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>be me
>looksmaxxed for years through various avenues
>primary interaction with random people is via their wageslave jobs
>ie cashiers
>recently started to take physical fitness seriously
>suddenly getting treated snotty or outright rude from bitches

What gives on the last part? They're totally normal when I'm with my gf and prior to this. It doesn't happen a lot but it's enough that I'm noticing it.

On a positive note, I've noticed pretty girls "accidentally" touching me more.
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>>32325675
It’s probably “shit testing” so good sign!
i.e. you look like the shit, you look like a king! So they are testing if you act like a king, if you act appropriately in sociallly challenging quick thinking situations. It’s an unconscious maying ritual to see if you are the shit, since you look like it, that do you also act like it.
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>>32326021
you don't want shit tests from cashiers, you want outright flirting. something is askew
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>>32325675
I don't think they mean to touch you. The cashiers that treat you rudely is because they're being dumb and the ones that treat you politely is because they're having a good day or the don't have to go pee or use the bathroom or had a good break or lunch time.
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>>32326021
What do I do? I will say that the girls doing it so far aren't the cutest, but just in case a hot girl does it one day I don't want to fail
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>>32327360
oh, they're attracted to you but know you're out of their league

the thing about shit tests is there's no "passing," there's only disregarding the legitimacy of the test. that's the actual test happening: will you ignore her frame or fall into it?

common responses to shit tests:

>agree and amplify to mock the test (easy)
>ignore (easy-moderate)
>bust her balls for doing it (harder)



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