me)
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>>46760077
be my insane BPD gf
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>>46760077
Crazy is only attractive if it's a clingy tsundere because nobody wants to be cucked. Even then nobody wants to die
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>>46760077
>yes
>no
just love me already
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>>46760110
Fuck I mean yandere sorry I don't speak weeblish
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>>46760110
>nobody wants to die
Where do you think you are
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>>46760087
>>46760110
I'm wayy to fucking loyal and devoted for my own good desu, I used to be polyarmours but honestly I think that was only to appease a partner of mine as well
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>>46760077
Unfortunantly yes, sad to say I really liked a bpd girl but it ended horribly shit
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>>46760077
No, absolutely not. I'd cum in one if that's what you're asking, but dating one is just asking to be cucked
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pretty sure I have BPD but the person i'm dating is probably oblivious to it b/c I hide that shit mostly. I don't cut anymore but my right thigh's all fucked and i get shit mood swings. it's been 4 months in though so I'm not thoroughly convinced they are scared of me
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>>46760094
as long as you're not angry/scary bipolar
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>>46760161
>tfw ignored, and no BPD gf
This is why you'll remain single
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>>46760161
Then just be my girlfriend already geez
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I'm gonna be honest when I say I've heard more warnings about BPD girls making your life hell than girls with any other mental disability. There's a stigma, I don't actually know how valid it is, but there's a strong stigma.

I would legit hide that you had BPD and ease a husbando into it.
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>>46760077
I would because I know I'm not perfect myself, I'm freaking broken. But I don't think it would be good for either of us, I'm pretty avoidant, but I get used very easily. We would just make each other worst, and I don't think I can handle something like that everyday. But I would definitely try.
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>>46760190
I hope things work out okay ! I always do my best to hide as much as I can too, I wear lots of long sleeve jumpers and try isolate myslef when moods get hard and swingy
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>>46760256
>I would legit hide that you had BPD
BPD girls already do that. Their MO is to be sweet and caring and everything you dreamed about during the honeymoon phase. Then they suck a drug dealers cock and fuck their exes behind your back once they get bored.
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>>46760285
yeah, i'm hoping too. I wanted to get back to cutting and bought some razors at cvs the other day but they're still sitting there... waiting... i haven't cut in 2+ years and I get really scared that i'll need it again.
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>>46760077
You know who has it worse? BPD guys
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>>46760311
That's why you get a bpd girl who has anxiety too duh? when I had my gf I talked to literally no one else but her besides gaming people online
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>>46760311
This. They're just evil. They purposefully do bad things
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>>46760325
Try your best! I believe in you, if you need to self harm try some other ways first before going to blades, even just eating some junk food or slapping yourself leaves less of an impact than the razors <3
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>>46760207
No, I get really hyper though and kinda Pervy? I don't think im scary, but then again I haven't talked to anyone in a while so idk also I've never raised my voice so
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>>46760344
I mean, some guys are into cuckolding. I don't think everyone is, though. You're a perfect match for her, and so is her drug dealer
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>>46760207
do you have a discord or kik bpd girl
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>>46760375
That's good, I can get super hyper too haha, that and the depressive episodes, I haven't been able to be pervy in a long time desu >/>
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>>46760346
>They purposefully do bad things
Yup. There very hot/cold in relationships and will go from loving you unendingly to literally hating every aspect of your being and will do anything just to hurt you during those times.
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>>46760419
That's fine cuz idk for some reason everyone has said that I'm too energetic for some reason and then they stop talking to me like after ten minutes, but that's just cuz I have so much to talk about and everything so I guess it can be overwhelming idk idk idk
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>>46760464
I honestly love talking and listening to people, I can go on or sit and listen for hours and hours with the right people c:
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>>46760077
In theory: no
In practice: I have a massive hero complex and I have trouble letting people go once I get attached to them, so a BPD girl could easily pull me in if she wanted.
>implying any girl would want to
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No. BPD is not good. Perhaps bipolar if their manic phases aren't unmanageable.
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>>46760526
>>46760464
One of you be my BPD qt
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>>46760526
THATS AWESOME I love talking about tons of stuff like frogs and lizards and frogs and spiders and stuff oh yeah I hum a lot cuz I have so much energy it's crazy. What kinda things do you like?
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all the women in my family are bpd so im used to them and know what to expect. so basically gib bpd gf
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>considering BPD girls
NO. This is where "don't stick your dick in crazy" comes from. Pretty much all other mental illness can be managed within a relationship with love and patience. Not BPD
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>>46760589
Begone, lizard man!
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>>46760077
>tfw I have dated one of your kind
It killed me inside but 10/10 would do again because its one wild ride
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>>46760370
thanks. i need jst... some sort of impulse control. I've been non-stop spending to take place for cutting mostly. that or start drawing, learning a new language, etc.
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>>46760586
as long as u are a qt uwu
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>>46760606
Yeah I agree BPD is literally what men are primarily referring to when they say don't stick your dick in crazy. The fear of BPD girls is so real men literally developed pre-internet memes to warn other men.
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>>46760589
I've been big into history out of nooooo where lol, I can infodump sometimes about that and other random things and it upsets people somtimes > . < I love frogs n lizards ! though spiders are a lil spooky to me
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>>46760617
I'm sorry I'll leave then please forgive me
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>>46760620
Drawning and a new language sounds fun as heck ! any ideas for a language?
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bpd crazy girls are our only hope. they're crazy enough to maybe give robots a shot, because they're insane, and normie guys don't really want to deal with their shit
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>>46760672
This, robots are deeply superficial and have unrealistically high standards of attractiveness, while being fairly clingy if they do find somebody because they think they will never do that well again. BPD + Robots are a perfect match because normies have standards of sanity and stability that cause them to reject even attractive BPD girls.
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>>46760647
Oooooooo cool I love history too! Mostly stuff during the Germanic migrations mostly cuz it's a mostly untouched topic? Idk it's cool I like learning about how large groups of people moved around all over the world keeping their culture mostly intact. I info dump lots and lots too. Why do you think spiders are spooky? They're really cute and harmless and they eat flies which I HATE. I'm glad you like reptiles and frogs that's so awesome
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i was emotionally damaged by a bpd or bipolar girl and now my relationships don't feel right unless i'm with one
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>>46760077
Meh, too flirty and disloyal to trust.
You'll carve a guys name on your nailbeds today and fuck another tomorrow.
Both things are totally his fault, you'll claim. He was too perfect the first and not perfect enough the next.
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>>46760710
Robots have sanity, too, you fucking deranged lunatic. Robots are the rejects of mankind, not the crazies. BEGONE!
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>>46760722
There is a significant overlap between crazy people and the people society rejects.
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>>46760712
ooooh yeah o: early european migrations is such a big topic that seems super cool and I wanna get into it some time !!!! I think spiders are spooky because I hear they can kill people or make you feel bad and I know that in my country there arent any that can kill you >.> but in other countrys they can !! but they're so smalland their legs are bigggg aaaaaaa
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>>46760747
Yeah, crazies don't belong here.
>>>/soc/
>>>/out/
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NEVER TRUST A BDP GIRL
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>>46760621
okay deal
now we trade contacts?
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Would anyone here date a female shizophrenic? asking for a friend of course
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>>46760813
Yes if she'd let me cuddle her
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>>46760763
ISNT IT AN AWESOME TOPIC!!??? I'd love to teach your more about it that'd be so cool!!! What country are you from? Tell me about what it's like there? I'm kinda tired cuz I have to wake up early and water my plants, but if you wanna trade contacts we can it'd be awesome chatting with you more and more
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I propably would but she'd propably get bored of me or think I don't love her or some other dumb meme.
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>>46760813
only if i can also bang her alternate personality
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>>46760659
I'm currently learning Mandarin Chinese. The numbers are same to Japanese numbers (which I attempted learning first) and I really enjoy figuring out the pronunciation and tones! It's like a challenge, but not too hard! I'm something of a polyglot in training.

I'm also making personas of 7 different mtn. dew flavors, so there's that! pictured here is the original mtn dew girl, Maddie Dubois!
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Literally full of autists.
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>>46760821
Fucking quit it, already. I can practically SMELL the fakeness
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>>46760813
Since female schizophrenics are usually in their late 20s-30s at least, no, since I'm young. On paper though sure.
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>>46760813
Definitely, as long as she trusts me
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>>46760813
Yeah but even schizo girls only want Chad
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>>46760824
Is that a ghastly?
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Male bpd is probably common here actually, google second best syndrome.

And op I wouldn't date you because you're clearly just another asshole.
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>>46760813
Depends. What would you say are your friends difficulties?
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>>46760865
Shit I meant to reply to someone who said some shit about male bpd, somewhere.
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>>46760077
Would you let me sperg out with your feet?
We might have a deal here
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>>46760829
Cool ! Yeah I hear tones are super important when speaking Mandarin, I'm glad you're enjoying it ! ^^ and aaaahhhh thats so cool !!!! I love her
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>>46760077
No, I've already done it once and she unironically drove me the closest I've ever been to actually committing suicide, I stopped myself short on my walk to the bridge I was going to jump off of

>I love you, we're forever, we're soulmates

>Oh, you only said "ily gn" last night without a heart at the end?
>I'm going to be a bitch to you all week
>I cheated on you by the way, and I barely feel your dick inside me
>His dick is so big though
>Haha I'm just kidding, stop being so sensitive
>Of course I love you
>Not as much as his dick though
>Aww poor baby? You want me to say sorry and take it back? What am I your mother? I'm not going to mother you, you need to grow up
>Please just go drive off a bridge then you loser, you'd be a virgin without me
>You don't deserve to know who I cheated on you with

>Why do you believe me when I say things like that?
>You should know I'm just upset and you should handle me
>I'm really sick of you always getting so emotional and being mean to me

You get the idea. All BPD people should be locked up.
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>>46760865
Yes, male BPD means you'll actually be alone for life, unlike women with it who will have a wide variety of sexual and romantic relationships. Like all things in life women have it easier and better.
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>>46760918
Jesus.... maybe I should talk to my psych about reconsidering my diagnosis because I have never been that much of a bitch in my life, I just wanna hurt myself a lot, think everyones better than me and don't want my fp to ever leave me alone 0_0
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>>46760833
That's ok if that's what you think i don't mind!! We can be friends too though if you don't mind me being annoying a lot, I'm looking for anyone to talk to
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>>46760961
You'll justify it in your head, you demon whore
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>>46760918
You should probably man up.
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>>46760821
My discord is Lu-Lu#1732 if you wanna add me ^^
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>>46760161
The thing about Borderline Personality Disorder is that you will say what others will want to hear to manipulate them as you leech of their positive emotions while returning none of that back. And when the person realizes this and talks to you about it, you will then make it out to be their fault and that you aren't to blame. And after that, you will have latched on to another beta orbiter because throughout your relationships, one man isn't enough for your attention whoring.
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>>46760918
What the fuck? Why is any of that bad? You sound like a weak little faggot. Grow the fuck up, dude. Be yourself
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>>46760961
Do you have discord, yes or no
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>>46761016
HOW DARE YOU POST A CATGIRL IN SUCH A TERRIBLE THREAD!? DIE OF RECTAL CANCER YOU WHORE
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>>46761041
Eat shit and die l m a o
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>>46760918
That's pretty tame for a BPD girl. Sorry you had the misfortune of meeting one though dude, good you stopped yourself.
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>>46760077
>tfw am an actual BPD male
>my mom is strongly suspected of being BPD
Females get a pass on being the literal devil Jesus I want to kill you all
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>>46761109
There is nothing I hate in the world more than BPD females. I feel you brother
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>>46760912
yeah! and ta has 3 references, he, she, and it. That's major for tone y'know!! can't be callin ppl it. I want to start listening to c-pop.. the group fanxyred is drool-worthy in looks... nothing i love more than butch looking tomboy girls.
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>>46761127
Being raised by my mom made me sympathetic to serial killers because I understood how they were made my single mothers
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>>46761108
Those are just basic examples, let me tell you more

>Haven't seen each other for a long time
>Finally getting to see each other again
>Aww I love you so much
>Ooooh I love you too
>*hug*
>*sex*

>Baking a cake together because we planned to as some romantic thing for a long time
>She randomly starts screaming at me that she doesn't love me and she doesn't know why she thought she did
>It's like she's confused and arguing with herself
>...I don't love you, what am I doing here?
Unironic psychosis

>Driving out of town to go shopping at this mall
>She gets mad about taking a wrong turn or something, I don't remember
>Turns into her insulting me and saying she's done with me the entire drive
>She can't handle even basic emotional disturbances without breaking up with me and insulting me for hours on end

>Coming home
>She's driving again
>Starts driving eratically
>Swerving out of our lane
>Yell at her to pull over
>She doesn't
>She eventually calms down when I say we might die

>Get home
>"Don't touch me, don't lay a finger on me"
>I'd given no indication that I was going to in fact I wanted her to get the fuck away from me
>"I'm scared"
>*picks up a lamp*
>Starts running at me threatening to kill me
>"I'll bash your brains in if you lay a finger on me"
>I'm literally not doing shit

BPD people are crazy. This is literally where the phrase "don't stick your dick in crazy" comes from
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>>46761207


Avoid BPD women at all costs, you'd rather die alone trust me. You think you can just fuck them once and have fun? Think again

>She's mad at me
>Trying to tell me things to make me jealous
>Tells me how she once cheated on a partner and let another guy cum in her, then went home and her her partner eat her pussy with cum in it
>Said she was so horny she had to
>I started laughing because I was disgusted at this point, not even jealous or angry
>She starts backpedaling and said she did it for him because he enjoyed eating pussy, unlike selfish me who doesn't
>Btw I didn't because it always stank because she never washed it

BPD women are garbage who deserve to die
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>>46761207
>Haven't seen each other for a long time
>Finally getting to see each other again
>Aww I love you so much
>Ooooh I love you too
>*hug*
>*sex*

That's not really crazy. That's pretty normal, if you haven't seen your gf in a while and she DOESN'T want some physical attentions. That's a bad sign
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>>46761215
>Tells me how she once cheated on a partner and let another guy cum in her, then went home and her her partner eat her pussy with cum in it
That's normal behavior for all women desu
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>>46761264
That part of the story wasn't crazy anon, that was me showing you how fast it can go from good to bad

No matter how good it is, it can immediately switch at the flick of her fingers to "I'm going to fuck my ex, you're a loser, go kill yourself lmao, aww poor baby"
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>>46760077
my girlfriend now might have it so I'm trying, keep looking but not here
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>>46760077
Would date absolutely if attractive
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>tfw date BPD girl for 2 years
>dump her when she threatens to kill herself everyday
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>>46760763
There's a black widow that lives in my workplace, my boss said if I kill it I'm fired since he likes it.
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>>46761388
When it actually happens, what should I've done
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>>46761425
Get over yorself your problems been solved. In fact, it solved itself
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>>46760918
imagine being such a weak pussy someone can drive you to suicide by being mean to you
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>>46760918
Reminds me of a girl I was in a relationship with

>Nobody has ever made me come like you, you are perfect
>I'm obsessed with you, I love you more than anything, I would kill for you

>You never made me come, I don't enjoy sex
>You are the worst person I have ever met, the most selfish

>I appreciate everything you do for me, you are better to me than anyone has ever been
>You constantly hurt me, its your fault, it's your fault, are you cheating on me, you abuse me

>Don't you know I don't mean those bad things I say
>Don't make me feel bad about those things, I hate myself already

Absolutely not worth it. Stay away from BPD girls
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>>46760077
Don't do it, guys. I'm serious. It's a bad idea.
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>>46761497
Imagine being such an edgy person you defend the actions of an emotionally manipulative bitch just cause she has a vagina.
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>>46761577
i didnt defend her though, fuck that bitch. I'm just saying you're a pussy if someone can drive you to suicide by being mean to you once.
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>>46760077
Growing up with a sister who had both I would rather not go through that kind of bullshit again.
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>>46760256
my sister has BPD and shes breaks my things
made my childhood hell
its not just a stigma
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>>46761622
It wasn't once. The guy posted more examples he was being legit emotionally abused.
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>>46761662
Based Coffee telling it like it is. No wonder I love you
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>>46760813
no
t. male schizophrenic
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>>46760813
>>46761820
like, i just woke up and had to barricade my door because i thought someone was watching me
absolutely not
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>>46761820
>>46761880
EEW! NO ONE ASKED YOU, CREEP!
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Not BPD, but bipolar and having a bipolar gf I think would be great because we'd actually both understand eachother

Of course, because we're fucked up we'd alternate between having fucked up bizarre sex for days at a time, and then end up trying to kill ourselves (in tandem, or alternating, i'm not picky) since neither of us has the ability to be stable for the other.

But the sex would the stuff of freaky legends.
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>>46762079
don't make me write a slightly sarcastic comment at you, Roastie
i haven't breakfast yet, so i probably can't do it
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I have to, since i have SPD.
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>>46760077
if you're real then prove it
disc: witnessprotectioncc#3737
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>>46760077
Uh ok ill bite im a male with bpd, if u want to talk here u have my discord

s.#6939
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Is she someone I can personally relate to and want to be with? Then yeah, sure.

I don't get these "Would you date X?" questions.
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>>46760077
I'm a guy with BPD. Would you ever date yourself but with a dick?
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>>46760560
>>implying any girl would want to
lol
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I've been with my wife for 5 years, she has bpd and we do just fine. Theres hope for you.
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As a male BPD, the answer is no. I have enough of my own problems to deal with that I can't carry the burden of someone else with BPD too. And if you're a classic borderline you'll probably trigger the shit out of my BPD when your insecurity and self-doubt acts up.

Though to be honest I wouldn't be in a relationship with anyone anyway. Nobody should have to put up with me. I can't even keep basic friendships going, nevermind anything more than that.

I am on Discord if you want to talk but it'd be strictly as friends and I refuse to get too involved in your problems. Just telling you that now.
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>>46760077
Never again, you hear me? It's never happening again.
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>>46760077
I'm with this anon
>>46764475
I dated one of you fucks for five years and it was a hellscape. She locked me out of my apartment, hit my shit, beat with a litany of shit, burned me and basically acted like all I was worth to her was sex. Never again is an understatement, you're not even worth being friends with
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>>46760110
>nobody wants to die
Did you just assume my wishes
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Male BPDs do have it worse. Female BPDs are never short of white knights or naive young men who think with their dick that "it can't be that bad, can it?" and then get trapped in an abusive relationship. Nobody wants to be around a man with BPD, not even others with BPD. They'll always be isolated, alone and actively avoided by others. That's why the suicide rate for men is so fucking high.
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>>46760077
Dated two BPD, would never fucking do it again. Basically the same experience, first month is great then comes the constant mood swings, blowing up of phones, cheating. Thoroughly miserable experience for everyone involved.
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>>46764449
Hey, you wanna talk?
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>>46765321
What's your contact info? Original commento.
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>>46765362
moonboots#9593
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Would anyone ever date a boy with BPD/Bipolar or are we just doomed to cut ourselves to death alone?
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>>46765382
I'd date you Mikanfag, inasmuch as I'd listen to you emotionally go off the rails and try to be helpful, but sadly I'm also a boy. Just be sure to sterilize your cuts.
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BPD girls are undatable literally. I tried for 3 years.

I could write an essay about reasons not to fuck with one. But I'll just say that the biggest thing is the "splitting" episodes. They can only see a person in black and white. At the start of the relationshit you will be perfect in every way. They will put you on a pedestal and treat you like a king. This is because they know very little about you, thus they can idealize you. As the relationshit goes on they will learn more and more about you. Your flaws, your passed fuck-ups. No one is perfect and this does not compute for them. Therefore they will start to devalue the fuck out of you. They start to see you as awful in every way. A literal demon out to get them and everyone else. They will start to spin and twist and distort things you have said or done into malicious, disgusting, dishonest things.

They legit believe their delusions and then act accordingly. That means getting back at you for things you didnt say or do. Whether its by cheating or hurting you in some other way.

They are actually dangerous. The way they lure you in during the honeymoon phase and then shit on your dreams. They will undoubtedly have many exes, all of which hurt her and were evil and were at fault for everything.

Stay the fuck away.
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10% of BPD girls end up committing suicide. You are your own worst enemy.
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>>46765619
That 10% are the ones that failed to kill themselves for attention and accidentally ann'd the hero
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I'm okay with you being doomed to cut yourself to death.
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My BPD GF is a handful, but she doesn't wallow in her illness, a lot of them do. I think that makes the difference. She had a toxic friend that loved having BPD as an excuse. Since we've dated she's become a lot more stable. I wake up everyday worried about the day the pendulum swings the other way, but she doesn't want to be like that so maybe she'll make it...
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>>46760077
>would you date trash
no
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>>46760710
They will give you a chance Anon, this is true. Just prepare to have your heart ripped out as soon as you get comfortable and they get bored. In my experience it usually happens shortly after she starts saying that she loves you and other bs.
Usually good sex though, just try not to get attached. For your health.
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>>46760344
How can you have depression without anxiety?
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>>46765321
About what? Original
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>>46766211
depression is a creeping gray fog. anxiety is fear with no cause. One doesn't imply the other.
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I have.

I wouldn't do it again. I think I'd rather chemically castrate myself.
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>>46760077
of course I would. if you fit that description then add me on discord. tacticalwater#8363
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>>46766850
Aah, maybe BPD-related things, about this site or board, or whatever else comes to mind?
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>>46767064
I'll add you but I'm pretty busy at the moment so it'll be later before I get to talk to you.
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>>46767152
Cool, I'll be around.
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>>46760087
don't worry faggot. women always cheat and fug chads
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Yes. Buying BPD gf.
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>>46760863
no its patrick

this meme was originated from /b/
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>>46760077
Haha I had a girlfriend with BPD who cut

Never again
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>>46760077
Half of this board wants to stick their dick in crazy.
The rest just want to pamper crazies
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Mental Illness doesn't exist. Kill yourselves.
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>>46760077
How old are u desu
This post is too original
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Which is worse? Having a BPD gf or a BPD bf?
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>>46768791
BPD in women could just be considered an exaggeration of female personality traits. As a dude, it's just girly and sad.
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>BPD
I remember when that was just called "being a woman" HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
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>New year 2018
>Celebrate, eat, blah blah blah
>Go to my room
>Fap
>Sleep
>Wake up
>July 2018

Meh
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>>46760161
>I used to be polyarmours
Yikes.
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>>46760077
>Would anyone ever date a girl with BPD/Bipolar or are we just doomed to cut ourselves to death alone?

I had that experience and would rather get flayed alive then jump into a huge pile of salt than do that again
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>>46760918
>dated BPD girl in high school
>cut herself, strongly implied she'd kill herself if i ever left her
>got angry with me for spending a week with a (male) friend i only got to see once a year when i saw her every day
>fell for another guy while she was dating me, broke up with me over text
>got called manipulative by said guy when she asked him to a dance
>told the next guy she dated that i raped her

not even once my guy
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>>46769180
Your posts literally rape me
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>>46760826
Schizophrenics don't have alternate personalities you shambling retard of a creature
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>>46761264
Did you read the rest of the fucking post you waste of space
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I'm on mood stabilizers the last thing I need is for some girl to start screaming at me for no reason.
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>>46769882
Shut the fuck up you waste of oxygen. The world is a worse place with you existing in it. He framed the entire post as more stories of how "crazy" she is and then the first example isn't crazy behavior
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diagnosed fag here, im diaged with BPD and it really doesnt efffect my love life what so ever im 34 and 1 kid and a dog i just havee struggles a few times a month where i change completly but family know so it doesnt cause an issue
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>>46769882
I'm sorry anon you're right I should have read the whole thing before posting. I am a waste of space and I shouldn't have snapped at you in the other post.
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>>46760077
>be me
>lived with father who had PTSD and Bipolar
>it was horrible
>Dad beats mum
>Dad tries to kill mum with knife
>Dad starts mixing pills and alcohol
>Move out
>They get a divorce
>I still have fucking trauma
Well, if it means I won't be alone, yes.
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>>46760077
I have before, and it was a bad experience, but i guess it depends on the girl
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>>46769801
nice try bertha
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no not again desu, been there done that the sex isn't worth it they're bloody mental.
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People with BPD are emotional vampires who will drain you to the point of apathy, leave, and then blame you for everything.

Do not play into the idealized or fetishized depictions of BPD. Stay away from them.
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>>46760077
I have once and I learned my lesson.

She chose internet camwhoring over me.
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>>46770404
Good choice anon.
You dodged a bullet there.
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If she liked me, 'cause I'm bad at that part.
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uh yeah no desu pure baka ; they understand what's wrong with them yet lack the drive or ability to try and change their behavior patterns that impact those around them immensely.
>be me date a girl with bpd who wouldn't stop cutting unless we'd cuddle and have sex intermittently
>drink the blood from her cut's enjoy the taste yet not the sight

not-again
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>>46770451
>drink the blood from her cut's enjoy the taste yet not the sight
so
where exactly did you draw the line then?
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>>46760077
Do you look like an anime girl or are you an ugly thot
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>>46761025
Sounds like a typical woman desu
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>>46760077
I dated one. Girls with mental illness have a attraction because I have "mommy issues".
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>>46770645
A typical woman from here, sure. Or from your twisted views on women.

In the real world, it's not so common.
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>>46760077
I would, in a heartbeat! It's actually preferred to me!
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>>46760077
Are BPD girls and Schizo/Aspie guys compatible
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>>46770321
You absolutely don't. You'll get hurt. And I say that as someone who is BPD with a savior complex. Find someone better.
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>>46771079
Fuck no, BPD girls will destroy you
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>>46771079
abso fucking lutely not god damn
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Its actually disgusting how many retards there are here who think BPD = some yandere anime fantasy. Guess you'll all have to learn the hard way.
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>>46771079
BPD girls are only compatible with sociopaths, and the relationship will still not last.
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>>46770321
What are we, twins?
Oeigning
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>>46771157
Isnt it basically waves of intense emotion? I'm not 100% certain what BPD is other than its compared to yandere a lot
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>>46771213
Read the thread you dumb fuck.

Half the posts are telling you to stay away.
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>>46760077
>Would anyone ever date a girl
yes, absolutely
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>>46771245
Yeah I see that but why would I trust robots about that
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>>46771213
Robots are the easiest prey for BPD girls. Because you're desperate and often loners. And you're the ones who will be the most devastated when things fall apart.
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>>46771288
https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=167845721&pagenumber=1

You have to be careful when searching around about it. There's lots of videos and articles composed by the BPD themselves and of course, they say they're fine and blame everyone else.
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>>46771213
Simply put it's a total lack of a soul. Those with BPD feel so empty and dead on the inside that they turn to relationships to fill the void. But they also have a crippling fear of being abandoned which leads them to do fucked up abusive shit which in their twisted minds they think will prevent others from abandoning them. Typically it's a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Stay away from them. They aren't human. They don't even have a soul and they'll readily admit that. The only difference between them and a sociopath is that sociopaths don't care about the lives they ruin. BPDs do but they'll cope with the guilt by rationalizing it as the other party's fault. This is where false accusations of rape and abuse come in.
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>>46771291
I would like to be prey to a girl, so thank you for gifting me with that concept
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>>46771333
What kind of fucked up abusive shit?
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>>46761207
This is triggering my BPD PTSD

>dating for a year
>go on a date to this famous cliff that overlooks the city
>cuddle and kiss in the car
>"anon, I love you so much. Please never leave me" starts crying
>get really hard, hug her, cry a little too, make out for a while and drive home to fuck
>driving 80mph on the highway
>she starts going off about how I don't love her
>"YOU'RE JUST GONNA CHEAT ON ME AND LEAVE ME FOR SOME WHORE FUCK YOU"
>starts crying uncontrollably and hitting me
>hits me in the face really fucking hard because I can't defend myself since I'm driving and trying not to crash
>unbuckles her seatbelt
>opens the door
>tries to jump out
>hold her by the shirt with one hand while trying to steer with the other
>no way to pull over
>literally screaming "PLEASE! PLEASE! WE'RE GONNA DIE!"
>she finally stops
>see a chance to pull over
>she's just sitting there staring out the window while I'm trying to get my shit together trying not to snap at her
>all she says is "i'm sorry"
>no signs of remorse
I broke up with her after that, and it wasn't pretty.
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>>46760077
would anyone date a psycho?
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>>46771640
You have my original attention
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>>46771640
I would, but I'm crayzier than you so then you'd not want to date me
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Would someone date a cuhrayzee bf?
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>>46760961
Sounds like depression or something.
That might be a little bit of projection on my part, but it sounds like it.
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>>46771164
They're compatible with APD (Avoidant) as well. Or maybe its the other way around.

Regardless, I've been with my BPD for 5 years now. She has her little sperg sessions. Calls me a bunch of things but none of it really has any effect on me. And when she is idealizing me and is trying to be affectionate I get uncomfortable and annoyed.

I'm not sure how it works but it seems as though not giving a shit about them is the best way to go.
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>>46771933
Are they? I'm highly avoidant and I couldn't even handle a bipolar.
I think she was just kind of a dick to begin with, but the bipolar shit made it worse.
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>>46772034
I'm not so sure honestly.

Everyone is different but in my case if I'm not attached to her and don't care if she leaves (because I'd rather be alone, less stressful) it makes her in a constant state of pull instead going back and forth between push/pull.

Maybe its just a matter of not lowering your defenses.
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>>46771494
that's fucked. breakup story?
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do you think a psychiatric hospital would be a good place to pick up a low self esteem BPD qt 3.14? how would I go about meeting one of them? just linger outside and wait for one them to take a walk and offer them some free drugs in exchange for a blowjob? sounds like a decent plan if you ask me
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Don't date a BPD girl, I did for 3 and a half years and she left 3 weeks ago.

She had just moved into my place, and I went on a volunteer trip shortly after. Turns out she cheated on me with a 'good friend' while I was gone and made up a bunch of shit to justify it. She was pissed I didn't propose to her before I left and instead of waiting till I got back she just went and fucked my friend.

The day after she left she started looking for an apartment with my former friend and filed a restraining order on me saying I abused her. Don't date a girl with bipolar disorder, no matter how much they love you and for how long, that love WILL go away when they are upset, and you will have no idea what they will do. I know it is very tempting because they can make you feel like the king of the world, but the lows are just as extreme as the highs, and they can really fuck you over during the lows
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>>46772183
bpd isn't bipoIar..
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>>46760077
Yes even if it did'nt last long i would date them in a heartbeat
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>>46760077
I dated a girl with BPD and it was honestly great. She was incredibly devoted to me and super helpful. However, at the time I was not well read on the subject.
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>>46771376
Cheating on you and blaming you for it, changing the locks on your house, selling your possessions, violently attacking you and then the next day they're begging you to take them back, that they're sorry and would do anything for you because you mean the world to them and if you don't take them back they threaten to kill themselves. Then when you cut them off for good they'll tell others you raped them.
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>>46772110
Good way to get your dick bitten off by a crazy
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>>46772220
It's worse than bipolar
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My gf has BPD and you really shouldn't specifically look out for these kind of mental problems. Yes, your girl will be much 'clingier', but that's only because every single emotion they have will be amplified to the extreme. That goes for grudges, annoyances, anger and especially insecurities and depression too.

She's extremely high maintenance and you can act like literally the best bf ever but piss her off with something minor and she won't hesitate to outright forget about all you ever done and flip out beyond control. You're always walking on eggshells to some degree.

I'm with her because of her. Because I love her.

You can date somebody with BPD if you want. Sure. But it's going to be extremely difficult and a huge toll on your emotion and mental stability as well as hers. It's not an equal give or take thing. She'll be taking much more from you than you ever will be able from her. You need to be okay with that, really convinced of yourself and stable in all sorts of way.

If you feel this doesn't describe you, don't even try it.
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why did i have to get the wordt of the worst mental illnesses? everyone fucking hates BPD people. why couldn't i just be autistic? at least that's memable and people think it's quirky.
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>>46772707
Haha Im scizoaffective bipolar type! I win! Oh wait. Fuck
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>>46760829
Dubois is French
Why is she black?
Why do you soil my last name so?
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>>46760977
>you demon whore
I audibly keked in the shower
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>>46765882
hahahahahahahahahha

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAH
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fucks sake you people are freaks
seek help

t. /pol/
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>>46772707
>everyone fucking hates BPD people
Not everyone does, I assure you that most people don't know what BPD is. No one I met in real life would know what BPD is.
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>>46772707
You misunderstand. It's not about 'hating you'. It's just that you have a disorder that makes it difficult for a lot of people to see and deal with you every day.

I believe that you can find somebody too, much like my girlfriend did with me. It may take you a while and you may have some failed attempts but you'll get there if you keep trying.

For now I recommend you stick firmly to CBT therapy and any medicine that you may need. I can't say I will fully understand BPD, but if you focus on not losing your mind into an exponential spiral of intensifying emotions, you can function normally. You need to learn to identify the moments where you think things go bad and stop yourself early.

It's not easy, but you'll get there if you are dedicated. And in the process of learning to cope with it, you'll learn valuable lessons that 'neurotypicals' never will. You'll gain a lot of wise perspectives on life and appreciate things like nobody else can.

BPD isn't all bad either. My girlfriend is really really loving and kind if she's with me physically. She can totally get obsessed with showing her love and it makes me really happy.

So don't be sad. I believe in you.
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>>46772971
I wouldn't put anyone through my mood swings. I wish I could show my appreciation and platonic love to friends without it being awkward though. And I'm fairly sure my friendship with them is one sided for understandable reasons
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>>46765579
This unironically sounds like my mother.

>>46769180
That's crazy
>>46772707
There is a woman K who was diagnosed with BPD in my family and she's basically just depressed all the time. The people this thread is describing sounds more like my mother who has said repeatedly that K is manipulative but then acts freindly and fake around K in person. If K actually does have BPD, maybe take some notes, (not that it'd be good for you to go through constant depression, but if you self evaluate and find some sort of truth that you're like my mother and other BPD woman described in this thread, please stay away from humanity.)
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>>46773017
Don't be so insecure. A lot of people appreciate the fact that you're there in the first place, but don't always show it. If you show your good will and are there for your friends, they like you.

I know it's not easy and social interactions can be a struggle. It's similar for people with autism or other kinds of disorders. But if you look for it, there are people who care about you. You're never alone.
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>>46772707
It's not a terrible one in my opinion unless you're a guy. I know I'd be fine with a bpd gf but I feel like lots of women wouldnt wanna put up with it
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>>46772484
Guy is not too far off with his description.
It can be hard af to be the stone she either leans against or needs as cutwater to break her storm.

But I can't agree that it is without its rewards or gives you so much less.
When you can hack being REALLY needed, and not just the convinent normalfag bf. When you only notice yourself just how much control and endurance you have by standing in front of her worst times.
Not easy, but not thankless or without value for you either.
Just do not wonder if any following normal relationships feel lurkwarm, stale and boring in comparison.
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>>46772484
>willing to put up with a girl who can get pissed off with something minor and go cheat on you without even feeling bad about it until afterward when she decides she loves you again
fuck off, you're too much of a cuck to even be in this cuck hive
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>>46773359
Sure, she will probably go for your greatest insecurity when she is looking to hurt you.
And since you are making pretty sure which one that is on top of your lungs, well...
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>>46773558
>it's YOUR FAULT she cheated, you let her know you didn't want to be cheated on!
keep sucking fag
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>>46760077
I would but I would only date her so I could fuck with her and manipulate the cunt. The world would be a better place if every girl with bpd died.
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>>46773592
Don't be obstruse, maggot for brains. Who but the fetish fags you have such a boner for enjoys getting cheated on?
But if she knows that this is hardly the worst thing she can let you feel, she will go for the bigger target in her bad times.
It's that easy.
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>>46773833
Correction everyone with bpd died.
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Bipolar isn't borderline
Borderline are a bunch of manipulative cunts, basically female psychopathy with """""empathy"""", they'll fuck with you for fun, they like playing a chimera who'll present themselves as what they think you want, while not really having anything underneath that
Bipolar just has to deal with manic/depressive phases, if its not too bad and they're manageable they're okay

God help you if they're diagnosed with both
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>>46773869
The fact that you're defending the type of person who will try their very hardest to hurt you the second you offend them tells me a lot about you. Leave this board.
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>>46760077
Plenty of people would. Problem is after awhile you fucks push everyone away.
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>>46773987
Make me if you can, interested in how you want to archive that :)
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>>46760077
No. I was raised by one and I would never inflict that suffering upon my future children. She wasn't even as bad as my friend's mother who legit abused him physically and emotionally.

Never breed you worthless cunt.
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Not in a million years.

Never stick your dick in crazy.
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>>46772971
How many cocks did your gf get before she settled for you, her beta provider?
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>>46760161
>I used to be polyarmours
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>>46760077
my mother has that shit and it destroyed her father, mother, my dad, sister and me.
Sooo no
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Mentally ill should be gassed
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I think I have BPD after reading all these stories. I've never been diagnosed but I have other mental illnesses so I won't be surprised if I am.
It feels like I'll never be truly satisfied with someone I date; besides one man who lives in another country and I let him go. I trusted him and never thought twice about anything.
I'm not really interested in casual dating as well since I'm looking to have a family soon so I'm 1000x more picky. Moreover, I am comfortable with being alone forever as well. What do?
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>>46776442
Stop being a retard and never procreate you avatar faggot.
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>>46776442
> since I'm looking to have a family soon
Why exactly?
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I'll date a BPD girl as long as she wasn't obese. I want now where do I sign up?
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>>46776804
My sister is on her second kid already and it's really exciting to me (surprisingly). I've been wanting to have a child for almost a year now. I wouldn't mind being a single mom if the man providing the sperm was attractive.
Also my doctor said it would be harder to have kids after 30 because I have endometriosis and had surgery a couple years back for cysts on my ovaries kek.
That's not the main reason but just imaging myself with my cute baby in my arms loving in and spoiling it makes me so happy.
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>>46776969
I volunteer to be first in line for the fuckfest behind this anon's back with his gf
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>>46777275
All I can say is single parent households aren't an ideal situation to raise kids in, and the reality of raising children is far more difficult than the image you're romanticizing. Can't tell you what to do, but just know the risks.
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>>46760077
I know a BPD girl.
It's much more than most of you can handle.
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>>46777275
I hope your family and you die off, demon
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>>46760077
There is no such thing as BPD or "mental disorders" just excuses like you failures use to not be the best version of them selves
Get over yourself and do something to improve your mental health
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>>46777366
I understand that and I'm also aware that it won't be easy but I have a lot of family who will be there to help me out and give my baby lots of love too.

I don't think he/she will have daddy issues because it's not like he left us when he was never there from the start.
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>>46760077
Bipolar, maybe, if she didn't cheat during manic/hypomanic episodes.

Borderline? No. Funny thing though, the last girl I dated was BPD. She was fanatically loyal and obsessed to the point she wanted babies like 3-6 months in. I feel bad for her to some degree, but somehow, she just couldn't offer any sort of emotional support, everything she did for me was somehow about her.
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>>46777475
There really should be a masculine and feminine role model for a child. Lacking either potentially causes huge issues later in their lives.
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>>46777521
I know a lot of people who grew up with a mother and father that are extremely unstable. Not all children raised in a single household have all odds against them too.

Tl;Dr there are alot of factors that come in regarding how your child turns out at the end of the day.
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my mother is bpd
all bpd pieces of shit devil roasties need to be fucking murdered
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>>46777702
>murder can't be fully abolished
>let's stop enforcing the law preventing. can't do anything about it after all
those kids would be much worse off if th father wasnt there
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If they are loyal, and not very ugly than yes
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>>46760077
>hurr durr polarbear disorda
yeah, being moody doesn't make you bipolar
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>>46760077
Anons you don't want a BPD gf I had one for a year and a half sure they are clingy and loyal but she was manipulative as shit and had severe childhood trauma
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>>46771494
That sounds like something my ex would have done, anon I'll kill myself if I can't be with you, fuck I heard that one so many times
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>>46760918
oh god thats so hot
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>>46760918
I'm sorry, man. That is awful. I'm lucky (?) I'm a frigid sperg, so I managed to actually drive her insane, instead. Anyone else manage to make a BPD girl apologize for her actions? It's like seeing a ball lightning (which I have also seen).
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>>46771213
You'll get a lot of responses from people demonizing them to hell and back (no pun intended kek), while not exactly wrong, they fail to give a good oversight on what it actually is. The best way to explain bpd is that it's kind of like the female equivalent of psychopathy/antisocial personality disorder. First of all they do not actually care about anyone. This is important to understand. They NEED people, or rather want people, but they don't actually care about them. They care about the attention and whatever those people can give them, but not the person itself. Though don't misunderstand this as wanting your money and whatnot, they're usually not that interested in material things, they're interested in the emotions and attention they can get from people. So basically they see people as objects that give them good feelings and attention, and as long as they value that object and the object keeps giving them good feelings and attention, they'll be content. But if this stops, or if they don't value the person/"object" anymore, you're worthless to them. The bad part is, wether you're valuable to them or not is purely subjective, and the same is true for the attention and good feelings. They only have to feel like you're not valuable anymore or giving them enough attention anymore, and it's over. Their thought process has little connection to reality, they're basically fucking delusional.
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>>46779093
I have a near limitless supply of attention ready for a girl like this, where is she?
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>>46779245
the problem is once she decides she doesnt like you anymore you'll go from best person in the world to worst person in the world
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>>46779348
That's okay at least I'll be important to someone for a period of time and I can mean something to her and make her feel good
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>>46779376
idk man just read through the thread and reconsider the idea
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>>46779399
People tried talking me out of it before with no success desu
It's not like it really matters anyways
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BPD girls seem to struggle between:
1) the fact that they want to be with someone
2) few are adequately fitting her criteria as set by her past experiences with men, which where most likely harsh. Shit like raw intelligence also matters.
The first makes the woman act as nice as she think she has to act, all on the basis of figuring out what the person wants. It's not something that comes out of her naturally.
This act of acting is exhausting, therefore after some time the harsh reality of what she feels come out, that she despises the person she's with bu can't get what she's used to.
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>>46779578
well just ask them out here i guess, or learn to identify one by behaviour and date one when you see. Most of them try to hide it though
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>>46760077
Apparently I have some mild borderline tendencies myself and at this point I'm desperate enough that I probably would, even though I've seen the shit it can cause.
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>>46779655
I'm not real desirable as a bf though so that complicates things lol
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>>46779765
well thats not specific to dating bdp women, if you're ugly you're shit out of luck in general. But honestly, personality is an important part. While you won't get a stacy or be able to ask girls out straight away, you can first try to befriend girls and then take it from there. You'll have to have somewhat of a redeemable personality though.
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I am currently with a girl with BPD and it's absurd.
When things are good, it's the best time of my life, she loves me like I didn't know was possible, and I am so deeply in love. It's like a fairy tale.

But when something goes wrong.

If ANYTHING goes wrong, she loses a pen, she thinks someone doesn't like her, I say something that makes her think I hate her, she has to make a difficult descision.

Bro it's over, she will cut herself, drink and drive, dissapear for a day, massive drug use. and she hasn't done this with me because I have made it clear I won't put up with it but I've heard from her previous partners that it happens a ton, she will just have tons of casual sex, Tinder, FetLife, exes, hidden fuck buddy's, everywhere.

Life is perfect, but at the drop of a pin she will turn it into a whirlwind of insufferable pain.

We are on the road right now hit Hing back to the west coast from Georgia, luckily we don't live in the same state and I'll get some rest.

My advise is do it, you will experience highs like you never knew you could experience., But be prepared to be able to set boundries with her and yourself, don't let her drag you into her pit of hell.

Because I have let her drag me there and it will ruin your life, it's not worth it.
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>>46771011
Damn. I didn't know that this one girl I was in love was totally BPD in that case. Definitely bipolar. Would always bring up in her defense how I "betrayed" her once in what would seem pretty trivial to a rational person if I ever brought it up to her.
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>>46779998
I'm told I'm fine looking and have a really good personality, just something about me that makes me a friend but not a love interest
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>>46780037
>>>/soc/
>>>/out/
>>>/trash/
>>>/b/ack
>>>/t/o
>>>/r/eddit
Please leave, you clearly don't belong here.
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>>46780108
you got lied to then. There is no such thing as "not being bf material" or whatever, thats just an indirect way of saying you're unattractive and have a shit personality.
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>>46780376
It's not an excuse people give me though it's my friends being confused and not believing I cant get a single date. Friends being both male and female
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>qt bipolar gf with lots of issues
>unconditional love
>she gets to murder me one of these days

Its all benefits
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>>46760077
Dated a BPD girl. Would probably do it again if I liked the person enough because I'm fucking retarded. They're seriously high maintenance and will make you go grey 10 years early.
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>>46760077
I was paranoid for years I had bpd, nope I had adhd and extreme anger issues, welp looks like I need to up my dose.
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No, because I swear to God my mom has BPD. Ever since I can remember she would do really odd things, like making my sister and I stay up all night checking the exact same fucking pipe in our unit for "leaking water", then rush us to school the next day sleepless and get pissed at us for "under performing". (still passing, by the by.) When her and my dad split, she would take us on stalking runs as she staked out his new apartment and drove by his new gf's place. She also claimed that he was "cheating on her", despite how they split on mutual terms. She's have random breakdowns, get into physical fights with us until we grew to the point of being able to easily kick her ass, and then afterward claimed we were "bullying her" if we ever stood up for ourselves.
My Dad was a fuck up, no doubt, but I'm becoming convinced my mom is part of the reason I'm such a fuckup.
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>>46760813
Yeah sure, btw it isn't really schizophrenia if the world is out to get you.
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>>46778944
>Anyone else manage to make a BPD girl apologize for her actions? It's like seeing a ball lightning (which I have also seen).
It's literally impossible. I can't tell you how many times I've driven myself crazy trying to explain to her how cheating on me is bad, and me getting upset as a response is completely normal and not an indication that I'm abusive, and all sorts of shit like this

It's like you're talking to a robot of some sort, any time I think I've explained it to her and she's had an epiphany it lasts maybe a couple of minutes then she's back to pretending like she did nothing wrong and laughing at me for trying to ask her to say she's sorry, because in her mind she did nothing wrong
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>>46782461
Shit, I really do have borderline tendencies.



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