My biggest failure. I have a nice apartment, make good money, fit, don’t really have “friends” I have a couple of people I talk to at work but it’s just that.However my experience with women is zero, there are 13 year olds who have more experience than me. I essentially just avoid women, not because I’m an angry incel but because I know it won’t end well so why humiliate myself for the sake of it.Sex makes me feel weird, mainly because I’m 24 and a complete khhv and the average girl here loses her virginity at 17 so I’m 7 years behind. What would you do if you were me
>What would you do if you were mei’d talk to women
Charismamax.
>>32334840What's the problem with being behind girls? A purity thing, or feelings of shame?
>>32334877Don’t even know how you’d do that>>32334879Embarrassment. I’m 24 and never even held a girls hand how am I supposed to impress a girl who likely lost her virginity at 17 and has had sex many times since then
>>32334890I believe that is what they call overthinking.
>>32334910Maybe. It’s still right though
>>32334890Depends on the kinda girl you're after, some will like that. But I honestly think experience comes secondary to everything else. If you're awkward and creepy to a girl, a lack of experience will be used to justify that feeling. If you're more warm and authentic with them, it'll be endearing and they'll enjoy being your first. Since you have to be warm and authentic anyway, it doesn't really change anything. You'll be alright. As for sex being weird - likewise, the right girl won't mind your lack of experience and you can just take it slow with kissing and experimenting with hands. You don't need to worry about diving in and impressing right off the bat - especially since most women like slow build up and can get off without it anyway
no offence but you wont make it i can already tell
>>32334920Well. You actually were supposed to lose your virginity at 17 too
>>32335110How's that been working out?
Can you imagine a person that just seems nice to be around?
>>32334840>because I know it won’t end well so why humiliate myself for the sake of it.Loser detected. Unless you change this mindset, you're a lost cause
>>32335136Yes. Not OP though.
>>32334840>khhvif only I had my jews folder. Why would you label yourself such as this? You're either a fucking fool or a literal kike shill / demoralization agent posting bullshit just to fuck with people here.Fuck you.
>>32335136Yes. A girl like me who doesn’t know what she’s doing and therefore doesn’t care that I don’t either.>>32335143Okay sure but I’m not lying though am I. It may sound pathetic but it is true>>32335282Because that’s what I am? Why are you so angry at me
>>32334840I was you. Struggled at work and thought that was what crippled my selfworth which in turn made me unattractive. Then I got that good job and rented a nice place and had a decent social circle from work... and nothing. I was ready to call it quits. Got drunk and drove to a hooker, too much whiskey dick to even get the job done. pure luck I did not have an accident on that road. made plans to wind it all down and gave myself a deadline. then I had an opportunity to reinvent myself. the kind of job "normal people" cannot relate to. got picked up by a girl and just pretended I knew what I was doing. I had read enough about sex to make it work. fake it till you make it. had to buy some pills to get over porn induced ED and weird headspace though. I was 27 by then.Couple of hookups and relationships since then, I have come to peace with who I am and accepted that I cannot catch up with things I did not do when I was younger. the past has passed. Just look forward and don't let it dictate the future.
>>32336546Being afraid of failure is loser mentality. Failure is part of the process to becoming better at something. You're not humiliating yourself just for the sake of it; you're doing it to learn from it so that you don't humiliate yourself the next time you talk to a girl.You are indeed a lost cause if you cannot adopt this mindset.
>>32334840Same as you, 25M.I don't really have a social circle anymore so I honestly don't even know where I could find women.