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>New gm.
>She's asking if we have a problem with sex and sexual violence.

Is this a red flag?
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>Is this a red flag?
yep
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Not necessarily. Generally when I GM for new people I just ask a sort of blanket "mature themes" statement.

I asked this before because there was a serial killer that murdered and raped prostitutes. It could be something like that, or it could be magical realm. Who knows.
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>>62435052
crimson
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make a rogue with athletic expertise and max out str

BECOME the sexual violence
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>>62435052
>sexual violence
always a red flag.
especially if you play these games to have fun and unwind after a long week of IRL.
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>>62435052
>She
That was your first clue
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>>62435070
Yeah, she's at least asking, but the fact that she specified sexual violence means rape might be involved...
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>>62435052
Only if you're uncomfortable with it.
Also,>>62435070 has the right idea.
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a lot of spergs fuck this up because they are idiots.

actual sex is interesting. sex in the context of a ttrpg is very boring. you wouldn't sit around and describe yourself eating a sandwich either but sandwiches are fucking delicious.
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>>62435064
>>62435084
t. Tumblr
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>>62435108
I don't think it's Tumblr so much as it is because That Guy almost always tries to work his fetishes into a game.
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>>62435107
I lol'd

>>62435052
Ask the GM what she intends specifically. By just guessing you're setting yourself up for failure.
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>>62435107
That is a fantastic analogy
Have a (you)
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>>62435052
>>New gm.
>>She
yes
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>>62435052
Ask if the sexual violence is actually being directed that the player characters or if it's just a part of the world.
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>>62435052
your gm sounds like she's going to run a really awkward session and ignore people's signs that they're uncomfortable, because she is autistic. her group will collapse and she will have no idea why: I thought everyone said they were OK with the rape?
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>>62435052
Run with it, OP. The burden of suffering is your holy duty to shoulder!
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>she
yes
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>>62435098
>She
>That was your first clue
That OP is bad at crafting bait? I agree.

I'll still bump it, but come on
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>>62435130
this, we've all heard enough horror stories online to know where certain lines of questioning/behavior generally lead, and it's never a fun place.
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>>62435052
At least she's giving you the chance to say "yes" instead of just coming to the session with handcuffs and too much vaseline.
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>>62435098
wouldn't be alright if the gm was a fat hairy guy either
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>>62435052
Just say you have a problem with it and she will keep her magical realm out (Or subtly inject it)
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>>62435140
>Ask the GM what she intends specifically. By just guessing you're setting yourself up for failure.
Indeed, especially:
>>62435204
>Ask if the sexual violence is actually being directed that the player characters or if it's just a part of the world.
When and where the sexual violence will take place, as anywhere close to the PC means you are walking into a magical realm.
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>>62435052
>GM is woman
>He dont fuck her retarded first day
Lemme guess, you're a little sissy white boy aren't you?
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>>62435052
Females GM (the 3 of them I had at least) tend to not shy away from these kind of theme
just go for it and drop the game if it's shit
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>>62435052
>is asking for red flags a red flag?
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>>62435052
>She's asking if we have a problem with sex and sexual violence.
>Is this a red flag?
Nope. I've seen GMs ask about that before; they just want to be mindful of any triggers their players might have.

It's like, the last thing you want as a GM is to accidentally trigger your players and have that ruin your game.
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>>62435052
>He doesn't wanna erp with his female GM

Obviously if you or the group are uncomfortable with those themes then let her know. Some groups can handle that sort of thing better than others.
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>>62435052
>She
This is the real red flag.
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>>62435107
What if you stole the broodwich plot from athf
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>>62435052
>She
>Sexual violence
On their own, no, together?
YES.
Women are way fucking worse with inserting their magical realm into shit.
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>>62435107
ypu deserve
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>>62437119
This. I am in a women only group and Jesus Christ. /tg/ is in comparison an innocent monastery
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>>62435052
Not necessarily. Depends on the game you're playing. If it's any kind of horror or investigation game, it's probably fine. If it's high fantasy or anything else like that, you should at least raise an eyebrow and >>62435204
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>>62435052
>She
That's a flag so red, it makes me feel like renting a helicopter
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>>62437820
>/tg/ is in comparison an innocent monastery
Well, this IS a Christian website after all...
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>>62435052
Since she's actually asking, no

Unless she kicks you out if you say yes but at that point it's moot
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>>62435052
Play along, Anon. I'm sure you'll learn a whole lot about women, and yourself.
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>>62435052
I don't know honestly.
It sounds like one, but it may just be that she's used to some people being very uncomfortable at the mere mention of a bandit raping a peasant girl, so if you are uncomfortable maybe she'd frame it differently into "a peasant girl was robbed by a bandit"


Ask what she means by it.
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>>62435318
>too much vaseline
That's an oxymoron
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>>62435052
Did she ask you this after just ending a session while doing thrusting motions at you with her thumbs up and winking?
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>>62438558
as christian as a filthy pr*t website can be that is
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Yes, but play anyway.
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>>62435052
I wouldn't want to play with people who have a problem with those things.
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>>62436506
Triggers aren't real, and pretending to care about them for the benefit of your pussy players is the real red flag.
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Yes it's a red flag. Not because of potentially using sex or rape, but because giving an unironic trigger warning instead of just reserving that sort of theme for playing with people you actually know
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>>62435107
>you wouldn't sit around and describe yourself eating a sandwich either
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>>62435052
>Is this a red flag?
The fact that she asked people what they're comfortable with is a good sign. It's up to you to speak up if you're not comfortable, or at least to inquire as to what exactly she's talking about if you think you might be. If you're not comfortable with what she's proposing, then it's a question of whether or not she'll compromise her approach to include you. If not, then you have to decide whether you'll still give the game a go or bow out immediately. But at that point, you've been given fair warning, and don't really have much right to complain if you don't like the type of game it turns out to be.
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>>62438840
>Triggers aren't real
Walk into a veteran's center and say that.
Do people misuse and abuse the concept? Hell yes. Does that mean that the underlying phenomenon it describes never existed in the first place? Absolutely not.
Tumblr rainbow-haired morons claiming that they're triggered by pomegranates is stupid, but it is entirely possible to trigger PTSD flashbacks in a woman who was actually raped. And then it makes everything awkward because you dredge up all kinds of confusing and nasty guilt on her part because her upbringing conditioned her to think that it was her fault for being held down and violated, and now she also feels guilty about making a scene over something that she's tried to put behind her.
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>>62438840
What she's doing is the equivalent of asking people if they're okay with spicy food before dumping a bunch of chopped up habaneros into whatever it is that she's cooking. It's a simple matter of consideration for other people's tastes.
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>>62439165
I finally have an opportunity to post this
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>>62439484

I mean, that isn't actually wrong. Whether the sex was consensual or not, she still had sex with someone to which she wasn't married, and that makes her a slut by definition.
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>>62435052
Roll Hector the Well Endowed
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>>62435078
Kek
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>>62435098
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>>62435259
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>>62438552
OP does not need to know you are stupid 12 year olds
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>>62439531
Sluts generally don't break down into tears or have panic attacks when they remember the last time they got fucked.
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>>62435052
>she
immediate red flag in my book.
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>>62439954
But that is because you are a moron that is too young to be using 4chan
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I was thinking of actual advice to give but everyone seems to have it covered. But I really wanted to post this picture.
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>>62435052
It should be fine unless she's a magical realm DM. Like unless you were raped or something horrible, you should be able to handle imaginary sexual violence the same as you handle regular imaginary violence.
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>>62435052
Ask if she meant sex/rape in game or within the IRL group.
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>>62435052

There's a big difference between your characters hearing of rape and your characters seeing rape and being raped. Don't answer the question with a blanket "yes" unless you're legitimately okay with spending half of a session being raped.
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>>62435052
It's only a red flag if the DM is a male.
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>>62440415
What are you talking about? Girl (male) DMs are the pinnacle of TRPGs.
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>>62435052
>She
Yes.
>Sex and sexual violence
It's like May 1 in the USSR
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>>62435098
Gr8 b8 m8
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>>62441899
So the inside of your head is a black dick?
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>>62435052
"You mean, like, in the game, right?"
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>>62435052
>>new gm
>>she

Stopped there
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>>62442407
Your brain stopped long time ago
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>>62438595
>a peasant girl was robbed by a bandit
I can see the plot already: he stole her innocence - and it's your job to get it back by any means necessary.
Are you up for it?
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>>62435098
Sorry youre right
Only men should do the truly masculine job of weaving fantasy worlds in a make believe game
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>>62435052
She wants to rape you
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>>62444566
Digits don't lie
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All this tumblr and reddit users in here, disgusting
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>>62435107
>I tenderly cut the grilled cheese in half diagonally, spreading the melting warm cheese from each side until the strands gently choose which slice to fall onto.
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>>62446751
t. retard who is disgusting.
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>>62435107
>>62446839
See, you just don’t know anyone who’s good at describing sandwiches.

>>62446751
>Posters on 4chan who hold opinions different from my own?! That’s unpossible!
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>>62435052
>playing FATAL
no
>playing other stuff
maybe
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>>62435052
No, but this
>new gm
>she
Is
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>>62446976
No ,you being a dumb fag is
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>>62447007
I bet you are homosex
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>>62447027
No you
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>>62435052
Make a trappy/bishounen character, I fucking dare you.
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>>62435052
She asking in advance if you'd like to enter her magical realm. That's great for a DM! She's communicating with the players and establishing boundaries ahead of time. This is the flag that says "FUCKING GO FOR IT! (if you are comfortable with it)." Definitely let her DM, though.
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>>62435052

i have literally john molesta and airships with 'slaves' in my game so i dont see a problem with this.
whatever triggers the players into wanting to kill someone
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So OP did you have the first session yet?
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>>62435052
>>New gm.
>>She
>>sex and sexual violence.
>Is this a red flag?
No, it's three.
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>>62435052
It means she wants to rape you.
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sex is right out, D&D players arn't mature enough for that and the system is inadequate to handle it

Come to think of it the extent of drama that D&D can portray consists solely of attacking monster's Hit Points and the monster's hitting your character's Hit Points. So to that end I'd say ramp up the violence in the extreme. Real RPGs are like playing the piano, but D&D is like playing the bongos, you only get a few sounds so you have to use rhythm and intensity to bring variety and interest.
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>>62439816
Now youre just being silly anon
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>>62449237
I bet you're the kind of person that skips all the dialog in video games.
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>>62435107
This guy has obviously never read a Redwall book
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>>62435052
>she
Is it a real female or one them special snowlakes who cut off their dicks and demand to be called Whamen?
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>>62449167
>No, it's three.
lol'd
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>>62447007
Are you really gonna respond to every single one of them?
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>>62435052
>She
Yes.
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Depends on if it's a she or a "she", but you'll just get two different brands of crazy.
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>>62452972
That is the way of Knights of White, Order of the Virgins, Defenders of Women.
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>>62435052
The 'New' bit is what's a tad scary

The rest isn't

Ignore 90% of this thread
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>>62444178
I know just what to do!

WE RAPE THE BANDITS
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>>62435052
>new gm
>she
This thread is 200% fake but I'll play along.
It's either magical realm or its gonna be edgier than thou 'tism
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>>62435052
Yeah.. get out, go play a "game" that keeps it fun and not try to 'shock' you whith their hipster shit..
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>>62454078
We do not do these things because they are easy, but because I am hard.
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>>62435052
>Is this a false flag?

Yes
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>>62435052
Well...yes and no. I mean, she DID ask and you can say you do have a problem and then presumably that content won't be there.





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