>be me>21yrs old in the middle east>about to finish uni in an engineering major>not lots of friends>starting to get bored of the culture and the people around me>religious family so my only chance at a relationship is thru an arranged marriage >see tiktoks of kids in the US in hs living a life i dreamed of and feel envious as hell>life probably will not get better realistically how to make life better. It isn’t really a money problem but life is becoming unbearable here. i’ve been thinking of moving to the US and starting over but i know i probably won’t and life here keeps getting more depressing i just don’t know how long i can take it.
even if you moved to the US you wouldn't be able to live the tik tok fantasies you dream about. no offense it's just a fact. you need to accept your life for what it is and that everybody can point to someone else and say "i wish i had their life". my advice is to quit fantasizing about the impossible and strive toward making your life better in realistic ways. if you do move to the US i would say start smoking weed and enjoying outdoor activities, like hiking, camping, paddleboarding, golf, skiing etc...
Unless you have family in the US it's very difficult to immigrate legally, even with an engineering degree. Though it's not impossible and you could potentially do it if you really want. But as the above anon said, your life won't be like those tiktoks, that's just a fantasy. America is just a country like any other. Compared to the middle east there are better work opportunities, and you're never going to be sent to jail for criticizing the government or changing religions, but life won't suddenly be perfect.
>>32339592For you, yes. Please stick your tongue in an electrical socket.
>>32339592It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.Whether you're 30 or not it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing less.. nothing more.
