My mom wants to buy a few christmas gifts for me to give to my relatives. The thing is I'm a neet. Everybody knows. I told her it's dumb to give a gift I didn't even buy myself. There is nothing personal about it. Why thank me if I didn't even buy it? My mom thinks I'm being stupid. Is she right?
Write cards for everyone instead. Maybe you'll get to know your relatives better if you end up exchanging letters.