"i... i didn't realize we were exclusive.."

When it happened to me the reason was because she was not actually trying to date me, just wanted to fuck, but I was traditionally minded so I made her my girlfriend and she didn't know what to do about that.

Later after we went open I had sex with other people and she didn't. She just couldn't handle the pressure. We eventually broke up.

As for you, why don't you ask her why she wants one? Then, be super cool about it and ask if she's got someone she's been eyeing and so on. Be super curious and not defensive about it. See where she's at. It could be a shit test to see if you're possessive.

After you're done, you tell her, "Thanks for telling me all that. As for my own feelings, I would rather be in a monogamous relationship."

If she isn't super cool about your wishes just walk away. Be really chill about it, act like you don't care at all. If she gets defensive just say that you don't want to be with someone who needs more than just you to be content, since that isn't very good for either of you.

>>33924520
If any person suggests an open relationship before you start a relationship its most likely that they're just into open relationships. They probably have one or a few romantic partners and isn't willing to choose. If someone suggests an open relationship in the middle of the relationship its likely that your relationship is just over. Anyone who goes from monogamous to open in the middle of a relationship doesn't want to be with you anymore. The reason they don't want to be with you is irrelevant. Its just over.

>>33924520
It means she's a whore, lmao.

>>33924520
>likely
No. Certain.

she was already fucking someone behind your back and so now to ease her guilt she wants to "COonVinCe" you to an open relationship. Even if you say no she'll just dump you later anyway (very soon)

>>33924520
>the state of modern 'relationships'