What was your childhood sex education like? What do you remember about how your parents/other authority figures treated the subject of sex?Do you think your early sex education caused your kinks?
>>11178152Small town DARE/abstinence/etc from the public school. Then come home to my 6 sisters who are in the middle of trying to out fecund each other breastfeeding topless in the living room.
Normal stuff, they showed the shitty videos that showed off stds and stuff. I remember just playing my gameboy the entire time. My parents had divorced when I was young. My mother would answer any sexual questions I had in a very scientific manner. As a kid I knew how sex worked, about pregnancy and how much a vagina could stretch to pass an infant head. My father more or less just bragged about bagging various sluts to his young son, I found out later these were all lies.As for the various things that get my dick hard, mostly anime. I lost interest in 3D after a few bad relationships and escaped to 2D. I've done that for the last few decades. The longer you're here the further you go down the rabbit hole.Lastly, this thread should have been on /h/ maybe one of the other boards like /r9k/ or some other board. This board doesn't have the traffic for this thread to be anything beyond deleted in a day with less than ten posts.
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>>11178152>Do you think your early sex education caused your kinks?Sizefag here, and no. I had a distinct fascination with growing/shrinking/giant characters long before puberty. I came with this shit factory.
>>11178152>What was your childhood sex education like?Pretty boring. First I was told that sex is "like a very close hug," and then I learned a bit about the physical details. Then a more detailed anatomy lesson in fifth grade, and more details in eighth grade on up. As for the emotions and culture that people have around sex... I was left to figure that out on my own.>Do you think your early sex education caused your kinks?Not at all. Most of my kinks come from my desire to be valued.>>11178155>Then come home to my 6 sisters who are in the middle of trying to out fecund each other breastfeeding topless in the living room.Were they all nursing moms at the time, or...?
>>11178152>What was your childhood sex education like?vague facts and abstinence education from school, followed by being groomed by an older woman online>What do you remember about how your parents/other authority figures treated the subject of sex?didn't talk about it much. sat me down in front of the movie exit to eden once, which had a lot of sex stuff and full frontal>Do you think your early sex education caused your kinks?very much so yeah
>>11178152I remember not hearing a peep about trannies. I'm 32.Pretty normal sex ed class that I barely paid attention to because I had already learned about sex through the internet
>>11178152I have 3 memories related to sex education.1. In elementary school, I remember having a misunderstanding of how sex worked. My mom probably told me that a man and a woman have sex to make children, and that they can choose how many kids they have. I understood it as if they have sex once, and then they can have as many pregnancies as they want, without further sex. 2. Around age 13, mom sat with me in the car and explained what's sex about. I don't remember the contents of the conversation, but I remember it being comprehensive.3. Middle school had some peculiar classes. In one of them we watched a presentation or a movie about the physiological aspects of sex. There was a video of a man's erection through a thermal camera. I knew what the alien colors meant. The video wanted to show the blood flow of the election or something, and the penis got warmer and warmer. It shifted through the colors. When it reached the maximum temperature colored white I laughed slightly. In hindsight, classmates and a teacher might have thought I was laughing because of the election itself rather than the colors.>Do you think your early sex education caused your kinks?Doubtful. I haven't started masturbating until 9th grade, until my classmates talked about hentai and stuff. The "Men's Channel" had softcore porn late at night, and I'd watch that. Strippers, porn BTS, idk.First kink I can recall was from Spider-Man Unlimited perhaps, with the mind controlling symbiotes. In elementary school, I remember, I had an odd dream where some alien or an infection was possessing me on the school's ball court. And I turned green like Street Fighter's Blanka. I've never played Street Fighter, and I have no idea what I got his image from. I was possessed by something that turned me into a green muscular freak. Maybe it was influenced by that Batman animation where he overloaded Bane's juice pump?
>>11178152Red a cute, would
I passed the banana-condom test on my first try without giggling. [spoiler]I'm still a virgin 20 years later.[/spoiler]
>>11178152>What was your childhood sex education like? Pretty standard. I got the "where babies come from" video in primary school then slightly more depth added in highschool. Use protection, dont get molested, dont try to fuck anything dangerous, ect ect>What do you remember about how your parents/other authority figures treated the subject of sex?It wasnt secret, but it just wasnt talked about except to awkardly make sure i wasnt either getting molested, making a baby or being sent to hospital after>Do you think your early sex education caused your kinks?God no. My kinks are pretty basic for my demographic, but discovered them pretty organically. I remember when i was maybe 13 or 14 a POV video of a woman getting fucked was the first thing i ever liked enough to try to find again, but i never thought much of it. Then later around 15 i remember saying "i dont understand why anyone would want to be fucked" and someone told me it was all about emotional intimacy, and that was my "oh my god, i get it now" moment. Thats around the time i started coming here. Slowly my taste broadened to being able to self-insert into basically anything where someone with a dick is getting fucked in the ass, and the rest is history
>>11178152my mom explained it almost scientifically when I was 6 or 7 (she did so as an aside to explain her period)school did classes on it in grade 5 and 6, which I made a point of skipping because I didn't want to be in the same room as the other kids for the subject
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>>11178152>Sex ed is responsible for your kinks!sweet innocent /pol/tard. So gullible. Come, bend over and I will show you where the kinks come from.
I think I had my kinks as a child and only understood them as I grew older.>Always has dreams of wearing a pumpkin suit that made me feel funny when I was 5-7 (the idea of being big/round) and also dreams of weight gain and expanding fatter.>Always really loved hugging fat women as a small child (My mother made fun of me for this)>Had an imaginary GF when I was in first grade, and she specifically had a big pregnant belly and wore tight spandex style clothesNow I dress up in elaborate fat/pregnant get-ups with a heavy silicone belly and huge, heavy silicone filled boobs. I've always liked the weight hanging off my belly/chest.I had a skinny/small boobed long term GF and I was never satisfied sexually. I think I need to find myself a thicker girl with big tits to be happy, at least in the physical sense.
>>11178152I had basic sex ed in secondary school. I got a fetish for cervix penetration and impregnation, even though they didn't teach anything wrong.Honestly, even with how much porn there is online, sex ed should only be in secondary school, not primary school, and it shouldn't be about LGBT stuff.>>11178860OK, Helmut Kentler.
>>11178152I got my sex education fairly late I think, though I have no clue what age I was or what was covered. It was good enough that I didn't have any surprises when I started looking at porn and found out more. Well, with the exception of when the porn had bad anatomy. I don't think it caused any of my fetishes. Pretty sure my transformation fetish originates from getting my face painted, but that only explains one of many.
>>11178152>What was your childhood sex education like? What do you remember about how your parents/other authority figures treated the subject of sex?I'd say pretty standard for civilized US. Mom was always took an open approach to everything but I was worried about getting caught looking at stuff online, so I never asked questions that I'd probably get reasonable answers to. >Do you think your early sex education caused your kinks?Not in the slightest. I had developed a fascination with the subject matter of my kink in cartoons and books as a little kid before I ever hit puberty. I just found it hot suddenly at like 11
>>11178152No, I'm pretty sure it was The Magic School Bus that did it.
>>11178152>What was your childhood sex education like?In middle school, it was just basic biology.I remember one of the most popular girls in class being very proud of "already going to the gynaecologist" and announcing it to the classroom.In high school, it was briefly debated during ethics classes, which I took instead of theology.I was taught nothing new. I'd pretty much figured out everything by myself, probably thanks to my kink, which I'd obtained long before puberty.>What do you remember about how your parents/other authority figures treated the subject of sex?Very casually. They pretty much just told me it was natural, and saying the "dirty words" during biology class when called upon was nothing to be embarrassed about.Whenever something sexual was brought up, like the time I popped my first boner and didn't know what it was, I was answered casually but matter-of-factly. Only reprimanded if I'd done something that was deemed socially unacceptable (like telling my friends I "had an erection" mere seconds after learning what it was).I believe the approach of both my school and parents were the right ones.Besides, with the internet, a child can educate itself on its own.The issue arises when they fall into a rabbit hole of internet degeneracy (like 90% of furfags) or get groomed in online spaces because of innate curiosity.I'd say that proper internet etiquette and online safety are much more important areas of education in current years.
>>11178152>What was your childhood sex education like?Honestly, I think I was left out of that and other... what's the general class called, which includes being informed about drugs by a visiting police officer?That on account of being a certified sperg: I had "social skills" lessons on that hour instead; all I remember from that was handwriting practice and going once to a local café with a special ed teacher.What I know on the topic is either through A-level biology or porn, which included a bit too much hentai, leading me to try to penetrate my nipples with the blunt end of pencils...Finding a video of a woman spreading her legs and pissing on the ground made the vague description of "women have two holes, where men have one" click for me.>What do you remember about how your parents/other authority figures treated the subject of sex?My parents sheepishly handed me a book, telling me to read through it if I was ever curious.Never read it.>Do you think your early sex education caused your kinks?No: General media consumption caused (more triggered) them.There's always that one scene from the film The Brothers Grimm, where someone gets swallowed by a horse: I blame that for my interest since in vore and horses.>>11178604I dare ask: What exactly is the "banana-condom test"?>>11178621>i remember saying "i dont understand why anyone would want to be fucked" and someone told me it was all about emotional intimacy, and that was my "oh my god, i get it now" moment"emotional intimacy" does not compute.Feels like a foreign concept.>>11178407>As for the emotions and culture that people have around sex... I was left to figure that out on my ownStill haven't figured it out despite being (or leading me to becoming) an internet-definition wizard.Only very recently figured out, that the "culture" bit that I'm trying to classify and understand would be termed "courtship" for any other animal.So my problem, put succinctly, is: I can't into courtship.
>>11178152The earliest sex ed presentations in 6th grade or so, age 11-ish. Mainly anatomy/basic mechanics and safety stuff. Don't think it made much of a difference in terms of sexual development, I mostly ended up with a crippling fear of getting AIDs from a cut or something.By that point I already had the beginnings of most of my 'core' kinks. I didn't really have any libido to speak of, but I knew I got a huge thrill out of being hog tied, hand-cuffed to a chair, or spanked (the story behind each of these things is fairly mundane, but I can explain if someone really wants to know). Also, I was super obsessed with the concept of transformation since at least age 4 or so.About a year after the first sex ed classes I figured out how to masturbate and started sourcing material from the internet. Even still, I think the net influence of the internet was to ground my kinks and make them somewhat less bizarre/idiosyncratic than they would be otherwise.
>>11179349I realized I forgot to answer one of the questions.My parents avoided talking about sex around me, and when my mom did give me 'the talk' it was so vague that I had no idea what the fuck she was talking about. She did give me a book about puberty, which I promptly shoved down between some couch cushions out of embarrassment. Eventually I got curious and dug it back out.The teachers who gave the sex ed presentations were gravely serious about the whole thing. It was quite unnerving for my child self.
>>11178152Biology classes in the public school system explained to me how the mechanics of a girl's pregnancy work, and that was it. No talk of any techniques and ways to best satisfy a partner. No talk of toys. No mention of any LGBTQ stuff, or kinks and fetishes, although this still was the 1990's, so... During the 8th grade they did hand out an educational leaflet to all the students with a condom in it, so there was that. I just used that thing to masturbate into, kept things clean.As far as BDSM, femdom, spanking and the like went, I was on my own. And I'm from the pre-Internet times, when you couldn't just Google this shit. I couldn't access that shit until 1998, when my mind was blown. Before that, a dictionary in my parents' former home described masochism as "a sexual perversion, where a person derives sexual satisfaction from being hurt". Or something to that effect, I had to translate that from a different language by memory.My parents didn't tell me jack squat, but then again, they didn't have to. I was very good at doing my own research. Primarily, my teachers in the 90's were the various human sexuality documentaries and Playboy late night shows that were shown on TV at the time. I still bitterly regret that I was unable to VHS record most of that shit. So much good stuff was lost to the ages that hasn't been shown since. Luckily, I at least found a good DVD rip of Nick Broomfield's Fetishes later.School sex ed had nothing to do with my BDSM kink. From a very early age I was exposed to the many B-exploitation movies of the era, which showed many people getting tied up and tortured in various states of undress. Check out films like Savage island, Opposing Force and Rambo: First Blood part II to see what I mean. Like the curious kid that I was, I also effortlessly discovered my dad's porno stash, and secretly studied those when parents weren't at home.Come to think of it, school didn't have to teach me anything. I figured it all out on my own.
>>11178155>my 6 sisters who are in the middle of trying to out fecund each other breastfeeding topless in the living room.Need details.Now.
>>11178152>What was your childhood sex education like? I never got one. I was a sickly enough kid to get an exemption from PE (and alongside it, Health class) and my parents forgot to have the sex talk with me>Do you think your early sex education caused your kinks?No, but I think that having to discover sex/the human body through the internet and personal experimentation did. My most embarassing anecdote is that I used to fap without actually understanding what I was doing. I would rub my erect dick through my clothes or I would lay face down in bed, place my hand between my dick and the bed, and then rub back and forth until I came. And even then, I didn't know what cum was, so I never did any cleanup. I still remember the first photo of a naked girl I ever saw, I stumbled upon it while browsing the internet unsupervised at ~age 9. More /d/ related, I also remember the first crossdresser I saw, around the time I was age 12. From there I got into futa and traps and all kinds of stuff. Sometimes I wonder what my fetishes would be if I was given any information ahead of time.
I went to religious schools but it was still all pretty good and normal. We had “family life” class around 5th grade which taught us the basics and showed us birth and stuff, then first year of high school we covered more in-depth things along with STDs and the like. Obviously still told us abstinence was best and there was a little overt fear monger it with some of the STD pictures they showed but it overall it was pretty good. Too bad I’m a degenerate and felt weird watching transformation stuff at a very earlier age only to realize I was specifically very into weight gain around 16. But I think that might be heavily genetic for me (pun intended).
Eurofag here.Got the standard sex ed (penis in vagina = pregnancy) at 5th grade (10yo), but every kid had already heard from other kids what sex was around first grade. So we already knew everything they taught us then so we just giggled at the textbook's cartoon drawing of a man and woman having missionary sex with his dick in her hairy twat and heart drawings all around them.We had the more in depth sex ed in grade 7-8 with stds, different contraception types, that foreplay exists and the question "what would you do if your bestie was gay for you" for us to think about.My parents were 100% chill with sex talk and answered all my questions normally. We watched sex ed documentaries together.None of the sex ed stuff had zero effect on my kinks. I was already a furry in daycare due to autism making cartoon animals more approachable than irl people with their over complicated an uninteresting faces. And every other kink I got from browsing through /d/, /y/ and /f/ as a 14yo.Honestly, with how basic and unsexy school sex ed is, the only kinds of kinks I can think anyone could get from it are mob face from the cartoon drawings and chastity fetish from the usa absentine only shit.Several other things at school can cause a fetish though, like that one guy who got a cockroach fetish from reading Kafka for literature class.
>>11178152>What was your childhood sex education like?In school (circa 1995, France), basic but sane. Like, MST bad, protect yourself. No means no. PP in Vagine make baby.And a very light "butseks not standard, but whatever if both are okay" and "porn is not reality".In house, close to nothing because the parents were too embarrassed. But also so fucked up because I found the porn stash of my dad really early, and then internet. Also, gone too far with my brother (no rape, but still incest. Took a good decade and a half not to hate myself about it.).Among friends, mostly "pee is stored in the ball" and "our hand touched, it's exactly like making love, right?" kind of things.>What do you remember about how your parents/other authority figures treated the subject of sex?As said, very elusively because they didn't know how to bring the subject. Mom answered "medically" (she is a doc) my dad tried to explain it being cool, but it was more awkward than anything. And I didn't ask much anyway, so I can't tell more.>Do you think your early sex education caused your kinks?100%It completely structured what makes me coom.Found normal porn too violent because the parents scream at each other all the time.So, sweet Lesbian made me love the feminine body, but also, I didn't have anyone to identify to in the image.Here comes the shemale, Now I have something to identify to, and the sweet female body (kind of).Incest cemented sex = dick.That being said, I had no problem with my girlfriend, and really enjoyed sex with her. I was aroused too.Just a tad less than shemale porn... (also she was pretty selfish in sex, so that didn't help when you have to do all the effort for not that much reward).To the anons felling the same/having similar problems:I worked a lot on myself, and you can write new paths, as enjoyable as the ones you don't want to use anymore.Just know that the old path will always be there, even if not used, you have to live with it.
>>11179517>I was doing. I would rub my erect dick through my clothes or I would lay face down in bed, place my hand between my dick and the bed, and then rub back and forth until I cameThat is called prone masterbation.It's more common than you think.
>>11179789I know, I was just bringing it up to say that I didn't understand masturbation in the sense that I didn't know the objective was to stimulate my penis. I just knew that when I rubbed myself there, it felt good
My parents were the evangelical type (northeast US) and I was homeschooled until around age 14 so it wasn't addressed outside of clinical descriptions of male and female anatomy and the effects of puberty on the body, before we had Internet access (mid-late 90's) and sex ed later in school I still had access to some information at home in the form of a sample volume of Encyclopedia Britannica featuring anatomical diagrams that included male/female reproductive systems and another book for children we had that I don't remember anything else about now except that it had one page showing a step-by-step progression of puberty starting from boy/girl and ending on adult man/woman. When I saw that I distinctly recall having the thought, "What if they were swapped?" (that and being confused at first at the notion that people eventually grow pubic hair); being a kid I obviously wouldn't have fully understood yet why not but I think I was probably predisposed to like the general idea of gender bending and that was just when it first "awoke" since futa and cuntboys are my two favorite /d/ kinks now.When we did first get online it was through a dialup ISP that applied content filtering at the ISP level but that just motivated me to circumvent it and search for sites that their filter missed (surprisingly easy to do and it didn't filter IRC/online chats at all). In the process of finding ever more obscure sites that weren't filtered I discovered hentai, shemales and furry; again I didn't fully understand why (since I didn't know what gay/bi people or LGBTQ+ were yet) but when I first saw pictures of naked furry men I felt oddly intrigued instead of averse and that gradually led to looking at gay furry pictures and then to traps and "regular" yaoi, while at the same time I was getting interested in girls I was also having thoughts pop into my head sometimes of performing what I later realized were sexual acts with some of my male friends (those I kept to myself obviously).
>>11178152The main thing I remember was a long slideshow on STDs that scared me away from sex as a teen.>Do you think your early sex education caused your kinks?No I blame Sgt. Frog and Ranma 1/2 for those.
>>11178152>What was your childhood sex education like? What do you remember about how your parents/other authority figures treated the subject of sex?parents never attempted to talk about the subjectschool had very good and serious sex ed for the girls the boys were told to fuck off and eventually got like a 15 minute "sex ed" that taught nothing and was just so they could say they did itall i know i learnt either from porn or from actually doing itthe place and time i grew up in was extremely anti male, there was never any attempt to properly educate or nurture boys in any way and we were just hated for being male and left to do whatever on out ownlooking back there must have been some really shitty people in charge that could only act that way cause of how small the town wasit fucked up our views on women permanently, but outside of one druggie we largely turned out okay still>Do you think your early sex education caused your kinks?nah cause there was nonemy kinks, mainly enormous titties, came from two of my classmates that had just the most ridiculous pair and i was allowed to touch them for some reasonhuge focus on titties ever since
