I will not read bait threads

It would take a heart of stone not to laugh, and I don't have a heart of stone.

>>32376807
>>32376999
If you don't have advice, don't post in this thread.

>>32377096
Don't presume to tell me what to do, you subhuman cuck.

>>32376787
>Would it have been better for me to go the divorce route?
It would've been better if you brought a hooker or had sex or at least communicated to your wife that you weren't comfortable with this. Now you're taking your revenge by being cold? Grow up. You are hurt by your own stupidity and inability to communicate and set boundaries.

>>32377189
>It would've been better if you brought a hooker or had sex or at least communicated to your wife that you weren't comfortable with this.
She just wanted to sleep around and find an excuse for it because she doesn't find me attractive. The relationship was over the moment she mentioned it so there isn't anything to salvage. She would have done it behind my back anyways. Buying a hooker is not the same, it's pathetic.
>Now you're taking your revenge by being cold? Grow up.
How am I taking revenge? She got what she wanted, and I no longer want her. She's facing the consequences of her actions.
>You are hurt by your own stupidity and inability to communicate and set boundaries.
She would've slept with men with or without me, I just accepted it so that our kids wouldn't see their mother with another man in our home.

>>32377247
>She just wanted to sleep around and find an excuse for it because she doesn't find me attractive.
This is how it made you feel, not the objective reality, which you failed to communicate to her.
>How am I taking revenge?
>She's facing the consequences of her actions.
That, right there, is you taking revenge. It's strange how it was her actions when it hurts you. Again, you didn't communicate your discomfort at all, how would she know any better if you just lied to her?
>She would've slept with men with or without me
Projection because your feelings are hurt. Again, grow up or divorce her, stop being such a beta about your ego.

>>32377247
>I no longer want her
And what makes you think she won't divorce you over this now?
You are back to the starting problem, except now you also got cucked as well.
Retard.

>>32376787
Maybe she realized that what she really cares about is the marriage. That’s not a bad thing.

Also, she’s trying to get you to experience the pleasures she did. Maybe she just wants you to be happy. Did you actually tell her that you’re not into that stuff or are you expecting her to guess?

>>32377276
>This is how it made you feel, not the objective reality, which you failed to communicate to her.
We have sex on average every other month ever since my youngest was born. She obviously does it out of a sense of duty.
>That, right there, is you taking revenge.
It's not revenge. It's the way things are. I don't find her attractive. I'm done with her.
>It's strange how it was her actions when it hurts you. Again, you didn't communicate your discomfort at all, how would she know any better if you just lied to her?
I don't know, usually marriage implies that you stay faithful to the other partner even if you stop finding them attractive over time? If she was so eager to jump on cock she was already thinking about it or has done it.
>Projection because your feelings are hurt. Again, grow up or divorce her, stop being such a beta about your ego.
It's clear from the context and events which have happened that she doesn't care about my permission.
>>32377295
>And what makes you think she won't divorce you over this now?
KEK, why the hell would she divorce me now? She has everything she wants.
>You are back to the starting problem, except now you also got cucked as well.
Which was what, she doesn't find me attractive? Yeah, fuck her.
>Retard.
Fuck you too.
>>32377299
>Maybe she realized that what she really cares about is the marriage. That’s not a bad thing.
At this point I don't care if she has her post-cock regret. She can go fuck around with others all she wants, she is not my concern.
>Also, she’s trying to get you to experience the pleasures she did. Maybe she just wants you to be happy.
KEK
>Did you actually tell her that you’re not into that stuff or are you expecting her to guess?
Usually marriages are built on trust, faithfulness, and mutual respect. You don't have to be a philosopher to realize asking to sleep with others is a sign of disrespect.

>>32376787
>Wife approached me one day asking me if we could open up the relationship
>I agreed because I didn't want to lose my kids and give up half my stuff
Was that really the consequence of telling your wife "no"? If so, bail before she does.

>>32377322
Yeah, I get it, you want to be a poor baby victim here. That's fine, you do what you want, but you probably shouldn't have gotten married at all.

>>32376787
>asking me if I'm ok, why I don't want her
She flunked a pregnancy test, and needs you to fuck her a few times so she can plausibly claim its yours.

>>32377338
>Was that really the consequence of telling your wife "no"? If so, bail before she does.
My kids are my primary concern, I don't want to spend only have their lives with them.
>>32377344
>Yeah, I get it, you want to be a poor baby victim here. That's fine, you do what you want, but you probably shouldn't have gotten married at all.
I wouldn't have gotten married to her if this is what it would have led to
>>32377346
Why wouldn't she just abort it?

>>32377371
You see when a republican president appoints a
bunch of christcuck supreme court justices, it turns out that women no longer control their own bodies.

>>32376787
>Wife approached me one day
Stopped reading here because I knew what was coming next
>She bangs like six guys
Yep as I suspected
Closing the thread now

>>32376787
larp

>>32376787
>>Wife approached me one day asking me if we could open up the relationship
>>I agreed
god i hope posts like these are all larp
god fuck reading this shit
the more i read shit like this it becomes natural to hate women
ffs why are women so evil nowadays?
and they say men are the bad sex?
yet most horrorstories are always like this

>>32377189
>>32377276
stop bullshitting you dumb whore this is not reality, she broke the relationship fuck off now with ur shit 'advice'

>>32377247
dude stop taking retards serious
drop this whore

imagine a man writing this all women would immediatelly scream metooo divroce rape etc

>>32377344
are you fucking retarded? he is the victim not that that matters you filthy bastard whore

>>32377344
if she cheats and wants to jump on foreign nigger dick its her who shouldnt have try marriage you niggerbrained whoreslut

>>32377478
He's not a victim though. He agreed to be cucked by his whore of a wife. He literally did this to himself, now he's whining about facing the inevitable and entirely forseeable consequences of his decision.

>>32377449
They're always a larp. It's meant to be understood as such.

>>32377533
he didnt choose to get cucked she already cucked him by asking it you retard, sure he couldve said no but you think the relationship was salvble at the point when ur own wife asks to get fucked by other men?
fuck off you nasty slut whore, get anally raped by bunch of niggers idc, nobdy cares and no man of value will ever care about you you can get dicked down all you want bye

>>32377469
>drop this whore
I would have done it if we don't have any kids. We do, so this makes it infinitely more complicated.
>>32377550
At least ONE person understands itt. Fucking hell. I did it so that I could at least control how and wen she does it. I didn't want her sneaking behind my back and banging some fuck while my kids are home.

>>32377550
>he didnt choose to get cucked
Read OP again, especially the part where he says
>I agreed
and go fuck yourself.

>>32377566
ye i understand but what adv are you looking for now?
you want permission from random anon to go for divorce?
ye do it
lol

>>32377581
shut the fuck up nasty slut, just bc some niggers raped your ass hard and cumed in your brain doesnt make it the normal
no its not attractive to males surprise you dumb std hiv ridden nasty whore

>>32377590
Is there a probability I can get full custody of my kids? Is there a way to spin this as her cheating on me?

>>32377602
i dont know im not a divorce lawyer, you should ask these i guess
yes she literally cheated on you, she already cheated when she asked to fuck others

if a man ever did this the outcry would be biggly and hed get immediatelly divorceraped

>>32376787
Can you somehow divorce her without risking losing a lot?

>>32377598
You told that foid right off.

>>32376787
>Is this a bad idea?
Opening up your relationship was a bad idea. Letting your wife sleep with other men while you judge her a slut was a bad idea. Being in a position where you "lose the kids and half your stuff" to a divorce is a bad idea. Being a prude is a bad idea. Staying together "for the kids" is a bad idea.

You are the poster child for why marriage is a bad idea.

>>32378041
But mostly, he's a poster child for why people laugh at cucks.

>>32378041
>>32378111
This can happen 1 year, 2 years, 5 years, decades down the line.

>>32378139
>absolutely seething cuck

>>32378155
I'm not OP. Have you never read stories of people doing a complete 180 after they get married?

>>32378213
No. I've read lots of stories about people deluding themselves and only seeing the reality that was there all along after they get married, though.

>>32378252
>Skillful manipulators don't exist
Ok

>>32378380
People getting struck by lightning exists, anon. Its still a one in ten million occurrence. Nobody's saying they don't exist but you're talking about a fraction of a fraction of a percent. 99% of the population are not career sociopathic narcissistic conmen who spend years into manipulating and robbing people.

>>32378397
You underestimate how shrewd women are.

>>32378406
No, I don't. I just touch grass and have an active friend group and social life where I interact with women. The idea that any significant percentage of women, in a day and age where women are outperforming and out graduating men in college by several degrees of magnitude, have nothing better to do with their lives than nefariously plot for years to manipulate and seduce a man into marriage so she can con him out of his 2011 ford fiesta and like $5000 a year in child support is a 4chan autist mindset completely devoid of reality. You could really only think this if you just don't interact with any 3d women.

>>32378406
Very few women mentally advance beyond adolescence. They get away with it because most men, when faced with boobas, primarily think with their penis.

>>32377602
should talk to a divorce lawyer about ur options if u havent already

>>32378434
>>32378483
>Le touch grass
Excellent arguments. No reason the reason why divorce rates are so high, none at all.

>>32376787
>>I agreed because I didn't want to lose my kids and give up half my stuff
Which you paid with with your dignity and soul.
It was over there, mate.
It's just a matter of time before it ends up in the divorce you tried to avoid in the first place, but now it's divorce++.
>, I want to finish these remaining 13 years with my kids and get rid of her. Is this a bad idea?
Yes. Also, she will probably divorce you first, mate, since you're clearly disgusted with her.

>>32378543
>Yes. Also, she will probably divorce you first, mate, since you're clearly disgusted with her.
Why would she divorce him? He's bringing in the cash, she has a family with kids, and she gets to fuck whoever she wants in secret. Literally heaven for a woman.

>>32377602
Just wanna second >>32377611
And >>32378511
You should talk to a divorce lawyer yesterday, OP. It's clear that it's imminent - if not from you it will be from her.

>>32378568
Because he's disgusted with her and she's trying to make him accept it which he can't. If he's posting this here, he's reached a level of disgust that will probably blow out when he'll call her a whore to her face soon.
She'll go for divorce, take half his shit and get paid alimony while still banging other dudes in their house.

>>32378578
>Because he's disgusted with her and she's trying to make him accept it which he can't.
Who cares, she's in the perfect situation. OP isn't even pushing against it.

>>32378590
> she's in the perfect situation.
She's not though. He doesn't want to touch her, and probably has a permanent "you're a fucking whore" look on his face 24/7. The kids sense it too if they haven't already.
She wants to be a guilt-free whore, and he's screwing with the guilt-free part.
>OP isn't even pushing against it.
He's considering divorce and is disgusted with her. Soon he'll be hating her. It's a matter of time.

>>32377299
LMAOOOOO THIS IS TOP TIER DELUSIONAL POSTING HOLY FUCK AHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHABABBABABABABAHAHAHA

She wanted more sex and adventure than you could provide. Now you're mad because you realized that you have no sexual market value? And you'd rather throw everything you made away because you're incompetent and small dicked.
Guess what, you won't be getting remarried either, she will.
You'll be the bitter dad that isolated himself from his kids.

>>32378598
Kek, why does she feel guilt about this? OP gave her permission and hasn't explicitly said anything, this technicality should alleviate her guilt.

>>32377299
This is top-tier mental-gymnastic/gaslighting territory. Jesus Christ
>she's a whore because she loves you
It's the female equivalent
>I beat you because I love you, if I didn't care I wouldn't get so angry

>>32377566
>I did it so that I could at least control how and wen she does it
Nigga, you aint got no control. You're the little cuck bitch in her eyes, and she was going to (and probably already did) fuck other guys with or without your permission. You fucked up. If you told her no, then caught her cheating, you would've had a better case in court. But you bent over like the little pussyboy that you are and gave the spoiled cunt what she wanted, and now you're stuck paying the price, whether its child support for 13 years, or dealing with a whore wife for 13 years. YOU LOST.

>>32378608
>And you'd rather throw everything you made away because you're incompetent and small dicked.
There's nothing to throw away for OP, there was never anything there.

>>32378610
>why does she feel guilt about this?
Dunno if she does right now, but I think the fact that OP doesn't even wanna touch her is sending her a clear message.
>OP gave her permission and hasn't explicitly said anything,
I know what you're saying but his behavior shows her the opposite (and he's his real self here with us and he's disgusted).
> this technicality should alleviate her guilt.
And he'd be fine with it, sure. But he's not.
If she doesn't file for divorce, she'll turn him into a paypig, literally treating him like a human ATM while she goes and fucks other dudes and excludes him from her life.

>>32378608
And this gentleman is proof against all you naysayers who say women don't post here.

>>32378608
g8 b8 m8, i r8 8/8

>>32378625
>I know what you're saying but his behavior shows her the opposite (and he's his real self here with us and he's disgusted).
>And he'd be fine with it, sure. But he's not.
I thought women were legalistic in relationships. If he doesn't say anything, then it's ok because he didn't communicate his feelings.
>If she doesn't file for divorce, she'll turn him into a paypig, literally treating him like a human ATM while she goes and fucks other dudes and excludes him from her life.
Isn't that what she's doing right now to some degree?

>>32378639
> If he doesn't say anything, then it's ok because he didn't communicate his feelings.
Yeah but women are highly sensitive to rejection and judgement, which he's doing already. This is me playing internet psychic but I imagine she'll dump him when
1. She finds another guy to take her whore ass
2. She accuses him of shaming her and changing his mind and guilting her and etc etc.
>Isn't that what she's doing right now to some degree?
Jesus... yeah, you're right. That's depressing

>>32378434
Why would they still target bums at that point moron? Obviously with their better job opportunities they would target guys who are actually well off, like CEOs and business men, and when they're married, they take them for everything they've got. Most women are very fucking lazy, and very fucking greedy, which makes a very nasty combo.
>t. Someone who has actually been around women all his life

>>32378622
Fidelity doesn't mean shit in the modern world of medicine. You can have sex with a whole town and still be marriage material. But bitter men like OP can't understand that, they get mad if a woman they like thinks about any man other than him. Honestly, jealousy over sex is low IQ.
If you still can have sex with her, and she learned some stuff, it'll be better sex. You preying on her lack of knowledge is disgusting and insecure of you.

>>32378646
>Yeah but women are highly sensitive to rejection and judgement, which he's doing already. This is me playing internet psychic but I imagine she'll dump him when
Why does she place so much value on his judgement? I mean if she's banging guys hotter than her it should at least validate her somewhat.

>>32378654
>Fidelity doesn't mean shit in the modern world of medicine.
Not true. Shit like herpes, HIV, and a whole slew of diseases are still around to this day. Being a slut is a sign of low impulse control and lack of a functioning frontal cortex.
>But bitter men like OP can't understand that, they get mad if a woman they like thinks about any man other than him. Honestly, jealousy over sex is low IQ.
Ask me how I know you're a woman.
>If you still can have sex with her, and she learned some stuff, it'll be better sex. You preying on her lack of knowledge is disgusting and insecure of you.
LOL

>>32378658
>Why does she place so much value on his judgement?
We all have a negativity bias anyway and are more sensitive to criticism than to positive feedback.
For women even more so because they're not nearly as criticized and called out on their shit as men, and nowhere near as directly/brutally.
I get what you're saying, and if you mean that she doesn't respect him, you're right. But she doesn't have to respect him in order for his disgust and resentment to make her feel uncomfortable.
Which it will.

>>32378654
Just stop, schizo. Nobody's taking the bait.

>>32378675
>For women even more so because they're not nearly as criticized and called out on their shit as men, and nowhere near as directly/brutally.
This is probably it now that I think about it. Him rejecting her when she views him as beneath him is probably a real blow to her ego.

>>32378512
>Excellent arguments
I had plenty of arguments. You just can't engage with them because you don't have any real functional knowledge on the topic.

>No reason the reason why divorce rates are so high, none at all.
The reason why divorce rates are high has nothing to do with the false, 4chan narrative that there's this huge population of women that like conning men into marriage for their money. Firstly, that's just blatantly not true if you look at educational attainment and income for men vs. women. Women graduate at higher rates than men and are quickly closing the gap of average income in similar fields. They don't need a man's income to survive. Secondly, men do better in divorce by literally every metric than women. Divorced women make less money, have higher drops in household income, suffer higher instances of anxiety and depression, have much less success in dating and remarrying, and have less able to return back to work and make a living due to usually being the primary caregiver for children - so even intuitively the narrative that women love tricking men into marriage to divorce them makes no sense. The average child support payment in America is like less than $400 a month and less than 10% of divorces ever have some kind of alimony agreement involved. 90% of women never see a dime in alimony. 4chan incels are detached from reality when it comes to marriage and divorce.

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>>32376787
Look at this picture.

.....................

You are now cured

>>32378684
True. Also women are allergic to rejection to the point of retardation.
I've heard women tell me "I know I broke up with him but .. like why hasn't he called me? Or wanted me back?"
Do you want to get back with him?
LOL no, I just want him to want me back kek.

>>32378689
>My anecdotal evidence should be enough for you, stupid 4chud
Like pottery

>>32378698
I can't imagine what's going through her head, I just hope OP gets out of this unscathed. This won't happen though.

>>32378674
>Not true. Shit like herpes, HIV, and a whole slew of diseases are still around to this day. Being a slut is a sign of low impulse control and lack of a functioning frontal cortex.
"Hur diseases are still around!!!!!"
That's the only boogeyman you love to cling to regardless that all symptoms are googlable, most states force carriers to confess before acts or else they are liable for damages, and there are multiple forms of sex contamination prevention aplenty otc.
Being knowledgable about sex means you are a healthy and smart person that can't be tricked into a marriage with small dicked men that will abuse you.
>laughing when I called him disgusting and insecure.
Kill confirmed.

>>32378650
>Why would they still target bums at that point moron?
I'm not sure what you're talking about.

>Obviously with their better job opportunities they would target guys who are actually well off, like CEOs and business men, and when they're married, they take them for everything they've got.
Yeah, there's just no evidence whatsoever that women are "targeting" men for marriage and divorce. Women do worse than men in divorce by every metric. The redpill narrative you're espousing doesn't make any sense at all.

>Most women are very fucking lazy, and very fucking greedy, which makes a very nasty combo.
I don't believe you interact with real life working women. All of the data disagrees with you so the only way you could come to the opposite conclusion is if you're actually psychotic or the only women you know are your terrible immediate family.

>>32378710
Nah. She'll stop playing house with him and escalate one of the chads into an "uncle" role to quietly replace him. Being around men with tiny wounded egos isn't preferable.

>>32378716
>That's the only boogeyman you love to cling to regardless that all symptoms are googlable, most states force carriers to confess before acts or else they are liable for damages, and there are multiple forms of sex contamination prevention aplenty otc.
This is great and all, but no amount of lawsuits will get rid of HIV or herpes.
>laughing when I called him disgusting and insecure.
Why should a man want to sleep with a woman who fucks around? Curious, why aren't men allowed to have preferences but women are? What's with all this shaming?

>>32378702
Statistical evidence is the opposite of anecdotal, friend. Everything I said is supported by empirical evidence. I know data and reality hurts the 4chan autist's feelings but there's nothing I can do about that. You'll have to grow up and face the real world sometime so now is as good a time as any.

>>32378726
>You have a tiny ego if you don't want your wife to fuck random guys with no strings attached
It's hilarious that you're calling him insecure despite the wife having everything she wants. Not only does the male have to allow the wife to do whatever she wants, the male also has to brainwash himself into getting rid of all of his evolutionary instincts. Literal 1984 love big brother shit.

>>32378733
You can easily find infographics and their sources here if you search hard enough. Your "statistical/empirical" evidence has no basis in reality.

>>32378731
Because she'll be better at preforming the sex and likely won't starfish?
Having a preference for "untouched" women boils down to insecurity in his own preformance and needing to be the only or the last act that is the only one to receive the applause. If you're bad at sex then just don't have it and die alone as nature and god intend.
>>32378740
>getting rid of all of his evolutionary instincts.
Jealousy isn't an evolutionary instinct, it's a psyop. Monogamy didn't even mean a thing for most of humanity until marriage was adopted into the government around the 13th century, FOR ONLY THE WEALTHY.

>>32378702
are you new to 4chan? nobody is going to go thru the work of citing statistics to prove something that is common sense for anyone with life experience

consider going back to r*ddit

>>32378654
>Fidelity doesn't mean shit in the modern world of medicine. You can have sex with a whole town and still be marriage material.

lmfao i know 2 women with genital herpes and i can tell you, no one is looking at you as "marriage material"

>Honestly, jealousy over sex is low IQ.

not sure if you're baiting or just retarded

>>32378797
>Because she'll be better at preforming the sex and likely won't starfish?
You can always learn as a couple, you know that right? You don't have to prostitute her out to chad for her to get experience.
>Having a preference for "untouched" women boils down to insecurity in his own preformance and needing to be the only or the last act that is the only one to receive the applause.
While this may be a reason, I've listed several other reasons why men don't want whores and you just glossed over them for obvious reasons.
>If you're bad at sex then just don't have it and die alone as nature and god intend.
"Muh dick"
>Monogamy didn't even mean a thing for most of humanity until marriage was adopted into the government around the 13th century
Lmao are you fucking stupid? One of the Abrahamic laws is literally "Do not commit adultery." This is from a desert book written 4000 years ago. Nice headcanon.

>>32378752
>Your "statistical/empirical" evidence has no basis in reality.
That's a nice cope but, statistically, you're just wrong. Women see higher drops in household income, have fewer career opportunities as primary caregivers and fair worse in the dating market as single mothers than single fathers. Its also a fact that less than 10% of all divorces include an alimony agreement and the average child support payment in the U.S. is like $400. All of this is empirically proven and peer reviewed studies. In fact, half of it isn't even studies - divorce statistics is just raw data that you can read for yourself without any editorializing of any kind. I'm sorry that reality disagrees with you. I'm sure you'll get over it.

>>32378252
You are ignorant of human psychology.

>>32378878
NTA but you are retarded for thinking men preferring women with less partners is rooted in insecurity

I mean, sometimes it is. But ppl with higher body counts tend to come with more problems. My SO is a psych and that's clearly shown in the literature

>>32378969
>less
fewer.

Also - you are completely wrong, but I doubt you let that harsh your broscience.

>>32378828
Your book didn't rule any countries or gain any traction to being accepted into governments until the 13th century.
Cope and seethe.

>>32379010
Bwhahahah holy shit, you definitely are baiting. Let's forget about Constantine and all that

>>32378969
>NTA but you are retarded for thinking men preferring women with less partners is rooted in insecurity
I have no clue who you're arguing with. I've never said this. I think you might be quoting the wrong poster.

>>32379036
Oh let's herald Genghis Khan as a great monogamist while we're measuring dicks in here.

>>32376787
Get proof of her cheating, go to lawyer, take her money/parents money, and take your kids, leave her and never ever see her again,move to new city/town, start new life.
Celebrate when she does drugs or kills herself.

The fact you stayed around after 1-2 guys is crazy, 2-4 is insane, and 5-6 is ridiculous.
You messed up by not doing what i said.
So I'm blaming her cheating, on you.
You are basically a guy for me to fuck your wife in front of you, in your house.
>I wouldn't tolerate that.
You already tolerated her with more then 2 guys, shut up you cuck.

>>32379261
She probably has messages of him initeating the opening. He is screwed for trying to eat cake he ordered and then didn't actually eat at all, so she gets what he missed out on. Because you don't get to psychologically manipulate someone into "cheating" on you in court.
It's his fault, she'll get the kids because he's crazy.

>>32376787
Assuming this is real
>Is this a bad idea?
Yes, you are not made of steel you are made of flesh, its only been a few months and you think you can do 13 years like this? You will be miserable and you will most likely pass that on to your kids, what if one day you snap and call your wife a whore in front of the kids and that turns into a whole thing?
>Would it have been better for me to go the divorce route?
I dont know, maybe, you shouldve used these months to talk to a lawyer while the whore wife is distracted whoring around, maybe you can calm her a bit by doing some bullshit activities with her while you talk to a lawyer and just get informed on your options.

>>32376787
Do a paternity test on the kids

>>32376807
How do you know it's bait if you don't read it

>>32376787
>My stomach turns into a pit as this is one of the most disgusting and revolting things I have ever heard in my life
Tell her

>>32379516
This

>>32378608
>>32378654
shut the fuck up nasty whore, no man of value thinks you are attractive

>>32376787
>slut wife
>cuck OP
>two kids
holy shit
why did you spread your trash genes around
if youre too low IQ to filter whores you shouldve killed yourself instead of making it worse for the rest of humanity

>>32376787
>give up half my stuff
All that stuff both of you accumulated is not ALL yours. Half is hers and half is yours. Including the kids.

>>32376787
What I find amusing about men is they always whine and cry about having a woman that hasn't fucked any other man and yet will do anything, including living with her having sex with other men, to keep her around. Men will also want another mans wife and steal her away. She's fucking two men dumbasses.

Holy that one pajeet incel went insane lol.

>>32379902
op is literally asking to divorce and only didnt do it for his childrens sake
did you even read?

>>32377322
What is so hard about telling her you won't fuck her because she is a used up whore? Instead you give a balless excuse, I'm tired.

>>32377096
Retard. This board is clearly not for advice. Only dumb fucks take non-topic-specific board names seriously.

>>32379911
I read it. OP has no balls. He could have said when you fuck another man you have destroyed our family and our marriage is at its end. You will also be the one that explains the why to family and friends. Instead he went along with this insanity, likely curiosity, cuckhold humiliation fantasy, and found he didn't fare so well and she did.

>>32379928
>>32379911
You realise OP's story is fake, right?

>>32379947
of course, not an idiot. Its an OP cuck fantasy. Larger issue for the cuck fantasy crowd is reality. When they believe its hot and go with it and then trapped. Then they have the humiliated cuck stare

As an aside, what's with the go-to strategy of "stay together until kids are 18 then fuck off"?
As if turning 18 automatically means you will have the mental fortitude to accept your parents lived a lie of loveless marriage out of some artificial obligation (assuming you didn't notice before). I'd argue that the older you are, the more you intellectualize it and the worse it is.
Personally, I'd rather the bandage be ripped off while young.

I don't know if this is at all helpful, but your wife asked you if she could have an open relationship, and you consented because you were scared that she would divorce you and take the kids, etc. Of course, that hasn't happened, because you were too scared to find out if it would, and now you've allowed your wife to turn into someone you can't stand. This is, actually, your fault.
What you should've done is been truthful from the beginning. "I'm not really comfortable with that, and if you were to do that, it would ruin our marriage." But you didn't, did you? You convinced yourself it was because you were being smart, that you were the victim from the beginning, but really, you're an accomplice, because you didn't speak up. You made yourself into a cuck, and now you're taking it out on your wife.
>What to do?
Lay everything out on the table, and work through the issues. If she divorces you, she divorces you. Face it. Quit being a fucking coward.

>>32379908
kek

>>32380108
>>32380484
It doesn't matter since OP is screwed.

>>32379413
Well The only choice he has is to move, and forget his kids and wife.

Look leaving his kids, is better then staying with whore wife.

But maybe I just think having your girl fuck people in "front" (behind back) of you is worse then hell.
I'd rather die.

I'm just saying, take the kids if you can.

>>32377322
Don't listen to that retard you answering. He's just a critical person who found an opportunity to be critical and judgmental through you.

Your situation is understandable. You are the victim here, not her. You are entitled to divorce but you don't want to lose your relationship with your children.

Your wife is selfish and super entitled. She sounds like one of those stupid women who was influenced by feminists. That by getting married she is missing out on all the fun and opportunities life has to offer. That marriage is for the weak and riding the baloney pony left and right makes you a strong independent woman. The fact that you created consequences for her actions and she was shocked by that confirms that. She believes she shouldn't be held accountable for her own actions.

You have to let her know exactly how you feel. All the way down to your disgust and plans to divorce her once the kids are past 18. After that, sleep in separate bedrooms.

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OP probably called people incels before so idc

>>32381232
You're a chudcel.

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>>32381245
Trve

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>>32376787
Old school redpill advice would be:

You already fucked that relationship by agreeing to be a cuck.
Lift. Make more money. Date, have fun and Fuck other women.
She already showed you who she was. If she stops being an active whore and acts like a good woman reward her with your attention, but for now treat her as she showed you she is. A whore.

>>32376787
having a whore for a mother isn't any better than having divorced parents, especially if your kids are boys
that fucks kids up way worse

>>32377276
>>32377299
you're retards
>how was I supposed to know me fucking other guys was something you didn't like?????
actual scum

Never marry.

>>32383217
>If she stops being an active whore and acts like a good woman reward her
What? When a mother of two decides to go on a dick rampage she cannot come back.

>>32380108
>loveless marriage
Thats the least of it. Mom goes out to fuck guy after guy and dad stays home with the kids looking miserable. At some point the kids know moms fucking and it ain't dad. They also get to see the shining example of manhood and fatherhood is a humiliated weak cuck. You really believe the kids are going to love and respect him for putting up with this shit. No they will hate him.