I want to get my gf to become more open about discussing her fetishes.Any tips?
getting a big black dildo is always the first step that gets girls to open up
>>32322044Buy her a cow outfit and a collar and when she refuses ask her "well what do you want to do?".
>>32322157>>32322190I was hoping for some actual advice
>>32322044I'm on the same boat, I have trouble talking with anything sexual with her maybe its my own fault since i get embarassed easily twlking about it desu. I wish she sent me more pics of herself too (It's a long distance relationship)
>>32322226>Have sex >Embarassed talking about sex
>>32322205i did give actual advice. most women are terrified you'll leave when you know what their actual desires are. once they know you're cool with the BBD they can open up to you. women love size and girth and that's the first step you have to communicate you understand and are okay with, because most women have to spend their whole lives pretending their boring hubbies 5"x5" unit is the most satisfying thing they've ever seen and they totally sublimate their real desire
>>32322251We haven't had sex yet
>>32322264>Long distance relationship>We haven't had sex yetNigga you're being led, break it off and find someone else
>>32322226>I have trouble talking with anything sexual with herop herethat is 100% your own issueI talk about sex and stuff regularly and am open about itit's just that she doesn't want to tell me anything about her fetishes because she's scared I'll judge her for them or something>>32322256she already told me she doesn't like dildos
>>32322285I'm scared she will judge me >>32322278We're still few weeks web-dating but we have plans to meet next month
>>32322313Stop being a pussyAlso stop wasting time online and meet up and fuck as soon as you canAlso your issue is not relevant to this thread. You haven't even met or had sex let alone at the stage of discussing fetishes
>>32322330Sorry for kinda of hijacking your thread but I want to become more intimate with her and to know what she likes and don't about sex, next month is the fastest we can meet we already have a date she's come visit me if she doesn't postpone it if she does tho then it's probably over
>>32322044>I want to get my gf to become more open about discussing her fetishes.Women don’t have fetishes, and any girl who tries to tell you the contrary is mistaken about fetishes. To women, they think being into blond men is a fetish. They think dating a taller or older man is a fetish. They think preference = fetish. So never ask them what their fetish is, they don’t even understand the concept let alone have an actual fetish.Women aren’t meant to have fetishes anyway, that isn’t where they get their sexual fulfillment. They prefer becoming a man’s fetish. They get their jollies in becoming a man’s fantasy or fulfilling his fantasy with herself playing the star role. Women have no use for fetishes.
>>32322363a girl doesn't come to your place if she doesn't want to have sexif you don't make out and have sex next time she'll question herself as to why you don't wanna fuck and she'll convince herself you don't want her.if you want to get to the right mindset, listen to the most based podcast/radio show on the subject:https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLh8oUx_ONafVSS0Sk3ToWOdTIjivPbcDIorhttps://archive.org/details/blackphillip
>>32322405you fucking virgin
>>32322406That's fair were probably going to make out idk about sex tho, she's a virgin, very shy and never dated anyone or had a bf sex on our first meeting might be going to fast and scare her
>>32322410>you fucking virginI must have hallucinated my whole marriage and 5 exes prior then, all those times I fucked were all in my head then, damn. Wake me up when a woman demands to have her face sat on by a man as her fetish and not some safe lukewarm shit like “omg! When a man does the half smile, that is my fetish!!”
>>323224221st meet: make out2nd meet: finger her and make out3rd meet: sexany slower and you ruined italso listen to the black philip showI went from being a perma-virg retard to having constant sex and being confident and comfortable with women because of that show
>>32322431>I went through life being delusional thenyes you didyou probably also only attracted loser women who were uncomfortable with their own sexuality
>>32322443No they were comfortable in their own sexuality as women. They just didn’t have the sexuality of a man though, like what you are suggesting. Maybe dykes can be the exception and can have fetishes. Or the mentally ill BPD crazy who wants to wear a strap on and fuck the man in the ass. Those would be examples of women who have the sexual appetite of a man lol
>>32322462thanks for proving me right retardyou sound like an incel larping or a fat retard who married some fat pig and never had sex again
>>32322437Our first meeting will actually be she staying 3 days at my place I have a bed for two so I'll see how she feel about sleeping together, and stop shilling your eceleb coach please
>>32322478Patrice is no e-celeb, they didn't exist back then you virgin faggotalso if she's at your place for 3 fucking days obviously she's there to fuck you retardyou should fuck her after the 1st night AT LATEST you dummy
>great thread derailed by a literal virgin
>>32322044My gf had the same problem. Part of it is just give-and-take. Saying something like "I'm going to tell you one of my fetishes and you have to tell me one of yours" and then immediately say what it is. From that she would start thinking in a way that looked like she was contemplating whether or not to say her true fetish. She would then tell me a fake mild one as a distraction. From then on I would just occasionally (every few weeks) try to gently egg her into telling me what it was.After about a year she finally told me it was urethral insertion. I told her she didn't need to be embarrassed and that I'll look into it. Unfortunately it seems to be legitimately dangerous so I had to ultimately refuse.
>>32327137I tried that trickBut she keeps dodging or naming some mild ass fake shit and I don't wanna wait a year to get a real answer
