[a / b / c / d / e / f / g / gif / h / hr / k / m / o / p / r / s / t / u / v / vg / vm / vmg / vr / vrpg / vst / w / wg] [i / ic] [r9k / s4s / vip] [cm / hm / lgbt / y] [3 / aco / adv / an / bant / biz / cgl / ck / co / diy / fa / fit / gd / hc / his / int / jp / lit / mlp / mu / n / news / out / po / pol / pw / qst / sci / soc / sp / tg / toy / trv / tv / vp / vt / wsg / wsr / x / xs] [Settings] [Search] [Mobile] [Home]
Board
Settings Mobile Home
/adv/ - Advice

Name
Options
Comment
Verification
4chan Pass users can bypass this verification. [Learn More] [Login]
File
  • Please read the Rules and FAQ before posting.
  • AdBlock users: The default ruleset blocks images on /adv/. You must disable AdBlock to browse /adv/ properly.
  • Are you in crisis? Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at +1 (800) 273-8255.

08/21/20New boards added: /vrpg/, /vmg/, /vst/ and /vm/
05/04/17New trial board added: /bant/ - International/Random
10/04/16New board for 4chan Pass users: /vip/ - Very Important Posts
[Hide] [Show All]


Janitor application acceptance emails are being sent out. Please remember to check your spam box!


[Advertise on 4chan]


How can someone succeed in the dating realm at 5’3?
Please no bs platitudes. I just want a gf.

I’m in Aus if it matters
>>
File: 1702970849863333.webm (1.99 MB, 500x1080)
1.99 MB
1.99 MB WEBM
>>33914990
If you have money, have hair, be fit, and not ugly. More importantly, not Indian.
>>
>>33914990
I'm gonna be real bro. You don't have a chance. Your options at 5'3 are either LDRs (so you're not going to have any physical contact) or dating extremely ugly girls. I do mean bottom of the barrel. And they're still not going to like you, there's going to be silent comtempt between you two.
Your best hope is going to SEA or something but you're going to still be below average in height there.
>>
>>33914990
Have enough attractive qualities that offset being a manlet, and >>>MOST IMPORTANT<<< do not be a self conscious and self pitying fag. Per that video the only thing worse than being short is being self conscious about it and developing a complex. If you have to ask
>um what do women find attractive?
its over for you and you should just forget about women and focus on something else.
>>
>>33915024
>Per that video the only thing worse than being short is being self conscious about it and developing a complex
The dude in the video was like 4'11 or something. I'm sure he was mocked in basically every interaction in his entire life. I'd be surprised if he didn't snap at some point.
>>
>>33915025
I'm sure he's been mocked his entire life. But a public crashout over your insecurities obviously makes things worse and not better. Which is why you need to get as much of your shit within and without in order to prevent this.
>>
>>33914990
get this, if you're clean, put together, nice, and funny women can look past unattractive physical attributes like being short. it will be harder yeah but your options are basically become a schizo incel shooter or be a normal person and it'll work itself out
>>
>>33914990
Become a passportbro and get a 5'1 vietnam chick.
>>
>>33914990
Move to SEA.
>>
>>33914990
I might be of the opposite opinion where I don't think your height is the main problem here.
Being from AUS is.
>>
>>33914990
Be interesting. Have a personality and a brain. Have a future. Be fun to be with
>>
>>33915024
>>33915031
>>33915051
>>33915244
Too bad women won't talk to short men or give them any kind of opportunity to showcase these values.
>>
Better be at least rich or 9/10 face or it’s doa roflmao
>>
>>33914990
Go somewhere with short women who need money.
Guatemalan women average 4'11".
Aussie I dunno. Find yourself some abbo and supply her with petrol.
>>
>>33914990
read what women want and how to give it to them

the tldr is to learn how to have confidence and/or fake it, women really dont care how you look(dont be a slob) its about how you make them feel.
>>
>>33914990
Use your common sense, Idek why people ask shit like this. Get jacked, eat right, be good ape, and lower your standards / don't be afraid of rejection. You're a man act like one.
>>
>>33919329
Short men who get jacked are seen as overcompensating
>>
>>33919332
Says who?
>>
>>33914990
Find an ugly girlfriend.
>>
5’7 here, also Aus and I gave up ages ago. I’m white so it’s even worse
Can’t even imagine being 5’3

If u really want to I guess I’d just move to some shithole where you’re average,
>>
>>33914990
>How can someone succeed in the dating realm at 5’3?
Yes.
>>
>>33914990
You're not ugly just retarded.
if you were high iq you would have fixed it already.
>>
Women in a big wide-open country don't select for small men. There's really no use for a small man in Australia.
>>
>>33915001
Yeah I'm sure your webm is him being a manlet and not being sloppy drunk and unable to understand social cues. Cope.
>>
>>33914990
Get a torrent opener and go to pimp my mind and open hot seat at home, then study mystery method and build a social circle and use the clout to springboard
>>
>>33920686
I'm jealous of smaller dudes on my job sites, they *can* lift heavy but don't have to, they're comfier in small spots that fuck me up, and there's nothing I can reach that they can't with a fuckin step ladder.

You guys shit on being short but from where I stand it looks pretty damn useful.
>>
>>33914990
>How can someone succeed in the dating realm at 5’3
By being an attractive female
>>
>>33915024
>>33915031
easy to preach what he should do when you have absolutely no idea what he's been through
>>
>>33922758
You're acting like a woman right now. Just accept your privilege and move on, no need to make up scenarios to victimize yourself.
>>
>>33923445
You're acting like a woman making problems out of observations. I'm staying facts and you're talking about feelings and privileges. I'm no victim and quite like how I am, just pointing out that there are advantages to any body type.
>>
File: lkc557xnj1lf1.png (241 KB, 800x600)
241 KB
241 KB PNG
>>33923498
faggot
>>
>>33923560
You're being a whiny cunt doomer about something outside of your control and actively admonishing any kind of response or critique, but I'm the faggot for talking about the positives of your situation.

Good luck with that chief.
>>
>>33923585
Yes, because the "positives" are nonexistent compared to the negatives. You're no different from rich people or pretty women complaining about menial bullshit.
>>
File: 1000018946.jpg (57 KB, 500x635)
57 KB
57 KB JPG
>>33923635
People don't dislike you because you're short, it's because you're a whiny faggot.
>>
>>33923664
This is the womanest post of all time. You are spiritually a woman.
>>
File: chud.png (301 KB, 692x500)
301 KB
301 KB PNG
>>33923703
Hes right tho
>>
>>33923712
*she
>>
>>33916547
They don't for any man anon, you have to approach women and introduce yourself first. Im tall and I haven't gotten approached by women other than 1 or 2 times in my life.
>>
>>33923719
>I haven't gotten approached by women other than 1 or 2 times in my life.
This is why I'm calling you a woman. You're blind to the privilege you have. Short men NEVER get approached, not once, not twice.
>>
>>33914990
It's hard but find a short girl (so you're tall to her) and
>>33915001
>>
You could get LL if you really wanted too — me? I’d just accept that the juice isn’t worth the squeeze
>>
Australian here.

Straight up don't date Aussie/American women. Other nationalities seem to care less about that shit.

Find something you're secure about. When you've got nothing it's hard to feel secure as a person, especially about height.
>>
You like asians? short woman?
You'll be fine there's tons of 5ft woman out there.
>>
>>33925153
99% of people who fantasize about LL will never actually do it. One is the cost, in most places it's about 100k. Second is how difficult the recovery process is and how severe the possible side effects are.
Maybe in a decade or two the surgery will improve. OP is kinda in a shit situation at 5'3 and that is a height where it's probably genuinely worth considering despite the risks. If he was like 5'6 then he could at least reach average height with lifts.
>>
>>33919332
maybe but i'd still rather be short and jacked than short and out of shape
>>
>>33914990
I’m 6’7 and been rejected by the everyone and never had a date or sex.
>>
>>33926757
6'7 is freak territory. Ideal is 6'3 or 6'4.
>>
>>33926760
Well OP and I never chose our height
>>
>>33926788
I'm aware.
>>
>>33926722
>If he was like 5'6 then he could at least reach average height with lifts.
Lifts give you 1 to 1.5 inches max, not 4 inches.
>>
>>33928561
Wrong + he should be wearing shoes with a thicker heel height so it wouldn't matter
>>
>>33914990
You can date absolute bottom of the barrel girls (ex prostitutes, ultra obese women etc.) but what's the point? Do you really want that?
>>
File: IMG_5296.jpg (511 KB, 1064x621)
511 KB
511 KB JPG
>>33914990
Short and Australian? There might be a way…
>>
>>33914990
Do you have high standards? Just date someone, anyone. preferably with similar hobbies to you. being short is really not a factor desu. People always aim for 8/9/10 women. but imho most people are pretty good looking. I dont really like numbering people like this but I find more normal/average men and women more appealing which allows yourself to cast a wide net in the dating pool. Be ready to accept their flaws as well.
>>
>>33914990
Indonesia.
Average female height there is 5'0". You'd only be moderately short compared to most men.
>>
>>33914990
Carefully consider whether dating is for you. Your default value is low, so you will either have to massively overcompensate with years of effort, or wait until women's value fall into your default range.

Regardless of what you decide to do about women you should still aim not to be a loser, take advantage of your manlet gains and at least be the strongest in any group by far.
>>
>>33914990
step 1. stop being autistic



[Advertise on 4chan]

Delete Post: [File Only] Style:
[Disable Mobile View / Use Desktop Site]

[Enable Mobile View / Use Mobile Site]

All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties. Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.