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Everyone says not to do it. But over the years of trying to get a gf I’ve realized something. I cannot relate to most women. There were times when women approached me first but those ones there’s usually something stopping me from wanting them (too fat, not smart enough, etc.). I take take good care of my body and mind so I really want someone that reciprocates that. Most women I like tend to be the ones that expect guys to be the one to ask them out and think they’re not interested when they don’t. I’ve tried asking women out but it’s always led to rejection for me so I’m just really apprehensive nowadays. I won’t ever do it unless I KNOW she likes me to preserve my sense of self worth.

I’m thinking of doing this to just be honest about what I’m looking for. I’ve never had a gf and want to explore being in a relationship with someone that’s also never had a bf. This way I won’t have to worry about whatever retarded TikTok advice bullshit she’s listening to that’s stopping her from meeting me halfway. Some women will see that and be turned off instantly but I didn’t want those ones anyway
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>>33923168
>implying dating apps work for any man
lol, lmao even
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>>33923257
You just have to be willing to bang the fatties and BPD single moms who are the only women to actually use those things.
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>>33923168
No, that makes women think you are undesirable.
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>want to explore being in a relationship with someone that’s also never had a bf
good luck finding that on dating apps
they are not good
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>>33923168
Your situation is very similar to mine. I think I will add it to my bio since I'm having zero luck as is. I like you am very apprehensive I kinda just assume they aren't interested and I don't like the feeling of inadequacy that accompanies it. I hope it works out for you in the end.



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