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hey there /adv/.
So i'm gay, and i'd like to come out to my parents
buuuuut, i'm pretty fucking nervous. Any advice on this matter? M19 btw
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>>33928062
For me I waited until I had a partner and then just asked like “you’d want to know if I found someone right?” Then it all kinda comes out. Probably some awkward conversations in store but that’s one way. If you want to before that you might say something like would you want to know as much as you could about me or maybe like there’s a part of you you haven’t yet revealed to others.

But remember that another’s reaction to learning is their own and you can only really do your best to deal with whatever response you get. There’s a wide spectrum of possible responses to this and you want to weigh if it’s safe for you to do so first.
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>>33928062
Just don’t.
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whatever it is, do NOT let it be your dad catching you with a BBC dildo. they hate finding out that way
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>>33928462
>Are ya winnin’, son?
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>>33928062
Depends almost entirely on how homophobic they are and whether or not you live with them.
If they're not homophobic, you've probably got nothing to worry about. If they are homophobic, you should wait until you're financially independant before you tell them anything. A lot of homeless teens were kicked out by homophobic parents.
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>>33928062
Kill yourself.
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>>33928062
>So i'm gay
No you're not, it's just parasites and you need a detox
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it's not like you will never earn the respect of your father back anyways, and they probably already know from the vibes
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>>33928062
ah just be open and tell em. they probably dont care. As long as their boy is happy. Tho id be very concerned if my son was a top, that shit is so much gayer
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>>33928062
They probably know already and will be relieved to be able to talk with you about it
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>>33928062
>Any advice on this matter?
Best advice? Kys



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