>be me>mid 20s>5'6">girlfriend of 8 years left me a year and a half ago>she still haunts my dreams every night making me wake up in a cold sweat>try to look on apps for months>0 matches>realise for the first time in my life the women want 6ft+ isn't a meme>be on minoxidil for a year>friends still call me balding>unemployed despite graduating from university 3 years ago>can't get a job in said field and fell out of love with subject anyway>worked minimum wage jobs but quit all of them due to being too autistic to work retail/at a bar/delivery/etc and have autistic meltdowns constantlyat what point do i give up and just kill myself honestly? how do i even recover from this? i'm too mentally retarded to exist here and don't feel like i fit in anywhere
>>84626384this sounds like a prologue to trooning out ngl
>>84626384Lol bald aah unc malding
That must suck, I cried bad when my bpd tranny discord gf went away, it's probably for the best I not get an actual relationship
>>84626398i thought about it but i don't think it's for me
Don't worry bro, girls don't like guys with hair either, I'm living proof of that. 33 years old, same hairline I had at 13, never had a girlfriend.
>>84626438Just get a good haircut.
>>84626384If you're autistic, you're better off not wanting a girlfriend; honestly, every neurodivergent person I come across on this board always makes the mistake of wanting that, even though deep down they'd never dare to change who they are.I understand that you're going through a tough time right now because of your girlfriend, but I think you'll be able to get through it in a healthy way as time goes on.Don't get so hung up on trivialities
>>84626498>If you're autistic, you're better off not wanting a girlfriend; honestly, every neurodivergent person I come across on this board always makes the mistake of wanting that, i don't think i should be denied the sensation of feeling loved romantically because im a retard
>>84626522Stop putting pussy on a pedestal and go do something productive.
>>84626384Why would you kill yourself? The less you have, the less you have to lose by chasing your dreams or being known for something crazy like world travels or cave diving. Yoh like spelunking?
>>84626539like what i already said i can't get a job & im too retarded for minimum wage dead end jobs that don't go anywhere career-wise, i have no interests i can reliably turn into a career & pretty much everything i said in OP has absolutely drained my motivation out of life. what am i even working for if i can't be happy or even eventually work towards having children>>84626561no those videos scare the hell out of me, also yeah i have nothing to lose but i also don't know where to put my foot first.
i'm becoming you soon. it's either the military or trades since white collar work is dropping. the elites need to manufacture a war
>>84626582You could try trooning out, gay sex, fetlife bdsm orgies, moving to china, korea, or japan, or try standup comedy.What do you enjoy doing?
>>84626711i play videogames & i occasionally hike to stop myself from killing myself, that's pretty much it - no exaggeration
Next time don't get attached to foidsThey're algorithms to extract maximum suffering and loosh from you"she doesn't belong to you. it's only your turn" is true
>>84626384sounds like my life but im worse since no gf ever and no degree and no workbut yeah thats a lot of people these days, nobody cares about us>>84626398i trooned out it kind ahelped but now i fucked my life up worse
>>84626384Online dating's not gonna work if you're a short guy. Of course if women can choose from a spreadsheet of short vs tall they always go tall. It is what it is.
>>84626941>it kind ahelped but now i fucked my life up worseit helped and fucked up your life? can you explain more?
>>84626947>Online dating's not gonna work if you're a short guy. then what do you reckon i do? i'm not a club kind of guy, i don't drink or smoke because i hate the feeling, but that's what everyone tells me to do.
>>84627008A club is just IRL Tinder, people telling you women have different standards outside of dating apps are gaslighting you.
>>84627544then what? i just die alone or
>>84626384why'd she leave? honestly need to know, might serve as a good lesson for other anons on here (not saying its your fault)
>>84627644this might sound like bullshit but genuinely i don't know - i was at work mid-shift and she sent me a google doc full of basically nothingburger but tldr is she was breaking up with me, sort of came out of nowhere & wasn't expecting it. she sort of contacted me on and off for 6 months (i never initiated the conversation), invited me out for dinner, told me her mother misses me, all that sort of shit. i helped her install some software & had a pleasant conversation then 2 days later one morning randomly she blocked me on everything & deleted everything (8 years worth) of me off of all of her profiles, making it look like i never existed in her life. i haven't seen her irl since despite her living 5 minutes away. however, she sent a friend request to my best friend (he didn't accept) & she was stalking my mother's facebook (know because of the activity thing and she told me she blocked her after we broke up)she also was friendless so i suspect she's e-fucking some guy or something. was just a deep gutpunch after 8 years. kind of wish she would just get out of my head.
>>84627544Well they have the same standards yes but IRL they can see and compare you to other men, see if you're chad or not. And that can influence their behavior. Tinder is like shopping for humans.
>>84627749So they see that you aren't chad and reject you. Tell me again how's that different from the apps?
>>84627810It's different cause the competition is different. You don't have to be the top 10% of all men, you just have to be chad enough out of whatever enviroment you're in. Chadlets can also be guys who seem to have social leverage and social confidence.
