>cashier talks to me>never go there againIs it just me? I don't want to be some guy that always buys the same thing to the point where I'm a regular
>>22031778It's not a big deal man, guess it depends on what you're a "regular" at. A grocery store is one thing, there's always a couple of nice ladies at the grocery store that will talk to you. If you're at fucking McDonald's 2-3 times a week getting the same meal that you pretend is for a family instead of yourself then yeah go ahead and feel shame.
>>22031778I just don't talk to wagies most of them are too burnt out to give you anything worthwhile discussion wise so it's just your typical small talk. They do this so they don't get fired by their stupid out of touch boomer boss for being "unfriendly".
>>22031778They don't remember you unless you go everyday for weeks to the same cashier
>>22031778the worst is when you're such an alkie the cashiers are coming over to put their over-21 code in before you even set down your basket, whether you have alcohol or not. or when you dont get beer and they say "NO BEER TONIGHT, BUDDY??"
I'm not an autistic so generally I'm the one who engages them in conversation
>>22031783why are you like this?
>>22031964Alternately just be such an autist that you don't recognize them as the same person next time you go. It took me a solid dozen conversations with the elderly german cashier to register her as a unique entity
>>22031783They are not obliged to talk to you, at most to reply. They talk to you because they want to talk to you.
>>22031778it doesn't matter what you buy, it only matters if you're handsome or not.
>>22031973I live in a very small town so the people who work even at the gas station have worked there for 10 years
I complimented the young cashiers shoes last week and she smiled and said thank you. She is very cute but I think she's 18 and I'm 9 years older than her. All the other cashiers are old angry hags so I like when I'm shopping and it's her shift.
>>22031991being older isnt really an issue unless you personally feel weird about it. women love older men. you're likely more well adjusted than any of the younger men around her.but then again you're here, so maybe not.
>>22031994Usually it's not a problem and there's no stigma in my country, my ex gf was 6 years younger than men but I'm starting to feel weird about it for some reason, maybe if the context wasn't my local store it would be different.
>>22031968Autism and general hatred for other people. I'm also way too intelligent for my own good, it's like there are two different people in my brain. One that wants to enjoy life and society and the other that wants to watch the world burn.
>>22031952They’re being Friendly!!
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>>22031973Did you assume at first that they had a ton of grandmas working there? I’m good with faces but terrible with names so I get anxious if I remember someone told me their name but I don’t remember the name itself.
>>22031778>cashier sees i bought veggies, coconut milk, basil>"makin curry tonight are ya?"why does the wagie need to interrogate me with small talk about my meal plans
What's the problem? They won't get nosey or comment on your purchases. Depending on the state, it may be illegal (e.g. California).
>>22032717cashier was probably a /ck/ regular who can't talk to any of his pleb coworkers about thai cooking because all they know how to make is bologna sandwich.
>>22031778>teensy russian cashier sees me buying kgs of minced beef again>"why don't you buy a meat grinder? Like the big metal ones we have"I live in a studio apartment, there's no space, plus why tf would I spend the money on that thing>"Oh but it's so much better when you grind it on your own also cheaper for your four kids!"I don't have any kids, let alone fourTo this day I think back tot that conversation and wonder what the fuck was going through her head
>>22032790she thought you looked like a potential provider, wanted to grind meats with you, and have lots of children. you fucked up.
>>22032790Weed brain
I hate when this happens bc im so insecure ill go out of my way to avoid the gas station closest to me so I don't have to interact with the guy I know will be there
>>22032790she was hitting on you. she said the thing about kids to find out if you were single or not. it's like asking a girl where her boyfriend works. either way she answers you will find out if she has a boyfriend.
>>22032915Seeing the same dude is nice though. I have a guy who i could ask for his experience on jury duty before I went, talked about music because I wore a shirt after a concert. I don't know what to tell you other than suicide is always an option anon.
>>22031778/ck/ has gotten measurably worse with the uptick of obvious bait threads
>>22032946Oh well excuse me, sorry to steal you away from all the threads about mcdonalds
>>22032790Its called small talk.
I don't see the harm unless you are getting to the regular level at the liquor shop
If I start to recognize the faces of the wait staff at a restaurant I stop going there. Not because they might recognize me but it's an indication I go there too much for my own sake.
>>22032947you are not excused
>>22032004lol ok buddy, as you were
>>22031778How is it live as a social retard? Sounds awful
>>22031778>>cashier talks to me>>never go there againi couldn't avoid it 'cause back then that was the closeest grocs store near my home. but now, it went bankrupt and was found to sell expired crap for ages. i cheered. also his wife was a commie.
>>22031964There is nothing more autistic than engaging in conversation with strangers. Normal people don't talk to me, autistic people always try to get a conversation going. It pisses me off so much but then I remember they're retarded and can't help it. But it's fucking annoying
>>22031778>cute cashier gril compliments my hat one day>never see her working there again
>>22032004That isn't intelligence. You're just an asshole who feels superior. You hate others because they've rejected you. It's self-preservation for you to act like it's you who's too good for them. Your ego would shatter if you accepted what a hideous freak you are.
>>22032915What the fuck? What are you insecure about and what does insecurity have to do with interacting with some guy? What exactly do you think he thinks of you? Because I'll tell you this: he doesn't. I worked retail and had regulars and I didn't judge them or assume anything based on their frequency or purchases. Only whether or not they were nice or not or how well they tipped me. You're having whole dramas in your head with this dude who doesn't think about you for a single moment when you're not at his counter. You people including OP are fucking insane. I'm like this guy >>22031964, I'm the one cracking jokes with the clerks and being pleasant. I can't even imagine being afraid of dealing with people or driving across town so some total stranger can ring up my stuff.
>>22034526>how well they tipped me.beggar scum
>>22034535I never requested any tips. You're just jealous because I can look a person in the eye and have a laugh and instant rapport, and you're sweating bullets and tearing your hair out hoping the cashier didn't hate you. Fucking incel lunatic.
>>22034526You are easily baited lol
>>22034488If normal people don't talk to you then you probably have a very hostile disposition. The default for Americans is to idly talk to each other in public. So much so that other countries make fun of us for it when they visit America.
>>22034488What do you think "autistic" means then? Because social people who chit chat in a friendly manner during transactions are not weirdo mumblers who can't make eye contact and obsess over trains and eat only mac and cheese.Where do you live and why are you approached by actual retarded people who mumble weird shit at you autisticly? Do you only shop at Goodwill or something?
acting like they're weird for talking to you when you're weird for being uncomfortable when spoken to
>accidentally say please, both at the start and the end of my orderyep, never going back
>>22034522You talk like you know me yet everything you say couldn't be further from the truth.
>>22034723Because they totally judged you for that and will forever laugh at you when they think of you which will be all the time after that 'please' business you pulled which they'll never forget. Safer to just never return. You're insane.
>>22032790just stop consuming so much meat
>>22032790>actually, I am raising a large dog, you see, I plan to kill my wife, bury her real deep, and then kill the dog and bury it above her, it's a really good trick to throw the investigators off.
>>22034716Why do you have so many pictures of guys saved?Do you jack off your fiance (that means boy, by the way) to them?
>>22032790Breh...
i had an incidental fingers touch with an 18year old indian girl cashier
>buying some kfc slop>brown guy on the register>go to pay and drop my card>blurt out "oh nigger shits">he says nothing>i pay and say nothingdidnt go there for a few months after that one
>>22034787>so... that's how I met your mom *head bobs*
>>22034794browns don't care if you say the slurs against blacks; why would they?
>>22034772Reaction images make more sense than social media pictures of women. No, I don't jack off to reaction images. Why would you ask? Do YOU jack off to pictures of the influencers or actresses or whoever you continually inappropriately pair with your retarded, soon to be banned posts? lol, you're such an autistic fucking loser. Stay gone.
>>22031964>Engage them in conversationActually you were the autist all along
>>22034813I didn't ask if you jack off to themYou definitely jack off your fiance to them THOUGH kekHow are reaction images of Pretty women inappropriate? You never explained why you have so many pictures of guys saved lolYour faggotry is showing