Since i got out of my last relationship i got into online dating but quickly abandoned it for obvious reasons and thought i will just prepare for a dry spell.Well jokes on me because now that i'm single i literally jump on any crumb of attention i get. This has led to some problems because i started fucking my friends. i didnt think it was an option but apparently they are all down for it (I guess i overestimated mens standards when it comes to sex). Problem is i dont want fwb i want a partner and i regret giving in so easily. I am too shy to talk to these friends about this because im scared they might think im in love with them and that it would ruin the friendship. Its obvious that for most of them it was just a one time thing (even tho there is this one friend who i still engage in that with and i do have a crush on him but again scared to drive them aways by confessing).What do? How to stop being a stupid slut??
>>32326375Your one job is to not spread your legs, you dumb slut. You deserve every bit of drama and pin that comes out of this. I hope one of your "friends" i.e. orbiters gets jealous and fucking beats you(Yes I know this is a rageb8 LARP but damn is it effective)
>>32326375Think with your brain and not with your vagina. If you have a crush on that friend, start talking to him more and see were things go, and don't lead him on and don't let him lead you on. It happens a lot with both male and females. Also stds are on the rise so get checked out
>>32326375Op, being a slut is one of the simple joys in this life. Sex is natural, don’t let these men who don’t get to have it much, if at all, tell you what to do.Don’t be such a fucking pick-me Op Jesus Christ have some pride, you get to enjoy sex just like they do. Maybe don’t fuck all your friends though because that will become an emotional headache later. You can definitely fuck some though if you’re confident they’ll be chill about it.Enjoy your life, don’t be a pick-me
>>32326375I mean seriously, have some pride op, it’s fine to enjoy sex
>>32326454>>32326460>It's fine to be the bicycle of the friend groupLol yes this always turns out well and the men who tolerate this sort of thing from potential romantic partners are totally not low-quality
pretty much any guy is going to say yes if you know them and offer sex. the only reason a man will talk to a woman is to try and have sex with her
Have fun explaining to your next boyfriend that you fucked all your friends, but it's totally chill because they never caught feelings (N.B. guys always catch feelings but aren't so weak to always yap about it like women)
>>32326501Maybe don’t tell him? The fuck? Are you socially retarded ?
>>32326516Yes...I am the socially retarded one....
>>32326516So she should lie? What if I told you that was my plan for my future gf?You have a bad carfax, and her future bf is just supposed to take that? That she's the car dealer trying to sell a car with a bad carfax?
>>32326602Op, see how they don’t even see you as human? Just do what you want and fuck who you want.
>>32326375Be the partner you want to have. Think if you'd be hurt if your bf had lots of female friends that he fucked. If yes, use this thought aa fuel to stop it. Cut contact with those you fucked. Especially if you get a bf. Don't lie to him and dont torture the poor man by saying "they're just friends". No, just contact with those friends before even getting a partner, and if asked about your past be honest (though you dont have to share every single detail, but be honest about number of exes and that you had casual sex at some point).Only have male friends if they're kept ar a distance, for work etc. Dont private dm any guys you dont want to have as a bf aside from very trivial stuff that is weekly at most.And find a substitute for your urges until you get a BF. I recommend AI and porn.Character.ai is the best censored one. Janitor ai is the best uncensored but is slower and not as good.
>>32326706>too stupid to even understand analogiesYou're definitely not human, that's for sure
>>32326829There are some things you share with men and there are some you don’t. Don’t share your body count with men even if it’s only 1. They are not entitled to this information and they don’t get to make their value judgments about me based on that. It’s dehumanizing.
>>32326843I understand it’s an analogy, its just still very jarring to see woman talked about like this. A partnership is not like buying a fucking car. If you can’t see that, I don’t know how to help you.
>>32326857Good for you if you find a man that accepts being lied to. If you want a man that has the same values as you and doesn't care about such things, then it's counterproductive to not be honest straiht away to filter them. All it will lead is to dishonesty in both parties and diaagreements down the road.
>>32326877I will reiterate. Do not share your body count with men, they are not entitled to information about your past hookups just like you aren’t entitled to theirs.It’s good to discuss past relationships sometimes because reflecting on them is how you grow but just past sexual partners? Yeah, thats not information for you. You only want to know if so you can determine value based on some misogynistic standard. That information dies with me and it should die with you Op.
>>32326875>A partnership is not like buying a fucking car.Viewing "partnerships" as some whimisical emotional experience instead of a pragmatic way to get companionship and offspring that requires WORK and DEDICATION is a great way to bounce from dick to dick end up single at age 30+
>>32326944Well first of all, god forbid someone is single at 30+..Being disturbed by the comparison of women to vehicles does not imply that you are unable to make pragmatic decisions about your potential partnerships. Please get a grip and view women as human, thanks.
>>32326975Women make all sorts of analogies about men that hardly bother me. We get called "pigs" and "dogs" all the time, fuck I call myself a dog sometimes when I know I'm acting like it.Anyway nice job baiting like 4 or 5 responses from me, have a great day!
>>32327001Notice how both of those ‘analagoies’ are about men’s behaviour not your inherit worth as a human. Thats the difference
>>32326922Then tell the man you will not share the info and you do not want to know his, but don't lie. Scammers lie. You want a good, everlasting marriage? Then get someone with the same values. Share what they are and be honest.
>>32327040And to elaborate>You only want to know if so you can determine value based on some misogynistic standardWhy would you want to be with someone who, according to you, is misogynistic? And why would you want them be with you when clearly they want some idealized puritan doll? Seems like the relationship is already fialing if it comes to that.
>>32327034Call him an incel!
>>32327040You’ll notice I never once said lie. I only said don’t tell him.
>>32327071Nah the term is over used and they’ve reclaimed it, it doesn’t hit any more. You gotta really spell it out for these fucking losers
>>32327066If it comes to what? Expressing a boundary about not sharing body count? Thats the end of the relationship? Lol.
>>32327091With the amount of girls that lie about their past and then it comes back to haunt the relationship, found it necessary to hammer it in. The past doesn't matter if it stays the past. But it doesn't always turn out this way. No party should ever be deceived and then fucked over.I for one, be it dating man or woman, find that it's not so much the number, but what they have to say about their exes that is a predictor of future shitstorms. 5 abusive relationships in a row either means you seek this kind of person or you are not being fully honest about your own behavior and part in the blame.
>>32327161I agree with everything you’ve said here. Thank you for the measured take.While this still doesn’t justify sharing body count (doesn’t sound like you necessarily disagree with me on that either) I can contend that disclosing SOME past sexual relationships could be good trust in your relationship. I.e you slept with a friend you are still somewhat close with- I can understand the man not being comfortable with that relationship. This makes sense to me. However if you weren’t that close with the friend then there’s truly no reason to share.
Women aren't human, i don't think this is controversial. Without men they would be clawing and cannibalizing each other like beasts. They wouldn't look pretty and you would see them for the short, hairy and ill tempered beavers they are
