If I got a approached by a guy telling me I'm very pretty and asking for my socials, does that mean I'm not an ogre? I get some men can have abysmal tastes, but this made me feel so nice I'm still high off it. And I'm pleasantly surprised men still approach women IRL, he took me by surprise because I had seen him there for more than an hour and he was mostly on the phone and never looked in my direction more than anyone whose eyes would casually wonder about. Does that mean more men might think I'm pretty but scared to approach because:a) modern hysterical politicsb) i have a resting bitch face, unfortunately. So even if I'm cute I'm probably putting people off
>>32320546Might be. Here's an idea for you to fix thatSmile more often. Just in general, randomly, as you're going about your day.
>>32320689I'm told that often but I find it tiresome and end up with head and jaw aches, like I'm forcing my face in a certain expression. Is that normal?
>If I got a approached by a guy telling me I'm very pretty and asking for my socials, does that mean I'm not an ogre?nope. guys will hit on ugly girls more often than hot ones because they think its easier. they will also lie and say you're pretty even if they don't think so. but that said, its more probable that he was just telling the truth and he did think you're pretty
>>32320546You know it’s typically not a good idea to accept shit from random strangers right? We teach children the concept of ‘stranger danger’ for a reason, it’s supposed to be a rule for life, OP. Are you a female autist that’s about to become part of the 86% abuse statistic among female autists?
>>32320546you are good enough, anon. with that said, don't get your validation from strange men on the street. very very bad idea.
>>32320709Not saying smile all the time. Smile when you see something cute, smile when you see something funny, smile when you catch somebody looking at you and you're interested in them. Don't overdo it but smile from time to time.
>>32320716it's a beautiful lie everyone should hear it every now and then, more so coming from a stranger who has no interest to make you feel good about yourself but still risks rejection
STOP APPROACHING WOMEN. STOP USING ONLINE APPS. STOP GIVING WOMEN ATTENTIONStop Asking Women On Dates, stop texting them thinking you are interesting because you are not. The reason you are getting ghosted is because you text and try to be funny, try to make her laugh or sound interesting. If you do manage to go to the next step and are actually meeting up and then get ghosted, stop taking women on dates. That stuff doesn't work anymore in the current year. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pyEdsrfTd6Q https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gK1w1cAKS7oMost importantly stop approaching women, at least for a while. They are already seething and this will only get worse and worse as they get less and less attention from men.If men can't display a modicum of power over society, this world and women, then I guess they don't hold much power at all.
>>32320709NtaDon't hold the smile constantly. Just pop one on when you make eye contact with someone or something pleases you.
>>32320716This is why I fucking hate all men. You genuinely can’t trust their words.
>>32321067A hole is a hole.
>>32320716This is brutal. Should I not trust men when they approach? I’m going back to telling you all to fuck off when you approach. I mean wtf, really?
>>32320722>>32320738beggars can't be choosers. nothing wrong with accepting a compliment
>>32320716i personally would never hit on someone ugly, unless i'm really drunk and can't tell what they actually look like. unfortunaley i'm only brave enough to hit on someone when i'm drunk so this makes my life very interesting
>>32320546did you give him socials, and are you planning to talk to him / go on a date?Contrary to what the guys are saying here, I'll only really approach women who I find really attractive or if I think that I might have something common with them.Mainly because approaching gives me anxiety, so to overcome that, I'd have to really want to approach someone, so the more attractive she is, the more motivation there is to overcome that anxiety.
>>32320546>does that mean I'm not an ogre?Yes. Or he was messing with you. But probably the former.>but scared to approach becauseI don't approach women that I think are pretty because most of them, the vast majority, won't appreciate it.
>>32320716THIS. I've cold approached around 15 girls, and I can guarantee you only one of them was "very pretty", in fact she was a 7.5, but she was a red head which to me makes you a 9 imo. If I saw picrel, my brain would subconsciously avoid her and I'd make a move on the 6/10 qtie with nice hips but kind ugly jaw. I hate it, because there's literally no downside of approaching the 9's. They all say no lol
This thread is fucking with my confidence. Lol im with the other anon, Im usually nice when men approach but if this is how so many of you are, im going back to telling you all to fuck off.
>>32320546you're probably cute. it's probably the resting bitch faceI was one of those dudes that ended up asking out cute girls with a face that seemed like they just smelled poop because I saw no one else was doing it5 out of 10 said yes, which is a very high % compared to other group of girls.the resting bitch face might be a deterrent but the guy who's really interested will overcome thatalso the ones like me who learned not to take that face personally.
>>32320709a small smirk from time to time, not a full all teeth huge smileI've been told I look positive and approachable because my resting face is a slight smirk when I'm in people modemy natural face is a bit of a serious/angry dude tho, so they get confused when they see me walking around the city and not in the mood to strike random conversations
>>32320716what are you talking about the only dudes that do that are desperate and you can tell they are desperate by their behaviour, what sorry shitshow of a friend circle do you have.
Any man wanting to (seriously) get laid, and any man wanting to (very seriously) get into a relationship will immediately eliminate between 93 - 98% of the human race to narrow it down before he even tries a cold approach.A straight guy eliminates all males. That's roughly half the human race right there.A white guy wanting a white girl already eliminates all but about 230 million people.A white guy in his 30's wanting a female 18-25 eliminates all but roughly 25 million people.Then add in basic, basic, basic features preferences like height, hair colour and eye colour and all of the human race gets narrowed down to about 5 million.That is like the bare bones elimination process. You could take it even further by specifying stuff like tattoos, piercings, body modifications, etc and that whittles it down immensely. And that's without the girl even saying anything. And still assumes all females in those categories all over the planet. Fixing for what's available in your city IS THE NEEDLE IN A HAYSTACK.Then you narrow it down further, by education, language, religion, creed, ethnicity, heritage, politics, hobbies, family life, morals, values, etc.Any guy cold approaching you, and being even a little serious when doing it has already eliminated something like 8.25 billion other people he could be talking to.That means something.
>>32323437I won’t say you’re wrong, but it does feel like a bit of a cope.
>>32323133You’re a pussy and the woman you settle for deserves better
>>32323633I'm married, and have been for longer than most high schoolers have been alive.I found my needle in the haystack. That's how I know it isn't a cope, it just is what it is. I went through the same narrowing it down process as I described.
