My gf has never had a problem with my height before. We've been together 6 months now.yesterday she brought it up out of the blue, because she was curious. I just said I didn't know, because: A) I really don't, I know I'm something around 5'9 but I'm not certain, the last time a doctor measured me I was 18, 6 years ago. and B) I think it shouldn't matter and her caring about it just comes from a place of insecurity. She wasn't satisfied with that so she broke out a measuring tape, I relented and let her do it. I don't think I will ever forget the look of disappointment on her face. I felt like garbage, and she just ended the conversation and went back to working on her computer. I was kind of stunned, I don't think she even said what I measured.looking back, I think what she did was incredibly rude. I would never bust out tape to measure her tits or waist.And I certainly wouldn't ignore her like that if I wasn't satisfied with her. and she's MUCH shorter than me, on her dating profile it was 5' and I think that's accurate.She's gone back to normal now, but I don't feel right. It feels SO FUCKING STUPID to end a 6 month relationship over something so petty, I'm not being an idiot am I? I can't get the image of how disappointed she looked out of my head. And she was perfectly happy until this point, its just the arbitrary number that's a problem, but how is that my fault?
>>32323604She's asking basic information about a guy she's been going out with for 6 months, that's not insecurity or weird, it's curiosity and wanting to know more about you. You are so unbelievably pathetically insecure that any mention of height within 30 feet of you by anybody seems to trigger you. Holy shit, you're fucking pathetic, try growing.
>>32323612she already knew how tall I am from seeing me.What is the number supposed to do?
>>32323604>She's gone back to normal now>It feels SO FUCKING STUPID to end a 6 month relationship over something so petty>I'm not being an idiot am I?Yes you are being an idiot for even considering breaking up over something so petty. And that's on you.But yes, I can also understand your disappointment in her disappointed reaction and I think you should talk to her about it.
>>32323604That picture is manipulated, a patriot verified trvth nvke is attached.
>>32323604Height is just a number if you don't let it dictate your attitude. Have a tall mindset and it won't matter. Literally be you, as you are, don't apologize, compensate or doubt because of it, let something stupid and petty like this slip right off your back and act like you're 6'5 with the dick to match. Worst thing you can do is be insecure about immutable characteristics.
>Height is just a number if you don't let it dictate your attitude. Have a tall mindset and it won't matter.
>>32323604You should ask to measure her ass and tits and then make a disappointed sigh. The problem isn't your height it's that you went along with it like a bitch.
Ask her how much she weighs, and if she doesn't give you an answer, pull out the weighing scale
>>32323624>I ate tacos a lot so she could tell my favorite food>why ask????
>>32323612Holy shit you're retarded. If you actually take the time to read OP's post you'll learn that he had no issue with having his gf measure his height (or "learning more about him" as you inaccurately worded it), but her impudent reaction and abrupt dismissal of the matter that made him feel like less of a man. How hard is that to understand, fuckface? You're right that height shouldn't matter as much as it does, but what OP took away from the situation was that it's the exact opposite because of the rudeness in his gf's behavior. She shamed him over something he has no fucking control over, completely out of the blue. The current dating landscape encourages foids to get dug out by Chad the second they find the slightest issue with their current partner, so shit like this holds a great deal of significance towards men in relationships. Sincerely, lick the shit off of my boots kys.
>>32323739what was I supposed to do? I did try being dismissive and talking her out of it. I wasn't going to get aggressive and take the tape out of her hands, is that what you're saying I should have done?>>32323795poor bait
>>32323604What if she just wants to buy you a sleeping bag or some cool pajamas and needed to confirm your size and you're being a massive bitch
>>32323823It's the same fucking logic you presented, how the fuck is it bait? Eat shit.
>>32323808>>32323823Insecure as fuck, wow. Real woman here, you're kind of gross and pathetic. Maybe grow?
>>32323831>>32323837you will never be a woman
>>32323837>no argumentYou don’t have shit to say because you know I’m right. Vapid slut.
>>32323823>what was I supposed to do?Literally what I said. Turn the tables on her. If she is judgemental of you, make her feel judged. Measure her tits and ass and tell her it's below average. Or if that's not the case, tell her her eyes are not symmetrical or her ears and put a tape measure to it. If she complains then just remind her that's how she treated you.You should have done it in the moment though and not days later because that just makes you look like more of a bitch now to be harboring a grudge and strike back afterwards instead of someone who was just being assertive in the moment and standing up for yourself.
>>32323974thats immature af thoughshe should just not be vain in the first place
>>32323604Manlets, when will they learn...
>>32323808Caring too much is going to make things worse. Despite what the blackpillers saying, dwelling on the negative is worse than not caring anymore. If you're a manlet, you have to not care. If you get insecure, it will only make things worse. Any guy can get dumped for any reason, you can't dwell on it and freak out. Not being afraid of being dumped is 1000 times better than ruminating on it and acting in an insecure way. When you do care and get insecure you need to manage it well. Don't let it out in unhealthy ways. You will be punished for it. If it's too much then just move on.
>>32323974Don't do that. Never do that.
the grim truth of the matter is that women care about height. sorry. it isn’t fair, it truly isn’t, but that’s the way it is. But the way she went about it is really fucking shitty, like you said imagine if you measured her cup size and had the same reaction when you found out they were A cups. Obviously it’s possible for a man to still love a woman with A cups, like it’s possible for a woman to love a short man, but to have that reaction tells you she’s a shallow bitch. Presumably you’ve already fucked her before so your work here is done. Dump and move on
Got a funny feeling this is fiction and just an effort to criticize women for a perceived shallowness
>>3232642190% of shit on here is fake, or pasta spamming retards.
>>32323604Either forget it, or sit her down and honestly tell her in a calm manner that it hurt you, then move past it or break it off if she won't empathize and apologize.
