How do I unfuck my life at 21?
>>33918296what's wrong with ur life? why do u think it's fucked?
>>33918299I wasted my youth, I'm so behind everyone else my age. I never had a social circle to fuck around with, never had a woman to love, never made any unforgettable memories to one day tell my family. Meanwhile there are 16 year olds that I know personally who go to college parties and have already fucked 20+ women. There are literal children who mog me in every conceivable way. Why the fuck did I have to be born to retarded enabler parents? I wish my mom would've just killed me in the womb desu. You can't make up for lost time, there's nothing I can do about it and it just feels so utterly debilitating. Like my failures in life is just natural selection running its course. I now need to reparent myself while everyone else my age gets to have fun and have sex and go on road trips and shit. I'm so fucking broken and lonely and I just feel so goddamn impotent
>>33918399>You can't make up for lost time, there's nothing I can do about it and it just feels so utterly debilitating.So, despite making a thread on /adv/ice, you never really intended to do anything about the problems you're complaining about, you just wanted to whine like a retarded bitch, just throw a pity party. Well, little fag, my advice to you is to fuck off back to >>>/r9k/ and keep mindlessly absorbing blackpill content from YouTube and TikTok like the pathetic, soulless sponge that you are while you waste the rest of youth you still have got left. You sound like a stupid moron who's never faced actual struggle even once in life. Eat shit and die. Sage.
>>33918399going to a party and fucking tons of women is degenerate & not enviable in any way21 is young af dude u just got out of high school. what's your goal in life? what u didnt do that others did besides having premarital sex?
>>33918429blackpill doomer content is gen z's apex predator, so fucking sad to see it
>>33918437>going to a party and fucking tons of women is degenerate & not enviable in any waySorry bro but I'm gonna have to disagree with you there. In 20 years you're not going to remember the hard work and effort you put in to your career or anything else, you're going to remember the memories you made sharing passion with other human beings. It's a quintessential part of the human experience. It may seem inconsequential but it's very important. If you're unable to experience that it will drive you insane.>>33918443And for good reason. Everything is so fucked now
>>33918469ATTENTION ATTENTION THE CRABS HAVE ARRIVEDNOBODY GETS OUT OF THE BUCKETKEEP INDULGING IN SELF-PITYWAAAAAA EVERYTHING IS SOOOOO FUCKEDWAAAAAAAAA DO NOTHING WITH YOUR LIFE AND ROT IN YOUR ROOM (JUST LIKE ME!)
>>33918296life ends at 17, anon..
>>33918296>>33918630If you're not fucking senority girls at 15 years old you're behind.
>>33918437Cope
>>33918296>>33918399>21>I wasted my youthLol. lmao, even.Sure, you did maybe miss a lot of the earlier years of your youth, but most normies didn't do shit either except the usual parties and premarital sex. You really need to go talk to people outside, and you'll realise that at the age of 21, few of those people really did something worthy.Ask yourself what do you want your life to look like then. If you want to make memories with other people, it starts with talking with them, whether it's with men or women.>muh Chad gets all of the girls, it's over for meFuck off with this bullshit, go to the gym, go /fa/, and do interesting stuff like hobbies or volunteering. If you want whores, then act like Chad, if you want decent women, then talk to them normally, You do that first then try to score a girl.i'm still trying to figure out this stuff but at every activity in my campus I went to, I'm usually among the youngest, and every person that had things going for themselves was friendly. Normies dont do this shit, they study, talk to their friends about how X did this or that, watch slop, then wageslave away.No, your life isn't fucked except if you're a homeless crackhead with health issues, even then you can still turn things around.Get to it anon, only action matters, you'll only regret all of that rumination and self pity as time goes on.>t. 21 something manlet.
>>33918429no, this time OP totally will take the advice and try to better himself.
>>33918399So just more cliched incel shit. Yawn...moving on.
how do i unfuck my life at 24
>>33918296you can still improve a lot but you need to hurry
>>33918469> In 20 years you're not going to remember the hard work and effort you put in to your careerYou are sort of correct in that I don’t think about that every day. But every time I come home from a hard day’s work getting things done and relax in my nice house in my nice neighborhood while playing video games and eating nice food, I am thankful that I put effort into my career.I don’t think it’s too late for you, but it doesn’t really matter what any of us think. You seem to have decided for good that it’s impossible for you to have nice things. Hopefully you’ll stop doing that soon.
>>33918296How do I unfuck my life at 26?
I'm too old to unfuck my life. How do I make the most of this?
>>33918296>How to unfuck my life at 21?>Proceeds to tell people who give a different perspective that everything is too late to changeDude you feel bad and only see what you missed, not what is ahead of you. I understand and I sympathize. But if you keep focusing on what you can't change and what has happened, then one year from now nothing will have changed and you are a year older. It's all in your brain, either you understand what I am saying and focus on the future or you will refuse, stay the same and have the same experience until you change or die. You do not get a do-over, use your time wisely. Which means focus on yourself and your enjoyment of life with others but not dependent on them.
>>33919584Cool where do I start
>>33918296>unfuck my life at 21You are 21. You don't have a life, let alone one to fuck with.
1. Find an element of your life that is fucked. 2. Improve that element.3. Go to step 1.
it's bizzare to me seeing a 21 year old claim their life is fucked. fucker you havent even lived yet. what the fuck are you talking about.
>>33918399>I wasted my youth,You're still in your youth. I almost don't want to read further.Stop sitting on your hands. Get off your ass.
>>33920672It seems like this kind of shit just keeps getting worse and worse the further out we get from the release of the first iPhone.Kids are growing up with much more FOMO than we ever had to by virtue of their constant exposure to social media.
>>33918399>i wasted my youthYOU YOUTH HAS JUST FUCKING BEGIN WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT
>>33918469There's many perks to a dispassionate life. As you get older, you'll see so many huge blunders people make while under the influence of passion, blunders which you for the most part will be able to avoid. If you let covetousness (wanting what other people have) drive you insane with frustrated desire, that's a self-control problem and not an existential problem.
>>33918296Put your youth in a portrait of yourself and stay young forever while becoming a evil nobleman that is famous everywhere for his debauchery
>>33918399>picI am a 27 year old man. I have started clubbing with literal goth models in their early twenties. They're so fucking cool that I've got to remind myself I'm a grown man in his late twenties and they shouldn't be intimidating me.They invite me to events, get me free tickets, do my makeup, let me wear their clothes (if you're not ready to be fruity then you are not going to make it). It's really fun and you can definitely do it as a 27 year old. I've never been with this crowd before in my life btw.
>>33918296just sit back and enjoy the ride. it won't get better.
wake the fuck up right now or be miserable at 30 regretting missing out in your 20s on this shitty site. Drop the weeb shit, drop the video games and get to work on yourself. You got 9 years to set your future. GET. TO. WORK. NIGGER.
>>33918399most people do not experience any of that you megafaggot.not even most normies. especially nowdays when everyone is staying home watching shows or playing games.do not waste any more time yearning for shit that rarely exists and find what you can realistically attain now, else find yourself in a second round of regrets
>>33920896Do what this guy says.
>>33918296You’re still young retard
Go to war and pray to sun.
21's not to bad mate. The econmy and mess left by the boomers is likely partially fucking with you.Be glad your not me. 30s fathers a neglectful prick booted me out at 17, stayed all over the place back home for a bit, ignored by my father my entire life. Now at 70 the fuck is trying to weasel his way back in probably to get me to look after him in old age. My job also sucks ass to the point I'll likely have to get another one otherwise I won't be making enough to get by.So you could be me op, it could be worse.
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>>33920896unironically this. i'm 30 and I'm not very happy, though I started unfucking my life at like 26. You can do it. You're so young.
>>33921373>most people do not experience any of that you megafaggot.Dude idk what to tell you this is just incorrect. I live in the most basic fuckass town known to man in Ohio, not overly shitty but certainly not a hotspot for night life or what have you, and every normalfag I know frequently goes to parties and hangs out with friends. Note that this is not me trying to immediately dismiss anyone who wants to give advice, I wouldn't even be on this board if that were the case, but you need to understand that I have these grievances for a reason. From an objective non-doomer standpoint I have undoubtedly missed out on the basic joys of youth and its consequences are seeping into other facets of my life. This ties back to my original question, what steps should I begin taking to unfuck my life? >>33919070>do interesting stuff like hobbies or volunteering.Bro please elaborate. I have hobbies but I don't know how to meet people. The only time I go to leave my house is to go to work and go on hikes occasionally. I'm taking classes at some shitty orbital campus but it's so difficult to meet people there, people just show up to class and then go home. >>33920896>wake the fuck up right now or be miserable at 30 regretting missing out in your 20s on this shitty site. Drop the weeb shit, drop the video games and get to work on yourself. You got 9 years to set your future. GET. TO. WORK. NIGGER.Again where do you suggest I start>>33922632Bro I'm obviously a much younger zoomfag but I'm sort of in the same spot as you. My father did fuck all to ensure I had a fighting chance in life despite getting handed everything in life himself. And now the crippled fuck is looking to leech off of me once his current caretaker dies. Obviously the main idea behind making the thread was my social life but I haven't made progress with my career either, do you have any advice regarding jobs?
>>33924315>Wha wha wha I don't know what to do, I don't what say, what to think can you guys do it for me pls? Guise pls I don't know nothing please I need anonymous adults on the Internet to tell me everything and guide me Or I'll KMS please guys I need endless advice and (you)s please!Fucking useless. Just spend your days here. And waste your life you fucking loser.
>>33918296Note down all the things that you think are fucking up your life. Pick the easiest one to fix and fix it, then go on to the next one. Don't be afraid to ask for help if you don't know how to fix any of them, but start with the easy ones to get some small victories under your belt. Do this and by the time you're 23 (still young btw) you'll be unrecognizable.
>>33925140He's going to hit you with 15 excuses on why that's impossible to do. He doesn't want advice he knows EXACTLY what to do, he just wants emotional support like a woman.
>unfuckno fucks that you upped! Know your worth.
>>33922632I also had shitty parents. let the old bastard suffer
>>33918399That pic is how I feel and I'm only 25. No one has ever called me unc, but I've only been to one party at a dance studio last year, but I've never gone clubbing with my friends, never had a gf, etc.
