My partner and I have been together for quite a while, and we’re planning to tie the knot toward the end of next year. She’s amazing, and I love her deeply, but there’s one thing I’ve been thinking about. We both want to become parents someday, but she’s Asian (Chinese) and I’m Jewish.Honestly, I feel a bit uneasy about the idea of raising a mixed-race child. It seems that kids from those backgrounds sometimes deal with prejudice or confusion about their identity (for instance, discussions on r/hapas or the 2014 Isla Vista case).Because of that, I’ve been wondering if using a white surrogate might be a possible option. I’m not keen on adoption, since I’d still want a biological connection with the child.What would be a good way to bring up this subject with her? Has anyone gone through something similar?
>>33923715I cannot think of any good way to discuss this. You are saying a) you NEED the child to be yours (no Asian sperm donor) and b) you are okay with it not being your wife's kid. There is no way that goes over well. Just have a mixed-race kid, plenty of Hapa kids where I grew up in Tacoma and they turned out fine. The ones with weird identity issues are just really loud online
My mixed asian kids are quite happy, I am not a jew though. One looks like me, other looks like my wife (same goes for their characters). I just tell myself I love them equally.What kind of retard suggests to the wife to cuck herself? Do you have literal, unironic autism?
Nigga what the fuck are you doing? Your priorities are entirely insane.As a JEW the only thing that should matter to you is that she becomes JEWISH, not what race she belongs to. Your children will not have any problems so long as they are JEWISH children. If their mother is Jewish, they will be accepted as Jews.>It seems that kids from those backgrounds sometimes deal with prejudice or confusion about their identityThis is a total non-issue so long as your woman is Jewish. It will not matter at all so long as she converts with full commitment. As a Jew we have the special privilege of entirely disregarding race so long as the woman or man enters into the tribe. Black, white, asian, all of the above are irrelevant so long as they are Jews.If she's serious about being with you and you with her, go to your local Chabad or whatever and get her inundated with Judaism until she's more Jewish than you are. Your children will be full-blooded Jewish and that's all they will ever need from that point on. Lastly, let me remind you that the race of your children won't matter because they have a Jew dad, meaning they'll be discriminated against anyway. Go all-in and rock with your own nation, B'nei Israel.But being real, I don't think you should marry this woman if you're that racist toward her. She doesn't deserve that and you will make the rest of us (Jews) look bad for dehumanizing your goy wife just because she's Asian.t. son of White Christian mom, White Jewish father still struggling for total acceptance because his mother never converted
Anon what the fuck is wrong with you?If you wouldn't have kids with her don't marry her.
>>33923715There ARE Chinese Jews.Onions vay!
>>33923715>Uuh yea I love this person but I don't want to have a kid with them because of their raceInsanity.
