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>>32380789
I highly doubt it's that bad. Gain some self-confidence. People know when you radiate weakness and desperation, and they don't like it.
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>>32380789
It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.
But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.

Whether you're 30 or not it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing less.. nothing more.
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>>32380815
Youre not alone because youre ugly, youre alone because of dogshit decisions youve made in the past.

Fret not, it's not remotely over, although >>32380821 is partially correct. Most people form those genuine bonds during school, afterwards people tend to isolate their groups and arent super interested in new people showing up to an established clan thats existed for 10-15 years.

All you have to do is start your own clan. Be the leader of a new group of people. Find something you like to do in your off time and go out of your way to invite people to these events. I personally met some of my greatest friends over something as simple as board games. I went to my local card shop and started talking with the owner about setting up a date for board game night. I setup the time, the games, made some flyers and told some of the regulars about it.

It was a bit rocky at first, but after a few weeks, more and more people started showing up. People I'd never seen before and people who only came because their friends invited them. Last weekend we held a Catan tournament and nowadays I dont even need to bring the games or advertise the night anymore because its always full of people bringing their own games and are always open to new players.

Start your own clan. Be a leader of men. Bring value to people instead of showing up asking for handouts.
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>>32380789
It gets easier with time. You'll always feel it though, but in small doses
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dude just join a rowing club or crossfit gym or something like that. Start getting involved somewhere, greet people, small talk, volunteer and help out when you can. People will start remembering your name and invite you to events and shit, just don't act too desperate. Or go try-out to join a band or something idk. If you are funny and well-groomed then nobody cares if you're genetically ugly
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>>32380895
>All you have to do is start your own clan.
You are correct but it will be mostly other losers, loners and introverts. Adult people are simply to busy with work and their family to have friends.
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>>32381181
>If you are funny and well-groomed
>just entertain the goyim and be presentable
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>>32381349
I didnt say it wouldnt, but loners and introverts sometimes are some of the best people you'll ever meet. A lot of people were completely cucked out of a social life during their shitty childhood through no fault of their own. If I managed to inspire my friends to lead better lives, it's completely reasonable that others can do the same.

Most people look for a leader. It takes a lot out of people like us introverts to become leaders, but it's possible and honestly, it's one of our only ways out of loner purgatory.
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>>32380789
Trust me, you don't want friends. My best friend's mom is dying at 85 and my faggot friend made a mess in the hospital fighting with doctors and shit about the dosages of the antibiotics his mom have to take and he changed 3 fucking hospitals and he is calling me non-stop to tell me what is going on and the fights he did while screaming stuff about God and quoting the bible. He will fucking call me 3 times a day. I gave him a ride to the hospital and helped his mother go inside the house with the wheelchair cause he doesn't life. I understand he is having a mania phase but what the fuck do i do? This shit is stressfull as fuck i just wanna chill the f out

I'm religious aswell but not in such extreme manners, orthodox christians are literally insane



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