Title. So I just started dating this girl for about a week and things are going good, way too good. She seems extremely into me. She sent me her location indefinitely, she texts me constantly, sends me reels/tiktoks all day, constantly holds hands with me, etc. A lot of the videos she sends me involves things like marriage, having kids, etc.Now in my mind I think this is way too fast for only a week into a relationship, but on the other hand there’s some things I noticed that makes me think she isn’t love bombing me. She is diagnosed with autism although I don’t know how severe, so maybe she dosent know how to control her emotions or articulate them. I told her “I think I’m falling in love with you” earlier this week, and she pulled back and said it’s too early to say things like that. She also dosent call me “babe” or “love” or anything, she just calls me handsome or cutie. She also talks to be about her family a lot, but doesn’t want me to meet them yet because she’s scared I’m going to hurt herShe said the main reason she fell for me was because of certain circumstances that happened during our dates (a certain song she loves playing on the radio during our first kiss for example), and I’m assuming that might be her autism at play to an extent. We also do have a lot of things in common, like exact same music taste, goals in life, etc. and I know she isn’t lying about that because I’ve seen her phone and we have so many similar things in common it’s kind of scary.What do you guys think? I 100% think she’s moving a little too fast, but at the same time she feels genuine. I’m thinking of talking to her about this tomorrow when I see her. What should I say? Do you think this might be her autism at play?
>>33922358Why talk to her about this? If you like her just keep dating her and then you'll be able to tell if it's love-bombing or not
>>33922399I plan on talking to her about it tomorrow although I don’t know how to approach it. What should I say to her? From what I’ve wrote would you say this is love bombing or her just being overbearing?
>>33922358Bro its been a week. Just chill
>>33922358you're the real autist retard faggotYOUR LIFE IS PERFECT WHY RISK RUINING IT? maybe she just fucking sent the reels because she is obsessed w marriage and dreams about it so she sends it to u bc she doesnt give a fuckmaybe she texts u constantly bc she's autisticmaybe she holds ur hands constantly bc again SHE'S AUTISTICthese are common autistic people shitif u don't like it give me her number u faggot
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>>33922358>dating this girl for about a week>A lot of the videos she sends me involves things like marriage, having kids, etc.RUN NIGGER RUN RUN RUNAnd don#t let any desperate simp incels tell you otherwise. This shit may be a nice phantasy if you're a touch starved basement dweller, IRL you are in for a world of hurt>>33922453Exactly, its been a week and sheas already going ham on things that shouldn't even be atopic unless you'eve known each other for years. Cu-razyyy
>>33923283Genuine question, how is this exactly a bad thing? Is it cause she’s acting obsessed? I don’t really see this as a negative thing
>>33922358>She sent me her location indefinitely1) you're both 162) if you're not 16, this doesn't feel rightI'm genuinely wondering in what world is this healthy? Are you a Muslim? It sounds so sus to me to preemptively give someone your location indefinitely, it's like you're both implying that she can't be trusted and that you have to hold the reigns otherwise she'd go fuck off with someone else. It seems so scary to me.Young me would understand this, I was paranoid, but I'm an old goober now (29) and I think, either she's into you or she's not. And if she is then there should be trust there. This sharing location indefinitely part seems just so weird to me.
>>33923383She has trust issues cause her ex cheated on her. I didn’t even ask for it she sent it to me and told me she wants me to know where she is in case something happens and I just sent mine as well to ease her mind
I think it's good to establish what you both want out of a relationship. For example, make sure you have similar values in:>Religion>Politics>Children>FinancesThose are good topics for actual marriage planning. >>33923383Her ex probably conditioned her to do that sort of thing so she thinks it's what you're supposed to do. I personally would be so thankful if my girl did this, I've had two times where she went quiet while out with friends and forgot to update me because she was drinking. I was not pleased but because I knew at least one of the people there with her I knew she would be ok.
>>33922358Some men really have it all
>>33923300It may be a bpdemon. Be careful.
