i dream of my ex every night now and i want to stop. example: last night it was a dream of her texting me, then telling me shes been having sex (it makes sense in context because she was insecure rhat i had a higher body count than her by a lot) and she wants me to come meet her, and sends me unwanted pics of her getting fucked and said look at me now. i got so mad in the dream i dream-wished a gun into existence and started driving to her place.im not a violent person irl and while i want her again i have mostly let go but the more i let go the more dreams of her ive had and the more unsettling they become. i just want it to go away. how do i stop fucking dreaming of her. sometimes she seduces me. sometimes me to her, sometimes its a date, sometimes a fight. and its like this every single night for months now.
>>33923881i have these too about a crush, but it's more like once a month, for a year, so long term but not as often.i suppose it's just "unfinished business" (you have not let go) and your brain is trying to deal with that feeling by dreaming about her.
>>33923896thanks anonmaybe i dont know how to let go, although i swear I have. im not sure how.
>>33923961Maybe you should talk to her and closuremaxx
>>33926194cant.she blocked me on everything except whatsapp and disc and im saving those because her last words were "if you have grown in a year lets try again" followed by "i dont want to see you anymore" and blocked everywhere.honestly, not sure there can be closure, she has bpd and massive trust issues, i could never get her to relate to me fully, which fucks up a relationship. what closure can you get from someone who doesnt live in the same reality you do?i guess i tried to let go by forgetting but then the dreams come and dont go away
>>33923881>i just want it to go away. how do i stop fucking dreaming of her.Time, man. It just takes time. The same thing happens in withdrawal when quitting a drug. No shit you will dream of using again. It just takes time.
