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/erpg/ Erotic Roleplaying General.
Valentines Day is cumming, Do you have a special someone you plan on playing with?
>What is this thread?
This thread is all about roleplaying distinct characters. Your "ASL" can be the elf princess or the rugged but gentle half-orc knight that saves her, or even the dragon that keeps her. Perhaps you're a sci-fi greasemonkey, or the pilot of the starfighter she's repairing. Anything can be fun if you find a way to make it work. If you just wanna cyber go take that shit to one of the KiK threads or whatever.

>What is F-List?
F-List is a site dedicated to typefucking. It offers multiple exchange options, such as PM, IM and even Forum or group settings.The most powerful tool, however, is the profile and its bbcode possibilities

>How do I get started?
Create an account on https://www.f-list.net/ and make your first character! It will ask you for a character name before any description or images, From there it's just a matter of fleshing out your creation by completing the description, kinks list, and adding some images. If you're ever confused, seeking feedback, or just want to display your character, post the profile here! Take a gander at this too https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ufmY2grzI16vKudsZnEvf2_gEn4umWkgKJ60KkcgSSg

>So, I made my Character, what now?
After you've created your character and are ready to ERP, open F-chat 1.0 or 2.0 (or download Fchat 3.0 client) from the chat tab on the top left of the Homepage. Browse through the various channels and find the ones which interest you and/or apply to your character.

>Where do you guys hang out?
We have a discord if you wanna use that https://discord.gg/cWAy5vV but for the most part we hang out on F-chat

Shared log pastebins for examples
http://pastebin.com/u/aislinneandfriends
http://pastebin.com/u/lewdred
http://pastebin.com/u/molly_liesel

Old thread >>27458900
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I guess I'll shill here! Disgusting profile, so just dodge if you're not into it.
https://www.f-list.net/c/Depraved%20One


Just looking for advice again. Still trying to gear my profile for something long-term, since I only attract disappointing subs atm. All advice is appreciated.
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>>27531072
Nice dota icon, nerd.
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Fugma. I lost a long term rp partner.

Looks like I gotta get back into the fire.
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https://www.f-list.net/c/Haruka%20Ayano
>tfw you put a bunch of effort into making a profile, play as it literally once and then never again because there is fucking no one at all who is interested in the setting and everyone else who is, is a combination of Gay, Autistic and/or a Furfag
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>>27533271
tfw the thread is as dead as the Digimon fandom on F-list
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>>27534070
It just takes a while sometimes.
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>>27534102
Oh yeah, new thread so I'll post my profile. https://www.f-list.net/c/Sable%20North
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>>27534107
What was the "rather extreme" kink you implied last thread?

In fact, let's make it a question for everybody: What's the most extreme kink you'd played/would be willing to play/want to play?
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>>27533271
>Not gay, autistic or furfag
>Legitimately like the setting
>Is interested

>Character does not match her

Why must I suffer
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>>27534126
I'll give you a hint, it's the most extreme thing on my "yes" list.
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>>27534190
>Realism
Yikes
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>>27534199
No, dummy. Story-Driven Foreplay with Small Breasts
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This thread is suddenly making me feel sick.

And I thought I was bad. Sheesh.
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>>27534190
But seriously
>Death
>Execution / Murder
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>>27534227
SHRUG
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>>27534233
I'm not judging, but what does make it hot?
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>>27534236
Well for the same reasons I enjoy sadism in general. It's the feeling of taking away control from someone else. The sub likes it because they like the feeling of loss of control, so it's a mutually beneficial arrangement. Plus it's a really intimate moment, you get to be the person there for their last moments and to experience their last feelings and emotions. I dunno it's hard to explain.

Plus there's the additional layer of the fact that I only go after evil characters so I guess I don't feel as guilty about it.
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>>27534257
I'm sub and the loss of control and intimacy of the control are both appealing but I guess what turns me on is imagining those things being ongoing. Snuff is the most total domination but it's also temporary, which is the opposite of what I like. Domination that doesn't end is hottest to me.
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>>27534296
Fair enough, it's obviously not for everyone. I was just happy/surprised someone liked me enough to be cool with trying it. I've been teasing her about it a lot and it's fun.
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>>27534339
Yeah, it's always cool to get to play a kink you didn't expect to be able to!
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>>27534166
Because you touch yourself at night
Post your profile nerd.
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>>27535414
https://www.f-list.net/c/Maximilian%20Reed

Things still have to be fixed in this profile
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https://www.f-list.net/c/monica%20leksak/
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>>27536319
The inconsistency between pictures on this profile bothers me almost as much as Cannibalism being in faves.
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>>27536343
Depending on the level of self-insert, most of that stuff isn't actually that bad unless someone requests some extremely descriptive actions.

But that's basically every non-vanilla kink out there.
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>big fan of this channel and their video on Dionysus in particular
>tempted to make an flist based on sort of blending the myths together
>subby maybe powerbottomy femboy cutie as one side, pulling out the madness and chtonic shit on the other side
>dishing out some retributiony stuff, or maybe some mad cultist stuff, brainwashing, maybe TF, maybe guro

>realize the whole endeavour is pointless as my genie already can cover the "subby cutie with hidden OP bullshittery" stuff
>and also demand for the dark kinks would instantly vastly outpace my ability to deliver on them. It already fucking does on the djinn.
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/erpg/ would you approach a profile with no pics if the rest of the profile was on point?
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>>27537506
Probably not. Finding pics can be hard sometimes but like its hardly impossible. I'd been searhing for weeks for art for the new profile I'm making and then one night I got drunk and started watching some shows I'd downloaded and realized that I had decent art all along that I even already had saved on my computer and that I was just dumb and not looking hard enough.
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>>27537506
Nope
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>>27537506
I've never seen a profile with 0 pictures that was on point.


Even 1 relevant picture is fine.
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>>27537506
When I do an F-List search, I just skip profiles with no avatar pictures. Even if the rest of their profile is on point, I'll never know because I simply won't click on it. There's also a pretty good chance the profile is just a generic kink list for someone that doesn't even play on F-List itself.
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>Someone finally messages about setting up a scene.
>Start said scene
>They don't reply
>they completely redid their profile and changed fucking everything so they aren't even remotely the same as the original character now.
I lack a reaction image to express the rage I feel right now
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>>27530410
I haven't roleplayed in over a year by now but I kinda want to get back in whenever someones free.

https://www.f-list.net/c/daphne%20wittenberg/
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>>27538636
Hmmmm.

Let me finish my new profile first. I might approach if ya can't find anyone~
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>>27538663
Mm, i'm a lil rusty. I'm willing to hear ideas if you have any as well. I dunno why lately i've been wanting to get back in.
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>>27538636
Your profile is very, very, very nice. What's your inspiration for her?
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>>27539414
She's based on [spoiler]who I want to be[/spoiler] minus the abuse. That's just for fun.
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>>27539561
She has that feel to her. Good taste.
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>>27539561
Huh, pic related is who I want to be. Different strokes for different folks I guess.
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>waste hours idling and shitposting in chat
>have half of my time wasted by stupid, selfish and/or inattentive approaches, the other half is pining for potential partners who could be great but am cucked by time/established partners
>feel guilty about not doing something more productive

OR

>waste days struggling to write up these stupidly specific but sexy ideas as standalone fic just to see them realized
>know I'm going to still feel isolated and alone despite any compliments, feedback, or patronage it would garner
>feel guilty about abandoning a hobby for cash money
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>>27540568
OR

>just give up and spend your leisure time playing vidya because shit takes too long to set up and too long to do
>but also feel guilty about it
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>>27537632
>When I do an F-List search, I just skip profiles with no avatar
I'd like to add to this, profiles who take the default No avatar icon and change it to be an outline of a character, those ones are the worst.
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>>27530410
Project 19 is my charecter for smut. Monster domination,transformation. roleplaying. Send a note.
Femboys, males willing to be to feminized, and females welcome.
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What do you guys think of rpnation?
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>>27540568
Oh god I'm so guilty of this. I started a scene with someone, doing a little story and worldbuilding, and I totally flaked out afterward before the next session when it was going to get lewd. :(

I swear I'll message them tomorrow. Tomorrow...

>>27538636
Ooh, bookmarked! I don't do dark stuff often but you've got me thinking about it...
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>>27541274
it'd probably help if you didnt give up on grammar by the third sentence in your opening paragraph. you need to haev capital letters and shiet yknow

Add some kinks, you've got a super-sparse list that doesn't even show most of what you describe in plain text. And lastly, most people are not going to notice your post without a properly linked profile, or care to do the manual copypasting.
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>I leave for 2 years and Haruki is still trying to sit on people

The legend.
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>>27538663
>>27539414
>>27541345
If anyone is interested I just discovered this game called Degrees of Lewdity that is basically my f-list character https://www.f-list.net/c/daphne%20wittenberg/ and it's free andpretty fun.

The objective: Stay Pure in Rapeville.
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>>27541411
i remember that nigga from as far back as fucking Gaia Online
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>>27541883
I don't remember you having an infinite N word pass.
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>>27541889
uh i can say the n word i have BBC dombreaker prostate popper shemale profile
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Sorry to make this a sadposting thread but

>just wanna do romantic cute shit
>spend several months looking, with zero success
>find perfect profile, into all the same stuff as me
>they respond, saying they're interested
>turns out our schedules are PERFECTLY aligned to make it so that we literally would never be able to rp

why do we live just to suffer?
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>>27541896
Sir, step away from the keyboard.
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F19 up for most roleplays (no incest). Kik is alexia.uk start with your asl and a description of yourself. Dick pics get ignored/blocked
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>>27542011
Are you lost?
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>>27542011
I wish we could block people like you from posting in this thread
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>>27542834
Look guys, all those posters are done and gone, and your bitching only distracts from the topic more. Just chill.

>>27541912
It's a worse feel if you *do* get a scene going with them... Just once... And *then* their schedule changes to never ever fitting.

On a more fun news, finally caught and finished the continuation of the sounding scene with the genie - followup with tiny tentacle getting allll up in his master's business in turn. And then some cute and gentle play of them laying together and slowly extracting the toy. Fun.
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>>27542849
desu I was just bumping the thread from page 10 and didn't have an image to post
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>>27542876
Just post random images, that's what I do.
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>>27542883
I wanna at least pretend that I am contributing. Just dumping pics is... eh.
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>>27542011
>F19 up for most roleplays
kinky
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>>27530410
https://discord.gg/BryH5x9

erp server
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>erp server
To no one's surprise: it isn't.
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>>27543898
EVERY FUCKING THREAD
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The more I work on this new profile, the less I want to play on my other one.

This must be how it starts, eh? I do plan to stay loyal to everyone I've started stuff with though.


It's just generic anime boy WITH A TWIST, but I'm scared that it might not be popular at all.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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>>27543996
What is the twist senpai? It can't be any less popular than my OC digidestined profile.
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>>27544008
No spoilers.

Also your jogre/ss/ pun killed me. ggwp

I hope the final Digimon Story game doesn't suck
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>>27544021
They are doing another Digimon Story game? I know that Hacker's Memory came out shortly after the PS4 version of Next 0rder. The only other game I knew was in the works was Digimon Survive, but that one is a SRPG
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>>27544048
Mhmm. They have just one more planned from what I read.

I don't mind waiting longer for it. As much as I like HM, I prefer games that don't have 40% reused assets.
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https://www.f-list.net/c/kardian%20akatas

Alright. I'd say this profile is about 80% complete, but it's ready to be shown here.

Any opinions? It's suppose to attract more story driven, kinky people.
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https://www.f-list.net/c/feljce
Are you looking for a quirky vanilla to juxtapose with your hardcore character? Or maybe just BDSM and rope-play (comes in both dom and sub flavors) mixed with cuddles? Perhaps even a friendly sort of lycanthropy combined with petplay?
There may be a cat for you.
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>>27544571
>https://www.f-list.net/c/kardian%20akatas
Ahahahahaa what the shit is the face for stage 3. I'm bailing out on giving any critique to your kinks, but that, as a crop, doesn't work simply objectively.
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>>27537519
>hardly impossible
It can be impossible if you pick certain breeds of animals.
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>>27544744

IT SUCKS. I KNOOOOOW

I'll fix it soon enough. I couldn't find something better.
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I don't think RP is meant for me. Everyone wants 4-7 lines and I'm not the fastest thinker when it comes to playing out a scene. I tend to think it over before finally making my input. But I know I'm taking way too fucking long and its probably why half the people I'm with peter out. Can't blame them but goddamn it.
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>>27544874
Find people who want what you can give them. There's a lot of variety out there.
If you also look into people who roleplay by notes or people who roleplay on MUCKs, you'll find people fine with longer, slower responses, and also people fine with incredibly short, but faster responses.
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>>27544874
How long /do/ you take for those posts? Most of my plays that had even much larger posts than that with amazing reactions from both sides still failed for a myriad of other reasons, so don't just put yourself down out of hand.
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>>27544874
My best partners have taken an average of over 10 minutes per response. Don't fret, because the people that matter will recognize effort.
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>>27542011
>no incest
gross
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>friend unfriended me on our mains
It's not that big of a deal since we're in contact on multiple channels but what the heck
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>>27545857
Huh. Just ask them what's up? Are you two actively playing with each other?
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>>27544571
>Using Loran Cehak as reference art
Nice taste in anime boys anon
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>>27546110

I highly considered including his crossdressing art, but I already know exactly what that's going to attract.

I'm not sure if I want that type of audience.
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>>27542849

Bahi stop being a homo.
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>More energetic than ever
>Only one partner logged in through all of the afternoon
>She had to leave probably because of rl reasons, half an hour in
>Didn't even get to sexy time
>Tried bantering in rooms; a more needy guy got more attention than me
>Got the amazing amount of zero roleplays after my partner left

How do you do it guys
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>>27547738
Persistence.
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>>27547507
Just try and make me!
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>>27541818
Maybe I unzipped it wrong but the images and in-game clock are just showing as error messages for me.

But the premise seems fun! Although the combat system is a reminder of how complex interaction like that works so much better as roleplay.
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Is it just me, or can you often gleam a lot from a blue or purple just by their name? Like, when it's a horse, a canine, and orc, bitch breaker, or some kind of BBC profile? You see a name, and you click it, just to confirm your suspicion that, yup, a huge horse cock inline is the first thing you see.
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>>27548141
Well, did I pass or fail that test?
lol
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>>27544874
>>27545101
I'll try to keep these things in mind. Thank ya.

>>27544907
Sometimes it can be 10 minutes. Sometimes more if I get distracted while I mull over ideas. Probably not great.
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>>27548479
And I managed to respond to myself instead. Meant for >>27544880
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>>27548479
Hm, okay, that is on the long side compared to speeds I usually run into. All I can say is just try to find more patient people and practice, you'll pick up on patterns that will speed you up. Have you looked into trying out noteplays?
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>>27530410
>for the most part we hang out on F-chat
Is there a specific channel or room?
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>>27548554
No, there isn't. "4chan /erpg/" channel on flist was a powergrab by a petty tyrant and has been pretty much abandoned even by the clique innate to him.
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>>27548578
I see. The /trash/ equivalent of this thread has a channel
>>21120650
and no-one knows who the admin is.
> [session=/trash/]adh-6b16ceb810ca8b9ebd2c[/session]
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>>27548603
I'm an idiot
>>>/trash/21120650
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>>27547763
I'm the one you're responding to. Probably different ID.

I'd also say persistence is the answer. But honestly I believe I don't know what etiquette I should abide by, besides not being a dick and avoiding cringy acts. I don't push people around, avoid the whole "/me flops" and similar, and do not make any sort of sexual advance unless hinted by potential partners.

But being >straight male makes it kinda difficult to show my character as interesting in a room, or act in a way where others go "damn I'd tap that". I ask because I saw it literally took nothing for two thicc female characters to tease everyone in the simplest manner before they'd end up fucking each other, and some people are so openly sexual it makes me think I might be playing it too carefully.

Help?
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>>27549191
Yeah, you are playing too carefully. On a site where looking for sex is normal, you don't have to be so shy about it. You can be blunt and classy at the same time.
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>>27549200
That's the whole problem, I have zero idea of how to do it, and when I try anything it makes me feel awkward.
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>>27549204
Practice. Cheesy pickup lines aren't so bad if you back them up with other things.
>Hey handsome, found any cat to take home from the bar, yet?
Using a straight character will make things tough. Why not make a bisexual character instead?
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>>27549214
Because I'm not interested in anything other than females. Cheesy pickup lines should work I suppose? Uh, guess I gotta study a bit about that.
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>>27549191
>and do not make any sort of sexual advance unless hinted by potential partners.
Uh, excuse me, what do you mean by that?

This is an ERP site, you /should/ be offering sexual play upfront, unless you are going specifically for plot play. Do you mean you just don't do unprompted IC starts with groping and the like?

> and some people are so openly sexual it makes me think I might be playing it too carefully.
Yes, that may be the case. Public RP is especially prone to going straight down for dicking after just a tiny bit of flirting.

What's your character, what rooms do you hang out in?
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>>27549417
If this is who I think it is, he hangs out the memelair.


It's an awful place for IC. Fantasy is better version.
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Heh.
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>>27549417
>This is an ERP site, you /should/ be offering sexual play upfront, unless you are going specifically for plot play. Do you mean you just don't do unprompted IC starts with groping and the like?
Or anything that may hint at sexual approaches.

>Yes, that may be the case. Public RP is especially prone to going straight down for dicking after just a tiny bit of flirting.
I feel awkward doing that tiny bit of flirting, or doing the approach.

>What's your character, what rooms do you hang out in?
Character: https://www.f-list.net/c/maximilian%20reed/

I've posted him a few times. As >>27549546 said I do hang out at Memelair. Also Fantasy, mind you! L&A and a few other rooms I'm mostly idling at.

What rooms are better for IC? I mean if I could do cold OOC approaches I absolutely would, but alas, I'll bore the shit out of myself because people don't find that sexy and apparently I gotta tickle their sexy fancy to get any rp. And thus I'm finding myself doing something that would be fun if I knew how to do it better, but that is not natural to me.
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>>27549563
okay this is epic
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Add me on discord if you wanna rolplay~
Yuuki #7910
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>>27549960
It helps when you mention what you're into so we don't have to waste time associating with each other if it's not going to work out.
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>>27549885
>I feel awkward doing that tiny bit of flirting, or doing the approach.
By the sound of this, yeah, being too shy is your problem. You just have to get over that awkwardness and do it. Lack of confidence is a problem, especially if your character is supposed to be confident.

Even being on the much easier mode of femboy and bi, I have to be proactive. I do adspam, catch people's interest with that, but then I have to be the one to approach them for any actual play session anyway.
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>>27550184
The logic here works so differently it's difficult to wrap my head around it. How do you guys get over that carefulness and go bolder?
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I kinda wanna RP tonight but I should really get to finishing my new character...
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>>27550502
There's nothing 'careful' about it. Much like approaching people irl, either you do it...or you don't. Be yourself or fake your confidence.

There will be successes and there will be failures. It might sting, but don't get hung up if someone denies/ignores you.


>>27551157
Passively search for rp while working on your new character? Setting your status to looking + text is lethal on its own right.
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>>27551176
The worst thing is that I can approach people in nonsexual ways. I can banter a lot, joke and shit, but I have a much more difficult time doing the same in a more sexual manner.
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Here's a weird profile for petplay, transformation stuff, and bestiality kink.

https://www.f-list.net/c/Missy%20Mutt
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>>27551209
Unfornately, I'm not going to be able to hold your hand for this. Act normal then use increasing suggestive dialogue.

Literally you just need to practice on people and find out how to not cringe them or cringe yourself to death.
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I feel whenever I post my profiles on here, I end up immediately on ignore lists.
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>>27552091
I'll say that it's just paranoia, but even if it wasn't?
>some people that would've never contacted you anyway now will doubly-sure never contact you
Oh my for all the difference it'd make.

Relax, people aren't /that/ twitchy on here, even if the /trash/ thread did go crazy with namedroppers.
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https://www.f-list.net/c/droid%2021/
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>>27551228
>girly dog with tits

Don't do this to me.
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>>27552091
If someone is willing to read this thread just to find people to immediately ignore, you should count yourself lucky to not have to deal with their mental problems.
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18 white male sissy

looking for chat, role-play, dirty talk

into hardcore raceplay (black guys a +++), sissification, humiliation, chastity etc

not looking to swap pics.

kik: deannewton11
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>>27552102
What do you think of her profile?
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>>27552224
I like the scifi body horror aspect of it. The kinks list is pretty interesting.
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>>27552296
Which kinks do you think would go well with your character?
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>>27552429
I like the idea of forced transformation a lot. Forced and permanent TF's are the hottest, a lot of psychological trauma and body dysphoria. It's delicious.
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>>27552100
OWO

WHAT'S THIS?
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>>27552100
>>27553262
We're gonna need bigger bulge.
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>>27553286
Ok.
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Reminder, ALWAYS stick your dick in crazy.
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>>27554292
Why's her sign backwards?
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>>27554326
I honestly don't know, I imagine that wherever she used to write it ended up bleeding through to the other side and now she is just holding it backwards.
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>>27554292
What if crazy sticks it's dick in you?
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>>27554344
I'm yet to ever encounter a yandere boy, but like if you ever find one let me know senpai.
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New to this F-list thread.
Do you guys tolerate lolis and stuff?
Because I primarily play lolis and chubby milfs.
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>>27554374
I'm more than alright with it. I'm fine with anything in here, whether i'm into it or not.
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>>27554374
They're fine with me and if anyone ever tries to guilt you for liking them you can report their ass.
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>>27554374
Only thing that will make people here reeeeeee at you is if you are a furfag or bitchbreaker desu.
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>>27554374
Post profile
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>>27553155
As the player I will note that I like having some level of initial buy-in with extreme stuff - that's why the profile leans hard on the 'scifi fashion trend'/'peer pressure' vibes - but I do really love things going further than expected, sunk cost fallacy decisions, accidental complications to stuff and so on.

>>27554374
Lolis aren't even close to the boundaries of W E I R D S H I T you have to be careful about using. Just look at how absolutely bizarre my theme is.
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>>27554374
There are two persistent loli players around these parts, and I am also +1 into having no problem playing with the type (except for wiide swathes of f-list's population being into shit that turns me off). It just isn't all that visible because 4chan rules.

Are you new to f-list too, or just the threads?
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>>27554326
because she got it from you.
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>>27554374
Official 4chan policy does not endorse them, but when you keep it subtle and tasteful nobody will mind.
As for the actual F-list, anything goes. Anything.
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>>27554776
>but I do really love things going further than expected, sunk cost fallacy decisions, accidental complications to stuff and so on.
Give some examples anon!
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>>27556143
I mean, a shitty Porn sharing discord is hardly ERP, but its still closer than every other server you fucktards spam in these threads.
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>>27555131
Just these threads though I am far from an F-list expert.
I have been on the /trash/ threads before.
>>27554487
Here is the loli I play the most on.
I have a couple of more typical loli caharacters as well but they need a little work.
https://www.f-list.net/c/olivia%20behrer/
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>>27557294
That's an unusual choice for art but she's cute in a way.
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>>27541345
Did you meet the other person on /soc/?

Please do write them, regardless, if only to let them know.
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I kinda wouldn't mind rp'ing with a loli or milf but my character would feel major guilty about it. Though that's part of the fun.
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The recent release of Kangoku Senkan 3's English translation inspired me to make a profile centered around similar mind/body remodeling. Is anyone here interested in a game with those kinks?
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>>27557294
I remember this profile from TRASH.
delicious
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>>27557466
Okay, here it is: Stepford Solutions is now open for business.

https://www.f-list.net/c/simon%20saiz

I'd appreciate constructive feedback, since my older profiles were pretty bare-bones.
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>>27558282
Get some custom kinks. 5-10 total.


Other than that, it's good enough.
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>>27558584
Thanks for the feedback! What kind of custom kinks would you recommend?
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>>27558590
Custom kinks are chance to display your passion and interests. Use them to highlight extra details about your favorite scenes and kinks.


Just don't fill up the No column with the most customs.
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>>27558609
Thanks for the advice, anon. I appreciate the help.
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>>27559253
Shantae was made for porn. My ex used to know a chick named Shantae at her workplace, funnily enough.
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>>27559303
Is she your ex because you cheated on her with Shantae?
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>>27559303
>Shantae was made for porn.
100%
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>>27559356
She's my ex because I couldn't buy her a house and get married. She had a super hot cousin though who wore a hijab and tight dresses.
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>>27559384
Could the two of you together really not afford a mortgage, or did she have the idea that a woman shouldn't have to do more than load some appliances and make the food?
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>>27558584
>>27558609
I've added some custom kinks. Unless anyone has some additional advice, I think I'm ready to play!
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Bump.
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>>27561423
She kinda looks like Asuka from Eva.
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she also acts a lot like Asuka, meaning she is mostly useless and bitches a lot.
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>be me
>straight guy
>just wanna do an rp with a cute girl
>wanna do lots of cute cuddly romantic stuff
>attempt to find someone for many months
>literally nothing
>all the girls on this site just want to be abused or transformed into a horse or some shit
>ok fine, I'll make a female character
>gotta be some cute girls looking for other cute girls right?
>nope, same thing as the straight girls
>okay fine, I'll rp with another guy using my female characterr
>it's not gay because it's still a hetero pairing I guess
>find a guy who wants to do cute cuddly stuff
>do a few sessions
>lots of fun holy shit
>a few days later
>"damn, I really wanna suck his dick"
>wait a second.....
mfw this fucking site made me gay
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>>27561544
Thank you anon it's exactly the laughter I needed to sleep soundly.

Also, heads up, there are girls who want cute cuddly things and this is coming from a straight blue, just look at the right places. And don't be clingy.
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>>27561544
Man it took me all of 1.5 weeks to find normal ass rp with a straight pink.

Nice zzz strategy.
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>>27557307
I figured chubby lolis were kind of an untapped market so it was worth making one after I came across some decent art.
I don't get a lot of takers but I like her.
I sort of want to make an oppai loli style character but with a big butt instead of big boobs.
>>27557772
Thanks.
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>>27561544
Yeaah, abuse is definitely over-prominent on the site, but finding some cute girls into romance shouldn't be this hard? Sure, hitting off with an approach is a can of worms on its own, but you sound like you didn't even SEE any?
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>>27561544
I only play as my ideal type of girls then insert as my partners. It works a lot better than hunting for my type in a sea of snuff profiles and furries.
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>>27561570
glad to help

>>27561592
>>27561644
A couple of the people that I talked to expressed interest in doing something, but never actually STARTED anything. Some of them I talked to some or even did one session, before completely ghosting me, never responding to messages again. I swear, it's not like I'm being rude or anything. I think I just genuinely have bad luck. Which I mean, at this point I've found someone who actually wants to rp with me, so I'm not even complaining.
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>>27561760
Oh, you did nothing wrong.

That's just how it is, because people are terrible online and offline.


Glad to see it all kinda worked out though. I'm still searching for something long-term and niche.
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I personally give a lot of leeway for communication failure before going "this person is just not worth it". One or two messages may be missed. People barely every initiate contact, EVER, applicable to everybody, no matter how hard they gush over you. See this? This person has kinda vanished in between this last log and a couple weeks ago, on the cusp of february. And then they were super hyped up to play.
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>>27561780
Yeah, that's something I never really got.

I get everyone has life, other rps, and volatile moods but you'd think the people really hyped up would stay 'loyal' or at least tell you when they're ready to reach an ending.

That's the world we live in though! You're [useful] until you're [not] to some people, and it's just important not to get bitter and jaded over it. Even I'm on an rp 'break' while I try to shake some of the negativity off. I'd like to think I recover pretty fast though.
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>>27561780
The best RP I ever played ended after one part because I got weirdly nervous and didn't log on for months and when I came back they had deleted their character.
I kept telling myself I would come back but I didn't.
This site gives me some kind of autism that I don't have most of the time.
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>>27561801
Well see, there is no plans for an "ending". It is just the drift of life. People go in and out and back in. You just have to relax and accept it.
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>>27561838
I guess that's why I hate rp so much. LOL
Without giving away too much, I'm the type that prefers endings.

I see them as a reward for having a well thought out rp, so I get miffed even when shitty one-shots don't end. Endings are usually the first thing I come up with, then I work backwards to make an idea.I don't expect anyone to see things the way I do, but who doesn't like have a partner you can 'rely' on at least once a week? Hmm?

Going back into the fires of search over and over are obnoxious, but really I just should just stop rejecting people irl, get a gf, and delete my F-list forever.
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could someone post that profile with the templates/profile design tips?
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>>27561864
There's honestly no need for it, when you REALLY think about the F-List meta.

Things you actually need.

1. Profile pic
2. Relevant Images
3. Cool inline
4. Brief ic flavor text
5. Fill out at least 60% of the kinks
6. Add custom kinks

Nothing else really matters, but you're free not to believe me. Most people won't even read your profile, and the ones who do...don't usually care about the design, since they're looking for meaningful content.

So basically making a flashy profile only attracts even more shitlords, unless you're just really lazy...in which case RP isn't for you anyway. Other than that, I'm sure someone here or @trash has it.
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>>27561854
Uh, I meant that just drifts and pauses aren't necessarily meant to be an ending. You totally can have a planned finish in a specific plot, I did those too.

>I don't expect anyone to see things the way I do, but who doesn't like have a partner you can 'rely' on at least once a week?
You are definitely sounding like you're crossing two completely unrelated lines of thought here.

Line A: people drift apart, just randomly, this is facts of life. It doesn't relate to Line B of whether the RP with them had an ending, was planned to have an ending or was just an endless thing. And in reverse, you can have several one-shots, that each end properly, with same person if you are keeping in touch well.
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>>27561894
I get exactly what you're saying, but that's still not really how I see it. Horniness aside, I really put my heart into everything I write (not that other people don't!) , and I don't expect much in return, but people still fail on the simplest levels. I honestly value commitment higher than anything else, which probably shows I REALLY SHOULDN'T BE RPING.

Whether its Line A or Line F, an rp that doesn't end is failure in my eyes. That doesn't mean the rp wasn't worth the time I spent on it, but it's always going to be disappointing regardless of what made it happen. And 'keeping in touch' only works if it's mutual and people care enough to somewhat commit. If someone literally told me "I'm going to take a break from this rp for 2+ months." I would totally be fine with that, but using 'drifting' as an excuse to justify ghosting or have unexplained massive pauses is just annoying.

I always give my partners a chance to bounce if they lose interest, cause it's no big deal, but waiting on someone who isn't honest is just obnoxious. Whether that's life or a mood, the result is all the same to me.
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>>27561544
>mfw this fucking site made me gay
Anon read your own post
>>it's not gay because it's still a hetero pairing I guess
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>>27561854
What kinds of endings do you like anon?
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>>27562298
Bad endings are my favorite, but anything works at this point. Ending an rp is absolutely serene, and it's great to look back with pride in both yourself and your partner.

Half of the time, it hypes both people up for another rp to cover what was missed, but now both know how to best interact with each other, assuming the rp was satisfying ofc.
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>>27562422
What sort of bad ending? Death, enslavement, etc?

>it hypes both people up for another rp to cover what was missed, but now both know how to best interact with each other
That does sound fun! So you'll each create new characters for every new RP? Is there usually some kind of continuity, same world? Do you redo the same premises, maybe even same characters, and mix up other things to make it different?
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>>27561544
>this site made me gay

Hahahahahahahahaha welcome to the club, you're fucked. We all fall eventually.
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>>27562483

Without going into too much detail, it's basically anything we desire. Some people prefer crazy murder type scenes, mutations, or mind break but one of the best rps I did was just a steady alignment swap until they were no longer loyal to their original setting, with a somewhat romantic ending.

I occasionally reuse same character/premise with a different scenario. I'm pretty open minded overall and don't mind experimenting.
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>>27530410
This fetish list is like a damned tax form.
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>>27563411
Can someone just give me an idea of things that are common or something?
Fuck.
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>>27561544
>>be me
>>straight guy
>...
>>"damn, I really wanna suck his dick"
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>>27563412

What?
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>>27563412
What are you into Anon?
All you have to do is put that stuff in.
If it's not there just make some custom kinks.
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>>27563446
>>27563519
Oh. Nevermind. There's a compare- nevermind.
That did take a while to fill out though I kind of wish they had some bulk buttons. I got frustrated cuz it thought I was logged out when I first completed it.
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The key to the fetish list is that you only pick what you care about, and ignore everything that you feel neutral about. For example, I have no special feeling about Fighting / Wrestling , so it just doesn't make sense for me to even bother clicking on Fave/Yes/Maybe/No.
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>>27563627
I've been using f-list for maybe five or six years and it took me a few months to realize that in the beginning. I didn't even use custom kinks at the time but nowadays custom kinks are a lot more convenient thanks to all the specific niches I like.

I recently made a new profile because my old one was connected to a defunk email I can't access anymore and on top of that I needed a fresh start. I've only made one character but I have another one in mind I should probably work on that revolves around twincest. I'd use my current one for that but a lot of my kinks turn the vanilla people off, even when all I want it vanilla sometimes.
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>>27563627

That's a great way to get people who are into Fighting/Wrestling to approach you, since they'll question you about it if you match other kinks. This advice is fine, but you might want to have the more popular niche ones where they should be.


It does hide you from the search though, and nobody wants a massive NO list.
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>>27563646
>>27563627
...

Yeah I don't know what the fuck I'm doing. I filled out all or almost all the kinks because I was having trouble distinguishing between what needs to be included because I'm not interested, and what should be included because I am or might be interested.
It's messing with my head a little.

I guess its a fine test because odds are, no one's really gonna be into a male and certainly not into one that's so boring.

I'll probably just delete the whole thing and start over.
Cuz this shit... The character isn't really interesting, I filled out too many kinks, I think left some kinks I wasn't actually sure about in the maybe category...

Too OCD for this shit.
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>>27563685
Just choose what you specifically want to do with that character. If anything peaks your interest then choose it. If it has nothing to do with it then forget it.

The only no's I ever choose are no condoms, no scat and no watersports. Everything else I choose because I want it on the table as an option for partners.

I know how it feels to be OCD, even if I don't add some things to the kinks list I still pursue everything while creating a character just in case even if I don't pick anything from that category.

What kind of character did you have in mind anyway?
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>>27558282
>TFW someone bookmarks your profile.

I'm making progress, guys!
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>>27563764
I used to have a lot on my old profile. It's kinda fun starting over though. That dopamine rush. It's like a head pat every time.
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>>27563835
No Notes yet, but I've got my fingers crossed.
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>>27563860
I should start advertising in chat, it's been a year. I had to ghost someone last time who became really controlling and possessive. They even found my PSN and messaged me on it. It was kinda exciting at first but by then I was like, "Dude fucking let me breath!"
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>>27563873
How do I advertise in chat? I'm a total novice at all this. I'm usually the one who goes searching for a play-partner.
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>>27563878
I usually throw out an idea for a particular rp I have in mind or a generic wanted list of kinks. I'm kinda bad at it.
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>>27563744
>I know how it feels to be OCD
Oh no I was being facetious. Habit to call it OCD when I'm really not being that OCD.

The one I'm working on right now leans towards sissification fetish stuff. But I want to leave it open because really, its just about being dominated (and I don't necessarily need a lot of the things that come with that fantasy even though it is a fantasy I have). I really like the control aspects of BDSM. I find it almost comforting, in fact.

I'm using myself as a base to make this character and I'm not into furry shit so there's a lot of "average... average... average"
Figured I'd make him shy or shy to warm up at least since, after all, that would be easier to roleplay since I'm not used to this shit. I think I need a lot more to build onto character here to make it interesting.
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>>27563901
...A little shy at least.
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>>27563916
>>27563901
And he'd start 'innocent', I guess. That's actually a real strange thing to write. Lot of decisions lot of ways I can do that.
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Keep in mind that there are a lot of fetishes that cover others.
For example if you say no to gore or death you don't really need to specify that you aren't into decapitation or impalement.
Or if you say yes to underage characters you don't necessarily have to specify ageplay as well.
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>>27563901
>>27563916
>>27563927
Speaking of sissification I used to have this trap rp with an old partner from years ago, like six or seven. He was the first person I ever rp'd with.

We played a couple of trap delinquents who met after he started school at a private school in some east coast seaside town full of debauchery. There was a brothel that ran an underground sex slave trade and we seduced one of our teachers at school etc. It was a long term persistent world.

We were going to get into prostitution eventually. He was kinda lazy though so I ran most of the behind the scenes and extra characters which is fine in any other circumstance but he would never take on alternate characters and just had me play more and more until my character was in the background.

Man that makes me nostalgic though. Was a great setting.
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Okay so I think I figured it out. I can just make custom inclusive kinks.
Woe betide the person that ever reaches the 500 kinks on their list and its easy to combine some of these.

So I'll just make a custom category for e.g. piercings allow almost everything to do with piercings and uncheck everything related to piercings.
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https://www.f-list.net/c/ray%20miller/
Still looks long...
Still not really finished...
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>>27564467
Why do you have tribadism/scissoring listed?
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>>27563646
>even when all I want it vanilla sometimes.
What do you like your vanilla roleplays like?
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>>27564494
Oh that was a mistake.
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>>27564494
Although... something similar is possible at least for RP any way where you put a chastity cage on a crossdressing/MtF guy and he rubs against a woman or another sissy like lesbians do.
That was something I found off of locked in lace.
But that doesn't need to be included.
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>>27564545
I just think it would be a source of confusion at this point.
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>>27564546
That and I'm open to full magical gender transformation which I think I should probably include.
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>>27564546
I agree that its a source of confusion, however.
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>>27564560
Oh hey that's a good Mari
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>>27564564
Thanks. I work pretty hard on my profiles. There's more if you're interested.
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>>27564560
>Suddenly makes me want to reconsider my entire profile.
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>>27563932
>but he would never take on alternate characters and just had me play more and more until my character was in the background.
That's a shame but at least you enjoyed! You can always look for a new partner for a similar story if you want to do it again.

I look for profiles with storyteller/GM listed because I know I'm lazy too, so I should be up front about it instead of disappointing anybody.
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Every time I see "The Usual" under No kinks, my heart breaks a little, but then the degen just sows it back together. :^)

>>27564595
Having a nice looking profile means nothing if that's the attitude you're going to approach the site with. Get a profile picture and several images.
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>>27564608
>https://www.f-list.net/c/ray%20miller/
Uh what?

I still don't see a profile pic or images over there. What are you doing on here?
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>>27564603
You misunderstand.
I was only complimenting someone who lists vanilla sex as their favorite and puts some tag under the no category saying "if you have to ask..."

As for profile picture and images...
I didn't think images were mandatory in a text based medium?
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I seem to have misunderstood something.
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>>27564615
The first statement wasn't directed at you. lol


And YES they're mandatory. You will find near 0 rp, unless you a some sort of demi-god at approaching. Images or die.
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>>27564623
So you have to be a drawfag or use an unoriginal fiction character, then.
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>>27564627
Question mark
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>>27564627
Yes?
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>>27564633
...
Oh well uhhhhh
I'm gonna go do something else now bye.
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>>27564636
lol k, have fun.
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>Its easier to get a gf than be an autistic weirdo that just happens to not reuse characters from anime on some roleplay site
The irony.
I'm gonna move away from this distraction and try to complete my desperate /soc/ post for a gf or friends then.
And I'll try to figure out which I actually want to even post about and how.
Fuck.
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You know, there's so many things I want to say to you right now, but I don't think any of it is worth typing.

Good luck in your endeavors!
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>>27564653
If you really wanted to RP to replace getting a girlfriend the site as a whole is better off without you. There's too many people using f-list that way already.
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>>27564666
Woah, not that I agree with his methods, but who made you the judge?

If [degen] people feel the need to congregate romantically then that's their own heaven or hell. If you believe dating using/through F-List is wrong, then you should stop supporting the site all together. If it isn't against the rules, I don't see why you need to share that opinion in such an aggressive fashion.

F-list, like many of things in life, is just a medium for social interaction. It is what you make of it.
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>>27564682
He was the one who started out with the judgemental bullshit, but I stand by what I said. It's unhealthy and stupid to turn to roleplay to fill some social hole you have in your real life.
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>>27564689
Uh, no I was giving critique to his incomplete profile.


Are you a living cupid? Since when do you decide where people attempt to find relationships? Do you know the situations of every last fucking member on this site? Are you happily married with kids, looking down on everyone with your billions?

So exactly what the fuck are you on about? RP is used for so many different reasons, so I don't see why we need to rule any out, minus the illegal ones. Some use it as an escape, some use it to dump out their frustrations, and others use it to kill time.

Do you even have anything to back up your claims of 'unhealthy' and 'stupid' or are just shitposting?
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>>27563646
>because my old one was connected to a defunk email I can't access anymore
Wait was it deleted or something? Couldn’t you create a mail with same name on the service?

>>27563685
Yeah that's excessive and makes you hard to read quickly. You can back that up as a separate-linked uber-list but your main profile should be an easy to digest advertisement of yourself.

If you're new, I'd say try to make a profile for a specific niche rather than try and get everything you could possibly want at once.

>>27563878
Go into relevant channels and check names with Looking status, see if you match.
Do character search in the chat with same principle.
Post ads (use slimcat client for autoposting feature)
Talk and public RP in channels or poke someone else who did that and you saw.

When approaching, be ready to spring your idea.

>>27563901
Dude even if the averageness is part of the point, don't use the word, it looks bad. Make him at least handsome too, especially for the more regular bdsm. Make sure to leave hooks for him to get into relationships like that.

Shy? Shooting yourself in the foot. Seriously. Double barrel with OOC shyness.

>>27563927
Innocent but curious can work but only to that point, I'm afraid.

>>27563971
Going customs only makes you harder to search. You can hide them under the custom as a heading though that can be annoying if overdone.

>>27564545
That is the sort of specific thing that can be a custom if you want it present.
>>27564553
With tgtf yeah just leave it in.

>>27564615
Yes they are. Some people may be willing to give a chance but flist is a super judgemental place.

>>27564627
You can repurpose art, from taking faceclaims of existing characters and putting your personal take on them, to taking random pics from artists that don't have a character defined behind them.
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>>27564711
First of all, no. I don't have amazing luck with relationships. But getting online and pretending someone (who probably isn't the gender they're presenting themselves as 50% of the time) is your e-girlfriend. Seeking out that kind of attention is, at best a band-aid on a massive wound, and at worst an actual detriment to your real-world issue. I at least have the good sense to use erp for fun and to write interesting stories and occasionally for the eroticism without trying it to my IRL desire or lack thereof for a relationship.

Maybe you're content letting people do stupid shit, but I prefer not to watch people hurt themselves for stupid reasons. But of course I can't prove this with a peer-reviewed study (because there probably aren't any on this subject) so you won't listen and will continue to just believe you're right, but it's obvious shit that anyone could realize with a little tiny bit of thought.

I don't care what anyone uses erp for, but there is definitely a wrong reason to do it. If you're not going to listen (and I'm sure you're not) just don't bother replying because any further discussion would be a waste of everyone's time.
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>>27564653
Well, shit.

Yeah flist is not an easy mode to get into. Because people on it are in for specific things, and getting them done well is paramount.

I'm on it playing my femboy (pic not related) because I want to at least imagine being not a 6'6'' bear, and to get fetishy stuff that'd be immensely hard to get and get it right IRL.


It'd be the same with your sissification character - generalist GF is easy, just-right-way kinky is a whole goddamn lot harder.
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I'm >>27564560

Here's another one.
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>>27564797
https://www.f-list.net/c/makoto%20nijima/

Whoops.
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>>27564746
Shitty relationship luck? You and me both bro, but you don't see me holding myself or others to subjective standard as you so 'kindly' put it. You have all this big talk about x + y = z, but I could literally spout the same nonsense and suddenly we're at a stand stil. Your word against mine.


Nobody on this god forsaken site is your clone, so keep your "good senses" to yourself and let people do as they please. When I go out, I don't snoop around looking for a potential wife at bars, and I would never recommened it. That doesn't mean I'm going to fucking judge someone for just trying to live their basic ass life. The only detriment that I see here is that you waste energy caring about what [nearly] harmless shit people do to themselves on here. There's no peer review study because there's no original information that needs to be argued/observed/studied, so I don't even know why you brought that up lol. Even the way you use wrong/right, as if those aren't always relative terms in this context, is just another aspect that doesn't add to your argument. The only wrong way to use this site is to break the rules, or be so terrible at rp that you might as well be breaking the rules anyway. Or even better, why don't you tell me the right way to use Tinder and the wrong way to meet people at college.

In fact, 4chan does just as much damage as F-list, if not more, but I don't go around to every board preaching that everyone should get a new hobby, get off this site, work on 'fixing' themselves.


Or maybe I should? Let's start with you then! If you're so sure about the right and wrong ways of F-list, then please just offer yourself up for dissection. I wouldn't have much of an argument if you're living proof~
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>>27564823
I'm not going to read your post or respond because I told you, it would be a waste of time.
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>>27564826
Unless you're 80+ years old, I'm sure you've got plenty of time to waste. Don't worry!
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>>27564831
I'm saying it's a waste of time because neither of us is going to convince the other and I'm already sick of your tone so I'm saying we should stop slap-fighting.
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>>27564852
Then shift it from an argument to a discussion. No need to try and convince anyone, but I'm dissatisfied with how you've expressed your points.


Of course, I could backtrack and recommend that you learn to argue better, because there's a {right} way to do it from my perspective. ;)
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>>27564866
OK, well I'm also not satisfied with the over-saturation of cringey "please love me" profiles and how they pester pinks (even gay pinks, believe me). Beyond the mental health issue, they're also bothering others and dragging the site down with them.
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>>27564866
Dude, you are not entitled to anybody giving you the time of day.
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>>27564877
Much better than getting aggressively approached irl, no? Or maybe worse!

We're on a site full of degens, so beggars can't be choosers. I hate that I get bothered by cringy blues and emotionally volatile pinks, but I could never experience this mess if I was never on this site. The best we can do it put up as much 'preventative measures' as possible and try not to become jaded/bitter.

>>27564881
No shit, sherlock. I can't force someone to type, but thanks for giving me the time of day with your response. It's fucking 1 am already.
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>>27564886
Ok, retard. I was stupid for giving you a second chance, but if you're just going to be a cunt there's no reason to listen to you any further.
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>>27564906
That wasn't even mean or petty response towards you, but whatever floats your boat.
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>>27564502
I love opposites attract where two girls who "hate" each other fall in love. On the more vanilla side, boyfriends seducing their prudish virgin girlfriends into sex for the first time.

Not super vanilla but age gap romance is fun too when it's sweet and romantic if risky or taboo, straight or lesbian. I've been watching After the Rain.

>>27564737
I made a "This email is for naughty stuff" account years ago and for some reason forgot the sign in info and it's asking me to confirm with phone numbers and stuff and I can't be assed. So I just connected my new f-list with my regular email.
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>>27564560
>https://www.f-list.net/c/hitagi%20crab
>cute profile
>cute kinks
>every image featuring a man is fat old ugly mofo
C'mon, can't you have her step on somebody cute?
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>>27566709
are you lost?
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bump
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g'night everyone
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>>27567841
Damn I wish I could play with an Asuka.
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>>27565525
Do you like orientation play? Lesbian gets seduced/pressured into sex with a guy or vice versa?

>and it's asking me to confirm with phone numbers and stuff
Outlook/hotmail, right?
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>>27568757
Was an old yahoo one. I only made it out of paranoia at the time, trying to be all secretive.

And yes, I aboslutely adore orientation roleplay. All kinds of it.
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>>27568765
That was exactly my mistake. So yahoo's doing the same huh. What is their obsession with coercing phone numbers out of users?!

>And yes, I aboslutely adore orientation roleplay. All kinds of it.
Yum! What are your hottest or most original orientation fantasies or RPs or ideas for RPs? You could add ideas like this to your profile!
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>>27568775
My profile is a mixture of vanilla, hardcore and extreme. I like to let people pick and choose what they like from it.

https://www.f-list.net/c/daphne%20wittenberg/

As far as orientation play goes I love the idea of a girl who "thinks" she's straight being seduced by another girl. I love when opposites attract as well or when two characters "hate" each other and fall in love. A bully falling in love with the girl she's fucking with is cute too.

I do have a past rp character and setting I would like to reinvent though >>27563932
involving trapping. There's a lot that could be done with a closeted trap in denial.

Another kind of rp i've always wanted to try in a romantic setting (with orientation play) would be the bitchy Stacy with a secret soft spot and heart of gold. I love contradictory stuff.
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>>27568853
>As far as orientation play goes I love the idea of a girl who "thinks" she's straight being seduced by another girl. I love when opposites attract as well or when two characters "hate" each other and fall in love. A bully falling in love with the girl she's fucking with is cute too.
are you me?
stuff like this is literally my biggest kink
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work in progress~ Public channel play has been fun. Hoping someone on /d/ fills my chastity belt edit request
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>>27568930
Wow I should probobly actually like, link my profile in my post: https://www.f-list.net/c/bambi%20bootygasm

I need to stop listening to hypno when RPing
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>>27568910
That kind of stuff is my weakness though i'd have to make a suitable character to butt heads with another since Daphne is a bit passive, which is why I like the idea of a Stacy with a secret heart of gold.

Or just play Daphne differently, as a haughty uptight prep.
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>>27568938
Fuck that just game me an idea for an alternate universe Daphne who's a blonde, uptight prep with a chip on her shoulder.
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>>27568910
I love straight->lesbian orientation play as well. It played a part in my favorite RP and it was great.
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>>27568961
Straight boy> Sissy boi is even better
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>>27569008
Not my thing, but more power to you.
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>>27568853
>>27568910
>>27568961
Wow, now I feel like the weird one for preferring lesbian>straight/bi orientation play!
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>>27569073
I won't lie, and I know it's hypocritical but that kind of orientation play actually makes me angry. I used to just instantly block people when I saw it on their kinks list but I've learned to let it slide and try not hold it against people. Though if someone suggests it to me I tell them to fuck off and then block them.
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>>27569081
It's a sensitive thing in ERP I guess, like raceplay and sexism and probably certain other kinks. I don't think you really need to feel it's hypocritical when it's your sexual tastes.

What in particular upsets you about it?
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>>27569096
Mainly because I've run into too many guys who try to give me the "yOu JuSt HaVeN't MeT tHe RiGhT gUy YeT" shit. And there's also a lot of "lesbians aren't real" sentiment because dumbasses think they're a special exception. "Girl not want dick? That impossible..." It's really annoying. Plus there's real problems (at least in America) with gay conversion camps and shit like that.
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>>27569106
I guessed it would be something like that. It's understandable lesbian>straight in particular is a sensitive kink considering those attitudes.

I feel guilty because I'd happily play scenes with that real sentiment or fictionalized conversion camps, although not for the idea that it works and the right guy can make her genuinely straight, but to explore how she deals with her same-sex attraction while being pressured into a straight life.
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>>27569140
You're free to do whatever you want I just don't want people asking me for it.
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>>27569146
That's always annoying, when people ignore No lists. I'd just like to find somebody I could roleplay that "conversion" with where they're okay my character doesn't properly turn straight and continues to deal with her suppressed sexuality.
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>>27569170
That's just life, isn't it? Many people out live merely to take advantage and or use others for their own gain.
>The best we can do it put up as much 'preventative measures' as possible and try not to become jaded/bitter.

Anyway, with an idea like that, you could probably find a partner if you just make an ad for it and spam for like 2-3 days. It doesn't sound niche at all, unless you're looking for something story driven.
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>>27569208
Yup. Thankfully on F-List, if not the rest of life, it is as simple as blocking the bad apples when you can spot them.

>It doesn't sound niche at all,
Anon you build up my hopes like this!
>unless you're looking for something story driven.
and then...
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>>27569236
If you have genuine approach and a decent profile, there's no reason you shouldn't be able to find something like that. It'll just take a little more determination than usual.

I can give some pointers if you need them! Post profile :^)
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>>27569921
Cute!
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Also comes in optional dog flavor.
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>>27544736
>>27569998
>Avatar is literally just a colourswapped version of the default avatar
Why the actual fuck would you do this? Like I tend to ignore avatar-less profiles but shit like that, I'd fucking block you if you approached me like that.
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>>27570056
>Why the actual fuck would you do this?
Because there's no art that remotely resembles my character. I'd rather have no art than have art that misleads people by not being representative of him.
>I tend to ignore avatar-less profiles
Image filename related. F-list isn't for people who dislike reading. Go find a porn site or something.
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>>27570266
>implying I'm illiterate
Go fuck yourself with a shovel mate. A profile not having at least an avatar is the number one way to spot a shitter. You don't even fucking need to read the complete fucking mess of a post someone PMs you, if you don't see an Avatar 99.99% of the time they are some inbred furfaggot who can't read. Someone who is worth playing with is at least able to come up with SOMETHING even remotely related to the character that they can use as an image rather than the obnoxiously disgusting furry logo that F-list uses.
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Cmon senpai, we're all on the same team here. Make lewds, not war!
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>>27570300
Did I strike a nerve?
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>>27570325
Yes. I'm actually offended that you'd assume that I can't read or dislike reading because I do not want to put the effort into reading over a profile of someone who didn't put the effort into finding an Avatar.
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>>27570325
He's not wrong dude. It looks like a huge red-flag.
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>Have a really good partner
>We match out every single time
>Our RP sessions vary between super snuggly and super lewd
>It all goes well
>She makes a character she really wanted to play just for me, and I make a character that went well with hers; she not only accepted but was also super excited about the idea

>Today
>Everything was okay a while ago
>She logged in... with a character I had no idea was hers, I suppose?
>Suspected about it being hers
>Assumed it was not the same person anyways
>I act as such
>For some reason, and I think I am well aware I said nothing offensive, she storms off
>Once she logs back in, try to apologize, no response
>Immediately an alt of her logs in; actually talked to her on it
>Can only assume it's her
>Give a more heartfelt apologize, telling her I had the intuition it was her, and if I was right I wished to know what I did wrong, but that it was fine if she wanted to deal with it at another time
>No response
>Check bookmarks
>One less than before
>No response, logs off
>Character I made for her still has that one bookmark, however

Anons, I'm feeling terrible. What the fuck did just happen?
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>>27570708

Calm the fuck down and just let things slowly recover. Someone overacted and y'all are just gonna have to sleep this one out. No worries.
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>>27570719
Ah, before we continue. How did I tell she legit got mad?

>Me: Acts IC
>* She frowns
>Her has logged off

It was literally that. Consider she was responding to me with longer lines before that one.

And yes, I'm already assuming I'll have to let it sleep this one out. Not like I have a choice I suppose, and here's me hoping this gets fixed out. Because this is easily the one loss that I will be the most sorry about; she's legit my fave rper, and the only person who, in chat, can draw a massive paragraph out of me.
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>>27570728
As a moody bitch, I can tell you that I have those days, but usually I won't quit the rp lol.

99/100 times, something actually happened to them irl and they were hoping for a 150% perfect rp to block it out, but instead they just peeved themselves.

You honeslty should be fine, I think.
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>>27570744
I don't know, her likely having removed the bookmark on that character was a pretty strong signal, and I'm hoping she didn't outright /ignore me.

Best case scenario, she will probably greet me as if nothing had happened, and maybe talk it out very briefly before proceeding to rp. Worst case scenario I lose her. It's not the end of the world and I'll probably find other just fine rpers... But it doesn't help that we met again after two years of me leaving F-List, so on those terms she's special.

I really hope you are right and she just peeved herself IRL.
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>>27570744
Ah, something happened to them IRL? I am certain of one thing: she's sleepy af. How do I know? Because we both are; we played up until... 4 am my time, the whole thing was super raunchy and easily among the best rps I've ever had, and I can tell she was having as much fun as I was because her responses got progressively longer, same with mine.
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I think you'll be fine, desu.

Either way, don't panic too much. Good luck!
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>>27570762
Thanks. Trying to keep my cool.
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Well, its valentines day...
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>>27570708
>>She logged in... with a character I had no idea was hers, I suppose?
So like, did she contact you on that character, out of the blue, and acted like you're supposed to know each other? Super awkward whenever that happens.

I'll echo the advice to chill down and let things rest. Bookmarks fluctuate often, I constantly notice mine dipping from 180 to like 178 and then back up, with absolutely no rhyme or reason. It could've been somebody else random going on a bookmark purge and you having not noticed the number gone before checking at that moment.

>>27570728
Was that your IC reaction to her as a stranger would?
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>>27571667
>So like, did she contact you on that character, out of the blue, and acted like you're supposed to know each other? Super awkward whenever that happens.
Oh no, it was room play. She didn't act as if we should've known each other IC, but (and can confirm; will explain in a second) it was her and she acted wildly differently to me.

>It could've been somebody else random going on a bookmark purge and you having not noticed the number gone before checking at that moment.
I can maybe think of someone else doing that, but yes you might be right.

>Was that your IC reaction to her as a stranger would?
What IC reaction? She got angry and logged off. Zero chance to respond. What I did earlier? Nothing I wouldn't have done anyways.

In either case she did note me with apologies, an hour or so ago. She was just having a bad time and somehow blew up on me. I feel much better now.
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>>27571679
Yeah I was asking what your IC action was before she run off - if you'd maybe acted cold to her in some way while she expected different, or something. Just random guesses.

Well, good to hear it's all resolved.
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>>27571688
Oh? No, far from cold, I even gave her a rather cute nickname but she didn't seem to be up for nicknames either. Not like I knew a thing about her mood.
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Called it.

I'd like to retrieve my good boy points now.
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>>27572070
Good boi
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>>27571633
c'est la vie
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I think I might actually throw out some ads today and take advantage of Valentine's thirst. It's a foolproof plan.
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>>27571633
Yep.
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So what's your favorite genderbending stuff in roleplay, /erpg/?
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>>27572864
Reverse traps are good.
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>>27572864
I have 0 tolerance for genderbend.
It's one of my hardest No's.

I actually think Id rather rp with a male before doing anything genderbender. Lol.

Crossdressing is fine though.
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>>27572869
They're so good. Boyish girls are just the greatest.
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>>27572872
Why is that?
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>>27572864
I love immersive tf's so I want the genderbending to be as crazy for the character as if it happened irl. I like it when they are opposed to it and have to deal with the consequences.

I have an idea for a genderbender rp that is on a large scale, sorta affecting the whole planet or at least large parts of societies. In it scientists fire up the large hadron collider in an attempt to make contact with another universe but something goes wrong and it explodes sending a shockwave across the planet that turns either hundreds of millions of guys or all guys globally into cute girls.

The roleplay would follow my character and my partners dealing with the fallout and the world crazy reactions to it.

I also like magical girl genderbending tf's, twinning and body swapping.
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>>27573006
Dunno, it just breaks my brain. I'm just straight blue, but I can tolerate shemale/herm fine, but genderbender in either direction rubs me the wrong way.
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>>27572864
My first scene on F-List was pretty much my partner going from male to female and then being lezzed up by myself, so I'd say I'm fine with it but I'm not sure if it's my favorite thing ever.
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>>27573082
>by myself
I will forever mourn the fact that I thought of the profile name Go Fuck Yourself three years too late.
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>>27573020
Large-scale TF is the one kind I'm not into. It feels like it devalues the personal story, perhaps?

The closest is two stories I liked where significant numbers of people across the planet got TG'd, but not millions.

>>27573027
I wonder if it's usual that you don't like it either way, or if there's lots of people who dislike it just one way.
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>>27573137
Since I'm currently playing shota, the closest I'll get is a little feminization on him, but that seems to attract people who want a heavy emphasis on it...which then turns me off.

I really do try to be no limits, but the only thing I self-insert as is a straight blue, so genderplay smashes my immersion easily.

Literally anything else is fine though. I've the done some especially weird, brutual, and grotesque rps before.
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>>27573137
How about small scale, like everyone within a mile of an incident?

I mostly prefer one on one myself, like magical girl tf's or twinning (becoming an identical clone of an existing female like sister, mom, stranger etc.) or a female version of the male character OR if they look like a younger version of their mom.
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Did you have a Fun Valentines Day /erpg/?
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>>27574225
Just another average day for me!
I didn't mind at all.
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>>27574225
Nah, just played videogames, didn't even have mood for RP. Luckily dodged the typical "why don't you have a GF yet" pestering swarm.
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>>27573164
>but the only thing I self-insert as is a straight blue, so genderplay smashes my immersion easily.
So whether your partner is TG'd male to female or vice versa, the male bit clashes either way.

And unlike some grotesque or brutal roleplays, the maleness is there interfering with your straight blueness, rather than something extra on top of straight blue turnons.

>>27573175
>How about small scale, like everyone within a mile of an incident?
It's the context that matters for me, whether there are untransformed guys about. So small scale mass TG is hot if the roleplay is people (or a person) involved in the incident dealing with wider society.

If the roleplay is restricted to people in the range of the incident, then that's effectively global.

Maybe the right plot would change my mind but that's how I feel now towards the hotness of mass change. I've never actually done magical girl or twinning rp.
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>>27574722
That's what i'm saying though, the rp would follow the two players stories as they deal with it together. Maybe they are roommates or friends or something.
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>>27574722
Exactly and despite being like up for 99.99% of other kinks, people still manage to bring up playing with a male or feminization. lol

It's never enough for some, but I try not to get pissed off and stay polite.
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Had a decent scene going on but my partner seems to have peaced out on me. Not sure is I'm just retarded or they went off to bed. Maybe both.
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>>27575282
>Maybe they are roommates or friends or something.
I like this! But still the wider world matters to me. Even if both characters are girls, boys still existing in the world, in significant number, chances the feel of the setting.

>>27575819
It happens to us all.
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>>27530410
26/M/SOUTHEAST USA

Dom looking for a bratty little girl to discipline and give tough love over discord.

I want to make sure she only listens to daddy and does everything he orders her to do. Obedience is met with reward, disobey daddy and you'll be severely punished, but I punish out of love. I want to tell you all the degenerate things I would do to you and your dirty yet willing holes.

Preferably younger (but open up to 35). Must be ok with sharing pics on demand (we can take that slow). Must accept being harshly scolded and abused through VC. Above all you must listen to any demand daddy makes no matter where you are. Any presents and gifts you earn by being my good little girl will be sent to your nearest Amazon locker.

You will become my plaything but also be the object of my domineering daddy affection. I want to spoil you when I'm not using your holes for my pleasure. I want you to be my sweet little girl that I play with because she wants tough daddy love.

I want this to be somewhat long term so I will not tolerate any form of ghosting. You want just a 1 time schlicking session then look somewhere else, I won't waste my time with you. I'm looking for someone who wants to be completely and utterly dominated and abused by me and my words.

I am located in USA but open to having my sweet little girl from SA or Europe. It goes without saying that I prefer this relationship be online only due to practicality. But if we live close by then maybe I can slap you around in person sometime.

If you want to be disciplined, abused, and dominated as my sweet little girl then please contact me at leavemepls#0032
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>>27579424
heh
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>>27579424
Ah, sweet child of summer...
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>>27579424
Never have I been drier than "let me abuse you" right out of the gate, that's an achievement in itself
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Reminds me of my ex rp partner to be honest.
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>>27579558
"tryhard dominant" is really common. It strikes me as someone who's really just trying to be what they think someone wants instead of being themselves. "Oh 50 Shades of Grey is popular I better act like that guy!"
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>>27579571
Tryhard dom is the best way to put it. Nothing wrong with super commanding doms but you need at least a relationship of trust before that. 50 shades domming is straight up abuse on multiple levels
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Re-posting my brainwashing profile. Hit me up! Conversations welcome!

https://www.f-list.net/c/simon%20saiz/
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>>27579558
This entire thread reminds me of my ex rp partner.
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Kinda bummed, was expecting a partner to be online yesterday but they never showed up.
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tfw
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>>27581235
What
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>Tend to have sparse time to roleplay because it ends up taking a lot of my time up.
>Have multiple people a day who want to play who I've made sure to show interest in because I'd be impolite not too when I really do like their profile, but also end up never getting to play with more than one a week or so because of work.
I feel fucking bad. Like I should just stop talking to these people so I don't let them down. I mean yeah all they're missing out on is type fucking with some rando on the internet but still it feels bad man.
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>roleplay female character for a few years
>decide I wanna go back to playing men
>realize that I've gained a superpower that has allowed me to know which pinks are played by men

I know it's a weird thing to think about, but I didn't ask for this kind of knowledge.
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>>27581452
Pretty sure most pinks are played by men, honestly. Then again, I met a surprising number of women in my time playing Dead or Alive. Like, more women than I've ever met in any other video game. So maybe I'm totally off the mark here.
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>>27581468
I will say that if you leave the "sexual-by-default" circles and enter the slowburn and true roleplay groups, you'd be surprised. Way less furries and futas too. Granted I'm here for smut just like everyone is, but playing as a pink has given me a sort of hyperawareness to it. In all likelihood, I'm making baseless assumptions before I even talk to people, but Idk I'm just able to "spot it" now.
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>>27535923
Legit dont erp much anymore but might make a character for the sole purpose of rping with you :-|
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>>27535923
tfw like the look of your blue but essentially just a slut profile.
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>>27569073
i'm kinda with >>27569081 on it, too many 'fuck the queer straight' vibes but i guess everyone's into what they're into so i try not to take it personally
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>>27581235
>masturbating during ERP
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>>27582040
Amateur move, desu.
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>>27581503
>and enter the slowburn and true roleplay groups
Which ones?

And how do you tell? Give an example of something that clues you in? Do you ever sense which ones are played by women, or only get the sense the one way, confirmed male never confirmed female?
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2 rp partners I dislike on my primary profile managed to find my new one without knowing its me.


So many mixed feelings, but I don't feel like logging in to the first one now so they can't connect the dots. :^/
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Wow, unexpected sudden interest!

>>27581654
If you do, make sure to hit me up!

>>27581735
Hm, convince me, I'm not gonna dismiss your profile right off the bat.
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>get approached
>talk ideas
>ask if I can start
>sure
>begin writing
>goes offline before I'm even done with the intro
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https://pastebin.com/T8PSqVcB

A short little thing I did with a partner of mine before her internet died on us. We're set to continue it later though. The backstory is that her character Weiss is being punished for treason and Sable is "helping" by changing her punishment from execution or life in prison to humiliation in front of a small audience of officials.
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>>27583493
Thanks for sharing!
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>>27583538
No problem I had a lot of fun writing it for some reason so I thought I'd see what this thread thinks.
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>>27582219
r9k, is that you again?
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https://www.f-list.net/c/Jennifer%20Young

I'm such a pervert...
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>>27583717
I've seen worse.
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I approach the window. In the distance, a flag blows in the wind.

I turn to you and say... "Flag blows.... fags blow... get on your knees, bitch."

I throw up a stiff right arm and slowly say in my deepest voice "for you, Vater." I hear you below whimper "yes, daddy..."

You continue to rp as my Aryan bitch bisexual lean 5;8 bf. Good jaw line and pink hole.

Me: insert whatever gender you want, I can flip flop to suit your fancy
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>>27583794
holy shit dude
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>>27583817
You're interested? exchange discords?
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>>27583837
If you're not trolling, sorry, but that type of approach probably won't work here. MAYBE as an ad on f-list.
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>>27583848
What part indicates trolling? Wtf I am just trying to have a good time with someone
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If I wanted to run a lewd D&D or Pathfinder game, would any people around here be interested in that kind of thing? /erpg/ use to be a /tg/ general, right?
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>>27584002
It did and yeah but i'm a retarded noob about table top gaming. I know a little from reading pdf's of various kinds but never got to play a game.
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>>27584022
I don't mind working with players new to TTRPGs. In fact, honestly, my experience with looking for players so far has been that if they already know what they're doing with D&D/PF, then they've never ERPed before... and aren't really comfortable with doing it. That's a slight exaggeration, but I've found that when you're trying to find three or four players who are all on a similar wavelength as far as kinks and expectations go it's better to start with people that already ERP and then teach them how to roll dice.
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>>27584002
Depending on what system you wanna run I might be interested.
I actually have 2-3 characters who I made with the Intent of doing Lewd Tabletop games with, but then never did because it is impossible to get people to show up on time and have them not flake out when it comes to the following session.
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>>27584002
What all would you allow in the game?
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>>27584059
I'm most experienced with Pathfinder (dabbled in a few other systems) but honestly I'd be willing to pick up something I'm less experienced with if I thoughts I had the right set of players. "The right set" in this context would mean a group of players that are actually and honest-to-god interested in doing ERP, not folks that just want to play a game with a bit of lewd flavor.

This is a little obtuse as far as fantasies go, but I've had fantasies about being a lewd DM for about as long as I've also been a DM (years).

>>27584060
Do you mean what races/classes would I allow or how much lewdness would I allow? I mean, for the former it would obviously depend on what game we actually play but I like to give my players options. In Pathfinder I allow all the core, uncommon, and featured races along with all the classes except Summoner.

If you're asking just how lewd I'd want the game to be, then the answer is pretty lewd. If I were going to try and be cutesy about it, I'd say I want a game where the players come to cum but stay to roll some dice. A relaxed game that's simple without being bland or generic, a fun adventure to fall back on after everyone has blown their loads so they don't just flake off. Kinks obviously depend on players too but I'm open to most stuff.
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>>27583493
https://pastebin.com/NgrMfbGj

Finished up, here's part two.
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>>27579424
Shit I didn't think this would actually work!
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>>27584219
You going to give us the deets after saying something like that?
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>>27583701
No!

[spoiler]I want to know how people will judge me from my pinks[/spoiler]
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>>27584002
I also have no experience with either D&D, but I would *love* to try it in a lewd setting. How, when and what? Even if it doesn't take off, just discussing kinks in a group setting is kinky, haha. But if you need people, do tell me
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>>27584002
I'd be down to give anything a shot but I get the feeling my schedule will be WAY off from other people. My only experience is 5E but I could try other things.

>>27582536
I'm not opposed to trying some adventuring for a change, though I'll need to better flesh out how she deals with a scuffle.

https://www.f-list.net/c/Rikka%20Ferachio
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>>27584002
I've never played pathfinder, but a lewd version sounds like fun.
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>>27584378
"How" is easy enough. There's a site called Roll20 that's meant for playing games like D&D or Pathfinder online. Anyone interested in communicating with me about this game can message me on F-List (and get a look at my kinks in the process).

https://www.f-list.net/c/lewd%20dicethings

If there's enough interest I might set up a small Discord channel for a collective discussion. "When" is still up in the air, but I certainly couldn't do it on Wednesdays or Saturdays since I have other obligations those days. As for "what"- it'll be Pathfinder since that's what I'm most use to and it sounds like no one here has a strong preference against it.

>>27584436
Scheduling is always tricky when you're trying to coordinate four or five people meeting consistently on a weekly basis. For what it's worth, my time zone is CST and I'd prefer to play during the evening (also like I said above, Wednesday and Saturdays are right out for me).
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>>27584496
Sent you a note! Keep us all updated :)
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>>27584002
I'll fucking watch this mess unfold.
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>>27584339
There's quite a few things that heavily clue me in. Keep in mind that your mileage may vary A LOT, but I've made a few assumptions out of observations over the years:

Blue playing a pink if:
>not only do you approach first, but your first message is very sexually aggressive
>are into /ss/
>into extreme pregnancy and birthing
>into raceplay
>don't have any additional profile links outside of f-list on your profile
>disappear midscene (let's face it: you came, and now you want to do something else, I'm not stupid)
>have a profile that has a lot of pointless and strange RPG stats on it
>into dice games

There's a lot more, but these are a few of the things that tip me off. Feel free to disagree with me on any of them, but yeah. I will say a pink-playing blue is fine, but lot of guys out there who try to play pinks are bad at it. Like, reeeeeeally reeeeeeally my bad at it.
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>>27586289
I wouldn't say it's kinks that can clue you in, much more so writing style and general demeanor. Being into something that a lot of blues are into (ss) doesn't really hold that much water, since there are plenty of pinks-playing-pinks who like mommying. Then again, I'm way too switchy for my own good, and I enjoy the role of little just as much as mommy.

The one thing on your list that *is* often a dead giveaway is the random poofing in the middle of a sex scene. But it's mostly demeanor and way of talking, there are no hard 'rules' in my experience
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>>27586289
I dunno I know a girl who's into raceplay, although not at the really intense, stupid levels.
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>I'm finally going to make my blue for vanilla romance rp!
>...okay, I'll make another pink, but it'll still be for the romance I need so badly.
>gbhfrulk I love orc/horse/nigger cocks so much!
It's not just me, right? I'm not gay.
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>>27586289
>>27586370

I don't see why we need to figure out who is playing who. Just assume everyone is a guy until proven otherwise and you're gucci.

There's enough people who are just bad at rp in general that it stops mattering at some point. It's more of a race to figure out if you're partner is terrible than anything else, lest you want to commit and waste your own time.

>>27586406
Pretty sure some research shows that people are innately bi, but you're x10 gayer than me bro. I get 0 pleasure out of playing with any sort of males or femboys.Whatever floats your boat.
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>>27586406
It's not just you, there's lots of gay people 'around these parts. It's fun.
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>>27586424
You are both perfectly mistaken. I am straight, and that's that.
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>>27586446
Again, whatever floats your boat bro.

I'm not going to discuss your sexuality, or your denial of it, on 4chan of all places. Live your life as you please. It's not even uncommon for straight men and 'straight' men to be turned on by gay porn and gay fantasies.

I don't see why you even opened yourself up unless you wanted to be attacked as such. That's some fucking 1 IQ gameplay. Searching for validation on here is a terrible idea.
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>>27586289
I'm a blue playing a pink, only one of these things applies to me and that's having a link outside of F-List on my profile. That kind of thing weirds me out a little.
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>>27586469
You sure you're not gay?
You sure sound like a fag. At the very least, a stick's been up your ass.
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>>27586485
Your insults are wasted on someone who barely gives a fuck, but getting offended when you feel personally attacked is the most manly thing a guy can do. I won't hold it against you.

Is this the part where you start slut shaming me?
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>>27586446
It's not just you. It's collaborative wordsmut. Stop feeling insecure about your sexuality. I grew out of wanting to play pinks but stop thinking your gay. Wanting to play your fantasised female ideal isn't gay, and it's no gayer than playing a blue with another male player playing a pink. It's fantasy with a layer of suspended belief. Calm yourself. Do you watch gay porn or suck dude's off? No? Do you enjoy watching dudes kiss? No? You're probably not gay.
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>>27586499
Hey, can you not ruin my fun?
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>>27586481
As I said, ymmv. Most of my determination is based on judging writing style, but I usually don't get that far for several reasons, some as I've listened.
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>>27586485
Just ignore that cunt. All he does is act like a dickhead.
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Literally where is the shame in being gay, suck whatever needs sucking. Cock is great, pussy is great, and ass is ass no matter what.
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>>27586541
Sadly it isn't that simple. I have friends who really struggled with it because they're programmed to think of it as bad by their upbringing. I was lucky that my parents were accepting, but I know people who weren't so fortunate.
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>>27586508
Of ALL people in this thread, you choose to defend the stereotypical dudebro that you hate so much IRL. Does that not bewilder you...even just a little?

I'm honored that I bring this out in you, but don't worry, I'll be done posting on soc in about week.


>>27586541
something something social stigma, stereotyped male expectations, double standards something something
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>>27586541
being homosexual is pretty gay desu
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>>27586560
I know it's a lot more complicated than that, but a lot of it is between people's ears. My sister's wife grew up extremely christian and was essentially bullied by her family for not being girly/effeminate enough, for not being with a man, and now she's ~my sister's wife~ and the parents are incredibly supportive of her
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>>27586575
It's hard to go against your programming. I live in the south and I still am afraid of approaching girls because they might think I'm gross or a freak or something.
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Aaaaaa why are people so /people/. You try to set up something with 3 people, person 2 logs off while you look for a 3, you find an *amazing* 3, you talk shit, eventually you talk dirty a bit, he quite obviously cums and goes all "I never cared about you or your 'friend' 8)" and blocks me. So fucking infuriating.

Someone stuff something down my throat. Cock or gun, either works.
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>>27587365
>I never cared about you or your 'friend' 8)
What the fuck?!
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>>27587370
Yeah, that's what I thought. The first thing I told him was "hey, it's me and another pink, she's busy rn tho, can we chat and figure out if you'd match us?"

But nah, he was too cool and edgy for that. He just needed someone to talk about anal for a bit and he could go to bed happy, much like I won't.
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>>27587382
That's fucking awful. He was a bad partner after all.
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>>27587390
Which fucking sucks because he seemed more than perfect all the way through. It was either that, or the fact that I'm invisible on discord and didn't want to tell him why, but I seriously accuse him of cumming and losing interest.

The pump and dump train never fucking stops huh

I'm so mad I'm getting sad wow love that
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>>27587408
Wow. Empathy is kicking in I want to give you a hug, I'm sorry you have to go through that. Why is it that F-List has too many dipshits running around?

What's so fucking difficult about communication? I just send a lengthy note to a partner who seemed to be REALLY conflicted about me, so I'm pretty much encouraging her to tell me how she's really feeling while I also explained I feel bad whenever she leaves because her mood changed or anything. Why are people so fucking bad at communicating?
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>>27587427
Cowardice mostly.
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>>27587427
I'd be happier with a lack of communication. If he'd ghosted me, I'd get a "oh, okay, lost interest, shame". But to actually tell me "hey nah fuck you you served your purpose get the fuck out of my life" is unnecessarily hurtful. As poor as an alternative to f-list spamming my kik in literally every other thread was, at least people were never straight up malicious.

I just want to have fun, and I don't think this is it.
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>>27587439
You could try reporting him. If the mods are incompetent enough (as they usually are) they might give them a time out for being a dickhead for no reason.
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>>27587437
Don't I know?

>>27587439
Ah. Maximilian here.

There is a huge difference between just saying the shit you feel and to know what and when to say it, and of course we all prefer non-aggressive communication like his. Being bad at communicating also implies being bad at saying things.

It fucking sucks.
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>>27587443
I've already signed out and have absolutely zero desire to waste any more time on that asshole. I'm happy to deal with literally anyone and their weird bullshit but just a complete lack of respect and I think doing something **just** to hurt someone else gets my blood boiling so fucking hot actually.

Can you tell I'm mad because I think it's p easy to tell that I'm mad
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>>27587455
Yeah but if he gets banned he can't do the same thing to someone else.
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>>27587462
I wouldn't be able to pick a generic firstname lastname profile out of a haystack if I tried. I'm going to bed before I start crying. It's fucking astonishing that the most friendly people I largely haven't met are the ones that have 4 c h a n in common.
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>>27587474
If you're using f-chat 3rd edition you can click the "recent conversations" button on the top left.
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There's no real advice that helps here. :(
Just uh try not hold it against future peeps. Obviously this guy's intent was to piss you off, and I dont know of anyone who wouldnt be in that situation. Venting usually helps, so just keep at it.


Good luck :(
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>>27586289
>don't have any additional profile links outside of f-list on your profile
i'm a pink who plays pinks and i don't have any links in my profiles
unless i misunderstood this one
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>>27586289
Extreme pregnancy is definitely a nasty blue kink, but I've met overwhelmingly more women who had a birthing kink, but not a pregnancy one at all. It freaks me out actually, I'm living among those women.
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>>27568853
>I love when opposites attract as well or when two characters "hate" each other and fall in love. A bully falling in love with the girl she's fucking with is cute too.
Oh my gosh isn't that the best thing? It makes my heart go all doki doki~
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>>27586370
>But it's mostly demeanor and way of talking,
>>27586506
>Most of my determination is based on judging writing style
What are the clues in demeanor and writing style?

Besides sexually aggressive approaches indicating blue.

>>27586423
>I don't see why we need to figure out who is playing who.
We don't; we need to figure out how to stop other people figuring out who we are!
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>>27587443
Unless he used a poltard insult, there probably wouldn't be anything done, desu. Forgetting that shit exists is really the only way to deal with it most of the time.
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>>27588511
There are no solid "okay, now I can tell you're X/Y" sayings, unless they discuss their irl genitals. Sexual aggression can hint to male, but doesn't always. One thing that does tell me 'probably male, and probably an annoying one' is a super deadset attitude on a certain fetish. If I get approached with a "hey, X kink play?" and I say "how about XY kink play?" and they get dissapointed off of that, they are ~maybe~ more likely a male. But, again, not always true.
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>>27587502
Mostly links to other accounts that exist off of f-list

Again, they aren't hard set rules. It's just observations that have tended to be right most of the time.

>>27587682
Yeah, that's fair. Also, I'm starting to notice more women than men are into mpreg, it seems. Again, I could be wrong.

>>27588511
>we need to stop other people from figuring out who we are
Or you can just act like yourself and learn how to be a pink through observation and not act like you're trying to be deceptive? Like, bruh. It's a gut feeling and it's really difficult to describe to someone who hasn't played a pink for years. Just do say your goal is to not be found out. That's weird.
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>>27588511
>>27588874
I think the whole thing boils down to this: if you're playing a pink, act like it so you help the other player keep the immersion. Giving hints about you being a male is a mood killer.
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>>27588782
I'd never have thought of that one but it does feel to me like a very male behavior. Who knows if that's accurate though.

>>27588874
>learn how to be a pink through observation
Observing what? I play with blues.

>Just do say your goal is to not be found out. That's weird.
It's to avoid being a mood killer like >>27589087 said.
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>>27588505
EXACTLY!
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As someone who exclusively plays with pinks and 'pinks', I'll tell you how I figure out then.

As peeps have already said, sexually aggressive IC/OOC is already a dead give away. If you have Steam link on your profile, you're probably a dude too.

BUT REALLY THE #1 KILLER IS OOC CHAT. I try to avoid OOC chat that isn't rp related for many reasons, but people love to talk. As someone said above, instead of focusing on deception, focusing on making a great rp.

If they ask you a question about your OOC sex/gender, just threaten to alert staff if they continue to pry for info, unless you're into it. At this point, you really should judge if the rp is even worth it.
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>>27589252
>BUT REALLY THE #1 KILLER IS OOC CHAT.
I've met a few irl pinks who are fine with OOC chat, what about that?
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>>27589269
Sorry if I didn't make it clear.

OOC chat is usually when people start telling too much about themselves, and it's when I can figure out if they're a dude or chick IRL. Diet, hobbies and discussing other characters/rp are usually a give away, so just be wary of what you type if you're playing as a 'pink'. It's not like I even bait out for this information...some people just love to talk too much.
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>>27589289
Oh, OOC chatter helps. Like if someone talks about things a girl would usually do they're probably irl female. And they just give that info away without you asking.
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>>27589305
That's not to say that everyone is bound to their gender stereotypes, but I've even kinda figured out someone was trans just because of the way they talked OOC. And ofc they later confirmed it without me asking.

Pic is a random example from my logs. I really do try my best to be polite to people, so I guess that sometimes encourages replies as well. I seriously don't ask for these things though.
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>>27589341
Being polite helps! Personally all I do is to ask a "how are you" and from time to time I get different answers. Recently a partner of mine got concerned because I told them I didn't sleep at all the previous night. They were so concerned they forced me to get some sleep, so I'm legit starting to suspect a very irl female vibe from that alone.
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>>27589341
I have literally said things like that before to give the illusion of being female irl. It's a trap.
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>>27589430
Devilish
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>>27589430
>That's not to say that everyone is bound to their gender stereotypes, but I've even kinda figured out someone was trans just because of the way they talked OOC.

Which is basically what happened in my first example, since they had a heavy emphasis on feminine activities, but it was in stark contrast to their actual interests.

I really don't care, I just heavily dislike OOC talk, which unfortunately a turn off for some. I get that people look for chat buddies on F-list with people they like rping with, but I do not intend to be one of those people.

And yes, even as a dude, I know what the struggle is with rping with guys. Many want to imagine that the 'chick' they're rping with is masturbating to/with them, which is a whole nother level of fantasy. Although that's a preferable scenario, I seriously don't think about it that much, as the only thing I care about is if I'm enjoying the rp as much as my partner is. Everything else is extra and ruins my interest to rp with people just as much as people who sporadically respond. That's just me though.
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>>27588874
>Also, I'm starting to notice more women than men are into mpreg, it seems.
I've only got a couple contacts that are into mpreg that's confirmed female. One is pretty much just extension of her overall oviposition fetish, another is just because cboy pussy too hard to resist. Everybody else whom I got interested in those ideas were definitely dudes.

>>27589353
Pf nah, I get that same exact response from dudes too whenever I answer in that fashion. And give it too, as a dude.
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>>27589719
>Pf nah, I get that same exact response from dudes too whenever I answer in that fashion. And give it too, as a dude.
It was not just "dude I'm not rping with you if you're sleepy". It had a bit of a maternal side to it, more like "go to bed, now". Even when I kept insisting on staying because it was early anyways.
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>>27589744
>"go to bed, now"
Yes, that's what I meant.
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How about we just pretend everyone is a guy unless you fuck them IRL to confirm otherwise.

Next convo, ty.
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>>27589780
Ah, it's not a good metric then.

>>27589851
I'll talk about whatever I want.
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>>27589851
Personally, I like to pretend that everyone is an FBI Agent
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>>27530410
>used to rp all the time
>get gf
>no longer rp bc too close to cheating
>gf rarely does that kind of stuff
i love her but i wish she would rp, how do i get her to
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>>27589946
>Having a GF in the year of our lord 2015+4
3d is for the weak senpai, just ask her to do the dirty with you, if she declines drop her for anime babes.
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>>27589946
Considering that dirty talk is a derivative of rp, you could easily pull this off if you get her turned on about it consistently. You basically need to work backwards and ease her into it.

>>27589894
Know/knew one actually.
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>>27589851
Pretend everyone is a sentient mass of spiders. Then you won't WANT to know them.
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Are dictionary definitions a cliche? I really like the way one breaks up the layout and adds a little flavor, and I haven't seen too many on other people's profiles, but I don't know if it's a turn-off.
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>>27590501
I haven't seen it THAT often so I wouldn't call it a cliche.
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Wow, help me here.

>Come in after a long day of work
>Log in
>Two partners are in: one I haven't been able to play with in a while and one I was supposed to play with soon because she showed interest in my profile
>The first one, we only do light stuff because she was tired
>The second one, smut rp until she said she was too tired... as well
>Both end up logging out
>Probably also scared favorite partner out because I politely asked her to be more communicative instead of poofing whenever she was feeling uncomfortable (with stuff she initiates); still haven't seen her and I wouldn't trust on seeing her today
>End up rather alone
>Try to talk to people in rooms; nothing works, awkward as fuck
>Only hit up with one person because her proposed plot seems interesting to play
>Again, end up doing very light stuff because it so happened she also wanted something light; she will probably leave soonish too
>Not really into several pinks, too awkward to approach some others, and too dry to approach the rest

I can't win, what am I doing wrong?
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>>27589252
>I try to avoid OOC chat that isn't rp related for many reasons, but people love to talk.
I like not directly rp-related sexual chat. Not "are you horny too" stuff but more like this thread, discussing fetishes and things which may later be used for rp but not necessarily.

>>27589289
>>27589305
>>27589430
What are feminine/usually girl things that hint at pink? Besides diets lol.
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>>27590611
And while I'm on this I ought to look for another hobby, at least as a side thing. I didn't have these low fucking moods before coming back. Ffs.
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>>27590048
>Then you won't WANT to know them.
You know, there are sooome people....
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>>27589851
I don't know why people don't keep a healthy separation of player/character. I am my character. If I give you my discord to talk to me outside of F-list, you will still know me as my character, or a blend of the real me and my character. I don't want to know the real you, you don't want to know the real me. Unless we had some sort of magical love story where our real selves were more appealing to each other than the fantasies we played together, but that's a dream and not how these things tend to go.
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>>27591743
I always assume everyone is a guy irl but my last partner and I had a really weird OC and OOC relationship where we both presented as girls at all times even when having casual OOC conversations when not rp'ing.

It was kinda fun. We were just both basically making up fake personal shit about each other and rolling with it. We didn't care if it was real or not. Though we did have a few meta laughs about how absurd some of it was. We realized it was goofy but it was fun. It was like roleplaying outside of the roleplay.
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>>27591743
You already answered your own question. Some are just lonely/thirsty and are looking for anything and others just want to dump a large amount of social interaction into OOC stuff.
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>>27591217
You aren't alone on that one. While the high points in erp are really fun, it also stresses me out to no end. I want people to have fun, and constant worries for me are "do they think I'm being weird/are they actually enjoying this", things like that. I know it's impossible to please everyone you get into contact with, but I hate that fact and it makes me feel useless. The feelings of existential dread and sadness might be related, but the jury is still out on that.

Long story short - help, how do I stop worrying and learn to love the lewd? I don't want to just quit erp again, because I always end up missing it.
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>>27591857
Just one question. Why do you try to guess whether they are having fun or not?
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>>27592325
Because that's an important element of roleplay, or anything sexual with one or more partner, online or otherwise. I really enjoy it when people have fun, and feel bad when they don't, but I also have my own insecurities that make me think less of myself. Which is why I worry.
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>>27592333
Oh, there is a difference. Notice how I worded it out: why do you try to *guess* that? The best you can do is to take however they look like as your answer. If they are not enjoying it, they will tell you. If they don't it's ultimately on them, not you. It would be really childish from anyone to expect you to read their mind somehow. If a partner seems like they're enjoying it, then they are. One of my partners threw hints (obvious ones) at them getting nervous from doing things. Only then I asked her to tell me more clearly. But I won't guess a thing if they don't say a thing either.
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>>27592348
I'm more or less aware that no feedback tends to be good feedback, but then there's the insecurity telling me that they're just playing along to humour me. Just the occasional ((<3)) would mean a lot to me, but I feel awkward asking for things like that.
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>>27592352
>they're just playing along to humour me
You could say this about just anything. They're responding to humor you, or they accepted to rp to humor you. At the end of the day, what difference is there from someone humoring you and actually rping out of interest? You won't know. It is therefore pointless to try to guess, and because it is far more probable that others are there out of interest (because someone not interested would not even accept), then it is fair to assume your partners are there because they are genuinely interested.

As a quick fix though you can ask them to give you feedback often. It's a quick fix because your insecurities won't be gone and you cannot force anyone, but asking hurts no one.
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>>27592370
I tend to ask for feedback between scenes or after sessions, and it's almost always positive. Really it's just unsubstantiated fears that give me anxiety and stress me out over nothing, to which no real easy fix exists.
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>>27592386
I'm aware it's unsubstantiated fears. But you can always do this: whenever you find yourself guessing whether others are enjoying it or not, remind yourself it's more likely that they are enjoying it rather than not, because you cannot differentiate a good lie from truth, and because others will be telling you they're not enjoying it.

It's pretty much that. Just push aside your negative thoughts with that rationale.
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>>27592392
These are all things I *know*, but "just push aside the negative thoughts, lol" only works on paper. I try to do that, most of the time I succeed, but when I don't I start doubting myself on a lot of things.

Someone teach me how to be satisfied by typing "big boobies" in google images again plz
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>>27592397
It's not just "lol just push them aside", I'm telling you because I had to work on that myself. How do I put this better... Whatever you feel is originated by whatever you think, not the other way around. You always have the ability to put your own thoughts into question. And if you manage to change that you'll eventually change your feelings.

What I'm telling you is a very short extract from a therapy I had. It helped me to be able to deal with my thoughts and I do feel generally better, even when I might fail such as here >>27590611 so I do know I'm not telling you far fetched things.
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>>27592407
I'll take your advice, then, and try to apply it going forward. Or maybe I'll just lay low for a while and see if I feel better if I RP less. Depends on how today goes. Thank you, in any case.
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>>27592419
I wish you the best. Note or PM me if you feel like chatting more.
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>>27592423
I'd love to since I'm always in a chatting mood, but I don't think I quite caught your profile?
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>>27592432
I'll log in.
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>>27588782
>If I get approached with a "hey, X kink play?" and I say "how about XY kink play?" and they get dissapointed off of that, they are ~maybe~ more likely a male. But, again, not always true
I have an amusing story about a woman playing a pink who had a certain kink she was so, so focused on me satisfying for her. When she found out I could reasonably play the "gay guy who knows nothing about girls" she wanted to do roleplay only about him finding her pussy disgusting and unappealing.
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>>27591857
The best way to tell if someone enjoys something, is whether they try to do it a second or third time with you. People don't repeat bad experiences on purpose.
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I'm about to rework my profile into a dedicated shota. :(

I hope this is all worth it in the end.
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>>27592956
Shotas can be great fun, but be careful to not be too similar to the already existing endless horde of small boys. Coming from someone who really likes playing with shotas - I have a stupid amount to pick from, and I only pick the ones that stand out.
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>>27593240
Damned if I do, damned if I don't sort of deal.
=)

I'll throw a unique spin on it, as I do all my profiles, but it's suppose to appeal to way more people this time.
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>>27593267
Good luck! Goodness knows you'll need it.
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So now that Valentines is passed... what should the next thread theme be?
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Okay, now that my mood is better than last night.

I think one of my larger issues is that I'm downright terrible at room play. I feel super clumsy at doing any sort of approach. I try my best to throw myself out there but no one gives a single fuck and I just cannot push myself into any ongoing banter not matter how much I try. Sometimes there are characters I'm interested into and I have no idea how to approach. Honestly I'm surprised I have partners at all. And even though I'm not shy to approach normally I am too shy to do so sexually, as I think it was addressed elsewhere.

Are there any options for me, besides ads considering I don't have anything specific in mind and only get my creative juices running once there's a partner around? How do I roomplay?
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>>27593946
>not matter
no matter*

Also I'm sitting in 7 rooms and I don't know how to do a thing in any of them.
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>>27593714
fuck it, no theme, unfunny memes instead.

>>27593964




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