As a young teenager I was asked if I wanted to know how a friend (Prashanth) of my friend’s older brother (Siddhartha) got the nickname “the Black Forest”And I said sure I guess, and they took me into one of the unused portable classrooms behind the school and before I knew it he pulled down his pants and spread open his ass cheeks. I won’t even say it was in the moment traumatizing because it was so shocking and crazy. You couldn’t even see his asshole, the hair was literally like a werewolf beard growing out of his crack. When he wiggled his enormous brown ass it rolled and rippled and looked like Shelob in Lord of the Rings desperately trying to tear from the other side through black coils of web. I said the room stank (it did, now) and Siddhartha said to have some grace, that dude probably had to take a shower after every shit cuz toilet paper is not even making a dent in that thicket of nasty. His friend told him to shut the fuck up and pulled his pants up and they bolted out of the classroom shit talking each other. Ever since then I have been totally unable to imagine the part of intimacy, despite being other wise interested, where you have to take off the man's pants and see his ass. Is there anyway I could find a boyfriend who would be very nice about minding my boundaries and keeping his pants on, at least for the first several months, while we got close? I just need to know I have control and will never have to see something like that again totally unexpected.
>>33925980What in the fuck..? who does shit like that. What in...I'd try to ruin that fuckers life. Tell everyone he has a kink for showing his hairy asshole to people.But yea anon you can find someone that will help with that. Make sure they are decent people and you trust them and just explain the trouble. I had a gf that told me not to pull her hair during sex cause it brought back rape memories. I obviously was very sensitive and mindful of that for her after that. Someone that cares about you will care and try to make it easier however they can.
>>33925980Sorry to hear dating men was ruined for by a literal asshole.There are 2 ways you can go about this.1. Wait until you find a man who you know will not immediately drop their pants and shove their ass in your face.This method is dangerous since it relies completely on the other person being decent.OR2. Desensitize yourself to men's asses by actively looking at pictures of different men's asses until you no longer feel extreme discuss.This method is dangerous since someone might catch you looking at men's asses.
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