How do you abandon the want to be highly sexually desirable? I am in my mid 20s now and its hitting harder than I have ever felt it. I am a 5'10 man with a mediocre face and a thin bone structure. I will never be what women covet, and that just kills me. I want to flirt kiss and fuck every pretty girl in the world and it kills me that I will never have access to almost any of them. Ever. Forever. My whole life will be like this. How do I accept it? Deep down, all I really care about is sexual approval. All of my hobbies are connected to wanting to increase my sexual desirability. Its all I think about. How do I give up?
Get your hormones checked and then find a hobby that doesnt involve other peopleOr don't and troon out i guess. You are firmly on that road if you weren't already aware.
Being horny is normal and nothing will change it, that is just the way you are biologically hardwired. However, what you can change is your view on sex as being the greatest thing on the planet, that is just insecurity speaking. Once you got that down get a gf, fuck her a lot and have kids, build a house, plant a tree and all the other crap
you could just pay for it
>>33996440I had a girlfriend and honestly it didnt quench the desire. I could not help but think about other girls. I feel like I have almost a "free love" hippie disposition. I want to lay in the sun and kiss a different pretty girl every hour. It feels like an obsession.
>>33996365Find a committed partner and devote your life to them through thick and thin.
>>33996365>a thin bone structureA what?You're acompletely average dude, you can plow a swathe through average girls ( the average girl is fairly cute) and bat above your league at least occasionally. Easier if you hit the gym and get a good body.Stop comsuming incel content and doomscrollig on tiktok. One is terminally online garbage, the other is engagement bait thats supposed to make you feel like shit so you keep scrolling.
>>33996365>How do I give up on my lifeKill yourself>But I'm too much of a pussyThen you have to live. I'm 24 and just recently got eyefucked by a girl for the first time. It wasn't anything special but I've been trying, and that's what matters. I'm not going to tell you how everything is over for you, because that's objectively false. You can either try to live no matter how tough it is, blow your brains out, or spend the rest of your life doing nothing.
>>33996727>I'm 24 and just recently got eyefucked by a girl for the first time...what in the good name of christ is eyefucking?
>>33996365Kys girl posted isn't even pretty>>33996525That's cuz your gf was too ugly/boringSince you think mid shits are pretty, should be easy to boost your body count or some shit in a futile attempt to fill the gaping hole inside of you. And yes, this is the wrong way to go about it, but at least it's a start, huh. Maybe you'll bump into some bitch who rocks ur world or socks off or whatever and then that's when the real adventure/rollercoaster starts where you become a helpless blobby mess in the face of some mid hoe cuz you have no self esteem and all of it depends on some dumb hoe's worthless opinion of you. Then it eventually crumbles but maybe you learn to respect yourself instead of depending on others for a crumb of motivation in your life
>>33996732It's getting a look from a girl where her face says "Oh wow he's hot."
Pretty girls are overrated and you'll never accept not being able to fuck them. We walk hand-in-hand with horniness all the time that can't be entirely satisfied.
>>33996764Oh, of course. From the context of "I'm 24 and just got ... by a girl for the first time" I thought it was a zany new sex act you were excited about. Good for you I guess
>>33996771Are you op? If so, did you read anything else in my post?
>>33996819No I'm not OP. He is probably too much of an autistic neurotic freak to internalize what you were saying. Though I would hold my horses about telling anyone else about anything wrt succeeding in life if a random broad looking at me for two seconds was the highlight of my week lel
>>33996829I know you're making a joke but that obviously isn't the point
>>33996365Hey man, I have a friend who's a fat balding dude with skin tags and ratty clothes who lives with his dad at 32, and he gets way more pussy than I do. He just trolls tinder endlessly. It's like a career for him. Granted, most of these chicks are gross. But every now and then he lands a stripper or something. He's even gotten chicks to cheat. Here's something to bear in mind - there are dudes hotter than you, but also many more dudes uglier than you.Smoking and getting into dirtbag drugs like coke will help a lot.
>>33996853>Hey man, I know a guy who is a statistical exception mostly due to the fact that he's a walking piece of shit and attracts a multitude of shitty women. Hope this helps!
>>33996365Stop watching porn. It fucks up your views on sex and your view of yourself. You are not immune to it's effects anymore than you would be immune to the effects of cocaine. I'm not saying don't jerk off, just stop watching porn.Stopping will motivate you to pursue real women. You'd be surprised how much real motivation will improve your confidence.
>>33996734I think she was objectively very pretty but it wasnt one of those cases where looking at her was like immediately swelling my heart with love. Im not sure why I wasnt more intensely attracted to her honestly.
>>33996964NTA but I watch porn to sedate myself because I'm tired of being alive and having to associate with women in any capacity, they are consistently shitty people and have ruining my life at every opportunity. They don't want kids, they don't want families, they don't want to settle down until they're bordering on infertility, and between that and the economy and the death of my culture, race, countries, family, etc, I have absolutely nothing.I'm just going to goon to death.
>>33996365I am with you entirely, I understand where you're coming from. I too want this. The only way is to take care of yourself and treat yourself amazingly
>>33996995Based doomgooner
>>33996939Hey pussy is pussy. OP never said he was virtuous.
>>33997117Keep pursuing cheap shallow relationships anon, I'm sure that will make the world a better place for everyone.
>>33996972Some beautiful women are not sexually attractive beyond their physicality which is not the whole picture when it comes to attraction and some uglier women will make your cock throb and your heart soar. The most pragmatic advice is to date more women until you find one who you like. Trying to fulfill your genghis khan fantasies will likely not end well.
>>33997162Dating without abstinence is just going to fill your life with a whole history of mistakes.
>>33996365>I want to flirt kiss and fuck every pretty girl in the worldAh, a goal both noble and highly realistic. It sure is a true tragedy you're not able to achieve this OP. There's just no justice in this world.
>>33996365> All of my hobbies are connected to wanting to increase my sexual desirability. It’s all I think about. You need to find a way to channel your energy elsewhere. Otherwise the monkey brain takes over. What I mean is, seek connection. Not romantic, but spiritual. Seek vulnerability. Break your comfort zone. Do meditation. Realize the body is more than just for sex and can derive pleasure and purpose in other ways, including through creation (whatever that might be for you).
>>33996440>However, what you can change is your view on sex as being the greatest thing on the planet, that is just insecurity speaking. Once you got that down>Let me tell you what to do without explaining how to do itGood job retard.>>33996591>You're acompletely average dude, you can plow a swathe through average girlsYou're a complete moron dudeThe average guy only plows about 5 or 6 women in his lifetime, literally the first result searching for it on google>>33996939Don't try to argue with people just making shit up on the internet>fat>balding>skin tags>somehow slaying it on Tinder, the most superficial hookup appYou seriously believe this shit?
>>33996365buy prostitutes
>>33997625nigger
>>33997621>You seriously believe this shit?No, but everything is fake and gay anyway, so what's the difference?>>33997625>>33997634you're both niggers
>>33997679I like you
>>33996365>How do you abandon the want to be highly sexually desirable? You don't. You stop being a pussy that thinks>OMG no woman will ever want meBecause women all have different types. Some like fat guys, thin guys, nerdy guys, assholes, smart ones, dumb, good looking, even ugly. There are legitimately girls who only date "ugly" men because they want to be the prettier one in the couple. You fix your issues by maximizing and optimizing what you *do* have to attract the girl that's into what you have to offer. Everything else is just feminine faggotry. You're acting like a bitch, so you're emotional like a bitch. So from that perspective, no, women won't want you, because what girl wants to date a bitch other than a hyper-masculine ball buster? So it's a self fulfilling prophecy. Women don't dislike you because of all the bullshit stats you mentioned (that don't even really matter). They dislike you because you're a pussy. And you could choose to fix that in an instant. Literally a snap of your fingers could rectify everything. But nope. You like being a pussy. And so the universe gives you what you ask for subconsciously: continued treatment like you're a bitch.
>>33997683I hate everyone who has ever named themselves sufemacist
>>33997777why not kys then, faggot?
>>33997786Because then we'd die.
>>33996365>How do you abandon the want to be highly sexually desirable?idk, why don't you want to be an uber billionaire 160 iq genius who went to harvard and has the body of adonis?that you don't have ridiculous superlative desires for yourself means you understand they're stupid. just apply the logic here.
>>33997694>women like bald ugly guys theres a fetish for everything bro>IF YOU DONT ACT IN A HYPERSPECIFIC WAY YOU WILL DRY UP EVERY PUSSY AROUND YOU INSTANTLY Do you truly not see how ridiculous this convoluted world view is?
>>33996365Here's an actual answer OP. You don't. You just seethe throughout your youth and are broken by the time you're older. One day you'll wake up and realise you don't even remember when you gave up. I recommend alcoholism to hasten the process.
>>33998429>she just needs to be a virgin who never turns down sex and hates cumming and loves being tortured and just wants brain damage from being choked
>>33998429>Feminine women aren't attracted to emotional, feminine men>tHiS iS RIdiCUlOusLy cOnVOluTeDAnd this is exactly why you're bitchless. Complicating the simple. If you can't grasp simple polarity like this...you don't deserve a woman.
>>33998496You literally just say the same thing in every thread, why are you not getting flagged or banned but I'm getting constant flags for replying to you?Jannies are seriously a joke.
>>33998506god, i wish feminine men were real. if only.
>>33998548I know you were hurt by men at some point.Sue, sweetheart, it's not your fault.
>>33996365>My whole life will be like thisno it won't, ur libido will level off in ur 30s & be dead by ur 40s. best thing to happen to me
>>33998566nothing happened to me jackass
>>33998593It's not your fault.
>>33998516sorry youre getting flagged, the censorship is retarded, but i always say the same thing because im honest
>>33998602You say the same thing because you're clearly dealing with some kind of problem that you're projecting onto every conversation you're in, and rather than try and acknowledge that men aren't out to rape you and there are actually decent men who would try to have a stable relationship with you, you're just going to hold the trigger down on your gun and blind fire into the crowd, and shoot your own allies in the crossfire.You don't actually want to give advice or receive it, you're trying to vent right now, I get it, but it's clearly run its course, and you need to try a new approach if you really want to get somewhere in your life.
>>33998619>you're clearly dealing with some kind of problemi have to admit idk what youre getting at, but idk if people develop "some kind of problem" as abruptly as i came to hate moids>all men will commit rape if they think they can get away with it uwu>men aren't out to rape you>there are actually decent men who would try to have a stable relationship with you, where they get to lie to you and choke you and hit you and bite you and cheat on you and rape you, and you will get nothing but misery>you're just going to hold the trigger down on your gun and blind fire into the crowddo you think i was born hating moids?>shoot your own allies in the crossfirewhat allies?>You don't actually want to give advice or receive iti advise women not to trust their inherent enemy>you need to try a new approach if you really want to get somewhere in your life>somewhere
>>33998638I don't want to rape, nobody wants to rape, why do you keep obsessing over this?I wouldn't do it even if I knew I could get away with it, and neither would most men.The only reason I've ever done any of that shit in bed is because Women asked me to, not because I wanted to.>do you think i was born hating moids?Do you think I was born hating foids? Do you apply your own logic to yourself AT ALL?>what allies?exactly.>i advise women not to trust their inherent enemySo you hate life, admit that much at least.Men and Women have always worked together, we wouldn't be here today if that wasn't true, we're literally the same fucking organism.You just hate life because you've failed with men and are pissed off about it, femcel.You don't want solutions, you don't want health or sanity, you just want to complain. Your words are meaningless, please shut the fuck up.
>>33998661>nobody wants to rapemotherfucker, theres no way you havent seen threads of moids saying they want to rape. you even say its your duty to rape us as punishment for rejecting you, yet you also say that women want to get raped (?????)>The only reason I've ever done any of that shit in bed is because Women asked me toYou do it unasked, and when the woman tells you not to.>Do you think I was born hating foids?Yeah.>Do you apply your own logic to yourself AT ALL?Women and moids are not the same.>exactly.dont accuse me of shooting them then lmfao>Men and Women have always worked togetherwhat happened to all women being rebellious whores? choose one.>we wouldn't be here todayif only>you've failed with menmoids to not turn down sex. y'all are failing with women.>You don't want solutions, you don't want health or sanity, you just want to complain. You rape ONE baby and suddenly that's all foids talk about>Yeah, im a liar but your words are meaninless because i feel that way111!11
>>33998548tits or gtfo you larping faggot.
>>33998573Tbh im a lot like anon but have low libido. If anything my lack of sex drive makes my complex worse because I feel profoundly cucked by virile men who get to plap tight pussy while having that raging testosterone fueled horniness. I remember that feeling vividly. I can only imagine the satisfaction
>>33996964Yeah. It makes you hate yourself, and also hate people around you. I think the female you've posted in the OP is unusually attractive. Is it attainable for everyone - definitionally no. Is an 18 year old attainable for every male - definitionally no. I think 30% of teenagers in the US are overweight or obese. Another chunk are brown. Then there are people not born with the kind of face or features you've posted. And now you're racing against the clock - because that person is going to age soon. When she's older, you will be on here trolling and mocking her, typing out that people like her should kill herself. Your worship of hot women is fickle. You abuse any of them who have aged. It doesn't mean anything. Now you are just complaining about your emotions and desires like a bitch. Nobody cares about your cock being in your hand no offense. You're probably incapable of love because this isn't it. "Absolutely anyone who fits a physical criteria based on sexual arousal" isn't love.
>>33999619>When she's older, you will be on here trolling and mocking her, typing out that people like her should kill herselfnot true at all. once she was my special sweetie, there'd be nothing but tenderness and understanding until death us do part
>>33996365idk what to say, sounds like it sucks to be you>t. 6'7", huge cock, masculine face and body, girls lust over me, pay for our dates, do all kind of nasty shit in bed
>>33998849>wont post ass and thigh pics
The realization that there's nothing sexually desirable about an individual who exists to "fuck".However, the realization that most people just want to use at least a second body, other than there own, to "fuck".Fuck is sexually desirable to people; excellent fuck is especially sexually desirable to people.Most people relate to you.Is that erotic?Or is it actually not.I'm disgusted by sexual desirability.I guess you could begin to find it disgusting, that people are just seeking to use what works, for sexuality.And they say and do whatever to get it. They lie, and lying is rape.Just keep thinking people are actually ugly and repulsive to you, and that you might not know why exactly they are.But, they actually are.Maybe that will help.I'm fairly sexually desirable.And I'm perfectly unavailable.Seems unwillingness is sexually desirable, to all these worthless rapists.
>>33996525Have you ever been with a good looking woman? That's all it takes to kill that urge. Especially if she broke your heart. But if I am misunderstanding you, and you're talking about a need to bone different hot bitches, that's called being rich
>>34000339Hot. Can I get your number?
>>33996365why abandon it? I'm your height, maybe half an inch taller, and after years of feeling undesirable I finally hit the gym and made a diet plan. Two years later I completely transformed and I'm able to get dates on online dating apps like Hinge. I've been seeing a qt3.14 Asian girl who is a lawyer, she was mirin my arms the whole first date and then later told me she loved my body as we were making out. As someone who used to get ignored by women, it felt pretty good not gonna lie
>>33997162Its interesting how this works. My current girl is so attractive, like has a pretty large instagram following just for being "aesthetic" or whatever.. but I must admit I feel little flame or spark in my attraction to her.
>>33996365Read to understand what you are dealing with here and how to overcome it.
>>34001252>Become an autistic loserNo thanks
>>33997621>The average guy only plows about 5 or 6 women in his lifetimeThe averga guy generally never goes out of his comfort zone and never attempts to become sexually attractive, going the route of least resistance and simply taking as gf whatever chick randomly drifts into his life. Thats the difference. Chad or average guy is mostly a question of attitude, your looks determine whom you get to fuck in a row, not whether you do so at all.
>>33999931Id pay a lot of money to see that cock. And to suck it.
>>33999931>t. larps on the internet
>>34001650Can you stop being a weird faggot
>>34000304.I'm a mixed breed girl living in Brazil, I'm a virgin by choice by the way, not because I'm ugly but because men are evil and I don't go near them because they're rapists.
>>34002615aren't brazilian 'men' kinda feminine in that they cry and argue like women?
>>34002615i dont live in brazil and moids do way more evil shit than rape>>34002620because moids never argue lmfao. y'all bitch about red nail polish.
>>34002225NTA,but its a perfectly fitting response to that weird faggot post.
>>34002620Most moids in Brazil become girls so they can rape more effectively, if I wasn't mixed I would try to leave but literally men rape everywhere else so what's the point?>>34002651I've literally been saying for days on this board that I'm mixed and live in Brazil, you can't even imitate me properly you stupid rapist moid.
>>34001641>never attempts to become sexually attractiveThis was the most blackpilling thing of all for me, I actually DID. I lost a bunch of weight and got muscles to the point where other people described me as "buff", started wearing better clothes, became more extroverted, and you know what? It got me NOTHING.Funnily enough I only started getting laid again after I began letting myself go and going on a dating app, and admittedly that was only with low quality women.
>>34002615You are a biological (XY chromosomes) male.
>>34002715No one can "become a girl," you're still a biological male >>34003257
>Height starts with a 5Femanon here, not going to lie this is an ick for a lot of us. But keep your (weak) chin up OP, I'm sure you'll find your person some day!
