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Picrel describes me pretty accurately. 27, never been in a relationship, virgin. Not extroverted or outgoing, never really learned to socialize effectively.

Stumbled through college with nothing to show for it. Made just a few friends (and eventually drifted from them), didn’t gain any new skills or hobbies. Manages to luck into a good job and career, which is the only thing I have to show for myself.

Tried going to meetups, clubs etc but felt really awkward and wasn’t sure I was wanted. Eventually got comfortable with being myself and stopped trying. But that’s probably even worse, and not sure where to begin fixing myself now
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>>33927213
The ck2 image here hits so hard
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I already told you suicide is the only option for you
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>>33927213
Try to get really into a social hobby and don't give up with it.
Your goal is to meet people, get friends, and gain a social circle first before anything. Then comes women, which is easier once you have friends and an established social circle since you can meet women through friends.
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>>33927213
I'm at the same spot as you, age and all. Only difference being I dropped out so I'm a useless poorfag ontop of being a virgin.
I just don't know anymore, man. I used to be more or less comfortable with not caring about sex until it was far too late. It's been two years I've been hopelessly swiping on apps even though I've long since been put in the shit list and get no matches.
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Go to prison, come out as a chad, a suburban single mom will take u
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You can try dating apps. They are cancer but who knows you might get lucky. Its like playing the lottery.
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Same boat as you, man.
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Don't use dating apps LMAO, get a damn hobby
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>>33927213
Its not too late anon. Other people will tell you it is, but they want to drag you down with them. My best advice at your age (Yeah I'm an oldfag) is to keep your hygiene up to date. Make sure you shower, shave, and hair is trimmed or at least not like a birds nest. Keep your skin clean and clear, your teeth white, and your breath smelling nice. Dress simply, but in something that fits; never more than two handlengths from your body, preferably one. Too baggy and you look fat, too tight and you look like a tryhard. Speaking of fat, exercise and at least keep trim. You don't have to be a /fit/ fag, but you should be maintaining aroud 2,000 calories/day and getting at least 30 minutes of exercise every few days. Eat more fruit and veggies, switch to 0 sugar shit, and drink more water. You should also get a social hobby that gets you out of the house. You don't have to give up video games, anime, or stop jerking to porn, but pick up something where you meet people. Whether thats a book club, an art gallery viewing, local concerts, or shit like that. Also pick up nonfiction books in something that interests you and learn it. Give something beyond your popular media interests to think about. Overall the goal is just to make yourself look put together, and like you have shit going on in your life. Best case scenario is you meet someone, worst case is you pick up a new hobby and interest and feel and look better/cleaner. Good luck.



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