Is it possible to get a girlfriend who doesn't have any friends?I don't want to be forced to compete in bullshit social dominance hierarchies for the rest of my life.
>>33926404No woman is aloneOh yeah also the complete shut-in autistic women already have a bf
>>33926404Yes, realistically t can only be accomplished thru online dating because friendless women are no social. Also, it sucks, my ex had no friends and put all her desires on me and it was terrible, no time to be alone
>>33926404>I don't want to be forced to compete in bullshit social dominance hierarchies for the rest of my life.You know it explains a lot about why the average poster on this board struggles so much with getting girls when you view social interaction with other human beings like this.
>>33926481You being ignorant of it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
>>33926576Your response doesn't even make sense. Ignorant of what? The fact that there is a correlation between having trouble getting girls and viewing socializing with other people in such a negative manner?
>>33926404>forced to compete in bullshit social dominance hierarchiesIts the upper mid chicks who are the worst.10/10 are low anxiety really nice girls9/10 thinks if she backstabs and gossips hard enough about the 10/10 chicks she will be promoted and those chicks are hell on earth to live with.The mid chicks like 5/10 are just nice people, about as nice as the 10/10 chicks.Never, ever go for the second place chicks, they tend to be hyperaggressive PITA to deal with. The kind of chick that came in second place to be the cheer captain in high school. Those chicks are probably OPs problem.
>>33926404i have a bf and zero friends (i had a few in middle school but none since then, had 0 friends all throughout hs too). my sister is similar and she has many times admitted to me she has no friends.she has an adhd diagnosis and i'm currently under evaluation for autism, i do think she has it too instead of adhd. so probably just autism. if someone has no friends and no social circle for 10 years autism is simply the most common culprit in my opinion.
>>33926404>I don't want to be forced to compete in bullshit social dominance hierarchies for the rest of my life.That's how women choose mates.>>33926445/thread
>>33926738>viewing socializing with other people in such a negative mannerI mean that's how socializing with other people works, especially women. Now you can be really cynical about it and start to think about humans as just apes reacting to chemical impulses (I mean that's what we are), or you can use the knowledge to your advantage.
>>33927131BEEP BOOP. AM FLESHBOT. ALL INTERACTION IS A STRUGGLE FOR SOCIAL DOMINANCE.
>>33927144Why do you get scared when people try to formalize and define the mechanisms behind social interactions? Are the conclusions unpleasant?It's not any different from understanding how a car engine works.
>>33926404Im right here anon
>>33927169>It's not any different from understanding how a car engine works.Yeah but the difference here is that you think a car engine runs on orange juice and peanut shells. Your fundamental understanding of social interaction is so one-dimensional and myopic it borders on delusional.
>>33926738Again, you can bury your head in the sand all you want, but it won't change the truth.
>>33926404You don’t want that. As >>33926445 said women always have ways of betting male attention. It’s like a law of the universe. If you fuck up one day, that guy she talks to at work, that guy on her discord, some fucking neighbor that came over once to pick up a package that got delivered to your girl’s place by accident, whoever that guy is will pounce on the opportunity. And because your girl has “no friends” but is still female and therefore thrives off attention, she’s gonna be open to those advances.The hens need to cluck together. Far better for a girl to have a good social circle than none at all. If a girl has trashy party girl friends or God forbid male friends, just ditch her, but friendless girls are a danger too.
>>33926404The people who can pull that off are people who live the lifestyle of a gonzo journalist/artist, a traveling van dweller, or a motorcycle bad boy. Basically you have to fit a stereotypical box so women can easily categorize you.The other thing they have in common is that they live transient/independent lifestyles, which means women see them more as easy/safe sex material and not long term relationship material.The alternative is to become online-famous, but then there is still a hierarchy of likes/follows.
>>33927609Marry me now.
>>33929569And what’s your name
>>33927699What truth? Speak coherently nigger, you sound retarded and keep doubling down.
>>33930024You can’t deny that friends’ influence changes a relationship, they end up acting like psychologists and getting inside your girlfriend’s head (I’m not the OP)
>>33930065>I’m not the OPYeah I can see that, you didn’t address the point either.>friends can influence herSo can you. So can her family. So can her favourite band, her favourite movie, her favourite e-celeb, etc. Like I said before it’s easy to see why you guys have trouble getting girls when you view socialising with other human beings this way.
>>33926404>bullshit social dominance hierarchiesholy fucking autism. just get a fleshlight incel.
>>33931243Friends influence much more, I’m not talking about movies, relatives, or anything else, but friends specifically. They act as literal psychologists
>>33931373and? friends are a healthy support network. sorry incel but you're not going to be able to enact your fantasy where you can lock a woman in the basement and she can only come out when you choose.
>>33931408I’m not an incel, healthy friendships do exist, but most are envious. And a woman ending a relationship because of the influence of her ‘friends’ is very common, I see it happening all the time. Wow, anon, I thought you understood women
>>33931418>I’m not an incelyour words and views says otherwise. not wanting a woman to have friends like a normal person is very much incel territory.
>>33931557NTA but women are influenced by other women. This isn’t 100 years ago, social media has poisoned their minds. If you’re 6’2 and her friends start dating basketball players, don’t be surprised if you get dumped for a guy who’s 6’5+. If you work a desk job and all her friends are dating guys who work in construction, steel etc., don’t be surprised when she leaves you for a guy who “works with his hands.”You greatly underestimate female nature, or you’re just in denial.
>>33931600anything worth doing has risk. if all you're going to do is whine and seethe, then just blow your brains out. at least you'll be of use then by giving the county coroner something to do.
>>33931755What an odd projection. Seems like you have some personal issues going on. Hopefully you use a shotgun, make sure the cleanup crew gets paid overtime for cleaning up your rotted brain matter (nobody will know you’re dead anyway, your neighbors will eventually just get tired of the smell). Make sure you livestream it, too. Maybe you’ll finally get the attention you wanted.
>n-no u!
>>33926481its thisyoure kind of really dumb, op, and youll stay that way until you learn a basic capacity for introspection
i think what nobody gets is that women do have periods where they have no friends at all. they lose friends after every milestone>first promotion/major career>acquiring boyfriend>engagement>marriage>pregnancy>motherhoodall women are competitive in these things, and when they see the other get ahead, they suddenly don’t have anything in common anymore.
>>33926404Not sure you'd want that.My buddy's ex was like that. Or rather she immediately left her own circle off friends and acted like she was at home in ours, it was annoying as shit.Besides, as appealing as it might sound as a fantasy, I doubt having a girl that has nothing going on outside your relationship is a good time.>>33926481Don't blame him, it could be a trauma response or something.I had a somewhat similar outlook on life before finding a good therapist
>>33932197All women are mean and thus deserve no friends.
>>33926404be careful what you wish forthis kind of woman will be dependent on you for way too much stuffcould work if you're some kind of control freak
>>33932988I find it incredibly odd when people have engaged in therapy. Its such a weird thing to do.
>>33933217Why? When hand didn't stop hurting for multiple months, I went to a doctor. Why should you not go to a professional when you suspect there might be something wrong with your brain?
>>33932988>I had a somewhat similar outlook on life before finding a good therapistHappy for you but OP didn't indicate that he wants somebody to teach him how to engage with bullshit social dominance hierarchies. He said he doesn't want to participate in them.
>>33930024You fucking faggot ESL which part are you having trouble understanding?
>>33931755You truly are a retarded nigger.
>>33931557>not wanting a woman to have friendsI never said thatYou ran out of arguments and are putting words in my mouth
You did this thread alreadyOh wait, this whole website is just bots anymore, I forgot
>>33933280Is this based on the dead internet theory?
>>33933795Man, I remember when the dead internet theory was fun spooky what-if and not a nightmarish dystopia within reach
>>33933252Yeah but what I'm saying is thinking social interactions are this struggle in some hierarchy is the problem itself. I'm not teaching him how to engage with it I'm telling him that there's a better world out there than he thinks
