I don't care if I'll have a blonde daughter or a blond son, I just want a blond child with big blue eyes. I wish I was living in a first world country, like Sweden, so that I could marry a woman from there and have children with her. But, it's no use, I'm a third world immigrant that might no create a 100% white match with my wife. I might embarrass my children because they will probably ask where I'm from.
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Where are you Canadian anon?
>>24373717If you have brown hair and eyes, your children will have them too since they are dominate and since father's traits have a better chance of being inherited.Sorry, but it is highly unlikely that your children with have blonde hair and blue eyes
>>24373717>I want to have a blond childWell ... you could adopt a child or marry a blonde woman and hope that the child becomes blonde or, better yet, you could stop caring so much about hair color.>big blue eyesWell ... a lot of young children have blue eyes that change color with age.>I wish I was living in a first world country, like Sweden, so that I could marry a woman from there and have children with her. But, it's no use, I'm a third world immigrant that might no create a 100% white match with my wife.Learn to appreciate babies of your own race dude. Your level of self-hatred is something that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.I believe that everyone should love whatever race they are a part of. That's my stance. Everyone should be proud of everything that they are. I am a white male autistic bisexual Canadian with Scottish ancestry. I am proud of every single word in that sentence. Be proud of everything that you are.>I might embarrass my children because they will probably ask where I'm from.My biological father was emotionally abusive towards my mother and eventually he became a far-right extremist and then he moved to South America to become a missionary.You will become just as embarrassing as my father IF you can't let go of this internalized racism. Being Brazilian isn't embarrassing. Hating yourself for being Brazilian is.
I also want to point out that some young children have blonde hair that changes color with age.
>>24374494>>24374500I wish I was in an anime!
>>24374504>I wish I was in an anime!We all do.It's okay to love anime (or any other type of cartoons) in your spare time. Just be sure to handle real life stuff too.
>>24374526Bro, I don't know if I'll develop taste for pussies, I only think about kissing and touching boobies, I don't think about fucking.
>>24374536>Bro, I don't know if I'll develop taste for pussies, I only think about kissing and touching boobies, I don't think about fucking.I used to feel this way when I was younger. You seem like a sensitive guy. Maybe you want romantic cuddles and kisses? That's fine. Kissing and squeezing usually comes before penetration anyway. Most women want kissing and squeezing to happen before penetration.... or maybe you don't feel ready to be a dad yet and you are scared to cause a pregnancy? That's fine too. You seem young and you might not be ready for fatherhood yet. Also, it is simply a fact that no form of contraception is 100% effective. Also, if you get a woman pregnant then she chooses whether or not to abort your child and if you try to run away from fatherhood then you'll likely end up in serious legal trouble. Is that what you are afraid of? If so, I can't blame you. I always got nervous whenever I had sex with my ex-girlfriend because I was worried that I'd get her pregnant. I didn't feel ready for fatherhood at the time and I also didn't like the idea of my girlfriend killing my child. Fortunately, she never got pregnant.I just want you to know that your fear of penetration might be a sign of intelligence and/or sensitivity.See man? You are a gentleman. This is why I don't want you to become yet another male suicide.
>>24374606I'm starting to feel sorry for you because of this endless cycle which you've put yourself in since you took the mission of helping OP. You should be putting your energy helping people who really need you, try to do some volunteer work on suicide hotlines, man.
>>24374606Why are you like this? You say blonde women aren't cute. If I was blond and German, I'd like dating a slav brunette, but as I'm a Med, I'd like dating a blondes. I particularly like white couples with a contrast of hair colors.
>>24374536Anyways, I want to emphasize that your anxiety around sex is a GOOD thing. Sex almost always comes with a risk of STDs and pregnancy. Religious conservatives are right about that. I dislike many aspects of religious conservative sexuality (such as the homophobia and nofap shit) but it is simply a FACT that the risk of STDs and pregnancy is always there. If you want to be her cute shy boy at first and then become her prince charming and then move onto nudity and sex later then that is your choice and there's nothing wrong with making that choice.I didn't start dating my ex-girlfriend until after we had been friends for about a year. I didn't get my first kiss with her until we had been dating for 2 months. I didn't touch her tits until 2 months after that. She didn't touch my dick until a month after that, and I didn't penetrate her vagina until another 2 months after that. Taking it slow is okay.
>>24374639Well ... I'm nervous about working at suicide hotlines because some of my beliefs are politically incorrect and unorthodox.
>>24374711>You say blonde women aren't cute.They CAN be cute but not always.Some blonde women are lovable, like Princess Peach. Others are just shitty bimbos or Gaston fangirls. Also, women who aren't blonde can be cute too. All sorts of women can be cute. Women are smaller than men and they love babies and kittens and puppies. That's what often makes them cute.
>>24374775I'll only date girls who are whiter than me.
>>24374784Alright, but this will make dating harder for you and you might miss out on a lot of darker girls who might treat you with love and respect.Back when I was 17/18 years old, there was this one black lady who used to flirt with me. I enjoyed it.Life has taught me that some "beautiful" women are sadistic mean girls and sometimes an "ugly" woman will give you love and make you feel like a god. True beauty is on the inside. Avoiding mean and/or violent women is far more important than snagging outer, physical beauty.
Pic related is Brazilian anon on his first date!
>>24375001Image Source:https://www.deviantart.com/silverrubberducky/art/Having-The-Dokis-Instead-of-A-Nap-389553412
>>24375001I liked it
>>24375035That's the spirit!Image Source: https://www.deviantart.com/silverrubberducky/art/JH-Valentine-Naptime-436326674
Find a nice lady, hold her hand like a gentleman and tell her that her eyes and hair and pretty and then buy her an ice cream! <3
>>24375077how do i approach girls and say, do you want to date me?
>>24375083Well ... I was friends with my ex-girlfriend for about a year before we started dating. We met because her dad was working for my mom. I guess just be friendly towards women and see if any of them start to show a greater interest in you.
>>24375083Overall, I think that you should just live life and you should very slowly get to know the women that you encounter on your journey through life. You should probably take things slowly for 2 reasons. 1. You seem to be a young man and so you probably have plenty of time left. 2. You also come across as a nervous guy. You'll gradually gain confidence with time though.
Anyways, Brazilian anon, I get that you feel weak and vulnerable. This is how I felt when I was in my teens are early twenties. If you want to feel stronger, you need to eat less sugar and eat more protein and also you should get some exercise. I don't lift dumbbells but I do walk to work and back and also I walk between my home and the grocery store and carry my groceries by hand. Just today, I asked my friends "Does it look like my biceps are getting bigger?" and one of my friends said yes. Also, I have generally done a lot of biking and walking throughout most of my life so far.By the way, a lot of women are obsessed with men who have muscular legs and asses. Walking and biking are underrated. "Leg day" is underrated. A lot of guys are proud of their chest and arm muscles but women are actually way more turned on by thigh and butt muscles.If you feel weak, remember that you are a man and so your potential for muscle growth is far beyond that of any woman.
Anyways, I want to bump this thread again to give more encouragement to Brazilian anon, as well as any lurkers here who might be in a similar mess.I know from experience that the world is full of cruelty. I'm on the autism spectrum. Because of that, the normal people will always view me as an idiot parasite. Conservative types hate me for being a "cringe atheist nerd". Liberals hate me because they think that I'm just as "privileged" as any other white male. A lot of the normal people think that we exist purely to be tortured or killed.
Normie men hate us for not being "real men" but women still hate us because most women think that autistic men are an even bigger rape threat compared to normal men. Because of my autism, I have to be very careful with my choice of words so that nobody sees me as "creepy". Meanwhile, normie guys routinely make all sorts of loud, vulgar comments that would be considered "creepy" if I made them. Even when I am on mainstream autism websites (like Wrong Planet or the autism subreddits) I constantly see comments that basically boil down to "Autistic males should be subjected to constant humiliation and emasculation or else they will rape women!" This perception of autistic men is so widespread that most autistic people seem to believe it! Basically, the mainstream belief in our society is that autistic males exist to be tortured or killed. This belief is so widespread that most people on Wrong Planet and the autism subreddits believe it! ... which means that most autistic men believe "I exist to be tortured or killed!" People who talk about the immense cruelty of the world are absolutely correct.... but life is still worth living. Life is still worth living because autistic men AREN'T monsters. We do have a gentleman aspect. We CAN experience tender, delicate love with another person and this makes life worth living despite the fact that most of the world is a monster that hungers for our flesh and blood. Most of the world IS Hell. What makes life worth living is the fact that you WILL get a chance to be a romantic gentleman-poet one day.Don't give up Brazilian anon. The world IS a nightmare, but you WILL find a woman who will cuddle with you and that will make you glad that you didn't take your own life. Good luck out there brother.
>>24373717Kill yourself
>>24373717Boypregnancy isn't possible ,tranny
>>24374494>I am...CanadianI truly feel sorry for you.