For instance im 20 years old i want to heal my brain after a period of 3 years as a neet give or take. So i wanted to do things that are mentally stimulating like shogi or chess, playing videogames that aren't braindead and actually requires strategy and thinking, reading books, re-learning languages (i know french and arabic fluently however after so long of not practicing nor engaging with content that uses the language i became rusty and i need to start learning vocab again) and also pick up my other hobby i abandoned which is drawing. And on top of that i have to study at home because i dropped out but im trying to atleast get a diploma online. And i also just found out staying in your room as if you're in a coma has significant consequences to your body and i now have back muscles that cant support themselves so my spine is bad, my legs are bad, my grip strenght is zero etc etc.. and then after that i have to think about what job i want to do.. And as someone who spent 3 years doing fuck all this is very overwhelming and i have absolutely no clue how i can fit all of this into my day to day life without inventing a time slowing machine that makes a day last 50 hours.So the question is how do i start managing my time, have discipline to commit to my hobbies, unlearn bad habits and start to actually live because doomscrolling all day is not gud. I want to stop this as early as possible and get my shit together by the time im 22 so that i dont stay like this until my thirties
>>33930236btw my diet is good since i cook for myself or have my mom cook. I have very low sugar intake but im still kinda skinnyfat from not moving. im not low energy or anything i can definitely do stuff and im not particularly depressed. kinda just stuck in a rut i think..
>>33930236bump
>>33930236whyd you stop drawing?
>>33930352getting good at drawing is an investment that can pay off with general enjoyment and some money on the side. I have to draw atleast 2-3 hours a day. i stopped due to reasons listed above. neet brainrot. I have to somehow fit that into my new daily life
>>33930236You basically mentioned everything except from going outside. There's also no mention of societal activities. Get out that fucking bedroom and get away from solo activities. Go join a gym, start going for walks, whatever. Find a local coffee spot and read your book there. Anything that gets you outside. You need to circuit-break the shit out of this NEET loop doomspiral and that won't happen until you go outside. Don't build your hobbies around personal interests. Build them around their utility for a better future where you are networked with people socially, engaging to be around and can serve a vehicle for experiences outside of your room. This is going to be a challenging and at times overwhelming, deflating and brutal experience for you. Sadly you are in the trenches and it's going to be a very long winter. There's no point in me making it sound positive - at first it's tough. Everytime you go outside it's a reminder of what you've done with your life and seeing all the people who are functional, "happy" and social is a burden on your isolated soul.But this is about the long term play. Do whatever you can now and give it everything you've got because this is the bit where you need to ask yourself if you are going to put in the work required to get where you need to be and then commit to the answer. Ultimately you will not get the required boundary pushing necessary for the level up if you just build yourself up inside your room. A solitary shut in type who has some cool things going for himself is going to be severely outranked in life by the version of him that put all that shit in a box and forced himself to go outside for a few years and grind the XP out in real life.
>>33930371i didn't mention outside stuff because i really couldn't care less about others. And about the networking and stuff...well to be honest i would be happy with just a forklift operator or some other manual labor job (that's all there is in my country youth unemployment is in the double digits) im not gonna be some turbo entrepreneur that needs some serious networking. Im planning on living on my own since i will never have the money nor the time to have outside hobbies like going or whatever normies do. My best case scenario is having a stable but slightly low paying job and a small apartment. And no gf too but that goes without saying. I've been a loner all my life that's just how i am. Im just looking for tips to structure my time and be more disciplined pls
>>33930447You've misinterpretted my use of the word networking. I wasn't using it in a business or entrepeneurial sense. I was using it in a social sense - to be networked with friends, community, society.Choices and consequences. You sound like you are in a pretty defeated place so there isn't much point in trying to convince you otherwise. Good luck with it, I hope you reconsider what you want for yourself because the sad truth is that in life that's all you've got.
bump
