>Was a tranny>Dated a bi guy for a bit>Seemed to view me as a woman but said weird things like "no guys into trans girls are completely straight">I also had mental issues that would be hard for others to deal with tbf>Criticized me for not doing femininity completely correctly (my nails didn't look right, sometimes my makeup was too much, I didn't dress enough like a girl even though I wore women's tops, etc.)>Claimed trannies needed dysphoria a lot, which made me second guess myself, and so I detransitioned>In general, I felt like I had to agree with all of his opinions and basically shaped my worldview around him, probably not super healthy>After I detransitioned, he was really into me as a guy>My dysphoria didn't come back, ig I made the right decision to detransition even though I was fine being a girl and still lowkey want tits>Fucker detaches from me, develops feelings for a different trans girl, wonders if we should break up>I agree to break up>I knew this whole time something was wrong but was hoping it would go back to what it was like initially>Now I just want him back, but ONLY the version of him that knew and liked me as a girl, that didn't witness the detransition, that didn't get detached, etc.Wtf do I even do? He could have been the one...
>>33926740Why can't you just be a gay man? Why do you feel the need to play pretend as a woman?
>>33926779Being a woman feels better for me personally, at least while in a relationship
Anyways, will anyone give me any guidance without immediately telling me I was a fake woman please?
getting dumped by a bad boyfriend and transitioning repeatedly are separate issues.
>>33926857It's clearly related though if you read what I wrote
>>33926790Isn't that just a bottom?
>>33926867Acting like one but looking like a boy is different from looking like a woman and being (hopefully) fully perceived as one
>>33926863I did and I don't agree.
>>33926885It's related because my desire to detransition came from specific things he said, and he seemed to be interested in a trans girl right after I destransitioned for awhile
>>33926740He could have been the one to... what? What did you think was going to happen? What do you even think you're doing?Reducing the other person into a fantasy of yours is not a relationship, and neither is sex a relationship. You were both living a fetish hobby sex dream.Get fucking real with yourself, stop escaping reality into these fake worlds you create, and get the fuck ahold of yourself, man.
>>33926893I don't care what he said and neither should you. he's full of shit
YOU WILL NEVER BE A WOMAN
>>33928683The one to be my boyfriend?It's not just a fantasy when it's based on a real period in our time knowing each other. I simply wish it stayed that way
