hi anons, i’m writing because i have absolutely zero self respect >tell myself i’m gonna quit smokingive been on my “last pack” for months now >gf cheated(not physically)stayed with her and forgave her>have no drive or motivation to achieve anything or do anything >only thing going for me is my theatre thing and the connections that i got from iti never seem able to achieve anything. i don’t see the point in it, nor can i do what any self respecting man should do. i even dropped out of college and i only have a middle school education what do i do anons?
You’re stuck in a loop of disappointment, and that eats away at self-respect. Start with one small win—something you can finish in a day. Clean your place, show up to rehearsal early, anything. Small proof that you can follow through builds confidence.You forgave your girlfriend because you don’t want to be alone, but deep down you know you deserve better. Don’t chase big fixes yet—just do one thing each day that makes you feel like you respect yourself, even a little. That’s how you start digging out.
