I'd never (and have never) dated one, but I keep becoming attracted to men who are low or highkey alcoholics. How to stop it? I think it might just be my immature self finding that sort of thing ""cool"" and not being able to get rid of this pattern. I've never gotten used to drinking, have been to a bar only a few times in my life, never alone, and have never tried even the mildest of drugs, like weed. I don't feel "cool" or experienced enough to hang out with someone like that, and if I do, I tend to overthink a lot and get nervous.(not a tranny)
>>33919387What do you consider low key alcoholic?I drink 2 cans of beer cans per day on average, maybe a little more in the summers
>>33919401probably something like that, drinking daily or nearly daily and having drinking be a regular activity in itself, not just to be drunk with food (well this isn't even common where i live but i know it's common in some places).
>>33919387As an "alcoholic" I get that you're attracted to the drunk charm. If a person drinking is well mannered, they achieve peak after 3 drinks. Total charm.
>>33919648agree. it's true many guys become a lot more charming when drinking. like constantly being in this banter/shooting the shit mode, and i'm a bit envious of that lol. even if i drink idk what to say and i still stay quiet.
>>33919387Try Internal Family Systems roleplay with grok to get to the bottom of this
What's your relationship with daddy like?
Op is an alcoholic and trying to spin it as a good thing Anyone who has spent any time around and alcoholic knows how disgusting it is
>>33919812It’s great actually. He still gives me piggyback rides even though I’m 34
>>33919387We all have to deal with impulses and self-control, ask yourself if this is what you truly wanna be, do you truly think that striving for being semi-rational and destroying your neorological structure and your liver will make you better in any way?True hope is in strong character, never giving up even when you suffer hardships, drinking to cope with boredom or a bad life situation is pure cowardice, you're giving up on trying to find a good solution.Be like Catherine of Sienna, who dedicated her life to helping others through pure discipline and a commitment to help others her whole life. She never had anyone, but still in this humility and not cowardice, is remembered by everyone fro 600+ years.
>>33919387heal your attachment issues with reparenting
>>33920262>>33920115i'm not saying i want to be an alcoholist, anon. i'm saying that i've noticed i tend to find a guy (for some strange reason) almost more attractive or "cooler" if he is an alcoholist, as i explained in OP. i do recognize it's strange and not a good thing. maybe it's one of those things that makes you subconsciously think "i can save him". because personally i've never been even close to that point, i've never tried drugs and i drink socially maybe once every 3 months at best.>>33919812that maleanon is not me lol
>>33923677Anybody who has spent any time around in alcoholic wants nothing to do with them
>>33923744ok
