My wife of 5 years left me, telling me I was a weird man and that she hated me, then she ghosted me and ended everything without even a conversation about what's happened. She also resented my looksWe bonded precisely over the fact both of us have always felt like outcasts and we are exactly our looksmatches... This feels like a very deep betrayalHow the fuck do you come back from this? How do you even attempt to have a relationship again when it's all 100% transactional?
Maybe it's finally time for you to wake up and stop being a disney adult. Pocahontas wasn't real. There is no true love. Being a looksmatch of an ugly woman just means you're ugly, make up for it in another way. You are not entitled to be valued just for your slightly-different-but-not-that-different personality from everyone else, you want a woman for what she can do for you and make you feel and women want something out of the deal too.
>>84625514She didn't explain why she hated you?
>>84625692I'm tired of being invalidated by absolutely everyone, including this gynocentric cretin>There is no love just be a wallet or pretty boy women, that's all your value as a manNo, I refuse to participate thenYour message reduces to >Just man up broWhich is worthless.>and women want something out of the deal too.You're implying I didn't invest or provide value to her. I did, a lot, over 5 years, only to have you asshole and her invalidate 5 entire years.>>84625702Yes, she did in great detail, but I don't want to humiliate myself by posting everything she said. Overall it seems she hates the vast majority of men and wants a 0.001% man who doesn't exist, basically an Adonis who is also a feminist. I believe her mother induced a lot of social pressure and expectations on her and she decided to internalize that. All shallow and superficial, of courseHer mother, by the way, found a man who approaches such qualities, but she stressed the fuck out of the guy so much that he got cancer and died. She was a bitch to him until death, I witnessed it.
>>84625754No, my message does not reduce to that. Doesn't sound like you have wit either. Why even bother pretending you were just with her for the personality? You wanted access to a woman to reproduce with, you wanted sex. Those are limited quantity in society and you didn't offer enough to keep them and you're just being petulant. I don't personally care if you want to stay alone, but it's your fault.
>>84625754>it seems she hates the vast majority of men and wants a 0.001% man who doesn't existKek, women will literally never get the fuck over themselves and accept that they're not getting hot guys just like men aren't getting hot women.
Have a bump, this thread is interesting to me since this might just be me when I do indeed find a foid worth marrying
>>84626477I don't know what to tell you, anon. On one hand I don't want to dissuade you from experiencing things, on the other I just have to warn you not to fully attach. Women are quicksand, they're not a good foundation to build a relationship upon
you need to become a man who people need no matter whatotherwise foids and normshits will do that to you
>>84625514As a redpilled giga chad with a PhD in Thotology, I can confirm that this slut was probably cheating on you / found some new dick. Maybe some guy at her work or something. Just a reminder to all that white women can't be trusted. Amen and God Bless.
>>84627555Classic. She cheated and felt like a piece of shit. Rather than address it she made herself the victim. It's OK to cheat because op was unattractive, abusive, raped her, controlling, narcissistic, caused global warming, and made Eve eat the fruit of the tree of knowledge of good and evil. Now instead of an unfaithful whore slut she's a survivor.
>>84625514>He got marriedThat was your first mistake. It signals to women that you will never leave them, therefore they interpret you as low value. Then they look elsewhere because you're not a new toy anymore.
>>84625514idk this is why i just got a boyfriend, we play video games together and cuddle, its nice.
>>84625878Ironically most men nowadays are virgins because they think they deserve a smoking hot egirl
you have to realize she is not and was never a real person women just pretend to be whatever to get the most benefit. once that benefit is gone or loses its luster she'll treat everything up to that point as worthlessshe already had somebody in tow before cutting it off btw. monkeybranch is real
>>84627941This is such a disingenuous comment. I can't fathom it being anything but bait
>>84627947You realize plenty of guys are exactly the same way though right?>It's not exclusive
>>84627950You think 6/10 dude with nothing too offer is going to be able to bag a skinny attractive babe?
>>84627964>nothing too offerYou see, you view relationships from a parasitic point of view
>>84627967>>84627964You also see people from a dehumanizing, superficial pov. Right from the start you're reducing people to a >6/10 dude>skinny attractive babe
>>84627967No I don't I'm just a realist, and needing to be attractive to be wanted is just nature.>You are the same way, you are only attracted to women who are attractive You are a parasite by your own definition or you would to be with a 1/10 hag
>>84627976So you will go be with a 1/10 day hog with similar interests?>Oh but she can't be that fatI'm not I'm just being real
>>84627989>>84627992Tldr: work on yourself if you want to bag a hottie
>>84627967>it's le parasitic to want to be with someone with attractive qualitiesOkay retard, go date a crack-addicted streetwalker then. If you won't, you're being a parasite.
>>84627958Fuck off foid100% of women act this wayonly 10% of men can act that way because they are highest valuethe average beta retard will literally lay down his life for the first girl that gives them a crumb of pussy
>>84628020Nope. The average moid will act like this until you've slept with him a couple times, then he gets bored and will cheat at the first opportunity.
En mi opinion, digo que lo mejor es concentrarte en ti, mejorar para ti, cuidarte, comenzar a quererse uno mismo y ver el valor de tu persona, no solo buscar la validacion de los demas, porque primero esta usted, luego los demas (no en el sentido egocentrico) Y claramente no se puede tener una relacion si solo se trata de transacciones, eso directamente no era una relacion... lo lamento.
>>84628030>I got pumped and dumped by chadThanks for confirming the obvious
>>84628062Is this nebulous "chad" a moid, yes or no?
>>84628020>>84628004>>84628003>>84627992StrawmenKeep rating people out of 10, you're not even human.
>>846281880/10 b8. Dipshit faggot.
>>84628197>0/10 b8. Dipshit faggot.What a high quality post, you must be a 10! I hope you get that resentment out of your heart, you're not impressing anyone by acting rude on the internet
>>84628158Yes. But you're going off the narrative that it's ALL men who cheat when they get bored of their partners when it's actually Chads or that 1% of shitty manipulative men in this world who cheat.
>>84628158You made your bed with 1% abuse sociopathslie in it
>>84625514Shit like this is why i'm glad that I can see escorts and not have to deal with this shit. I feel bad for you OP, hope you recover from this.
>>84625514As an idealistic faggot i refuse to accept anything other than true love. Since it doesn't exist ill die alone
>>84625692>>84625834>>84627535>>84627958>>84627941>>84628197A large amount of females don't realize that marriage is about eternal SUFFERING and mutual sacrifice, on an EQUAL level. That is true love.Every one of their subhuman objections are related to their delusional need to be parasitic and infantilized. And if their disgusting rape fetish ZADDY sensibilities aren't fulfilled they monkey branch away, proving to the world they are not "EQUALS" nor are they "God's children".They will demand you sacrifice everything that makes you YOU and they will use this as THE excuse to jump ship kneecapping your goals and tearing down your affection for the next guy they'll want to be rescued from. Men objectively deserve better than this.
>>84627941Your idea of "smoking hot" is not-fat.Your bar is THIS low because you've internalized gynocentric favoritism.A looksmatch is objectively quantifiable.
>>84629539>Your bar is THIS low because you've internalized gynocentric favoritism.Bingo. The vast vast majority of men out there are gynocentric cretins
why isn't there a real political movent to remove marriage from legal recognition. relationship shouldn't be about future kids and if women can't trust their partner enough to have kids without legal marriage, they shouldn't be staying together/having kids.
>>84625692>You are not entitled to be valued just for your slightly-different-but-not-that-different personalityWomen are not entitled to be valued because you think heckin-womanhood-is-inherently-precious lol. The women internalizes this delusion too. And they have no capability to introspect this because they cling to the present like a baboon. The status-quo works on the assumption that this delusion is true so it's far more relevant than any entitlement from the man.>you want a woman for what she can do for you and make you feel and women want something out of the deal too.In holy matrimony, the husband offers the SAME thing what the wife offers. To fixate on anything else is transactional. And if relationships are that transactional then women are objectively OBJECTS
Women's ideation of [power] is parasitism and gaining the privilege of being treated like an (raped) infant. This is often seen in their supposed criticisms regarding marriage which are all double speak for their subhuman resentment of true monogamous love which requires MUTUAL SACRIFICE and not one sided zaddy providorships.Their means of false rape accusations or cancel culture is also rooted from a parasitic inclination. Their idea of """independence""" is the complete opposite of independence because their worldview is rooted from the parasitic inclination. Their default "reality" is a construct that is only informed by this parasitic inclination and the disgusting amount of validation it receives (this will come to an end thankfully). The female only seeks to RECEIVE. It is a fundamentally broken psychology.FEMALES LITERALLY JUST WANT TO SIT BACK AND RECEIVE THINGS AND EXPECT NOT TO BE REPLACED WITH BETTER TECHNOLOGY. THEY SHOULD JUST DIE LOL
Remember that Babylon is meant to be destroyed, not saved. Western culture is centered around whores. They have taxes to benefit whores. They subjugated hundreds of thousands of white men to pedestalize whores. They listen to whore music. They almost elected a whore nigger as their president. They dress and act l1ike whores. They believe the validation given by the whore is a valid measurement of someone's character. They psy-oped an entire generation to make the validation of the whore their ultimate goal. They coddle the whore. They draw the entirety of their modern culture for whores. They post sassy gifs about whores. The entirety of their rat race economy is built on the validation of whores. They're thinking of the whore. Their cities only exist to accommodate the whore. They deify the whore. They manage to somehow infantilize the whore while worshiping the whore all at the same time. They prioritize the coddling of whores at the expense of men. They perpetually shit out laws and policies for the sake of the whore. They allow the whore to parasitically rob their spouses of their resources. They internalize a hierarchy where the whore takes precedent over every man and shamelessly deny believing in it. "Women and children first", unless they want to KILL the child. They hold the whore to a lower standard. All the while, they pretend to believe in the concept of equality somehow.
>>84625692Pocahontas was real though? Many of Virginia's old elite families descend from her.I get the point you're trying to make but you picked the one Disney heroine that's a real historical figure.
>>84625514>We bonded precisely over the fact both of us have always felt like outcasts and we are exactly our looksmatches... This feels like a very deep betrayalSounds like another guy I know who met his wife on /r9k/. They're parasites who use you to build their confidence until they find someone better.
