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Last thread: >>33999651

Blvck qveens edition
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Women
What happened to sufemacist to make her this way?
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Why are people still trying to help the crazy lady?
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>>34002520
Who
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>>34002534
nta but some femcel who's often posting here about how all moids are evil etc.
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>>34002520
She is just young and stupid
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>>34002534
The dusty vantablack brimstone harpie whom the jannies are letting kill the board
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I love JH
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>>34002520
It's an ENTJ alt. I wouldn't give it much thought.
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>>34002538
Wait she's black? Explains why she loves James Madison
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>>34002508
What the fuck lol why
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>>34002550
der coomers are in the chat
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>>34002551
>implying that's not the norm
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>>34002549
No, anon just talks like a shartyteen or /qa/ refugee for some reason
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>>34002549
I mean her writing style is pretty brown coded
>>34002543
Doubt it
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Black women are the best in the world!
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oh what the hell chairman, you're still here? i thought you ran off with jimmy or whatever tf his name was to go make little atoglets?
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>>34002555
How are you able to tell someone's race just from their text? Damn I need to be more racist
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>>34002556
They're not as hot as the others but I like how receptive they are to sexting and dick pics
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oh god it's already the 2nd of december and I've already fucked up the entire month kek
let's hope 2026 is better
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>>34002561
Welcome home.
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Will my woman cheat on me if I make her cum 5 times a week?
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>>34002565
what happened
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>>34002561
I cna tell what color people are just from how they reason about something unironically. My mom was once getting fucked over by the receptionist cunt at her GP's office over the phone because the latter misunderstood their policy on insurance claims for auto accidents. It was a "how would you have felt if you skipped breakfast" type of reasoning failure. She also at one point pronounced "button" like "buhden" which was all I needed to hear, i was like "mom you're arguing with a fat hijab wearing cunt." A week later when she finally gets into the office she says "you were right how tf did you know?"
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>>34002540
Explain why in excruciatingly sexual detail.
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i just don't think i'm actually an awful person for enjoying my time(however long it may be) with this guy who's still technically with his wife, especially since they have an open marriage

i still benefit with rent money and gifts amd the cuddles etc, sure i do feel a little bad about his wife not knowing the extent but she already knows he's crossed boundaries with me past her comfort and she's still with him

i know a part of me may be affected by me being single so long due to traumatic abuse. but almost getting killed really changes a person, and being close to someone again has just been so long
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>>34002569
let me run some calculations and i'll get back to you
>>34002565
2025 started turning into a bad year around november of last year for me. december is not too shabby desu
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>>34002571
I need a bf like this
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>>34002574
You aren’t awful, you’re just getting taken advantage of and crying for help on the internet about it but refusing to listen to anything we have to say
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>>34002574
>especially since they have an open marriage
Does the wife know it's an open marriage?
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Girls, would you date a guy who orders his steak medium-well?
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>>34002579
I only date VVhite blue or green eyed biofems thoughbeit
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>>34002570
just been crashing out and fucking up a lot of things, feigning responsibilities and bedrotting too much, or going the other way and being too hyperactive and weird, everyone at work thinks I'm crazy and they suggested I take a week off, have no discipline and my to-do list just keeps getting bigger, idk hbu anon lol
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>>34002585
What kind of freak are you?
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>>34002589
nta and not a steak expert but how is that freaky kek
medium well is like the most popular steak option at least in the restaurant I work
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>>34002586
Mexican detected
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>>34002574
anon. i know i said i'd have no sympathy for you now that you disregarded my advice, but you really need to consider the degree to which your trauma is driving this, whether through repeating past patterns or from the situation creating a vulnerable bubble for you to be taken advantage of. can you honestly look deep into yourself and say that you're in a good place to be making these choices? you also do not need to tie your quality as a person to this, positive or negative.
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>>34002586
Oh
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Is this the female equivalent of the First Pussy Syndrome?
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>>34002586
>>34002594
lol fumbled
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>>34002527
>Didn’t y’all bully a girl into doing porn or something?
Anons, how can we get goth girl onto BLACKED RAW?
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>>34002592
If that's the case then where's my god damn loving abuelita who cooks delicious food
All I got were two frigid anglo saxon cunts
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>>34002599
I really don’t care whatsoever
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>>34002599
Mixed signals dude what the fuck do you even want
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>>34002598
Hello Rabbi, evening service ended early today, huh?
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>>34002590
Because people are retarded freaks. For a burger, the only reason i’d order medium-well is if i don’t trust them to know how to cook a burger to be actually medium. But for steak, that’s medium-rare or a warm rare.
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>>34002585
That is really common among Latinos and black people and I hate it.

>>34002556
Admitting it is the first step. Now the healing can begin.

>>34002590
Most people agree that medium-rare is the GOAT cook on a steak.
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I always assumed medium rare was the default steak order
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>>34002601
You cared enough to reply in seconds <3
>>34002603
?
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>>34002609
Cringe
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>>34002607
>really common among Latinos and black people and I hate it
kek TIL
also common amongst working class whites apparently
>>34002608
same
I'm too poor to actually buy steak but this is what I'd order
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>>34002587
been there, I feel bad about not getting stuff done which makes me want to do nothing, which makes it worse etcetc. Pretty sure it's a symptom of perfectionism. Biggest superpower is to be able to just accept you're gonna fuck up and have no emotional attachment to when you do inevitably fuck up. You still have 30 days to go, you got this :)
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>>34002607
I like big boobs
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>>34002607
Depends on the cut. Filet should be rare
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Femanon needs to eat steak with me
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Can these optimismfags fuck off
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>>34002607
Ever tried blue rare?
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>>34002555
>>34002615
HOLY SHIT I WAS RIGHT HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
I HAVE THE POWER OF GOD
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>>34002614
>Pretty sure it's a symptom of perfectionism
yeah in the past I talked about this with someone and I think it applied then but now I'm just genuinely lazy
>just accept you're gonna fuck up and have no emotional attachment to when you do inevitably fuck up
thanks anon <3 I think this is the best mentality to have yeah. just do the thing anyway and who cares if it's not perfect. thanks I'll try and worry less about fucking up
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>>34002597
>extremely racist man is extremely racist
A real man does not bend his will in pursuit of foids
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>>34002623
Hahaha nice
I also pegged her for brown but figured she was in North America
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>>34002574
you're not awful. you are worthy of love.
this guy is taking advantage of you.
stop and reconsider where you're going before it's too late to go back.
you said you don't want his baby, but how long until he gult trips you into it because of the way he's "taking care of you"
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>>34002623
I kneel...
How does one obtain such powers....
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>>34002626
Shameful brown or hazel eyed white woman disrespecter baka my head senpai
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>>34002631
Idiot is feeding into her attentionwhoring nonsense
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>>34002616
>I like big boobs
NTA. I do too, bruh, they're so fucking soft.
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>>34002613
Poor people mentality is thinking anything but burnt will give you food poisoning.

>>34002616
>I like big boobs
Same

>>34002617
>Filet should be rare
[Insert Plankton yelling "CORRECT" gif]

>>34002622
>Ever tried blue rare?
Yes, and steak tartare. Not exactly my thing, but I respect it. Better than chewing on shoe leather a cow died to make.
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>>34002634
She was smearing shit all over the catalog this weekend too if you didn’t notice. She’s real bored
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>>34002635
One thing I miss about my fat ex
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>>34002623
Brazil mentioned
>>34002621
dw us pessimism fags are here to spread callous misery and derision
>>34002637
>Poor people mentality is thinking anything but burnt will give you food poisoning
I feel personally attacked
if it isn't charred to a crisp I decline

>Captcha: D0MM X
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>>34002633
>wanting a m*diterranean wife
You stray from the path of Agartha brother
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>>34002623
How the fuck is every girl here black-brown mixed? Either be a full brown Latina or a full black African. Make a choice ffs.
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Feminazi Suprema, conte-nos mais sobre sua experiência negativa com homens?
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>>34002646
they glitched out halfway through the character creation menus
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>>34002645
You don’t really know much about white women you phony zoomer
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>>34002644
You need to do us a favor and dick her down so she stops schizo-posting constantly
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>>34002574
>"it's a time sensitive issue and by the time the week is up I'll be taking action"
This was you on November 18th.

What action did you take?
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>>34002646
i'm white
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this girl keeps giving me mixed signals
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>>34002652
>so she stops schizo-posting constantly
would be hypocritical of me to stop someone else from this
also I'm an incel and she hates moids so
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I’m having a medical emergency. I’m going to die if I don’t touch a woman’s butt next year
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>>34002656
forget her
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>>34002646
I'm white and blonde but don't have blue eyes so I guess I don't count
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>>34002657
She clearly loves moids you fool
She keeps asking for us to post ass and thighs
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>>34002632
Y'know how beluga whales do echolocation with their giant bulbous pasty white melonheads? It's literally exactly like that
NOW POLISH IT FOR ME
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I keep trying to run FO4 on Linux but Mint and Steam are being dicks about it.
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>>34002659
>next year
Doesn't sound like an emergency to me anon
>>34002657
She needs dick so badly, it's obvious in the way she posts
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>>34002664
sufemacist is an obvious larp
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>>34002646
mixed race people dont fit in, thats why they end up here, the asshole of the internet
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>>34002668
I couldn't even get FO4 working on fucking windows
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>>34002668
>fallout 4
I am vomit
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The White moids are getting too cocky
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>>34002668
This is a sign from God to play a better video game
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>>34002582
i know i sound stubborn. it's just the closeness that i've denied myself for years after the life threatening abuse that gets me. i'm starting therapy this month and hope to ask with it to a professional, but I have alot of life things to unpack with that as well.
>>34002584
it was her idea and she states she's in an open relationship on her socials
>>34002593
i think it's a huge part of it actually. i think it's the bubble part. but i also feel removed from him, in that i think he likes me more than i like him. sort of like protecting myself to not be so into him and be flippant sometimes. looking back i also went to him for advice when i was dating another guy awhile ago and now i wonder if he was ever jealous over it.i've told him about my trauma with the ex and the stalking and he went out of his way to put up security measures so I also feel some type of way about that, like he wants me to trust him/feel safer in general which i appreciate.

it feels kind of rough when i keep getting called spineless/worthless, that i make a bad partner/bad potential mother. i know i'm vulnerable to a degree and i know people say he's taking advantage of me but aren't i also taking advantage of him? in terms of emotional/physical closeness
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>>34002671
that's ok, they will be the majority soon
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>>34002676
I'll give you my cocky in a minute
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>>34002676
what are you going to do about it
whine some more for me, it turns me on
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>>34002678
>but aren't i also taking advantage of him?
You’re not, but he’s setting you up to believe that you are
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>>34002684
have sex with a nonwhite man
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>>34002663
Brown eyes are cute. As long as you're not Fr*nch
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>>34002668
Why japs love iphone so much?
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>>34002671
>mixed race
>people
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>>34002676
Weirdo, everything is about race to you people
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>>34002676
You care more about capitalizing that w than I do lol
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>>34002676
I'll show you cocky
*unzips dick*
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>>34002668
Don't play Todd-slop
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>>34002686
Any nonwhite moids offering?
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>>34002686
oh no im so hurt kek
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>>34002694
Weird dick
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>>34002697
yeah, he's hopping out of the shower right now and he's about to get his dick sucked
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>>34002669
>Doesn't sound like an emergency to me anon
Well then it’s a terminal prognosis or something, shit
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>>34002700
Oh no I’m so heckerino mad
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>>34002668
>tfw playing PCSX2 on Windows without a care in the world
>>34002669
she needs therapy is what she needs
>>34002664
is that even her lmao
>>34002676
cocky abt what
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>>34002701
Now this one could sniff out a venezuelan playing hide and go seek in a slaughterhouse in 5 seconds flat
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>>34002701
relatable
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>>34002676
>The White moids are getting too cocky
Oh.
I was almost feeling confident enough to post my dick. Guess I won't now.
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>>34002707
Download better jokes
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>>34002682
>>34002694
Pinching hand emoji
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>>34002687
>long as you're not Fr*nch
Fr*nch girls are hot tho, I dated a Frenchie with big blue eyes and long curly hair
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Why would a 26 year old man ghost me?
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>>34002700
>yeah, he's hopping out of the shower right now and he's about to get his dick sucked
Will you swallow?
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>>34002714
because youre boring, annoying, unattractive, and unlikeable
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>>34002712
That's a white supremacist dogwhistle sweaty
>>34002714
You'll have to ask me next week, that's when I turn 26
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>>34002714
He is severely developmentally arrested, probably
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>>34002714
idk bro either has personal/avoidance issues or isn't that into you but either way you dodged a bullet
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>>34002717
I was pretending not to be just for him
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What do women itt wear to bed?
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>>34002714
21M
I ghost people simply because I don't feel like dealing with them anymore.
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>>34002712
Your ex really did a number on you
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>>34002710
It's probably attached to an ugly body anyway
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>>34002714
He realized you look way better with clothes on than without
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>>34002726
27M, I also do this too cause I'm mental but always apologise before/after and wouldn't do it to someone I'm dating
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Crossposting from /lit/
which one of you wrote this?
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>>34002729
nta
thats most people
just something you have to get used to
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>>34002722
I usually sleep naked because my tism only likes the feel of my sheets and comforter.
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>>34002739
Cute.
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>>34002736
That's vile
The book one anon wrote that crammed 'nigger' into every other word, now that was based
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>>34002722
i go ahead and put on the next day's outfit
i shower so its fine
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Are pheromones real?
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Women why don't you like shy/insecure men? Come on! You are facing a whole generation of men raised by single mothers, of course we don't feel safe with women
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Picked at my skin really badly
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>>34002631
i mean, i feel it a little soon to be having a baby, but i do kinda want one. i'm just having trouble deciphering if he actually would want that from me. we've been friends for such a long time and i started noticing him moe after he moved in. is that all really guilt tripping? i don't think he would do that really for a baby with me. am i just in denial about his motives
>>34002653
so i caved, i'm human. i know it's not going to be like this forever
>>34002685
how so? like what is he doing to say that
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>>34002739
gross
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>>34002749
Of course, they’re naturally occurring. The stuff you can buy in a bottle is snake oil.
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>>34002744
Can i post it on this board?
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>>34002749
Yes. I can smell when females are ovulating
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>>34002700
Would you share with another femanon?
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>>34002750
I like shy/insecure men who are physically attractive.
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>>34002756
absolutely
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>>34002752
>how so? like what is he doing to say that
He is providing all these things to you so he can use them as leverage to keep you attached to him in the future.
He has no respect for his wife as-is and is looking to replace her with you. Take my word as a man, please
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>>34002750
>a whole generation of men raised by single mothers
source? i feel like thats just projection. quintessential autist unable to understand that people are different than him
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>>34002668
You bloated with a bunch of mods?
Also, do you bang the Irish lass?
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Heating up dinner in the microwave.
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>>34002744
>>34002763
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>>34002749
yes but humans cannot detect them
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>>34002750
>Women why don't you like shy/insecure men?
They evolved to want the warrior
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>>34002770
based
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>>34002752
>so i caved, i'm human. i know it's not going to be like this forever
You can’t keep kicking this can down the road. What you asked of him was completely reasonable and he disregarded it anyways
He has no respect for you and is using you
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>>34002751
Try to do better tomorrow
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>>34002752
>so i caved, i'm human. i know it's not going to be like this forever
And you think you could be a good mother if you can't stand by your own word?

You don't respect yourself.
Your child could never respect you.
This man won't ever respect you.

End it now.
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>>34002769
based, what you having?
>>34002750
NAG but I'm very shy/insecure (was also raised by a single mom...) and granted it doesn't happen often but some girls have liked me and made a move
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>>34002653
>This was you on November 18th.
>What action did you take?
She squirted on his dick a few times
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>>34002760
Fuck...
>>34002766
Is just a more common phenomenon specially in this shit hole
>>34002773
What?
>>34002782
How you did it?
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Why was I born with no self esteem? Even as a child my mother was confused why I hated myself
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Girls, if you had a male friend who had a disease and knew he was going to die soon, and he was a virgin, would you consider having sex with him so he could experience it before he dies? Or if not full intercourse, some kind of sexual activity like oral sex?
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>>34002782
>based, what you having?
Steamed vegetables, mashed potato, and sausages.
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>>34002789
No.
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>>34002787
don't think anyone is born with no self-esteem (maybe no ego though), maybe you're neurodivergent or something and just didn't fit in easily with others or adhere to social norms
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>>34002792
Based
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why do moids do this?
>yeah, all males just want to hurt females. deal with it, liberal!
>why does no one love me for my personality?
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>>34002785
>What?
Women evolved to be attracted to strong, dominant men.
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>>34002787
Idk, did she hug and kiss you enough?
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>>34002797
Oh. Guess I have to die?
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>>34002796
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State gender and your thoughts on racemixing.
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>>34002796
I mean, you got us already, we're just a bunch of unfeeling rape apes. Rape rape rape rape rape, it's all we ever think or do. Anyways, can I sniff your panties?
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>>34002790
sounds fab tbf, the bri'ish would be proud
>>34002785
>How you did it
basically pushed myself to be more outgoing in spite of my shyness and introversion, made some friends and went out with them and met other people (also tried dating apps at one point)
alcohol also helped a bit but be very careful with that, got to the point where I felt like I needed to drink just to go shopping or whatever
>>34002796
she bacc
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>>34002803
Who cares
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I like making women cum.
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>>34002796
Post ass
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>>34002797
"sexual" attraction is a social construct
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>>34002796
I don't want to hurt females.
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>>34002803
M,
I don't care but fat white women and black men are not beating the allegations
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>>34002807
Same, anon. I enjoy it more than cumming.
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>>34002574
>>34002752
You've been posting for quite a long time now and you still lack a proper assertive response to the advice you've been given.
You just brush it off.
Stop fucking wasting our energy.
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>>34002807
I do too it's fun
Honestly just fingering her and playing with her tits (assuming she has any) while saying dirty shit and turning her into a convulsing mess is almost as fun as fucking
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>>34002803
M
i do find women outside of my race attractive but id never seriously consider dating them
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>>34002749
Smelling genitals makes me horny, but I don't think that's pheromones.

>>34002767
>You bloated with a bunch of mods?
No, I literally can't even launch the game. Apparently it's missing something, but ChatGPT is no help wih the invalid code. Might try dual booting, but I really wanted to see how well it runs on Linux.
>Also, do you bang the Irish lass?
Usually her, Piper, and Deacon. But Cait is my go-to.

>>34002789
Is the disease communicable? If not, then probably. Or hire him a hooker, since I don't think he's worried about catching something if he's terminal.

>>34002803
>State gender and your thoughts on racemixing.
F
I'm a product of it and am in an interracial marriage, so I can't exactly be unbiased, but I think more people should try it.
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>>34002796
Open your mouth. I'm going to poo in it.
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>>34002807
>>34002813
>>34002816
Really wish you faggots would fuck off to another website
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>>34002785
it also helps if you can derive some modicum of confidence from something, whether it's a skill or something you're making an effort in or just a personality trait (like being kind or a good listener or whatever)
also I was a DJ at one point so that probably helped a bit with meeting girls (but most of the time I just played a set and went home)
but yeah I'm incredibly shy I don't really like talking to people and socialising in general
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>>34002821
I’ve been here longer than you have.
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>>34002821
>I like making women cum
>faggot
?
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>>34002821
Sorry, I got banned from guyswith8inchcocks.com. They said my dick was too big for their TOS. Go figure!
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im at the point where i cant even get aroused anymore
kinda glad honestly
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>>34002817
Why not?
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>>34002818
>Is the disease communicable? If not, then probably. Or hire him a hooker, since I don't think he's worried about catching something if he's terminal.
I was thinking something like cancer. He doesn't want a busted old whore though, he wants a girl who cares about him.
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>>34002826
based
I'm the same atm, too depressed for that shizz haven't fapped in like over a week, better this way desu one less thing to waste time on
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>>34002829
i trust my mind more than my dick
interracial relationships are improper
no logic to it but it doesnt bother me tbqh
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>>34002664
moids can be hot.
moids are evil.
these statements do not contradict.
you know this. you hate women and girls, but you wanna fuck us.

>>34002670
i genuinely dont know why y'all think this. cope?

>>34002706
why would it not be me?
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I'm kinda hungry but I'm also kinda fat and trying to lose weight
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>>34002818
>but I think more people should try it.
Why? I'd like to hear your perspective. I've seen a lot of mixed race people that are very against it because they don't feel like they belong to either of their parent's cultures.
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>>34002834
I like women, but you are a dork
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>>34002834
we want to fuck girls? pretty heinous accusation
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>>34002835
Drink water
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>>34002760
Do you make a move on them?
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>>34002800
>Oh. Guess I have to die?
Kek, this is anons solution to every problem. It's like that platforming game where to have to explode every time you get stuck or noclip.

You're not a slave to your lowest nature, change yourself.
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>>34002841
I did
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>>34002834
>why would it not be me
bc it seems contradictory to me kek
>moids can be hot.
>moids are evil.
>these statements do not contradict.
>you know this. you hate women and girls, but you wanna fuck us.
sounds like some srs projection...
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>>34002840
I perish the thought
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>>34002842
I never encounter them in real life.
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>>34002834
>you hate women and girls, but you wanna fuck us.
Girls specifically. Women can stay home.
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>>34002834
Honestly I’m starting to agree, men are garbage. Too bad none of you are principled and just form opinions as reactionaries like children
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>>34002844
Drink more
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>>34002834
>moids can be hot.
>moids are evil.
In the words of radfem Shulamith Firestone “All men are selfish, brutal and inconsiderate--and I wish I could find one.”
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>>34002849
>reactionaries
stop using words that you don't know the definition of
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>>34002847
Oh well they're probably stuck inside
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>>34002803
Male
Women of all races are hot and are marriage material, therefore racemixing is okay.
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>>34002852
Spotted the faggot. Talk more about sex bro haha
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Moids are so evil. I wish one of them would love me.
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>>34002858
Are you cute?
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>>34002858
Oh my sweet hecking queenerino, allow me the pleasure of being your dutiful husband. I love the sex!!!
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>>34002830
Then yeah, probably. Unless there's a line of other women wanting to. Hard to call yourself a friend if all they want before dying is something that is in your power to give.

>>34002837
And I somewhat agree with that. I always felt like an outside due to the barriers gatekeepers put up around culture and race. But I think if more people experienced other races and cultures, it could create more understanding and empathy. It's why I don't like racial fetishization, because you are entering a situation by seeing someone as inherently different.
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>>34002854
I know. Stop doing that.
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>>34002520
literally nothing, im a virgin whos never been abused, im just listening to moids. everything i believe about moids is something they admit.

i learned the easy way.

>>34002532
if you mean me, im not crazy, society is crazy

>>34002536
they admit it, faggot

>>34002537
pffft, i used to think moids were all different. THAT is young and stupid </3

>>34002543
ffs im an obvious newfag, stop accusing me of being other people :(

>>34002549
first of all, im not black. second, whats the correlation? do black women have great taste?
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>>34002805
>made some friends and went out with them
I hang out with my friends but everytime they include a woman I don't feel safe with her
>alcohol
I try to stuff my belly with beer in order to gain weight since I don't want to lift
>>34002822
I am (or at least people says to me) I am a good listener and the only hobbie or trait I have is that I am starting to enjoy cooking
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Can sufemacist define what a woman is so that I know what I am simultaneously trying to have sex with and also murder?
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>>34002807
Same
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>>34002809
Try and convince male black widows to stop liking dommy mommies
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>>34002862
My shyness precludes going outside and interacting with people. But I'd love to be saved.
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I would give a lot for a nice 20 year old invader zim fan with nice boobs and early 2000's makeup
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>>34002869
Only women get saved
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>>34002869
What do you do inside all day?
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>>34002818
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uaJxHYeqpig
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>>34002871
Shoe0nhead?
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>>34002573
first, apologies for the essay, but it's important for you (and anyone else that needs to read this) to have the detail because therapy or trauma therapy often will not focus on this, and knowing the mechanics is good turning trauma from something vague and untenable to something digestible.

identity is the narrative we build about ourselves out of our memories. your memories are tied VERY deeply to your emotions, and so this tends to be the most emotive events in your life, positive or negative, literally correlating to the strength of connections in your hippocampus. we come back to our memories over and over, and this then gets rooted in our thought process, and this ultimately is where identity emerges from.

i'm rooting this in physical processes because you need to understand that there isn't some ghostly component of victimhood or trauma that haunts your identity, your brain is a physical thing that changes, and can be changed, and identity is a process resulting from that.

that identity is a process is also crucial to understand, because processes are something that can be monitored and *subverted*, you understand? if you have a high degree of trauma from the rape or circumstances surrounding it (markers for this would be anxiety responses to anything involving the scenario, or anxiety responses from thinking about the scenario), it is a marker of stress-induced (reversible) brain damage. in trauma, you circuitry for stress (involving the amygdala) learns to be hyperactivated, and the hormones involving stress are damaging to the body when sustained for long periods of time, which damages the mechanisms that your amygdala needs to attenuate its response to threats. i can expand more on this if you want, but it is not clear the degree of post-trauma you have from this event (but it probably isn't nothing if it's something that is still impacting you many months or years later). how you approach this depends on this degree of post-trauma. (1/3)
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>>34002877
lol, maybe. she's in her thirties happily married with a kid now
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>>34002878
if you don't have trauma responses to details surrounding the event, then identity change comes from subverting the perturbation of thoughts resulting from your memory around the rape. warning: this is often subconscious up until the point that it bothers you enough to notice, and trying to purposefully think back and study the thoughts can lead to retraumatization if you haven't addressed the physical mechanisms of trauma and are not prepared to deal with that.

the brain is designed to take patterns and repeat them into the future. getting rid of a particular element of your identity then is about interrupting the cycle of environment (including your headspace) -> emotion -> memory -> thoughts -> attention to feelings from thoughts -> response to these thoughts -> new memory (recording your response now). most often, when these are uncomfortable, we tend to find some way to ease that discomfort that does NOT address the discomfort (you might try to ignore it, or you might reach for substances, or if the trauma is particularly entrenched you may disassociate, compartmentalize, stuff the feelings down and engage, etc).

the most straightforward way is, first, to recognize the response, CONSCIOUSLY acknowledge the thought, memory, and feeling, and then consciously respond to that in the way you would want if you weren't being bothered. for matters of identity, this would involve telling yourself that this rape is not something that defines you, devalues you, etc., and then reflecting on what you WANT to define you, where your value comes from (and if nothing comes up for that, then acknowledge your inherent value as a person). (2/3)
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>>34002555
???

>>34002623
>>34002629

thats one of the trolls, not me, faggot. i talked to a dude from brazil pls
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>>34002865
>Can sufemacist define what a woman is so that I know what I am simultaneously trying to have sex with and also murder?
I bet she's a based terf
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>>34002764
he said he didn't really see us as a long term thing, but them says conflicting things like the phone plan tying him to me. then he says i love you/I have deeper feelings than physical. part of me wants to say he hasn't quite left her because of me. he knows how protective i've been over myself to let someone in again in a serious way.
>>34002775
I should probably confront him about telling her in person, but should I wait for him to be in a good mood like one anon said?
>>34002780
it's difficult and i also like him don't like conflict. i feel like it's something that is boiling over for me
>>34002815
probably the mental illness/fear of reaction/conflict
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>>34002878
>(1/3)
Please don’t
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>>34002872
Yeah I know it's a nice fantasy though
>>34002873
I'd love to say something interesting but it's mostly just 4chan and some gaming.
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>>34002881
in time (weeks to months), your brain will learn to incorporate this thought subconsciously, and this will slowly leak into deeper parts, until your brain can learn to not anticipate concern. this is not a fast process; it will take weeks or months of doing this just for the thought to become subconscious, and it will take weeks and months (possibly many months) from *that* to integrate into the rest of your brain. this process will feel fake, forced, artificial, but this exact process happened to get your identity to this point, the difference is that didn't consciously engage in it.

i must stress again, you really should NOT attempt this if you have trauma responses; the (reversible) brain damage from the stress damages circuits relating to self-control, and you will end up in a state where you unintentionally sink the trauma deeper (in therapy/psychology contexts, they call this retraumatization). this process has to look different in that situation, that focuses first on restoring circuit functionality, and that absolutely should be done with a trauma therapist.
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>>34002882
>virgin
>not black
>likes James Madison
yeah I'm thinking she's destined to be a tradwife boys
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so glad im only a failed normalfag who has no trauma
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>>34002871
Bruh, they haven't been 20 since the iphone dropped
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>>34002882
>denied being black
>didn't deny being brown
Oh, I get it. You're a pajeeta. Lmfao. That explains everything.
Don't worry, most of the world isn't like your hellhole of ethnic origin
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>>34002803
im an antinatalist so...

>>34002805
i gotta go to bed soon, youre welcome

>>34002808
YOU POST ASS RETARD

>>34002809
bait
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>>34002886
Interesting enough to me. Which boards and what games?
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>>34002889
>who has no trauma
I mean we all do because how parents have been raising kids for millennia induces trauma.
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>>34002880
>>34002877
>Shoe0nhead
Can't believe she fucked around with that tranny chasing neckbeard for so long
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>>34002871
Seeing zoomers look at my childhood with rose tinted glasses is so fucking weird
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>>34002893
you're not an antinatalist retard, you're just repulsive and unfuckable
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>>34002876
So long as she doesn't find the loverslab mods
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>>34002895
not my parents
i love and respect them, and vice versa
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>>34002893
>im an antinatalist so...
Aren’t you a teenager lol
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>>34002890
I know. If I could teleport one of them to modern times I'd love to
>>34002897
Women smiled so much more back then it seems like.
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>>34002885
give advice on the advice board? too late, dumb faggot
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>>34002893
>im an antinatalist so...
Until I make a little miracle in your tummy
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>>34002902
Everyone smiled more because cameraphones were less omnipresent and smartphones + modern social media hadn’t turned everyone into a hall monitor yet
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>>34002508
I wish I was a tittymonster like that. It's not fair.
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>>34002896
Wait, really? Not that her husband is anything to write home about. But skeptic fucks trannies?
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>>34002902
>I know. If I could teleport one of them to modern times I'd love to
I'd rather teleport back to their time 2bh
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>>34002897
well zoomers literally have the worst childhood in living memory
there has never been less hope for the future
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>>34002909
Maybe, seems comfy
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>>34002907
He nuked his entire career after they broke up. Stopped posting for months, got really skinny and frail. Apparently almost got some other chick pregnant. That's why you never date e-whores, the fallout is always catastrophic.

His videos get like 10k views now.
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>>34002906
whats the point of this post
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>>34002913
Mostly venting right before bed. Sorry that it wasn't constructive, I'll go.
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>>34002897
>Seeing zoomers look at my childhood with rose tinted glasses is so fucking weird
It's my childhood too. I think it beats tiktok.
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>>34002810
y'all admit that its all you want to do
>>34002819
WHY DO MOIDS HAVE A SHIT FETISH WHYYYYYYY
>>34002838
>i like women. i want to beat the shit out of them, but i want to do it while fucking them, so i like them.
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>>34002913
my man wants to be a tittymonster, leave him be
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>>34002884
Being a parent is difficult. Being a parent involves conflict. How can you possibly be a good parent if you hide from difficulty and cower from conflict?

You know, it's no big deal for us if you only ruin your own life. You're the one who'll suffer, it's nobody else's problem.
If you create a child and then ruin their life too, it becomes the whole world's burden.
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sometimes i see a really beautiful woman and i want to buzz all of her hair off to humiliate her
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>>34002910
Go outside more often. Spend less time gazing into the demoralization rectangle.
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>>34002897
Try growing up
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>>34002872
There's not a single day I wish I was a woman.
Is there a way to stop feeling envy towards women?
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>>34002907
He at least flirts with them on social media. Disgusting bastard.
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>>34002922
?
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>>34002920
go outside and do what
there is literally nothing to do and nowhere to go
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>>34002894
He ain’t getting saved
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I wish I could find a man to love but each and every time they want to put me in a humiliationship. I'd rather be single than debase myself for someone who will never love me
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>>34002887
>if you have trauma responses
What would they look like?
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>>34002894
You're making me anxious
I don't have a home board I like lurking around. /v/ even though it's shit and /int/ sometimes. This is my first time on /adv/ actually
Games I like but don't play as much as I want. I have loads I want to play but then spend hours on here or something. Play CS sometimes.
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>>34002796
Why do foids do this?
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>>34002840
being a faggot doesnt mean shit, moids are bisexual
>>34002845
moids literally admit that they are solely motivated by hunger, hatred, and horniness. you even admit that for moids, the same part of the brain causes horniness and aggression.
desu i think i might be getting less horny now that i hate moids. when i thought moids were people, i thought that boy"friends" were actually supposed to like you, and of course that thought was pleasing to me
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>>34002925
Or kill yourself
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>>34002929
is that what you've moved on to now anon? from "i'm inherently ugly" to "no man will ever love me correctly"?
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>>34002929
ok
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>>34002929
>I'd rather be single than debase myself for someone who will never love me
That's good.
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>>34002918
i think i wouldn't be like this if i had an actual baby/child. my mind goes into a different mode for that. just in this present moment i really like and appreciate being held for once and him helping me with things in my life. part of me feels like he's not being entirely fake with me
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How do attractive normie men feel about assertive women that make a pass at them? They view us as whores and we’re immediately downgraded to one night stands only, right?
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>>34002927
Libraries, parks, museums, shops, restaurants, bars, hobby groups, volunteer organizations, places of worship, race tracks, skate parks, beaches, hiking trails

Find something
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>>34002803
F, black
I don't plan on having children so it doesn't really matter. I like whoever likes me
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>>34002938
She's not me
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>>34002937
Don’t think I will, sperglord
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>>34002943
zoomers dont socialize in those
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>>34002938
Where did I post I'm inherently ugly?
>>34002940
Thank you
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>>34002942
You're downgraded to "don't come within 10 feet without PPE"
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>>34002884
>it's difficult and i also like him don't like conflict. i feel like it's something that is boiling over for me
so you two are just never going to argue about anything at all? you're just gonna eat through his bullshit because your scared of conflict?
>probably the mental illness/fear of reaction/conflict
are you sure you are in the right time to have a relationship? don't you think you should work on yourself first?
>he said he didn't really see us as a long term thing, but them says conflicting things like the phone plan tying him to me. then he says i love you/I have deeper feelings than physical. part of me wants to say he hasn't quite left her because of me. he knows how protective i've been over myself to let someone in again in a serious way.
pic related
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>>34002848
i know both especially apply to girls. moids are such monsters it's unreal
>>34002851
retard. moids never turn down sex. i have to stay virgin because i want my pussy ate, dont want anal, dont want bdsm.
and idk if id like it much anyway, knowing that moids hate women, i used to think relationships werent supposed to work like that
MOIDS are the ones who hate the opposite gender, yet demand relationships
>>34002858
they cannot feel love
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>>34002728
>It's probably attached to an ugly body anyway
Lucky guess!
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>>34002947
They do where I live. Gyms, also
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>>34002946
That’s a shame
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>>34002944
Cocky want choccy
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>>34002949
What does that mean? Please explain
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>>34002858
why would you want love from someone evil
>>34002863
>they admit it, faggot
lol
>>34002864
>everytime they include a woman I don't feel safe with her
how come?
>>34002864
>stuff my belly with beer in order to gain weight since I don't want to lift
lol based but I would focus more on healthy eating and just regular exercise, you don't want a beer belly lol
>>34002893
>gotta go to bed soon
goodnight <3
>>34002889
no trauma? what are you doing here jk
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Girls, if a guy had a lollipop fetish, would you suck on a lollipop during sex sometimes?
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>>34002957
London?
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>>34002957
I’m good.
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>>34002941
That's the same part of you that'll do nothing to protect your child if this man turns out to be as shitty a father as he is a partner. Now matter how bad he is, how he makes YOU feel is more important than how he makes your future child feel, so you'll always find a way to make excuses for him.

You won't be the first mother in history who chooses to place her child's welfare and wellbeing at the very bottom of the priority list. You won't be the last either. You're not special. What you have isn't special. It's a familiar recipe for being a shitty mother.
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>>34002942
some men are really into that. It's just not the norm. Same as some women liking submissive men but most liking dominant men
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>>34002952
I think anal sex is disgusting so I'd never ask for that. I don't think I'd ever want to taste pussy though. Seems like it would be yucky.
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>>34002956
Ew
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>>34002955
What exactly brings you to these threads, anyway?
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>>34002959
I wouldn't fuck a girl who aggressively hit on me under any circumstances for fear of venereal disease
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>>34002936
>they are solely motivated by hunger, hatred, and horniness
the holy trifecta
>>34002942
wouldn't say I'm normie or particularly attractive but I appreciate and admire it, most girls I dated made the first move
>>34002952
>moids never turn down sex
I literally have done tho, not everyone is a sex-crazed freak
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>>34002960
>what are you doing here
discovered /pol/ from reddit and unlearned how to be a normalfag
life was so good before i started coming here, worst decision of my life
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>>34002961
I literally need no reason ever to eat candy, so yes.
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>>34002969
To vent anger at people who I can easily and cleanly discriminate against
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>>34002942
I’m more of a failed normalfag, but I wouldn’t think that of a woman who was really assertively coming onto me.
I’ve only ever rejected women who have done that to me, but not because I think they’re sluts or anything. They just aren’t really my type.
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>>34002803
F. I like white guys and I will have a baby with one.
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>>34002972
Feel free to return to redd*t at any time, tourist.
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>>34002931
your amygdala, when it detects a threatening situation, makes your brain pay extra attention to all of the details for the purpose of detecting the threat again in the future to prepare you, and then over time it learns to weed out which of those details are actually relevant and which aren't as you encounter these same elements and they do not cause you harm.

when traumatized enough, you go through the process of recording all of the information, but you don't go through the processes of weeding out the unnecessary details, meaning those details will trigger threat responses. you will notice it physically as extreme anxiety. raised heart rate, fight/flight/freeze/fawn responses (you might easily get angry, for instance, or start focusing on trying to 'escape', freeze up, or immediately capitulate if it is a social interaction). the mental hallmark is that the situation will be all-consuming up to the point of replaying the memory in excruciating detail, and will happen almost automatically, and you'll only be able to reflect on things in the aftermath once your sympathetic nervous system calms down, which could be minutes to hours afterwards. if trauma is more minor, then you will notice it simply as sudden (possibly unexplained depending on how you have interacted with the trauma in the past) anxiety.
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>>34002957
i rejected some girl wanting to hookup on discord who lived close to me
idk if it was out of fear or principle
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>>34002934
>>34002894
Could you tell me why you stopped replying?
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>>34002888
im an antinatalist, i wanna peg james madison, and i dont even see the point of relationships when moids hate women and hate eating pussy too
>>34002892
nah, my dad is lightskin black and my mom is white. my dad dumped my mom when i was 5, so im kind of between mixed and white.
india is the worst country, and jeets should not be allowed to immigrate to the US. it genuinely annoys me that i get pajeeta allegations
>>34002898
moids will rawdog any woman who offers it. also, if i was dedicated breeder scum, i could get artificially inseminated.
i've hated breeders longer than i've hated moids.
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>>34002972
Doesn’t really sound like you unlearned shit.
The absolute state of this website, that someone like you feels comfortable saying things like this now…
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>>34002978
not proud of it but im glad ive shed off my /pol/ disease lol
reddit isnt any better or worse than this place imo
they both are shitholes
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>>34002982
> my dad dumped my mom when i was 5
there it is...now we know
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>>34002975
I don’t think that’s very healthy for you anon-dono.
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>>34002974
I would seriously buy you whatever brands or flavors you wanted if you'd do this sometimes. It's just really hot to watch women lick lollipops.
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>>34002982
>my dad is lightskin black and my mom is white
>my dad dumped my mom when i was 5
That explains so much. It's ok, you were always destined to hate men, I don't even blame you
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>>34002979
I wonder what traumatized me to hate women flirting with me
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>>34002961
>>34002974
This is the kind of stuff I had to fap to when youtube was the only site I could get through the firewall. We didn't even have ASMR back then.
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>>34002985
gonna ban me for it? oh noes i lost my 4chan cred by admitting i came from reddit. how does it matter? coming here from 9gag or insta is better?
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>>34002960
>how come?
Is a "I kill you before you kill me situation". I am always alert or scared because women will hurt me somehow
>regular exercise
I won't do that. Everytime I do it, I end up in bed praying to god for kill me due the pain. I'm just trying to eat and get fat because it works here to get women
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>>34002989
Who cares? The people here are horrible, awful degenerates and I’m a mentally ill fuck who needs to hurt others
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>>34002993
ASMR has been around since like 2009.
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Women don’t approach men cause normie & attractive men would look down on them if they did it. Outlier men should remember this before they complain about women’s lack of assertiveness in dating
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>>34002994
>gonna ban me for it? oh noes i lost my 4chan cred by admitting i came from reddit. how does it matter? coming here from 9gag or insta is better?
NTA. All the chads itt come from encyclopedia dramatica or habbo hotel
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>>34002901
idk how to tell you this but virtually every 18 y/o woman can get pregnant
>>34002919
moid moment. by the way...
>>34002935
ask the woman who did that???
if she broke up with him, you'd call her a disloyal whore and call for her execution
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>>34002982
Screeching into the digital void won't make daddy come back I'm sorry to say
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>>34002803
Male
Abomination. Nothing about it could outweigh the permanent destruction of identity and social atomization that it feeds.
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>>34002994
You’re such a stereotypical 2010s reddit transplant that it almost comes across as if you’re doing a bit.
Did you ever bother to lurk before posting here, at least? The thing that annoys me the most about you guys is that you decided what this website was from screencaps and basically just refused to assimilate here.
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>>34002997
yt launched in 05
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>>34002678
okay well first let me say that eye for an eye is a genuinely terrible way to live, i don't mean ethically but i mean in terms of what kinds of situations you will land yourself in. nix the "i am also taking advantage of him so it's fair" thought process.

the earlier stuff is exactly the reason why you need to not be engaging in this, you are (clearly) not in a place where you can reflect over this with clear eyes. this all doesn't need to be hostile in intention whatsoever (e.g. he doesn't need to be a bad guy or have bad motives), it is still taking advantage of you in a state where you can't trust yourself to reason about things with clear eyes. the fact that he is trying to address your trauma to make you feel more comfortable, regardless of whether the sentiment is as a supportive lover or as a guy being opportunistic, the reality is that by doing that in this context, he is leveraging your trauma to put you into a state where you are more willing to engage with him romantically, sexually, etc. a (good) therapist will tell you exactly what i'm saying here. i wrote a whole gosh damn essay on trauma and posted it here; go read it. >>34002878
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>fucking weeks of this cunt blinding herself from the manipulation
does anybody know how to care less? i legit can't.
too many of my friends fell into this shit.
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>>34002982
>burn coal
>bloodline ends
Toll paid. Sorry about your circumstances, though. They weren't your fault, and it sucks that you're the one who had to deal with the fallout.
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>>34002999
>anon thinks I’m a chad
:#)
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>>34002934
Sorry, you seem pretty normal though. Should probably stay away from /adv/ while you're still new. I can't cure your shyness, but how do you want to be 'saved'?
>>34002981
I'm just slow.
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>>34002967
i hope no woman ever has sex with you

>>34002970
yet you constantly beg women to do it. impossible to please

>>34002971
>cap
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>>34003004
i came here in about 2017-18, so right after middle school
gonna blame middle school me for browsing reddit
i dont remember how long i "lurked" for, what difference does it make now, 7-8 years later
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>>34002994
Don't let him get to you newGOD, oldfags are lead poisoned xillennials who shit up every board with irrelevant time wasting bullshit, 2000 character shit nobody cares about essays, and woefully unfunny outdated references
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>>34002992
trauma is a vague word, it is often overused. not all things that lead to bad mental cycles are traumatic, it is unfortunately a fun quirk of humans that they can simply hold on too much to a bad experience (or a bad imagined experience, which characterizes most incels). i can't tell you why, but a starting point, if it has always been this way, would be to examine the relationship you had (or lack thereof) with your parents/guardians. if your mom in particular was abusive, neglectful or otherwise a miserable person towards you and/or others, then that may be a likely culprit.
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>>34003012
>lurked in scare quotes
Oh my god anon you’re killing me dog
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Huh I just straight up hate my family
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>>34003017
I think it's b8
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>>34002950
i mean, i think he got jealous/felt leftout when i was on the phone with a male friend and he tried talking to me/wanting me to notice the stuff he got me. he wanted to be left alone after I got off the phone. my male friend said i should have probably got off the phone and not be inconsiderate when all he wanted was attention/tell me about his bad day.

i do think so and have been working on my mental and physical health, I've improved a lot and find it good i can actually name it. he also struggles with this is why he has been beating around the bush with the wife truth thing. i do feel i'm gonna talk to him about it tonight and probably sound irritated/disappointed and dissatisfied with it, but that's because I am. I've told him I need to work on myself more too, it's not like we're official but we act like a couple according to my friend.

explain pic related in words in relation to what I said
>>34002964
i've had parents like that at times and it does really suck. i don't think he's legitimately interested in that with me despite the baby talk. if i have a kid i would absolutely leave for the betterment of the offspring. i'm not really sure how long this is going to last honestly. he needs to do a lot of changing for me to be able to take him seriously
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>>34002972
/pol/ started turning into a shithole because of plebbitors flooding the site.
Now it's just bots, schizos, and trannies.
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>>34002980
also cap.
>>34002987
>>34002991

>dump your girlfriend
>blame your daughter
the utter state of moid logic.
i also genuinely wholeheartedly believed that moids were equals and not a hivemind until recent months
>>34003001
my dad didnt abandon me dumbass, he dumped my mom. he kind of begs me for attention, he was pissed when we moved far from him again.
he also claims to have "visions", you know, being a member of the logical gender
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>>34003022
Same deal with /x/
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>>34003000
You know what I think you are? I think you cannot reconcile your inherent biological attraction to men with your traumatic upbringing without a father, and I suspect your mother warned you since you were little to never trust men. As a result you are schizo-posting on the internet, trying to provoke negative reactions from men in order to justify your negative worldview. How close am I?

Also checked
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>>34003017
scare quotes?
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>>34003027
Metal Gear?
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>>34003015
Neat
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>>34003020
i dont even know how what im posting is bothering you
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>>34003024
>he also claims to have "visions", you know, being a member of the logical gender
No that's just niggers. Eastern africans specifically. You have those genes, too. Don't ever do psychedelics.
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>>34003024
I said I DIDN'T blame you. Lmao
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>>34003024
why have sex with a stranger who could be ugly, or have an std, or be a bitch, when i can have sex with my hand
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>>34000345
>Men, what do you think when you see a slightly masculine or tomboyish woman who mostly hangs around men, but clearly isn’t gay?
What kind of guys do you like?
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New femcel video just dropped!!!

https://youtu.be/5AsAhGoVoV8?si=emY-_ImYRVbaIMpF
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>>34003026
my upbringing wasnt traumatic at all. youre being delusional.
my mom literally only warned me about males once, like a couple years ago. i mentioned something retarded a 19 y/o moid said, and she was like, "yeah... it's best to wait until you're 20 to date"
ive wondered about this a little. why did my mom never teach me AT ALL what moids are like???
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>>34003013
How did you become this person
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>>34002972
go back jk
>>34002998
>Women don’t approach men
they do sometimes tho
>>34003005
>20 years ago
damn..
>>34003011
>cap
uwot
>>34003019
what did they do
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Femanons, if I cheek up, am I more likely to find a woman into pegging?
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>>34003034
i assumed you were kidding
>>34003035
because moid logic
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>>34003040
Is this how you are in real life? If someone asks you a question, do you just respond with the word moid fifty times in a row?
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>>34003010
It's okay. I've been on here a few years just never been to /adv/. See pic, and also played a lot of minecraft years ago.
I don't know, gf? It was mostly tongue in cheek. I've always been shy but had times where I was better, now I'm inside all the time I'm terrible.
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>>34003044
No I wasn't. silly girl
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>>34003045
anon, youre not gonna believe this about me... i havent had friends since i was 10
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>>34003039
Not a femcel. This is a pretty girl pretending to be awkward/weird
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>>34003042
Lots of things, but what came to mind was my mom and older older sister calling me a liar for saying my older sister molested me and I should just let it go because it was in the past
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>>34003050
>i havent had friends since i was 10
i can understand why kek
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>>34003050
yeah, growing up with bad examples for parents will do that to you. tsk tsk.
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>>34003039
if we can see her visage outside of the meatspace, shes not a femcel but simply a pickme e-whore
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>>34003039
Femcels are not real idiot. This is just a girl begin silly in front of a camera
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>>34003050
I actually would believe that without a doubt.
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>>34003050
look, kid.
i don’t care if your trolling or not, but please just stop. you’re wasting your time here.
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>>34003040
A child that is missing a parent, especially of the oppposite sex, will be unable to complete their development into maturity and will have a hard time being able to relate with them. Sound familiar?
>yeah... it's best to wait until you're 20 to date
And when did your mother start dating? When did she have you? I somehow doubt she NEVER talked to you about it but I'll take your word for it
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>>34003039
she's not like the other girls uwu
>>34003052
well they can bugger off then
>>34003050
if life really that bad in brazil
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>>34003021
>if i have a kid i would absolutely leave for the betterment of the offspring.
You're lying to yourself again. Remember when you set a deadline, and you promised yourself that you would take action, and that turned out to be a lie?

It's not possible for you to be a good parent. You're not capable of it. A good parent has a spine. You don't have a spine. You take the path of least resistance. You take the path of maximum selfishness. If you see your child suffering because of this man, but if this man gives you good sex, then you will abandon your child in favor of the sex.

Prove me wrong. Set another deadline for this weekend. Say these words right now: "My new deadline is this weekend, and I'm going to kick him out if he doesn't tell his wife that we're sleeping together."

Say it right now, write those words out and post them here. And then let me shove those words in your face next week when you fail again.
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>>34003040
>my upbringing wasnt traumatic at all
damn why are you so deranged then babe (no offense)
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>>34003039
Also a femcel would never record herself like this and upload online how cute and quirky she is, because instead people would ridicule her for being ugly and weird. The fact that all the comments are glazing her is a testament to this. Actually "femcel" tier women are offputting
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>>34003039
>checks her channel
Damn...she might be the real deal bros...
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>>34003050
what happened?
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>>34003066
Her personality is straight up cancer. Watch her other vids.
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I respect wamen
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>>34003067
She's pretty but I think her autism and just general internet brain is holding her back from finding a guy.
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Wow I love reading performative male posts towards a fakecel woman who’ll renege on all her views in 3 years when Chad notices her
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>>34003067
it's funny how pretty girls can just make videos rambling to the camera and get thousands of subs
if this was some fat dude guarantee the vid would have like 10 views lol
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>>34003069
>Watch her other vids
No thank you. Also stop self posting
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>>34003072
You deserve love too anonie
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>>34003075
I do not
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>>34003073
Autistic women are rarer than autistic men, generally speaking. Although you wouldn't be able to tell from this website, seems like half the autistic women are on here
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>>34003039
just randomly clicked on another one of her vids and she mentioned having sex with her bf https://youtu.be/nkj36hT-4ZI?si=1ICqoyK3o6r2Elct&t=510
therefore not a femcel, you have been duped by the e-thot
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>>34003043
Get a feeld account
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>>34003039
>>34003051
>>34003056
>>34003066
>>34003067
There is only one true femcel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-BJK5seKGKg
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>pop back in after close to two years
Welp this place is still retarded
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>>34003062
>my mom lost her dad when she was a kid
>I grew up without a male figure
Uhm...what does this mean?
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>>34003079
Well I love you!
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>>34003088
I’m a man, fuck off
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>>34003039
She acts like me but I'm ugly. You guys will call anyone a femcel.
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>>34003070
Can I cuddle you respectfully?
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>>34003079
damn it anon, what did i just tell you to do?
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>>34003089
I knew you were a man and I still love you man! You will make it!
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>>34003083
Isabella had friends and girlfriends, she's just a legit psychopath
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>>34003083
I didn't know I wanted to watch femcel-core videos until now
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>>34003092
Sure.
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>>34003090
All foids think they're ugly, except the ones who are actually ugly.
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Why are Asian chicks so cute? Every time I see one I want to pinch their cheeks.
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>>34003098
Thank you
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>>34003039
why does she talk like my best friend's 8 year old nephew lmao. she talks and pronounces things just like him. how bizarre, though it IS endearing
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>>34003099
Well that makes me feel better anon
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>>34003097
>>34003099
Is not fair women can get anything they want no matter what
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>>34003084
>Welp this place is still retarded
what did you expect, that we'd all get smart or something
>>34003081
also the top comment on that video is just sad
>"I like listening to you ramble like this because it's like hanging out with a friend. Also you are really pretty because I was even already thinking so, and it's the only reason I started watching the video"
sums it up really, bunch of lonely simps watching this shite
>>34003039
here's a legit femcel video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8koG85nMYTk
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>>34003082
>feeld
>Trifonov conceived the app after his girlfriend Ana Kirova told him she had feelings for other people.
Kek
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>>34003039
Before even starting the video I knew she was autistic. Real recognize real.

>>34003100
Colonizer DNA
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>>34002977
What race are you?
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>>34003099
Nah. Some of us are painfully aware we are actually ugly. You will almost never see us post pictures online as a result. Confirmation bias because of course attractive people feel comfortable in front of a camera
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>>34003094
You’re not getting my bud light
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>>34003105
> that we'd all get smart or something
I mean I found a wife. I figure anything is possible.
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>>34003086
Depends on your gender. Your mother's lack of a father figure could explain why she subsequently got divorced, obvioulsy I'm just guessing but you would know your situation best. If you never grew up around men, even a brother or something, you'll likely have a very skewed understanding of us. So yeah don't get pump and dumped.
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>>34003110
I don't drink that shit anyway!
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>>34003084
if you're a femanon please stay. I'm getting bored of simping for the current ones (no offence)
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>>34003111
congrats anon, hope you're happy with her
not two years but I've taken hiatuses from here for months, nothing changed in my life
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>>34003105
I think about Christine Chubbuck often. I will likely end up like her but without any of the attention.
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>>34003110
you're very bad at role-playing a man, you know
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>>34003104
stop seething I just want to watch autistic women be autistic. I hate watching stacies twerk on insta. so fucking what
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>>34003083
Uh, hey femanons. Are those real?
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>>34003107
>Before even starting the video I knew she was autistic. Real recognize real.
Just from the bedroom?
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>>34003117
I hope you don't and I hope you find happiness and contentment
But yeah I do feel for her and what she dealt with. I relate to her a lot especially when I'm spiralling lol
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>>34003064
i'm trying to grow one. i did message him about the wife thing, then deleted it but he may have seen it anyway through notifications. he's not coming home tonight so idk. but i said i want him to call after work so i think with the space probably a good time to confront him about it using my voice
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>>34003118
It’s from a commercial, you child.
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t9VxYfHfz-Q
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>>34003122
probably not, looks like the kind of girl that secretly has an OF to finance her femcel life
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Girls, do you want a guy to be smarter than you, or less smart than you? He's not going to be exactly equal so you have to pick one or the other.
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>>34003131
>the old "it's a meme, you dip" routine
sorry, not falling for it
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>>34003093
I don’t know
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>>34003135
smarter 100%, in fact, he should be a genius that makes me feel like a bumbling retard in comparison
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>>34003039
It's just hard to buy this act
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I look inside myself
And see my heart is black
I see my red door
I must have it painted black
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>>34003135
Smarter than me. Not so much that we can't have a conversation without him feeling like he's talking to a small child, but smarter than me.
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>>34003131
We gotta auntie up in'er frfr
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>>34003127
Thank you I appreciate that. I hope we both get through these tough times
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>>34003138
sup sugartits, you rang?
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>>34003140
No colors any more, I want them to turn black
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>>34003101
Yw. I need this pretty badly
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>>34003143
thanks anon same to you <3 wishing you the best
>tough times
eh my life is fine I'm just a bipolar retard lol
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>>34003135
Smarter than me. I like learning from people as long as he's willing to guide me and share knowledge
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>>34003135
NAG but it is my experience that women fucking love (and love fucking) really intelligent guys.
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>>34003135
Women want their man to be better than them in every way.
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>>34003138
>he should be a genius that makes me feel like a bumbling retard in comparison
What do they call this fetish? Braindom?
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>>34003144
sup superwits, goshdang
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>>34003046
What changed to turn you into a full on recluse? Have you made any steps towards fixing it?
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>>34003135
Smarter than me but not in a smartass way. He has to respect my intelligence too.
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>>34003147
>bipolar
As long as you're medication is working and you're doing therapy you should be able to manage right? I unfortunately just have shitty life circumstances.
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>>34003154
yeah, probably
I want him to make me feel like I can't ever compete anyways, so why even try and reset me to total air-head mode
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>>34003154
>fetish
That's like calling pregnancy a fetish
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>>34003158
>unfortunately just have shitty life circumstances
I'm sorry to hear that, really hope you can improve them and come out of that
>>34003158
>long as you're medication is working and you're doing therapy
can't afford therapy and I'm always crashing out and throwing out my meds so it's not going great lol but thanks
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>>34003146
I do too. You know that meme "the kind of tired sleep won't fix?
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foids, do you care if a guy is a little bit fat? not obese but like a lit bit of a stomach, just a lil bit
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>>34003164
nope
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>>34003162
>can't afford therapy
If you're in the US you should apply for Medicaid
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>>34003128
>i'm trying to grow one.
You're lying again.

Say it: "My new deadline is this weekend, and I'm going to kick him out if he doesn't tell his wife that we're sleeping together."

Your next post needs to be those next words. If your next post doesn't contain those words, then it's because you're a spineless coward who will NEVER stand up to this man, and you will NEVER be a good mother because you are too fucking weak to ever grow a spine.
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>>34003138
>>34003141
>>34003149
I've started listening to a series of lectures about the history of economic thought. I only just started, but he was talking about what Aristotle and Thomas Aquinas thought about the economy. I don't know if girls are interested in that, but I am and I'd talk about it if she cares about what I'm learning.
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>>34003164
No, it's fine. Any man who dates me is going to get a little fat either way because I feed them like they've never seen food before.
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>>34003155
cup uberflips, poo stains? (pic related)
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>>34003164
If I like/love someone little things like that don't matter or I even find them extra endearing
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>>34003169
sounds perfect to me, keep it up
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>>34003162
I can fix her
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>>34003162
Just don’t indulge your emotions. And definitely don’t ride the highs.
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>>34003169
I would zone out ngl. Not into the pseudointellectual stuff
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>>34003174
that turned a bit too indian for me but great pic, 10/10
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>>34003170
Are you good at cooking? Would you like to do it together?
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>>34003163
Yeah. :(
Sorry anon. We’ll get what we need eventually.
Being a single spoon sucks.
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>>34003169
Be interested in literally anything and talk to them about it.
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>>34003112
I'm a dude who grew up in an all-females family. I still remember when I was a kid how my grandma slap me for buying a chocolate and my mom telling me I "separeted the family" for that. I like to spend some time with men, is women who make me afraid but still I need their love because I am unable to feel love for myself
>Captcha: TYKKK
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>>34003160
You would make a wife. You know your place.
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>>34003182
>that pic
I'm not scared, i just don't want to creep her out
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>>34003166
not in the US but have heard about that, sounds pretty good
>>34003178
have fun with that bro
>>34003179
>Just don’t indulge your emotions
wow thanks I never thought of this I'm cured
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>>34003184
>Being a single spoon sucks.
It does.
>We’ll get what we need eventually.
Fingers crossed for you.
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>>34003191
I'm scared /and I don't know what to fucking say/
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>>34003168
what about the part where i'm confronting him tonight about it
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>>34003183
>Are you good at cooking?
I'm alright! I really enjoy it and cook a lot.

>Would you like to do it together?
No, never. Either I cook or he cooks.
The only person I've ever had any enjoyment cooking with is my dad, but he taught me how to cook so the vibes are different.
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>>34003192
I wish I could help guide you to the resources you need to ease the highs and lows. I hope you can dedicate some time to finding an alternative solution nona
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>>34003189
that's the thing, I don't, someone has to mog me into remembering because I can't take a guy serious that can make me feel like I know absolutely nothing next to him
>>34003191
that means you're scared of creeping her out, unlike indian men that are too dumb to even think that far ahead
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>>34003182
for all my intelligence, i never matured stop fecal funny and it shows sometimes sorry babe
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>>34003193
>>34003184
I don't get it. Why don't you just cuddle each other? Or do you need me to make you?
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>>34003160
This sounds hot.
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>>34003187
If you're a guy, then you likely don't have a male role model to teach you what it means to be a man, and to learn to be more logical instead of emotional like most women are. Careful not to become a simp and let women walk all over you.
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Is it weird that I fantasize about men helping me bathe/do my hair? I'm so tired bros.
Also learn to braid girl's hair NEOW
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>>34003126
That, the thumbnail, and just her look. That gritted teeth but open mouth look is textbook. Plus, you can tell she cuts her own hair.
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Hot milf gave me neck kisses now I’m angry
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>>34002863
hiii sufemacist I missed you <3
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>>34002895y parents did traumatize me.
They gave me a safe, loving, accepting home which I vastly preferred to the shitbag social rules of school, so I became socially retarded.
Parents can't win.
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>>34003201
I'll forgive you, but begrudgingly
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>>34003197
What kind of things do you make?
If it were me that'd be for the best. I'm an asshole chef.
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>>34003202
Meeting up with a random guy from 4chan isn't the safest thing for her.
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>>34003205
I've fantasized about taking showers with girls. Not even shower sex but washing her with soap.
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>>34003205
>Also learn to braid girl's hair NEOW
That’s only for single dads.
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>>34003169
I don't really care about the subject he wants to talk about, if he's interested in it and passionate about it I'll listen and be happy.

Currently my man's obsession is history of Rome, so half of our car rides end up in
>listen to podcast about history of rome
>he spends 25 minutes commenting on it and adding info from book he is also reading
>I ask silly question because I enjoy making him mad
>he gets all mad as he tries to explain to me why I'm an idiot without offending me
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>>34003205
nah it's quite wholesome actually :3c but i'm not very good at braiding or bathing and especially not at the same time
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What's up with the girls who match with you then don't say anything? Are they autistic or retarded?
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>>34003203
naturally, I have impeccable preferences in couples dynamics
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>>34003195
Tonight he'll say "I'm working on it."
And tonight you'll say "Okay, I'll wait."
And then nothing will happen.

In one week you'll have zero progress. In one month you'll have zero progress. In one year you'll have zero progress. In one decade you'll look back and wonder where did it all go wrong.

Your entire life is about failing, and tonight is just another failure in a long series of failures.
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>>34003217
YES I want to do that and take care of her...
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>>34003205
No, I've been fantasying about doing this for a woman for years
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>>34003205
>braids
Are you black
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>>34003224
>What's up with the girls who match with you then don't say anything? Are they autistic or retarded?
Aren't they thinking the same about you?
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>>34003205
You seem lonely. Lonely folks tend to fantasize about everyday intimacy type situations.
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>>34003213
>using increasingly larger words to try and weed me out
not gonna work pumpkin. i've memorized the entire lyric to lemon demon's word disassociation. antidisestablishmentarianism.
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>>34003232
Men send messages, women swipe and move on.
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>>34003204
>Careful not to become a simp and let women walk all over you.
Well...I tried to liked them (try to lift, follow men's fashion) but failed horribly. Then thought "Why I want this? Why I want to repeat the same horrible cycle I grew up with? The mood swings, the unsatisfaction no matter what I do, begin seen as weak due my behaviour and body". I am fine keeping women away from me in order to not getting hurt anymore, but I just need them because I can't love myself
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>>34003199
thanks anon really do appreciate it <3 and I hope you can find a way to improve your situation also and that some luck comes your way and it gets easier
atm though I'm just trying to survive. need to pull my finger out though. might apply to work at this warehouse again I worked at before, unlike dealing with customers at least I can do that when I'm mental
>>34003164
NAG and obviously personality is more important and most people don't care if you still have a good frame etc., but imo you should lose the extra weight anyways just for yourself and health and self-image, just takes improving your diet a bit/cutting out bullshit and being more physically active if needed
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>>34003200
I'll call you good girl and pat you on the head when I'm teaching you a new concept, and you finally get it after I explain it to you for the 5th time
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>>34003237
Right, so send a message.
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>>34003193
You too.
>>34003202
>>34003216
Ironically, I am hellbent on meeting up with someone I met itt.
I’m still a random guy from 4chan for the time being, though. I take no offense; this is a weird way to meet someone.
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>>34003239
I've put on decent muscle the past year though, so if I cut I'm gonna lose that too
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>>34003200
El oh el
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>>34003200
It's more guilt than fear.
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>>34003245
oh well in that case you're probably fine then. as long as you're not skinnyfat or whatever you probably still look decent overall and are healthy so that's more important
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>>34003244
>I’m still a random guy from 4chan for the time being, though.
I'll meet up with you after you transition.
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>>34003214
I really love baking more than anything. Bread especially, but cakes and pastries too. I make really nice croissants if I'm in a good mood.

I'm pretty easy going tho. While I really like sticking to regional recipes I grew up with, I'm always down to experiment new things and learn.

What about you?
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>>34003239
>NAG
OMG I thought you were a girl. Are you the one UK dude? I forgot what your nickname is
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>>34003256
>thought you were a girl.
........ (understandable lol)
>Are you the one UK dude?
maybe...
6am all nighter gang
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>>34003232
>>34003243
They already have hundreds of men texting them. If girls are interested, they will text first. I'm not humiliating myself.
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>>34003205
That’s very cute. I’ll learn to braid hair.
Mine is long enough to braid, ironically, but I doubt I could pull that look off.
An old family friend of mine’s wife has always braided his, though. Guy’s 65 and still has a braid down past his shoulder blades.
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>>34003259
What’s humiliating about just saying “hello”?
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>>34003258
UK here too why are you up?
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>>34003259
Okay, so they're not autistic or retarded. They just don't like you?
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>>34003251
Should my new name be Sophia or Lilith?
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>>34003250
I might just try for some slight recompositon over time. Up the protein, start training more frequently.

I used to be like super super skinny, borderline anorexic so I'm always a bit hesitant to cut weight.
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>>34003238
Yeah bro... I'm not saying that we don't need love, we all do, but women NEED to be loved or they fall apart/go crazy. Men dedicate themselves to a greater mission, and as a result love and respect come effortlessly to him without having to chase love. You should read 'The way of the superior man', it opened my eyes as well.
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>>34003160
Do you want to let a guy control all your finances and make investments for you?
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>>34003259
wrong move. lack of initiative is THE single most unattractive thing to a woman.
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>>34003264
nta but hello is boring and I know it. Might as well not try. Has anyone except 10/10s had success with that?
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>>34003271
Sophia is cute!
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>>34003006
first of all thanks for this, i'm going to read your trauma post a few moe times to really try to let it sink in. how do I go about being more clear eyed about this in a positive way? i'm glad you picked up on the security thing because I was trying to find the words and am unsure if what is happening is really happening, like I want to trust myself and be aware
>>34003227
i think one week sounds good actually. i know you're being harsh on purpose, i do appreciate the push. i don't want this to be a month/years thing and snowball out of control where it already has been
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>>34003271
Why is every trans girl named lilith? None of you have any originality.
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>>34003277
You’re looking at success the wrong way then. If a ‘hello’ is not good enough for them, you don’t want to be with them anyways.
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>>34003243
I always open with
>Hi, thanks for adding me. I'm __________, nice to meet you.
and then I get met with silence.

I know I have no rizz, but don't I at least deserve a response?
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>>34003284
Men are moreso attracted to the dark side of femininity
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>>34003267
>UK here too
representt
>why are you up?
just not tired lol
I could ask you the same mate
>>34003273
>but women NEED to be loved or they fall apart/go crazy
what is this bullshit lol
>>34003271
Sofia the First
>>34003276
>lack of initiative is THE single most unattractive thing to a woman
depends on the woman wtf
>>34003284
>Why is every trans girl named lilith
idk Darkstalkers is sa good game tho
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>>34003279
Alright, my new name is Sophia Barbello Pleroma.
I’ll always have five o’clock shadow and will exclusively wear pleated skirts and thigh-high stockings everywhere I go. I will never wash my hair or learn how to apply makeup.
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>>34003107
would you threesome her? I think shes cute
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>>34003286
Say, "Sup bitch?" and I guarantee you will get more responses. Not all good, but it's a hook and most women will fall for the bait.
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>>34003287
>Men are moreso attracted to the dark side of femininity
Erm, no. We like summer dresses and wheat fields.
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>>34003292
Yes, and I would be careful not to overstimulate her because I have been there and I had the perfect partner to help me through it.
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>>34003288
Name me one woman past the age of 30 who is single and happy
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>>34003284
That’s the jooooooke I am making.
She’s Adam’s first wife and the mother of all demons dooood I’m so le edgy.
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Every troon in existence is called either Sophie, Lilith, or Sky.
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As we enter the festive season, I'd like to take some time and express some words to the girls I might've insulted and riddiculed in atoga in 2025.

I'd really like to say, from the bottom of my heart, do better. I really dont want to put in the energy to do it all over again in 2026
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>>34003286
>thanks for adding me
Cut this out
>I’m __________
They an already see your name
>nice to meet you
You haven’t met her yet
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>>34003286
>Hi, thanks for adding me. I'm __________, nice to meet you.
Don't say this. Mention something on her profile and ask a related question without a yes/no answer.
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>>34003253
Most of the time I'm just cooking to eat but I've made cheesecake, biscuits, yorkshire pudding..
I quite like it. I want to try to make brownies and a pizza from scratch
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>>34003297
your mom cuz I'm banging her
>>34003299
>Sky
does she come with Sky Sports
>>34003304
>riddiculed
imma ridicule you for this spelling g
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>>34003295
Not attracted like that, attracted to pantomime it
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>>34003299
I’m surprised I don’t hear of more Persephones or Eurydices.

I wonder why I never hear of any Gretchens, Gertrudes or Hortenses.
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>>34003205
>Also learn to braid girl's hair NEOW
I already do
my sister taught me how to do it when we were kids
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>>34003291
I won't meet up with a man in a skirt you have to put some effort in
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>>34003309
Ah, I see.
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Life is better when you pretend you're the main protagonist of a shonen anime. Get stronger, gather nakama, become a samurai or some shit. Just do it, /atoga/
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>>34003312
>Persephone
I always liked this name but the story is a bit bruh......
Gretchen is cute but seen as a bit of a meme I think
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>>34003296
Can that still happen to you? Or do you build up a tolerance?
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>>34003307
If you're around tomorrow I'll find my pizza recipe and post it! I have to go to work :)

Have a fantastic day
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how bad of an idea is it to go on testosterone so im more masculine and stuff

i know girls dont like effeminate cowards
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>>34003282
You cannot be clear eyed while you're inside the fog. You have to exit the fog in order to look with clear eyes.

You cannot examine this relationship while you're inside of this relationship. You have to exit this relationship in order to see how bad it was for you, and in order to plan for better relationships in the future.

The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago. The second best time to plant a tree is right now. The best time to exit this relationship was when he failed to meet your last deadline. The second best time is right now.

You are a forgetful person. Tomorrow you are going to forget all the details of this conversation. Write them out right now.

Set a deadline and then write it out: "My new deadline is Saturday, December 6th."
Set a consequence and then write it out: "I am going to tell him to leave if he doesn't tell his wife that we're sleeping together by Saturday, December 6th."
Write these words out and post them in the thread. Make a permanent record. Make it happen.

Don't set yourself up for yet another failure. Your first instinct is to do nothing, and your life is an unending stream of failures because of that. Change your life. Do something. Do it now. Right here, in this thread, right now.
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>>34003323
I'd like that have a good day at work anon :)
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>>34003298
>She’s Adam’s first wife and the mother of all demons dooood I’m so le edgy.
Funny thing is she's only in the Talmud
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>>34003317
I silently judge people very harshly depending on what they have to say about One Piece and Dragon Ball.
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>>34003300
type nigger like a real man
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>>34003299
They also like Ivy, Aurora, Jade, and any other "alternative" name.
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>>34003324
Just do it. Inject steroids, blast cocaine. Life is a party. None of this shit matters. Be low inhib.
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>>34003321
It happens occasionally, but I'm really good at recognizing my triggers and self-soothing in a way that doesn't make me seem like a tweaker.
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>>34003324
Generate test naturally. If you inject test you'll tank your natural test and become gay once you eventually get off it
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>>34003324
I tried. Docs refused me. Funny thing is they'd've given it to my sister.
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>>34003285
If they're not interested enough in me to text first THEN I don't want them. I'm not wasting my energy. And >>34003277
Is right. You get unmatched anyway if you text "hello" or "how are you?"
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>>34003324
Getting on gear is retarded
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>>34003329
I'm not black tho
>>34003330
>Aurora
best princess
>>34003331
>Inject steroids, blast cocaine
don't do this lmao
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>>34003327
Yup. Earliest record of her is from the 6th century iirc.
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I'm honestly considering steroids because my frame is just so naturally small. My wrists are tiny.
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>>34003298
She remarried to Samael, there’s also two Liliths
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>>34003333
well how the hell do i do that. i lost a ton of weight, i lift, i eat well, i sleep well. wtf else do i do
>>
Split the skulls of your enemies and fuck the pussies of their women.
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>>34003276
It's the right move. Why do you want anons to humiliate themselves just to get ghosted or used for attention? I met up with every girl who texted me first.
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>>34003335
>THEN I don't want them. I'm not wasting my energy
if you can't even be arsed to write a thoughtful/personal message then yeah why should she bother with you either mate
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>>34002585
Why would something as insignificant as his steak matter? It's his taste, literally.

>>34002646
>white with Irish-Italian ancestry
>blue eyes
>brown hair
That's 2/3.
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>>34003344
>met up with every girl who texted me first
based and same but you're also a moron if you think it's "humiliating" to text a girl first and actually make an effort
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>>34003156
Left school, had a job for a bit and then lost it. Had no reason to go out so I didn't. Then just became mostly unable to. I think I am naturally drawn to it because of how shy and anxious I get. It's been a while now though, I'm kind of desperate and tired of it. I want a connection and to be close with someone.
Few attempts but never lasted long. I'm trying again, wish me luck!
What makes you drawn to shy and insecure men? Do you like it when they become more confident and secure with you?
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>>34003345
>if you can't even be arsed to write a thoughtful/personal message then yeah why should she bother with you either mate
Who said any of that, retard? I give great messages to girls who put in effort. And no, "hi" or wave emoji from girls doesn't count as effort. I have self-respect.
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>>34003330
>Jade
Shame. I knew a (cis/real) baddie by this name. She was the assistant to the butcher frequented, which made her even hotter.
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>>34003337
It's ok I'm giving you the pass

>>34003342
go to /fit/
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>>34003337
>best princess
She actually let her man be a man. Didn't think Phillip was a creep when he came up and joined in on her song. She's a real one.

>>34003343
This reminds me of the speech Theon gave before getting betrayed.
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>>34003343
>Split the skulls of your enemies and fuck the pussies of their women.
Reading some contemporary chick-lit I see
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>>34003350
>to girls who put in effort
it goes both ways though, why should they always have to first lol
>>34003352
>I'm giving you the pass
thanks my nigga
>>34003353
>She's a real one
fr
>>34003351
>I knew a (cis/real) baddie by this name
based and same
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>>34003236
>he thinks that's a big word
it's so over
>antidisestablishmentarianism
impressive, very nice
now do a little dance for me
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>>34003282
you are quite welcome. there is a supplemental here >>34002979. first is determining the degree of trauma you have, then recognizing what triggers you have, and then recognizing what kinds of thoughts and and headspaces correlate with that, and then scrutinizing any situation you're in where you are in that headspace, and voluntarily recusing yourself from decisions when you find yourself in that headspace, particularly ones involving elements of the trauma (when related to sex or people, it will involve things in that arena.)

if it helps you to think this way: consider the person in that headspace different than the person outside that headspace, and consider the latter as being the 'authoritative' version of yourself that the former MUST capitulate to. if you are feeling empathetic, then you should extend this same courtesy to your guy: things that he does that involve things related to his trauma, you should scrutinize on his behalf.
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>>34003342
I would get my hormones checked first before I started blasting test or gear. It helps set a baseline unless you want to go full liver king and have 20x the amount of test as a natural man. But experiment with smaller doses and see how that fares over a few weeks. If you don't have any adverse side effects, increase your dosage progressively until you start seeing negative effects like hair loss, body acne, and severe mood changes. Test can legit make you suicidal.

>>34003356
Tiana is also a real one, but for the opposite reason.
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>>34003240
I'll see how I feel about this when it happens
>>34003249
>guilt
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>friend wants me to set me up with her cute friend (I saw a few pics)

...what's the catch?
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>>34003325
am i already making a mistake by trying to bring it up to him again now, like tonight? what happens if he does go through with it and ends up telling her? is there no way to salvage a potential relationship with him? he's not coming home tonight so maybe he's starting to sense it and saw the message I deleted. would separation be the final part, either we part seperate ways for good or is there a possibility the separation could work for both of us together later on?
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Women, is it bad if a guy has a big ass while being skinny?
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>>34003368
the worst possible, at this point, just transition
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>>34003366
your friend has no idea why you're single but they are about to find out
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>>34003367
You're making a mistake by "bringing it up" without having a deadline and without having a consequence. You'll bring it up, he'll lie to you that he's working on it, and then you'll do nothing, because you always do nothing.

Salvage your life before you worry about salvaging the relationship. You can never be a good mother if you don't have a spine, and you can never have a spine until you set a deadline and enforce the deadline.
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>>34003368
I would peg the fuck out of him
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How do I signal that I am single and open to approach to the females in my area?
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>>34003377
moid hands
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>>34003299
>>34003330
I've noticed a lot of x and z names too. Or just some dead as fuck Greek or other "exotic" feminine name. It's unironically like some Orthodox/Catholic convert tryharding and being like "Yeah, you can call me Maximus now," not because they know anything about Maximus the Confessor; they just think his name is badass.
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>>34003358
i'm typing this to the tune of a song, does that count? (and don't ask me what song, it's embarassing)
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>>34002722
A baggy shirt, undies, and socks (when it gets cold along with my sherpa blanket).

>>34002750
Depends on how they carry said behavior from single moms (which is the worst case scenario for both boys and girls).

>>34002800
Different anon, but that's why you lift for yourself and not for social approval.

>>34002803
F, white. I'm in the same boat as >>34002817
and while I can't deny there are many, many attractive men in each race along with my generally positive personal experiences (with acquaintances, customers, guys I see in public), I'd rather stick to my own for long-term relationships leading to marriage and kids.
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>>34003378
you don't, you signal that you're THE guy to try and be with in the area
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>>34003371
There's probably some truth to that. I scare off single women and am beloved by my non-single foid friends. So I just gotta reel it back and pretend like she has a bf until she has one, me!
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>>34003382
>I'd rather stick to my own
>for long-term relationships leading to marriage and kids.
I see you.
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>>34003361
will it actually help my personality be more outgoing and less nervous or is that madeup
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>>34003381
is it paint it black?
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>>34002803
M
I'm mixed so technically all dating I do is interracial, right? Probably best dating a girl that's one of my parents' races or is also mixed.
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>>34003385
idk if the difference is in you pretending they have a bf or not, I think your non single friends like you because interacting with you doesn't come with feeling like it has to lead to dating and fucking you at some point, which makes it much easier to tolerate some things
but I guess it's worth a try
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>>34003364
>guilt
What are you implying?
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>>34003378
you create a sign declaring your requirements for your sweetheart, and then go to places where women are (colleges) and lurk sround with the sign. if an admin tells you to stop doing that, get aggressive and then start doing this routine at your local mall. if you have a mom, this is going to end in a VERY wild way about a decade from now btw
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>>34003382
Genuine question on the dating bit, why? I get racist types not wanting to go interracial but why would a regular person care? not hating im just curious, ive seen people say this elsewhere
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>>34003389
close. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cixnLVRRVK0
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>>34003384
How does one do that?
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>>34002935
Fatherless behavior + no discipline + true crime obsession

>>34002961
Lollipops are basically already dicks, so what's the difference if it means it's good practice? LOL
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>>34003394
that I'm too retarded and had auto sent on and it posted too soon
I wanted to imply that the typical indian men don't have the mental and emotional capacity to feel guilty for bothering someone, which makes them a menace to everyone around them
basically, the western intelligence will be our downfall, we'll go extinct because we've gotten too considerate for our own good
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>>34003369
I bet he's white too
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>>34002750
The trope that men *must* be super masculine and traditionally manly because its all women really want is flatly wrong. You just need to be attractive.

Unfortunately if you're ugly then yeah you kinda gotta be "the man".
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>>34003399
be desirable, word will spread on it's own that there's a high value bachelor for the taking
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>>34003393
I don't mean literally pretending, that was kind of a joke, but I think there is something to how I act when the bounds of the friendship are very clear.

I think I either come off as too needy or I'm doing something that isn't "being myself" and I come off as disingenuous.
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>>34003398
oh it's you, lol
sup?
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>>34003405
What’s with this weird new racism arc
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>>34003411
or people don't have the same requirements for people they are friends with vs who they date since those are two very distinct dynamics
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>>34003407
I've been told I'm attractive. I haven't had much luck.
But it's very understating it to say I'm shy.
I'm also really passive and don't take the initiative which I guess you still have to do even if you're shy. Only ever had women come to me when they were very drunk.
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>>34003405
Fine, I'll say hi to a woman.
>within the decade
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>>34003413
I said most, don't come at me for pattern recognition, you know it's true
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>>34003104
No one said they didn't retard
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>>34002982
It all makes sense now. I'm so sorry for mocking you in the past, you didn't choose any of this. Best of luck, all love and kindness to you in life friend.
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>>34003420
No you’re just talking about extinction and other shit, weird af
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>>34003382
>A baggy shirt, undies, and socks (when it gets cold along with my sherpa blanket).
I am so weak to the big shirt
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>>34003384
>>34003410
Do you get off on posting vague bullshit like this? It's height and face.
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>>34003419
bravo
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>>34003375
he's not coming over tonight or is coming home later tonight because he saw my message and is going over there to finally tell her. i did bring up him moving out because of all of this and he wasn't too happy with the idea but understood what I was trying to say. I mentioned how it could be better for his actual relationship

now all there is to do is find out how she reacts to the truth. i told him we can also give eachother space
>>
Girls do you want to see the cool box I made to send a secret santa present in?
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>>34003412
in the flesh
and not much. haven't heard from you in a while, so i hope you are doing well. whoever you are.
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>>34003135
What >>34003157 said. Most men are natural leaders, so why wouldn't I like to be influenced and learn something new?

>>34003039
Anne Hathaway's really fallen off the wagon, huh?

>>34003073
Not unless something unintentionally funny happened and he rolls with it.
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>>34003427
what a moid brained thing to say, being physically attractive is obviously part of being high value but by far not the only one
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>>34003427
and shoulders
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>>34003405
Giving females equal rights was the downfall. Stop pretending to be retarded by not naming the direct source.
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>>34003425
I mean, you can easily increase birth rates indian styled by just raping all your women
>>
Girls love abs, by the way
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>>34003432
>Anne Hathaway's really fallen off the wagon, huh?
I wish we had pale brunettes itt
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>>34003433
Paint a textual picture if what you imagine as a high value man
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>>34003433
Yeah, not surprised you're a female by saying some vague bullshit like "you just gotta be the litty rich nigga of your hood XD". Fuck off.
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>>34003440
no, you'll just have a melty
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>>34003437
You’ve lost me, idk wtf you’re talking about
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>>34003438
abs or |abs|?
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>>34003439
NAG but a hot mom who frequented one of my old jobs would ask if “the brunette was in today” in reference to me, a pale man with dark brown hair
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>>34003443
I'm not the other anon and I'm curious
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>>34003418
Well if you're attractive then at some point you gotta man up and go for it.
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>>34003445
Absolute value of abs?
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>>34003445
I don’t know what you mean
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>>34003105
STOP REMINDING ME OF CHUBBUCK AAAAAAAAA I WANT TO DIE
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>>34003431
how do you know you haven't heard of me in a while if you don't know who I am?
very suspicious
I'll go do something else now, thread is going downhill fast
bye!
>>
She's not even ugly. Just a larper like the girls in this thread.

https://youtu.be/orBYYoleEKE?si=V-BoDJwhAS-_lu4b
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>>34003450
my calculator says cum gutters. jt actually literally says cum gutters. i can't believe they allow this in high schools world wide
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>>34003448
I'm shy. I'm pure anxiety in these situations.
I don't know what to do. I don't know what to say. My mind is blank.
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>>34003440
Hasan Piker tbqh
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>>34003205
Not at all! You'd be surprised at how much potential intimacy holds in mundane situations. Best of all, you'll both be floating all day long.

>>34002923
Look up post-op SRS pictures. Envy often leads to wanting to "be" the woman, and you'd want to squish any slippery slopes fast.
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>>34003433
Ah, the ‘and’s. Tall, handsome, strong, provider, protector AND whatever other bullshit you like to tag on and pretend is the real thing you want.
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>>34003453
call it a gut feeling. take care!
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>>34002923
>There's not a single day I wish I was a woman.
Oh, that's good.
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>>34003429
Look at how little he values you. Look at how little he cares for you.

You tell him that this situation is bothering you emotionally = This doesn't affect him = He doesn't do anything.
You tell him that this situation is hurting your feelings = This doesn't affect him = He doesn't do anything.
You tell him that this situation is weighing on your mind = This doesn't affect him = He doesn't do anything.
You tell him that he's going to be evicted = This DOES affect him = He suddenly springs into action.

Judge him by his actions. He doesn't respect you. He is only using you. He is kind to you only when it benefits him. He is also unkind to you when it benefits him. He is only pretending to love you, and you need to distance yourself from him in order to see it.

He will say anything to you, he will say the things you like to hear, but only his actions matter.
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>>34003456
It’s a monkey paw. When you’re good at it, you won’t enjoy it nearly as much as you thought you would. And the only way for it to appear as good as you hope it to be, is to never get it.
>>
I’m over it
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>>34003466
What are you over?
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>>34003387
>will it actually help my personality be more outgoing and less nervous or is that madeup
It can, but it's can also increase paranoia and irritability.
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>>34003459
NTA. You're cranky. Not enough ball busting?
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>>34003467
Her
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>>34003471
Onwards and upwards.
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>>34003464
I don't know I think I'd fucking love cuddling.
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>>34003463
actually you read wrong or I typed it weird. he told me he is going to do that before I mentioned him moving out. but I mentioned it anyway after out of concern for where he is going in life, like if he really doesn't need me around for his true best self interest.
>>
I realize I could just use a dream journal, but I was pissed when I woke up from a crazy dream yesterday and couldn’t roll over in bed to tell a woman I love about it.
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>>34003474
You say that now…
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9-6GuttRWGE
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>>34003477
it is times like that i am glad i have a tulpa that i can ramble to. w*men rendered obsolete



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