names changed for anonymityA month ago, around from the start of oct 2025 to 28th of oct 2025, My girlfriend started growing colder towards me. she would reply less often, and wouldn’t ask to call much or anything. when we did call, she generally seemed somewhat uninterested or like she was drained. This in turn made me suspicious, so i decided to go through her following on her many social media profiles. i went through a lot of follows, however this one account drew my attention. This guy is called Zac, and she’s following him on 3 platforms. i also remembered that i saw someone called Zac on snapchat texting her, so i decided to ask her about it, as well as DM him “i’m the girl you’re talking to right now, what’s my name?”. She told me that he was a friend from college and that they texted sometimes about common interests. i stalked his mutuals for a bit, and saw that he was following a lot of people from her(my gfs) college. i know that i can be overly jealous, so i let it go and moved on from the topic. i asked her this at a late night, and the next morning the guy(zac) responded, saying my girlfriend’s name. i then sent a screenshot to my girlfriend and asked her what was going on, and she lied, first saying that they were not talking and that he was delusional, then lied saying that she was only trying to make friends and didn’t realize he was flirting with her, then said that she only entertained his advances. i then went over to her house to talk, as well as to pick up my things. i then went through her phone and saw her send him pictures of her, calling him handsome, and more stuff that is not worth mentioning. i then gave her one chance to write a full account of events not skipping one detail, and this is what i received he pointed out to his friends that he was interested in me, the guy he told was the guy from my secondary and he said he was gonna give him my snap, he (continued in thread)
Dont even bother finishing the post you are straight up just an npc with an npc problem
he didnt, he told auras ting keon and he said that he knows the girl im friends w , he asks her for my snap to give to him, aura said i didnt have a man. i added him when i was in hospital, i was alone and bored and upset, i dont remember exactly what we were first talking about i think it was some bs abt colly hours n whatnot. i dont remember most of the stuff that we were talking about desu, i remember thats roughly when he asked me what my fav colour was and he said that he would show up to the hospital w roses or sum along those lines and i said absolutely not because i didnt want anyone to see me in that state, we were also joking about being married or him proposing because he said that “you’re either gonna be the girl i marry or the girl whose wedding ima show up to with bombs” which really fucking scared me, which i why i was joking about saying that we were (i didnt actually mean it) and he was joking abt getting me some pandora ring and i was saying i dont wear rings i want a fancy super expensive one that makes your skin change colour, i didnt ACTUALLY think he was gonna get it for me. he wanted us to meet and asked what i was doing for halloween, i said i dont know, he wanted to do a movie night at his house (which at first i was rlly confused about) and then he said “oh and if you suddenly decide u dont fw me i have an extra thing i can sleep on” and i genuinely said “im staying over?” which again i was so confused about because he did not make it clear. the plan was to have a movie night and because hes a chef there were recipes i wanted to try but i was too lazy to make them so i wouldve made him do it. I said to him that he had to take me out first because im not like that - my plan was to never follow through with the plan, so i would cancel or make excuse, if i never went out w him i would never go over so i thought i was safe(continued)
safe from that. i remember he brought up a certain movie that i adore and i dont remember exactly what i said but i think i was being flirty or i said “what do you know abt the book of life” which again is a movie i adore and could talk abt for hours, i dont remember much or what else i said or what happened whilst i was at the hospital. i went thru his reposts to see what he liked so he could think that i was really into him but i was just feeding him lies again so he could be entertained. yes we called and yes we did play roblox, we played fnaf and uno cuz i wanted to show another person how good i am at uno. i remember one time i left him on delivered for hours and he got rlly petty about it and i called him and it was super awkward which is when i realised “why am i tempting throwing my whole relationship away for this it will just be awkward” i remember we also called i said i was gonna get on my grind and i screen recorded it to him because again i just wanted to be a show off, every time u were over i told him i was busy, every time we called i told him i was going to sleep early or i was busy, there were days where i was supposed to call him but i gave an excuse saying i had to put my brother to bed or i was talking to my mum and didnt feel like calling anymore because i was tired or not in the mood. I was quite mean otp and would always tell him to shut up cuz he spoke over me too much, i also screen recorded my grind and sent it to him again to show off. when we went to town together i lied to him and said i was going w my friend and that she was coming to mine after, obviously i lied because we went to town together. I told him that i wanted to cut my hair to a more emo style and he asked to see the reference which i refused cuz i didnt want him to think im ugly compared to her, that was a mix of insecurity and manipulation, also on my birthday i told him my friend was coming round i dont think i specified who (continued)
who and he said “what other guys ” which i got super pissed off about because im allowed to have male friends so i left him on opened for like 8 hours and this is also when i realised that i couldnt be fucked for whatever bs he was gonna throw at me and i didnt want it to continue. i am honestly trying to think of what else had happened, i did also say to him that i was not the type to fuck him or do anything sexual - because i didnt want to - when i found out u was gonna work at the maccies yes i did panic because i then didnt want you to find out about eachother which also gave me more of a reason to end it. every little thing and detail i said to him was a fabricated lie and really deep manipulation to again keep him entertained, make him think that i like him, not give him any reason to get suspicious and try find you, becausr again i was trying to end it in my own time. When u brought him up the first time, i blocked him before you messaged him, yes because i was caught out but also because i knew what i was doing was wrong and it was so much easier to just get rid of him in that moment like that i dont know why. i told him the reason i blocked him cuz he messaged my number was because i had an episode - which i still did- but i still didnt mention it was because i had a bf, again i didnt want him to then go searching for you, i told him that when we get to colly we will talk and i wouldve said that i dont date inside education because it gets messy and i dont do the whole talking thing either. I was going to say that instead of saying i had a bf because again i didnt want him to find you. i do also remember we were otp once and he was saying “oh if u hear the stuff me and my friends are saying” i wanted to hear it because it felt like i was almost humiliating him just to feel good about myself. thats when i said “your cute” again in an extremely patronising way. I did also ask to tattoo him and i said i would do it for free, but (continued)
but that wasnt me flirting i genuinely just wanted to use him as a canvas for my portfolio and its not just him i give offers like that to. every little thing i told him all the compliments even going to the point of saying i liked him was all just a lie and a big manipulation tactic to again keep him entertained so he wouldnt go looking for you, and i also tried to make it so that you wouldnt find out about him. I was also going to end it in a way where u guys still wouldnt find out about eachother, we could continue a happy relationship and he could be gone. that is honestly every thing i can remember right now, if there was something i havent mentioned i forgot it. but this is full honesty and every little detail. You can show him this too because idc abt him. Everything to do w him is just manipulation and lies (continued)
this is again her account and i’m sure that she’s keeping plenty of things from me, but this seems to be the closest i’m getting to the truth. i talked to the guy and i believe that that’s as far as the infidelity went, and nothing else except some texting happened. he did say that she was villainizing him, and that she was a lot more willing than she says but i don’t have the energy to care anymore. when i questioned her as to why she cheated with him, she said that there was no reason and that it was out of convenience. i don’t really believe that she didn’t find him attractive, but i digress. if it matters, i’m objectively more attractive than him. however, after some prodding she told me that the real reason was that she actually wanted to keep this other girl as “backup” in case we broke up as she was scared that she was getting too reliant on me. she didn’t see it as cheating as it was to her not a backup but a friend during the relationship. i honestly don’t really know what to do. since this event, she has gotten me a promise ring, given me a free tattoo(she’s a tattoo artist) and has posted me on nearly every social media she has. however, i still sometimes think of what she did and it always lingers in the back of my mind. she does seem to be quite serious about our relationship though, and is putting in effort, even asking me to visit her extended family back in polandi do apologise for this absolute wall of text.TLDR: gf cheated on me with some guy from college and lied about it when asked, then revealed that she did cheat and that she was plotting on another girl, but he approached her first so she just cheated on a first come first serve basiswhat do i do anons? break up or stay?
didn't even read.No you should never stay with a cheater, they lie constantly and never change
i feel like i shouldn’t though, she does seem very serious about everything now and it never got physical. i don’t know
Break up with her you moron. She cheated on you and you’re considering staying with her? You stay with her and she’s gonna realize she can do anything to you and you won’t do shit. Dump her. Ghost her. Never talk to her again. She’s trash.I wouldn’t even want my girl having a snapchat considering the possibilities associated with it.
>>33925656wow what a blog for girl cheated on you...wtf do you think man, normal man would dump that bitch in an instant, but you don't look normal
just using her somewhat to get free tattoos now desu. she is pretty good at what she does. i don’t take her all that seriously
Use her for sex but look for other girls in the meantime
sex isn’t that big a deal to me. plus i’m not saying that i’m the most handsome guy but i am somewhat attractive and i can pull. the issue is that i don’t really know if i want to chase anyone anymore, as i just see it as too much of a bother
Nigga I can't even read this slop.Keep it simple.
>>33925656>she does seem to be quite serious about our relationship thoughNo one cheats on someone they're serious about, otherwise, why haven't you cheated yet?
>>33925656Someone who has cheated once will cheat again.Because the first time is the biggest hurdle.You've made it easier to cheat on you againExcept this time the guilt won't be strong enough to force her to talk.
>implying I read all that shitHoe ain't loyal, just break up. If you stick around, she will rightfully earmark you as a cuck , because if you forgive it once, you will forgive it twice ( or trice, or fifty times unltil you kneel in the bedroom with a belt around your neck as Jamal plows her) Break up, dumbass.
>>33925656Just stay with her anon.
