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>4th year in college
>girl
>three real friends left
>all others graduated and are far away
>too exhausted to want to make new ones atp

With two out of the three left, one I got really close to in the last two months but recently I've noticed her pulling away. She hangs out more with the other friend now (I re-introduced them after they drifted) and talks to him way more and hangs out with him way more (not a dating thing, he is gay, more of like....a fatherly relationship? idk it's weird wtv). What's confusing to me is we have been friends for almost two years, and recently we've gotten super close this semester as we got high a lot and it got to the point of sharing location and texting every day about daily life stuff and casually cuddling. Within the past two months she's said she likes me, that I'm really cool and at one point that I was her favorite, and about a month ago called me like, a best friend but recently I've been feeling the dynamic shift and I'm really confused because I feel rejected all of a sudden by someone I thought I was close to. In the past week but mostly in the past like, two days she doesn't text me anymore, doesn't really return my calls (it rings like twice and goes to voicemail and is then never adressed). I don't know if I'm delusional or overthinking this shit or maladjusted or what but ever since this semester has started and my social circle has shrunk down to like 1/5 the size it used to be every action feels amplified by a million and is so much more intense. This probably wouldn't even be an issue if I just had other fucking friends

I have no other friends I want to hang out with, the guy friend in question is a part of this dynamic so I kind of don't want to see him even though he's not at fault and also a great friend in his own right, and the third friend is cool and unrelated but they're on a busy semester and there's only so much time they can spend hanging out. I've been getting really sad at night lately what to do
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>>33925906
Post a pic of your pussy first or go back to r*ddit
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She sounds embarrassed by getting close to you and it pulling out. Happens to people with social anxiety.
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>>33925906
>girl
Bitch you live on easy mode, literally just let others talk to you or find a dick to ride and you wont be lonely anymore
Only your own neurosis is keeping you alone, so stop being dense and you will have tons of friends
Alternatively, just post a cute pic of yourself on any social media and pic any simp you want to have as a new friend
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>>33925906
hey im lonely too, wanna be frens?
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>>33925906
>female
>everyone to busy to spend time with you
you must really be an unpleasant person that hitched a ride on the friend group
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>>33927490
Not OP but weird men have a 100% easier time getting actual platonic friends compared to weirdo women.

If you have friends, you are a normie regardless of gender though. Including you & OP.
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>>33925906
im in similar situation wanna be friends?
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>>33925906
>focussed on a woman
>discovers disposability and ghosting
Maybe concentrate on your grades desu



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