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>female
>like a guy at uni
>we have 1 class together, never talked to him, see him only once/twice a week, once he only looked nicely at me and once i forgot phone in class and he gave it back to me
>decide to approach him outside, he was with his friend, it was dark
>told him we have that class together
>"ohhhh its you!" he started yapping something, i was confused
>asked for his ig
>"uhhh yes sure"
>he gave me his phone, i typed my ig down, but he had no signal, therefore it couldnt find my ig
>i told him
>not sure if he heard me, gave his phone back
>we said our byes
>he said we will see each other next week (we have class together next week
>no request til the rest of the day
>idk if he didn't have the ig to send me a request or if he simply didn't want to
>see him next day at uni, he doesnt look at me, idk whether on purpose or not but he seems to be in a hurry
>find his ig and send him request
>no answer

he doesn't know neither my first or last name, and i have almost no information about me on ig. i think i'm like a solid 7 on a good day, he looks pretty autistic, i don't think he got approached by a girl before. is it over or should i approach him one more time?
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>>33927587
Why didn't you exchange phone numbers like a normal person?
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>>33927587
Eh maybe hes gay? Lol
Also if you dont have almost anything personal on your ig then whats the point? Maybe he saw that and saw it pointless to add you
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>>33927587
Just approach him again in person, which you can do because you have class together, and ask him out
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>>33927587
He probably doesn’t know what to make of it because that is insanely autistic behavior. Just ask him out irl next time you see him.
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>>33927623
the point is that i find him cute and want to talk to him, do u think he could just not realise that
>>33927632
is it autistic
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>>33927663
Yes, the entire way you are going about this and also explaining it to us is extremely autistic
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>>33927587
Men are dumb. You gotta literally flirt with us until we get the picture
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>>33927587
If hes attractive hes avoiding you. If not hes autistic.
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>>33927587
Idk femanon, he seems to not be very interested in you. It could be that he has a gf or a crush on someone else.
Maybe he is oblivious though because of low self esteem.
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>>33927695
i find him attractive but my friends don't think so
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>>33927663
Yes, it’s entirely possible he doesn’t get that. When person A does something abnormal to person B, person B can’t get any information out of the interaction because they have no baseline to tell if that is normal behavior for person A.
>t. got confessed to with chocolates once
I didn’t even realize what had happened until like 5 days later. Just do things the normal way and if it works it works.
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>>33927750
ill try once again and be straightforward, thanks
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>>33927896
Best of luck anon!



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