Is it beta to use dating sites? Also this is a picture of a bird.
What type of birb?
>>34275208Fitness?
>>34275209It appears to be a Lance-tailed Manakin. This one here is a Great Tit
>>34275210Forgive me, this is the least gay board on 4chan, I have nobody to talk with... Multicolored Tanager
No its alpha to use dating sites. Its beta to RELY on dating sites as your exclusive means of meeting girls
>>34275212/fit/ is a very gay board. It's gotten even gayer. Remember when Jesus Christ and his inspiration to be our best selves was always up? No, youre a newfag, but it's true. Instead, you see celebrities and lookism threads 24/7. This is done in bad faith by zoomer homosexuals and their groomers.The only boards gayer are /lgbt/ and /fa/.
>>34275213 #I suppose the main question is that does it deplete some of the romance to use a dating site? The thrills? Is it slightly immature? A craven behaviour?>>34275214 #Maybe I should go to /k/. I could tell them that with the right woman I would become the ultimate weapon.Blue Jay
>>34275208I only use dating apps to practice my text game and so the bitches I work with and know via mutual friends see where I live and inevitably try to get in contact with me. My profile is thirst traps showing off the scenic view I have and I intentionally don’t swipe on them, when their profile shows up I just close the app or increase distance so I can swipe other bitches without swiping off their card so they have to talk to me irl or get my number through work or a friend. At that point they have already invested too much so sunken cost fallacy takes over due to their ego and it’s easy mode for me. Their curiosity takes over and I live rent free in their head. They wonder why I didn’t swipe on them, they can’t believe I would have better options, they didn’t realize I looked like this under my clothes, they don’t understand how I can afford to live where I do in my field, it becomes too much, I’m on their mind and they can’t help it they need to pursue and learn more. They need to try and validate their ego. You niggas wouldn’t understand the level of 5d chess I’m playing.
>>34275215The problem with online dating and being reliant on dating apps is that it puts you into the womans frame. You are messaging her, you are chasing, you are making conversation and you are being her jester. Meeting a woman at the bar is a lot different because you can put her in your frame. Have her chase you, have her qualifying herself to you, etc. She is always going to think more highly of a guy who is who confident enough to meet her in person than one who filled out a pussy application and waited 7 to 10 buisness days for the opportunity to buy her food.
Is it beta for me to call my girlfriend "mommy" and have her always be treating me like she is my mom?
>>34275217This. Plus, you're too easily filtered on apps. In person, she has actually tell you to go away and expend the energy being a bitch.
Here just for the birbs. This is a willy wagtail.They have cute angery eyebrows >:/
>>34275217Nah, it's the difference of warm leads and cold leads. Why make it all a performance, going to bars just so you can hopefully see a woman who isn't an ugly drunk hag. Instead, you fill out a 15 minute ad for yourself, post it online and charm them with pure aesthetic and rizz. It's low effort for high reward, if you're good looking and/or charming.
>>34275208>Is it beta to use dating sitesDating sites where you can actually message anyone and see all the profiles or a dating "site" where you're at the mercy of a shitty jewed out algorithm?
>>34275221I don't think I'm good looking. I'm 32, no more dimples, bad facial hair that I wear to cover my double chin. Suffered an accident a few years ago that left me with some brain damage and one of my eyebrows kind of slumps. Don't have a massive cock or anything. Kind of overweight. I want to make a dating profile but I don't know what I could even say for myself. I don't want some woman who doesn't have standards you know, and you guys can think whatever you want but I want an LTR not a harem. One plus is that I do have enough money for nice clothes and maybe a fancy dinner or two. Lack of confidence is just crushing, I'm a loner who hasn't touched a woman in ten years...Lilac breasted Roller
>>34275221Because you go to the bar and meet your needs to socialize and you can make male friends and connections and generally have a good time. And it only takes 4 hours or however long you deide to stay. If you actually consider how much idle swiping and texting you will do on tinder its not even fucking close. your "15 minutes" shit could be taking like a tremendous amount of your actual time. The apps are specifically made to be addictive. And also if you are the type of fag who won't talk to girls and just says "meet me at X location???" you are a fucking retard and you will never get any girl worth a shit on there
>>34275208>/fit/-Fitness>>34275212>this is the least gay board on 4chan,Top kek, it's actually one of the gayest. I appreciate the tanager, but this place is full of fags including (You)
>>34275208Yes. This is a bearded vulture,l.
>>34275226Goddamn it > Pic related
Hello /adv/Secretary bird
>>34275214You're wrong about /fit/ being different in the past. A decade ago it was all Zyzz brah you mirin
>>34275218no anon thats based
>>34275208Use them
>>34275218I want mommy i want milk
