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I thought the feels were just a meme, but it's true.

They're getting heavier and heavier by the day, how do you deal with them bros?
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>>43856944
kys, you won't be missed
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>>43856944
Feelings aren’t real
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I did no fap and no porn and managed to find a girl from it. She moves back to Germany after Christmas though. I'll be fine till then.
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>>43856993
No

>>43857011
Yes they are

>>43857018
I thought this was a meme but i'l do it.
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>>43856944
Never gonna make it if you keep being such a massive faggot
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>>43856944
I was close to telling her that I like her today, but I didn't.
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>>43857011
How can mirrors be real if feelings aren't real?
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PAPRIKA MOTHERFUCKERS
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>>43857083
okay speaking from experience here. do it bro. do NOT leave it too late. i could have had the girl of my dreams in my arms RIGHT NOW if i told her about my feelings earlier. instead i left it too late and we dont even talk any more, just avoid eye contact together.
sometimes you need to put irrational thought behind you and just act on your true feelings. you can do this. i believe in you, dont make the same mistakes i did
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Our old anniversary's coming up again. I've been on numerous dates and have had a girlfriend since then, but the pain's still there after two years.
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I usually distance myself from anyone that's gotten close to me before they see me breaking down from the weight. After a day or so I'll have let out enough emotional baggage to pull myself back together and have a weight that's I can handle well enough.
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>>43856944
Bupropion (antidepressor)

Sometimes I feel like I wanna kill myself but this shit is so strong the tought immediately goes away, it's weird but yeah it what makes me go through the days and be able to have objectives and goals which furthermore motivate me.
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>>43858711
Iktf brah. That feel is heavier than my 180 kg deadlift. I just live with it now
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>>43858773
Have you tried aderrall?
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Haven't found a job after uni and all my friends seem to be happy and in jobs or still doing courses

Got to the final stage of a job only to fail at the last hurdle

Depressed as fuck from it... would have killed myself but don't want to cause more grief to my brother and sister as our mum already killed herself
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>>43858808
No, why? Isn't that a stimulant?

I've had speed though (amphetamine) which I think is pretty much the same. Wasn't that nice.
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>>43858831
Yeah it is, I was just curious your antidepressant seems to have the effect aderrall has on most people. Very focused, energetic, objective oriented. Idk maybe try it once, might help. Don't trust me though I'm not a doctor lol
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>finally fucked a girl
>went in raw
>she claims birth control and i pulled out
>still insanely worried

help me
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>>43859185
Nothing matters in life Anon, just have fun and stop giving a fuck, you can also shame her into a abortion for fun to see what happens, if she is you know, preggo.
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>>43859185
Don't sweat it dude, you'll be fine. The chances for knocking a girl up when you pull out are almost non-existent, even without birth control.
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>>43859215
>>43859222
Really appreciate it guys.

Big kiss and have a comfy night
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>>43859185
You pulled out and none went inside her correct? Then it's almost impossible to have gotten her pregnant. You're gonna be fine anon. And despite pregnancy scares, always remember that it is actually rather difficult to get a girl pregnant. It took me 4 months to get my wife pregnant and we fucked raw constantly.
>>43859215
Go away jew
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i go on grindr and talk with dudes then block them if they wanna hook up
no homo

literally no homo i just have nothing to do
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>>43856944
Went on 2 dates with a girl when I was 18 about 3 years ago.
still think about her everyday even though i've had 2 other long term relationships since than.

how do I make it stop anons?
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>>43856993
Newfag, die.
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I traded booze, coke, friends, and good times, for the gains. between being depressed to begin with, and taking gear / fucking with my hormones I get insanely depressed over stupid shit. Like call in sick to work and stay in bed for 3 days because I wanna kill myself so fucking bad. been mgtow for 8 months now, broke up with my grill a year ago and spent a few months rebound fucking before I realized "hey, I fucking hate people. I don't wanna live with female people and I definitely don't wanna make any mini people with anyone. I don't even miss the sex as much as I thought I would. I miss the fact that someone actually cared about me. Would ask me about my day and actually listen when I vent.

I'd still go see a therapist once a month before I consider inviting another roastie in my life
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>>43857018
hope you're having some crazy German sex friendo

>>43857588
>>43857083
that sounds like a good start

>>43859185
do you know her well? do you think she would want to get preggers? precum has some semen inside it so I wouldn't rely on pullout in the future

>>43859347
why do you still have this oneitis dude it makes no sense. there are chicks I used to know that are hot that I now think "damn it would be sweet if I could still hook up with them" but you need to find people in the now otherwise it bogs you down. ask me why I know kek
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>>43859625
>why do you still have this oneitis dude it makes no sense. there are chicks I used to know that are hot that I now think "damn it would be sweet if I could still hook up with them" but you need to find people in the now otherwise it bogs you down. ask me why I know kek

I realize its pretty retarded but its just how my mind works. I think it has more to do with having a 10/10 personality compared to all of the roasties i've been attracting lately
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>>43856944
>ask out gym 10/10
>she says yes enthusiasticaly
>text her to set up plans
>no response 4 days later
>see her at gym she avoids eye contact

I really dont understand
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Have some interesting feels I want to get off my chest

>Be me
>Work in a company
>Company decides to start treating employees who kiss ass as best employees
>I don't kiss ass and not really interested in that type of shit
>Decide to find another job who pays better
>At the time I was a lead engineer for many, many clients and they kept treating me like shit even though the clients who I worked with knew my worth and respected me
>Ended up finding another job, been at another higher paying role for a year now
>Just spoke with former supervisors who I used to work with at other company
>They are complaining they haven't been able to find people up to my skill level
>I laughed since they thought I was worth nothing
>lol, anyway, this company is going down the drain and the company will continue to lose clients
>I will never come back to work for them
>lol, top fucking kek

>One of the best engineers leaves, nobody else takes over my role and company goes down since they can't find good enough people to work their ass off for shit pay

>kek
>This company is done and bleeding clients left and right
>Spoke to said former coworker/friend
>I keep mentioning my new role and company can take their clients and start working on building these solutions for them
>kek, they fucking let me go and other people jumped ship after me
>They cant find people to re-build my work
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Girl I like hangs around Chad a lot, but Chad doesn’t really care about her. Everyone tells me to leave her alone but she keeps showing that she likes me and plays stupid hard to get games. I want to pull away but I fucking can’t, we’re so similar and compatible.
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>>43859689
thats a positive feel. the coporate ladder is mostly just based on who kisses ass hardest. I know a couple of literally useless people at my work who have worked their for decades just because they kiss ass and don't do anything to get fired.
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>>43859724
Just stay in the picture but dont push to hard and look creepy. Eventually she will settle for you when she realizes she cant get chad, assuming you arent friendzoned.
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>>43859747

>going for rebound pussy

KEK/10
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>>43858711
Mein neger I know that feel, been on countless dates and screwed a lot of girls in the meantime but I still can't let her out of my mind.
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>>43859765
rebound pussy > no pussy
I was just answering anons question and I know he cant beat out chad for the qt because hes spending his night alone posting on /fit/
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>>43859819
Ay mane he’s talking to her right now and I’m just watching angerly. It’s fukin poetry
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>>43859185
I've never used a condom
Keep banging shanks raw bro gl
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>cut girl off who treated me like shit for a full year
>say she was an ass and I don't want to be 'friends' or whatever we were anymore
>she complains and asks me to stay
>no lol
>she texts me once every 5 days and I answer once or twice and then say goodnight
>she actually texted me saying good luck on my finals
>"hey thanks you too, have a happy holidays. goodnight"
>she says 'you too'
>then texts me an hour later 'thanks for asking about my exams' with 2 thumb up emojis
>ask her how they went
>she ignores me

she just wanted to ignore me and all it reminded me of is how spiteful she is. still haven't found a girl to replace her, but i'm better off without her
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>>43859846
I know that feel anon, stay strong
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>>43859880
He left and I think she got up to talk to him again walking right past me. I am going to do so many push-ups and air punches when I fucking get home
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>>43859944
you are getting into the obsessive territory anon, acting like this will lower your chances of getting with qt, just act normal and show interest but not blatantly
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>>43860057
I am trust me, I've just been around we talk occasionally and it goes well. It's just when I'm alone I get anxious because I'm a retard. If I could find someone else to preoccupy myself I would but it's just her
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Can you guys explain to me why a hedonistic life style isnt objectively the best lifestyle to live? I'm not speaking in terms of reckless abandon hedonism either, just like being as attractive as you can be, striving to be as successful as you can be, living for pleasure under a specific scope (as in not doing hard drugs just because they feel good etc) and basking in material pleasures like flesh, food, drink, and the newest bleeding edge technology? I mean I lift and everything, and obviously it feels good to break your own personal records and set goals and achieve them, but I almost want to say it pales in comparison to the adoration from the opposite sex / your peers from obtaining an attractive physique. Is this wrong?

I often find myself debating with my friends about how morality and different psychological and philosophical schools of thought will lead to a greater understanding and enjoyment of life, but I often find myself wondering if it would simply be easier to live like a hedonist and just enjoy life in the pleasure of it all
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>>43860133
because you lose individuality
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>>43856944
make some friends
i live pretty rural normally and its a blessing and a curse
anyway since i'm in university now i see people every day now and i actually feel much better
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>>43860133
Some people believe a hedonistic lifestyle brings happiness and pleasure but not fulfilment.
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I finally got a new job and finally got insurance. I've been thinking about going to see a doctor and having a full mental check up. I kinda want to know exactly what my fuck ups are.

If I am mentally fucked and they give me the option in taking meds, should I just go for it? Do any of you guys have experience in taking meds?
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>>43859724
she knows she can get you any time she wants, so she isnt interested in you, she plays those games to feel good i guess but she really wants to be with chad, i recommend to stop talking to her
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>>43860212
take the meds goy
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>>43860133

because you can't have all of that.

unless of course you were born into extreme wealth, you can .. but even then you won't attain success on the same measure as your access to pleasures.

people seem to forget the most 'successful' business people/lawyers/doctors work all day everyday, they take calls at midnight to accommodate other timezones/get called in to resolve problems/consult, they don't get weekends off, they stay late, they get in early, their entire life revolves around their success.

the misconception that with success comes more time, but that's a fallacy, it's the exact opposite.
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>>43860201
I imagine more often than not that if most people were legitimately happy and found pleasure in most things that they would also feel fulfilled

arguing about fulfillment usually leads to a unanimous answer of something along the lines of wealth, job security, unconditional love (or perhaps just often sexual fulfillment for some), and a life filled with experience

Seeing that this is almost what any person would tell you when asked about fulfillment lends some truth to it I think. I think it could be argued that its the people who often DON'T achieve these things that lead them to schools of thought about fulfillment being something entirely different altogether.
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>>43858885
I've read before that addy can keep you up a long time and interfere with sleep. That true? Not the first guy you were asking, but I've been curious before. I already have enough troubles sleeping though so if it does cause problems, I'm staying clear.
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>>43860230
I don't approach her anymore, I only talk to her when she talks to me first. I can see she's getting more nervous but there's nothing I can really fucking do. This is just so frustrating
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>>43860254
Depends what you take it for, I have adhd and I take 15mg ir twice daily, the first month was hard as fuck to sleep.

But it's month three now and I have no trouble at all.
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>>43860133
You've already recognized the possibility that hedonism is not a fulfilling lifestyle. Even If you suspend yourself in the illusion you will eventually recognize you want something more and all the efforts you put toward that lifestyle will be in vain. Chasing desires is a dead end and you already know it.

You aren't potato enough to live in bliss forever.
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>>43860238
Is having all of that really outside the scope of the average person? I don't think so. Having a nice body is often more than enough to at least grant you access to sexual pleasures if you intend to go looking for it, and regularly at that thanks to the hookup culture of today. Enjoying nice food and drink is subjective, because this doesn't have to equate to wealthy food. An example of this is that I would derive pleasure from learning japanese cuisine, or french, but these are actually normal, every day foods that are often inexpensive, except I just lack the knowledge to cook them at this point in time. Drink would be the same way. Cutting edge technology we can equate to wealth, but in my experience, if you have a desire to earn and a desire to learn, you can be very successful in this country (USA). I would be perfectly content working a job I make enough money from to afford me all of these things, but that doesn't mean I would have to be working at google or walstreet to make this a reality.
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>>43860274
If you take it for any type of focus or energy. Is 15mg usually the minimum to feel something? The only time I ever get motivated anymore is when I'm working out, unless I get hooked to a game or show which is rare.
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>>43860238
it depends on the job, some low wage people work all day and some high wage people work all day.
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>>43860246
How come rich and famous people commit suicide? How come well off men/women in loving marriages w/children cheat on their partners?
Unconditional love brings true happiness, but fulfilment comes from sacrifice.
Wealth, job security, sex... its all materialistic bullshit that serves only yourself.
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>>43858885
I took zoloft for 3 years (perscribed) and it just made me feel totally emotional numb and eventually into a deep sadness. My life improved hugely when I stopped taking them
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>>43860275
Obviously you cant unswallow a red pill, but I think that doesnt bar you from at least enjoying some of the more shallower things in life along the way

no need to go overboard, I recognize that selfie culture isn't necessarily a good thing, but theres nothing really inherently wrong with people posting pictures of themselves and chronicling their lives on social media, and I dont think theres anything inherently wrong that I partake and enjoy that culture

these things often get ruined by a small but loud minority of brainless shallow people who only live vicariously through the likes of other people on their social media platforms
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Unrelenting optimism.

I may be a wizard at 32, but I'm over halfway to my goal weight so 2018 is looking bright.

Before anyone reminds me not to lift for women, I'm getting in shape to beat diabetes (which is working). Looking less awful is a side benefit, not the goal.
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>>43856993
DOnt listin to this guy we are here for you
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>>43859274
Careful with this reasoning - some people are just insanely fertile and you don't know til it happens
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>>43860329
entirely coincidental

under that logic, you're telling me that there comes no fulfillment from achieving wealth, achieving a good job with job security, putting in the work to obtain a good physique, then reaping the benefits by having fun with some sexual partners? None of that requires sacrifice ? The time i'm putting in at school to get a job I enjoy, the time I put in at the gym to achieve a physique that I admire, but that also others admire, these are not sacrifices?

It's all about how you frame the narrative
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>>43860306
>If you take it for any type of focus or energy

I take it to be able to act like a normal human being, so focus yeah sure, energy? Mostly mental, physical? No.

>Is 15mg usually the minimum to feel something?

Hell if I know I don't feel the high anymore since the first week~. But remember if you do take adderall that the first week~ you take it you'll get a euphoria side effect that is extremely addicting so watch yourself and remember you can never catch that high again. Also note my adhd is pretty severe

>The only time I ever get motivated anymore is when I'm working out, unless I get hooked to a game or show which is rare.

Yep this was me, it was not adhd but depression caused by my adhd, once I got medicated and started moving my life forward I have motivation for anything.
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>>43860352
Sure but your scheme only works when life is going well for you. It's better to find fulfillment in things that you can rely on in good and bad times. If your family is wiped out in a plane crash and you get disfigured in a terrible accident you better have something other than shallow shit going for you.

Never said to not enjoy "lesser" pleasures but those are basically ornamental and you won't be very interested in them if you are old and reflecting on your life's history. Basically, don't make your hedonic pleasures your primary desires.
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>>43860329
How can all of that be sacrifice if EVERYONE is doing it. If everyone was truly sacrificing themselves, there would be nobody left
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>>43860389
>How can all of that be sacrifice if EVERYONE is doing it. If everyone was truly sacrificing themselves, there would be nobody left
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>>43860504
are you suggesting you need to become a martyr to feel fulfilled
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>>43860406
I'm don't think I have ADHD. I'm just your normal unmotivated fuck. Depressed? Maybe. Not really too uncommon anymore. I can function in public fairly normal though.

I'm not trying to make light of your adhd. I'm just curious if addy might help at all every once in a while. I don't want to become a pill popper.
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>>43860212
Check to see what your insurance covers first. You might find yourself with a hefty bill if you aren't careful.
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>>43860520
Never took it as you taking light of my adhd, but using it once in a while would be fine, if not great since you'll get that euphoria over and over, all you have to make sure is not to get addicted and your good bro.
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>>43860517
I'm suggesting that the more you give/sacrifice for others, the more enlightened you may feel. Saying you go to school, lift weights and fuck thots doesn't sound very fucking fulfilling.
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>>43856944
I cut out all girls from my life, and delete all social media, stopped going out and now just lift, work, study, play games, repeat.
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>>43860616
This is my life also, wake up, take medication, fuck around for 4 hours, take meds, study, lift, chill for a bit, sleep.
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>>43860616
>>43860639
I basically did this after graduating college until I was 30. Now I'm a wizard and trying to get dates.

You think you can just forget about it, but you won't. Sooner or later you remember you are lonely. The longer you wait to do something about it the easier it is to become bitter.

I'm not saying you need to change what you are doing, I'm just warning you that ignoring the problem isn't the same ss dealing with it.
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>>43860664
I'm prepping for college right now, so I will most likely change it up once i'm in, thanks for the advice though.
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>>43860664
I've tried everything I could. Most people don't like me. Most people hang out once and never again.
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Have kids and find a way to ditch the mother. That is true purpose and happiness.
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>>43856944
that is the exact furniture I have in my apartment. dae live in waterloo here?
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>>43857034

if you are addicted to porn, honestly quit for a month, no jerking off either and you will notice how much better you'd feel, it ain't no meme my friend.
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>>43859297
are you me?
do this to bump my self esteem when im feeling especially crummy

>tfw u get like 20 new matches with guys within minutes after switching gender preferences on tinder
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bros i keep going soft during sex and i am not sure why
>hooking up with qt redhead
>she mentions using a condom
>ok, she starts riding me but she's kinda bad at it
>kinda crushing my pelvis with her body
>i go soft
>we keep going and i get hard again

she asked me if i came and i said no, the feeling was dreadful.

this has happened with a few chicks i've been with and i think i get into a mental cycle of being worried about not performing

how do i stop doing this? i've been on nofap for around a week now. it's too embarrassing to mention to people irl and i don't want to keep dissappointing my lovers. i told her tht i was a little nervous. she's really into me but did i fuck up and show weakness by saying that?

maybe condoms make me soft, but i always feel like i'm fucking up. still never came with a chick :-(
any advice ?
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>>43861005
try eating spicy food and garlic on the day before fucking a few hours before. I used to have anxiety induced ED because I would just think too much brah. On top of this one of my exes would just ridicule me about my refraction period and made me feel pretty worthless in bed sometimes. Alot of it can be in your mind, I have a new gf and she doesn't have as much sexual experience as my shitty ex, and she doesn't judge me in bed. This fact alone has improved everything about my performance. Keep researching and if everything has failed then it's medical dude. Godspeed.
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>>43859185
I pulled out but she still got preggo. even a little bit of pre cum could knock up a girl. Just pray you didn't bro.
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>>43856944
You lift them
If you keep lifting heavier feels it means you're getting stronger.
You can make it bruh
We all can.
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>>43859868
this was me until i got chlamydia
condom's aren't just a meme kids
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>>43858711
Delet
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>>43861064
spare me pupper
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>>43859185
>Not blasting inside and wishing yourself a happy father's Day with a trip to the hardware story every year just in case

Shiggy diggy my man
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I recommended a dosage of watching Zyzz - Inspirational Speeches on YouTube in the early morning before starting my day desu.
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>>43859878
Whenever texting an ex or girl who is like that, never ask a question. Always keep your response short and end it.
>how's you
>good thanks.

or, the best course of action

>never reply
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>tfw plan to get ex back very well on track
>tfw might have just messaged her once too much on a stressful night and she hasn't responded

might have to take a few days off from it ffs hate not getting replied to
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>>43860133
because you'll burn out. this is relative though.
if you think hugh hefner had an enviable old age i guess you can try
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>>43856944
Everyday is blessed
Find happiness in progress
Still I yearn for death
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>>43863525
why do you want her back?
what changed?
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>new class
>meet new girl
>starting to like her more and more
>we become good friends
>introduce her to my best friend
>they end up falling in love
>now we all hang out together, we are all so happy
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>>43863976
we broke up because she has a lot of work and stuff going on and not a lotof spare time. we saw each other recently and it was very good and seemed like everything was going well.

what changed was that I wanted her to realise that life is adaptable and that we could work. I wanted her back from the moment we ended, but her talking abou t how she's finally finding a routine and wanting to see me again made everything seem possible.

What I need to do is pull my head in and stop talking to her daily. we've talked nearly every day for a week.
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I'm getting fit for the sole purpose of being able to talk to girls, I don't want to be lonely anymore

Are you telling me being fit doesn't make you more confident?
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>>43864390
What you’re doing is the same as a wanna be business man in a trade school, you’re training is not going to lead to your desired goal. The only way to gain confidence is to actually talk to people
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>>43864196
its sounds like she enjoys the attention but has no desire to actually get back together, be cautious anon, i have been in this situation too
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aUpbe7ysXw8
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>You can try all you want, she's not going to be yours
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>>43864423
yep it is a possibility. I do know she is going away early next week with her family and has to pack prior to the weekend as she's busy over the course of the weekend. that's what I think she was doing when I messaged tonight, well that and other stuff she always has on. I was going to see if she wanted to hang out this weekend if she had spare time but id say that's a bit of a bad idea. we spoke briefly, and after a bit apologised saying she had to go to her social sport and that we'd talk later, but never got back to me. hopefully she just replies tomorrow.
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>>43859436
Sounds like some legit depression my guy, you should find somewhere to talk about it
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>>43864390
It makes you yoked up but more fragile than a faberge egg
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>>43858711
When does it stop?
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>>43856944
I’ve given up on girls, so no feels from tfw gf. I’ve got good friends and my family beside me so no loneliness feels either. I just wonder how long I can hold out.
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>>43857018
I just broke with my gf after she went back to Italy. Enjoy it while it last and I hope you have big gains.
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>>43860639
>This is my life also
>Conveniently leaves out "work"
Fuck you, anon
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>>43861064
spare me pupper
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>>43859667
iktf anon. Compared to her alle other girls have shitty and flat personalities.
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>>43864654
Im the same but I usually get 2 months around fall that I get a strong tfw no gf.
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>You think about her more than she thinks about you
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>>43857588
Fuck I know this feeling
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Have a younger guy gunning for my job related to one project which he is also on

Not sure how to stop this since it looks like another dept has been doing "work" without informing me and than they act like we are friends when I'm around.

>kek
>They are good and knowledgeable when it comes to this one project
>They can't do the other things that I do
>Horrible feels to go through since others act like why are they doing this and that...
>They have no respect for my dept but when something happens and they cant fix it, who do they run to?
>When their dept doesn't follow basic instructions and fuck up, who do they run to?

I hate my job, and not the feels I wanted to come to work with this Thursday morning
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Go to restaurant with friends
I'm the fat guy in the group
Waitress doesn't acknowledge me
Only talks to the "leader of the friends group"
WTF, I'm a fucking grown ass man.
>These bitches aint shit
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>>43856944
I wake up and fall asleep full of selfhate and regrets every day. Serously need to talk to some professional about it but Iam to afraid.
Lifting and food preparations kept me alive the last year
No clue what to do after Iam done with lifting since I havnt made real progress in 10 months, already wanna give up
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>>43856944
>go to university function
>get added and messaged by 5 girls from it when I get home
>accept none
>close tab
>think about her

It never goes away
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>>43866280
Not even Chad escapes the feels
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>>43866060
No, you're a pussy and the omega in the group. Why would anyone care about your existence?
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>get a gf
>everything in life now seems x10 more dull and the feels of suicide increase substantially.

This wasnt suppose to be how it works.
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>>43856944

fix your sleep hygiene and get a fuken SAD lamp m80
start every day for a month with a 20 min session of brekkie in front of ur lamp after a restful 8 hours and then come back
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Just came home from work

Ex-girlfriend unblocked me after months and months
Feels weird seeing her profile pic, not in a bad or good way that is

Really contemplating on joining a powerlifting gym, there's one in my town and the people there look normal, no arabs, no turks no assholes and they've won some awards too

Other than that, i think i'm once again being content with being alone
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I'm turning 25 in a few months. Is it too late for me to make it? I need to turn back time and do what I'm doing now 5 or 8 years ago....
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>>43857588
I am all too aware of this feel
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>see ex's new profile pic after months of NC
>looks rather slutty
>get mad that she does
>remember her look all natural without the slutiness
>her chat is now residing on my chat list

god fucking DAMN
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>>43864527
DELET
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I'm so fucking depressed right now. I have no one to talk to and even breathing feels hard.
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i dont know whats going on in this girl's mind and its kinda pissing me off
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>>43866223
You sound like me, expect because of an injury I'm constantly tired, my workouts are shit and I don't have the energy to cook meals anymore.

Tbh though sometimes I still manage to laugh at my situation. We should probably start going to Church or something.
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>>43866960
Go to the gym. Make a friend.
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>>43867010
I have a cold so I can't even go to the gym. I have just been drinking beer and crying at home. Sorry to vent, I just feel so awful.
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>eat, go to sleep and wake up alone
>get slower and slower at hauling myself out of bed and to work every day
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>>43866960
You can vent here anon
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>>43859724
Get another girlfriend, make a big deal out of showing her off to the first girl. Keep telling her how happy you are and how glad the two of you are friends, she will eventually cave when she realises she can't get you.
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>>43857588
Delet pls. I still see that 8/10 introvert qt, as she is sitting behind me every Thursday in college in German-speaking course and when I turn around she catches my look and smiles awkwardly, then she looks on the desk and to the side and i don't know how to speak to her, because she is even bigger autist than me and walks out after the class with earphones on with speed of a running rhino. Bros why live..
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>>43867176
>New girls comes on my class, don't talk to her much but develop a crush
>At our prechristmas party last saturday I tell her how I feel and we hook up
>Spend the next couple of days in bed together
>She even calls me at 4:30am and asks me to come to her place
>She tells me she's had a guy before me, with whom she has slept with casually and apparently she's had a crush on him (But he has been cold to her)
>Get too emotional and ask herself to commit to me
>I leave so we can think things over
>She texts me we shouldn't see each other outside school
>Tell her I'm okay with a more casual relationship and it was unfair to ask to commit as we had only been together for less than a week.
>She told me she would think about that and that she would speak things over with the guy about getting serious.

The wait is killing me.
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>>43856993
fuck off faggot
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>>43867342
U fugged up m8 this aint gonna end pretty, shes a sloot, and i think you know that but you feel in love with a sloot anyways
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Don't want a gf or anything, sick of them for awhile, had a bad run. But I really wanna get with a girl, sex, makeout, whatever. But I have no way of meeting girls, I don't work with any, school is over, and I stopped with Tinder cause it just wasn't working
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>>43866921
Lol I wouldnt worry about physical gains you sound dumb as shit try getting smarter 25 isn't old
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>>43867583
Yeah I feel fucking awful. I just hope things work out or I don't know what I'll do.
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>>43867342
iktf anon. Ex gf had also an fwb and had feelings for him, but got turned down.
I think he was one of the reasons why she broke up with me.
Don't get too attached or you'll get hert very badly.
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suffering from oneitis right now.
Met her on a train ride. We had a nice pleasent conversation for 30-40 minutes and her smile just lit up my world. However I was too shy to ask if she'd like to exchange numbers when she left the train. Been 10 days and I'm beating myself up because I probably won't ever see her again.
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>>43866986
Iam also constantly tired too and only do my meals to at least try to not fuckup my lift progress. Feels like Iam stuck. At least 4chan gave some distraction for almost an decade but I cant stand the reddlt obsession, political shit on every board and multi-layerd irony anymore. Gotten so boring
Always thought about to practice relegion. Worked for several months as some kind of janitor for my local church. Many nice people who geniunely cared for me, good times
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>>43867711
Easier said than done. I hate how I feel like a stupid teenager who can't control his feelings. She was the best thing that has happened to me in ages.
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>>43856993
Kill yourself, go back to the reddit
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>>43868004
Always shoot your shot anon, worst case scenario is she says no
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>>43856944
Feelz = Realz

Im on the Rollercoaster feeling like I'm 17 getting all hopped up over a girl. I'm all excited to kiss her. Fuck dude. I like the feelz though
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>>43858711
I know that feel
Around our break up, I cheated on her three times, she never found out but broke up anyway, and have been having sex with a new girl I met a week later for the last year or so. She's hotter, cuter, but nowhere close as smart as her... And I miss her
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>>43868133
I think the same about my ex. I want her back so badly, but she won't ever come back.
So I the only way for us is to not get too jaded. Maybe you'll find another qt soon. And I know it's easier said, than done.
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>>43858711
I can't stop thinking about it
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>>43858711
STOP
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>ex leaves me
>I'm borken up and accidentally start a small cult
My problem is that I'm too stupid to make money out of this situation
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>2013
>get out of hospital after lengthy stay because of back surgery complications
>decide to get /fit/
>best shape of my life
>get qt bf (n-no homo)
>become complacent
>stall out
>think i dont need to try hard anymore
>slowly gain weight
>bf and I have a falling out
>start college late (because of surgery)
>freshman 15
>freshman 50
>become huge pot head and weekend drinker
>gain all 70lbs back i lost
>gain more
>worst shape of my life, contemplating suicide every day
>finally come back to /fit/
>making progress, but thinking how absolutely shredded id be right now if id just stuck to it all along


Don't fall for the weed meme like me /fit, dont ever get complacent
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>>43868423
do NOT think of that unless you're doing it once in a while to get a psychological boost to do better
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Last week I asked my crush out, she agreed to go out with me next Thursday.Today, out of the blue, she tells me she is seeing another guy and that she is just ok with me being her friend.I think this is the worst day of my life until now.
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>>43858711

When will it end? It's been 6 months. I thought I would be ok by now.
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>>43860903
I didn't watch porn for a month and things were still shit
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What if you feel massive emptiness constantly? Compared to what I was 10 years ago, I'm doing more than fine. Before I was a fucking hermit who was afraid to leave his room, had fucking pissbottles in my room, FUCKING PISSBOTTLES!!1
I overcame a huge amount of irrational fears, I have a friend who's got my back, I have shittons of acquaintances, people who I've lived and partied with who still remember and think fondly of me, I get along with most people at work and have no problem in keeping a steady job. I'm no pushover, if anything I have to take extra care not to offend people these day since I come off too strong most times, especially If I let loose.
Still no luck with bitches but in the past I never even put any substantial effort into getting women, but not too long ago I flipped the switch on that process as well, so I'll get there eventually.
But, whenever I'm alone, I feel this massive void in my chest and I just don't know how to fill it! What am I missing? What do I need?
I know I have more than most people but I feel like I have nothing! Why? What the fuck is wrong with me?!
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>>43868447
I don't think about it much, just when I'm really down in the dumps. Sometimes it almost feels good to be in that place though because it motivates me to keep improving my life
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>>43856944
Hear me out guys need some advice, maybe I'm overreacting I need some objectivity on the matter
>got hot gf, seems all good so far, likes me a lot always puts out etc
>been learning to drive for a few months now, got my test booked for next month (UKfag)
>she always says how she can't wait until I can drive so we can go more places etc
>doesn't really bother me but she does say it a lot
>she went to the gym tonight with one of her friends
>texts me 'so and so's boyfriend is giving us a lift home, can't wait until my boyfriend can drive :)'
Idk that really fucking triggered me like I am literally a perfect BF she has never had anybody like me before not even close, none of that cuck shit but I am very stable, never get jealous/we have never had an argument. have a very /fit/ body, dress well, well off financially and all this stuff and she still finds a reason to complain like this.
Am I overreacting or what?
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>>43866953
the chat going down the list is so hard to see. I would think about who she is talking to, and the guy getting the attention and emojis which would just destroy me.
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>wasted life on stupid shit
>lonely as fuck
>start meeting girls
>started making money
>feels good at first
>quickly loses its appeal
>surrounded by people and all these things I wanted
>still so fucking lonely

what the fuck am I missing
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>>43868612
stop overreacting it's just bantz
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>>43868612

I'm going to assume you're young and she's even younger. Bitch probably watched one too many rap videos and thinks that when you get your wheels she's gonna look (((lit))) and start bragging to her friends left and right. Ignore it, it's schoolgirl rambling.

Protip, don't drink and drive. Push never came to shove but I regret endangering so many people that many times.
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>>43856993
oh some edgy reddit "kys" faggot how R A R E
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>>43858711
try 6 years
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>>43868527
you might belong on reddit

fuck off
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>>43868612
Women don't understand banter, so it's not bantz.

>never had anybody like me
So she's a slut who's fucked 5 guys before you, no wonder it doesn't make a difference for her if she's onto her 6th or 16th boyfriend now.
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>>43864646
when another one comes along and does the same thing.

second times a charm.
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>>43868693
I have a wife, house, dog and 130k a year job and still feel the same. It never goes away.
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>>43869236
delet
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>>43858818
Probably my advice will be garbage, but try talking to various people more.
I got my job because I talked.got kinda friendly with a guy who worked at gas station and turned out he was leaving, so he tipped me. Now he could help me try to get a better paying job at place he is working at.

Gotta look confident and smile, too. It's hard, but otherwise people might respect you less. I wasn't hired at one company because I was shy at interview, despite the interviewer being a friend of my brother's friend.

I live in Poland, tho, so job market might look different.
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>>43868693
That void will never go away. Something will always be missing. If you are not religious, get used to it. No matter how successful you are, how happy your family is, how perfect your world is, there will always be something missing
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>>43858711
5 months here , still feel it a tiny bit
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>>43867327
same nigga who wrote the last speech. FUCKING. TALK. TO. HER. find her before class, speak to her. if you cant do that even talk to her in class and just fucking ask for her number so you can talk later. honestly do not let this pass, you will have bigger regrets NOT talking to her than you would if you did talk to her and just messed up. Just finding the courage to take the first few steps is the hardest part. as soon as you start talking to her things will just flow naturally, the only thing you have holding you back is your pre-concieved notions that you arent good enough or that you will fail, but the moment the ice is broken everything will come naturally to you. if you cant do this for yourself, at least do it for me. DO NOT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE I DID.
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>>43864093
You practically became a wingman.
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Stop smoking weed, stop drinking, stop playing video games.

What you seek are experiences and relationships with others to have said experiences with. Put yourself out there. Go to the park, visit the beach, go to the big city and visit free events like art shows and some museums. Even if you have to do these things alone at first. Go hiking alone, write your thoughts in a journal at the summit. Start high fiving people you don't know as you walk by them on the street for no reason. Get numbers of people you like, invite them to go with you to the above experiences. Many will flake, but the ones worth waiting on will stick. This is the only way to kill the bad feels so that the good ones may rise from their ashes. You're not alone. Find a warm body to see this pale blue dot in the middle of space with.
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>>43869637
>>43869849

You're right btw, the only way to change is actually stop the shit that makes you so comfortable with yourself while living in filth

Stop smoking weed, drinking, video games especially!!

The shit that makes you comfortable is the shit that is ruining us all
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>>43869849

Lmao this one is great
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>>43869865
you mean shitposting on 4chan.
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>>43869975
Yea, constant shitposting is actually dangerous for mental health

I've looked at some interesting studies recently, basically the shit we do on the internet is actually unhealthy for us
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>>43856944
>Be me
>Work for a programming coursework in my first year of uni
>It's pretty hard but I work a lot of time, started it early and worked it on schedule and intensely, trying to make it work perfectly
>Get to the marking
>The marker literally tells me that "This code is good, it does everything as intended" but still gives me just a 2:1 (which is around 60%)

Wtf man, I am so dissapointed right now, and it's worse because it's not because I know I didn't put enough time into it. It is because I've really tried to make my code pristine the way I know and I thought about it, put in many hours, working on time and staying late at night to work on it yet I still failed to get the highest grade.
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>>43870138
Ask him for more feedback and advice. Ask him what you could've done better. Remember you are still learning and if the code did what it was supposed to doyou did well, now just ask more and more in depth feedback from your teacher and learn more. Keep putting the work.you are putting into it and you will be succesfull.
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>>43859364
>>43860361
>>43867540
>>43868163
>>43869108
fags
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>>43859672
Women are incapable of doing the honorable thing.
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>>43870250
how do i into fuck boi lads? I sorted myself after n osex for 5 years. met a girl I see a few days a week

>get bj
>hold hands and shit when together
>kiss and cuddle
>she wants to just be fuck buddies
>she tells me she fucked someone else
>I can not look at her without feeling sick

How do i get sex without it feeling so empty. I can not enjoy it without feels, am I an faghot?
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>>43859672
Why didn't you approach her to ask waddup?
For all you know she didn't get the text or you used a wrong number and now she's avoiding you because she thinks you didn't text her.
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>>43868612
She didn't realise that she was complaining, or making you out to be less than this guy. Women are stupid bro, and i'd probably be pissed too, so idk that you're overreacting, but its unlikely she meant it like what you think, she probably just thought she was encouraging you. If she did do it to fuck with you though you should probably drop her immediately
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>>43859724
I know guys like you. The attraction is all in your mind and not even the slightest in hers. Best to move on because "relationships" like those can turn obsessive and stalkey real fast.
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>>43870292

I want fwb but all hoes want relationahips :(
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>>43870370
plz trade
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>>43857083
Do it man hurry and do it or someone else will. Don't live with the regret of not doing the right thing bro. I believe in you m8
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>>43868693
>>43869236
>>43869378
Maybe lack or a real passion? Reason you want to work hard even though you don't always feel like it? Just some thoughts
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>>43868402
>accidentally start a small cult

Explain
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>>43867150
are you me
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>>43866921
30 yr old here. This attitude is cancer. If only I started 5 years ago.
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>>43856944
I'm fallin gapart and my only escape from reality is slipping further and further into madness

Anyway, my six pack is coming in okay.
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>>43870138
i used to think like this, remember the thing that seperates you from the stuipid image in your head of yourself is not giving up
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>>43871293
Sorry for the late reply

basically as soon as she broke up with me I reevalued everything in my life and I started reading and researching a lot. I ended up finding a method to get my shit together, I told my friends and they told their friends so long story short now I have to old a speec every sunday, I go to a person's house, usually some of my friends are there as well, I tell them about my story and I get some free lunch/snacks
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>>43860356
solid work man keep going. You're going to make it
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>>43867616
>Knows she use to casually sleep with another dude before him
>sleeps with you while she has a crush on another dude
>wants things to work out

Bro. She doesn't even fucking think straight and you want her to commit? Commit to what? to you? We all know this is a disaster waiting to happen. If she put you off for another guy then think what else she might do. She basically said you're her backup plan. you NEVER become anyones backup plan. Forget her and move on Anon. This is for the good of you, Brother.
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I know this feel dude
I've been a NEET since leaving the job I had after graduation for a few months.
I've been doing random side gigs, lately I've been doing background extra work in NYC. It's definitely not a long term option, but it's a decent way to meet random people, which is something everyone who's been alone for too long needs to do. Don't ever go cocoon mode brahs, it NEVER works out.
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>>43859347
>tfw still haven't gotten over oneitis for random girl I went on 3 dates with two months ago and then she ghosted me
I'm mad bros, she was fucking cute, in all honesty, she was too good for me, and probably never intended to have a relationship with me, but damn guys she was literally my ideal gf
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>>43856944
it is just the reality of life my bruh

push through it till you die I guess
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>>43859724
People are right. You should stop for both your sakes
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>>43868612
>very stable
>never get jealous
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i hate myself for not working hard enough, for not being perfect to my boyfriend, and i deserve every bad thing that happens to me and i deserve every time he snaps at me. he deserves better than me. i don't know how to deal with these feels
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>>43858711
I hate this feel
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I’m always going to be alone, I’ll have no friends and no gf until about 40 when I off myself

Can’t deny it any more bros
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>>43874163
You sound depressed. Go see a therapist.
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anyone ever feel like you'll never meet anyone as loyal as yourself
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>>43856944
>They're getting heavier and heavier by the day, how do you deal with them bros?
You get stronger everyday, everyday a new PR.
Just remember to keep good form.
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had a random fling with a girl i'd never expect to be into me. it lasted a month, we texted everyday, had sex every weekend, we were both super into each other and all of a sudden she goes no contact on me. it's been a week and i find out through social media that shes hanging out with another guy like she did with me. she wasnt even my girl but i feel like my heart got ripped right from my chest. why the fuck do i feel so hurt and why the fuck cant i stop thinking about her... and to add on that, today i ruined a good friendship with a girl by coming on to her in an attempt to forget about the fling... hold me bros i feel like a gigantic piece of fucking shit
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She dumped me out of the blue through text last Saturday, after being in a relationship for a month. I talked with her on Monday and she told me she didn't want to have her heart broken again, and she preferred to keep me as a friend.
She was my first everything (not underageb&, just never felt the need to have a gf) and I loved her. We were going to bake a cake this Tuesday. It hurts so much.
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>>43858711
iktfb. 26 Nov, 5 years ago and it feels like no one can be as good as her in every way like she was. It was so easy to be myself around her, and I couldn't find any flaw with her, but I had to fuck it up. Every girl I date I compare to her and it feels like a facade for me to feel any joy with anyone but her.
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>>43856944
Had major depression in my last job, ballooned up as a result, I was a fat, unhappy fuck.

How I fixed it:
>decided to sack up and move back out to Asia like I'd wanted to for 5 years
>quit my job
>ditched my shitty apartment
>started lifting
>improved diet
>got new job in HK
>fixed my ED through nofap, noporn, and fucking any woman I could during the nofap period
>started BJJ

You'll fix yourself with a range of stuff, it's never one thing. I'm a much better man than I was in January though, I'll say that
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>fall in love with gym qt
>no balls to go talk to her
>wouldn't know what to say anyway
>yesterday
>talking to a new kid at the gym who asks me for help occasionally
>turbo dyel, only cares about getting abs, but a nice kid
>talking about gym girls
>I mention qt
>he says she followed him on instagram and even PMed him

It hurts lads. I hate being an introvert.
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>friend has gf
>get a long well with her, she always hugs me first when we see each other and hangs around me at parties
>one time were drunk at club and she places her head in my lap but moves it quickly
>eventually she breaks up with my friend

what do /fit/
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>>43874163
If you don't love yourself, do you really have time to love someone else
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>>43858711
Jesus Christ how are you sad fucks still upset over a girl after two fucking years? Even 3 months is starting to push it..
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>>43874671
Good on you mate. I hope you'll keep it up for all of us.
>>43875000
Don't sweat it lad. She would be lucky to have you, just keep doing things for yourself.
>>43875141
That's your moral code. Frankly, if your friend is a good true friend, no. Otherwise, your call.
>>43874611
That's shitty man. I'm sorry. She's fucked in the head. She'll regret leaving you. (Please don't keep in contact with her.)

>been in uni
>coursework eats my time
>finals over
>realized I have nothing to show personally.
>no gains, no mental gains, no interests
>have nothing to look forward to
>couldn't sleep
>feel like the girl I'm seeing doesn't have any feeling, have to initiate everything
>wouldn't kiss me, might be because sick
>tfw no perceived value

It's alright, I hope with enough of the break I can love who I am again
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>>43861005
STOP WATCHING PORN


90 day minimum reset
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>>43875141
don't cuck your friend mate.
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>>43857018
After she swarms in that nigger refugee cock afterwards, I'm sure she will forget about you
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>>43860266
just forget about that thot there is a lot of bitches around
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>>43861005
do not forget that may be bitches's fault
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>Lifts going down
>Ex out of nowhere contacts me, resides on my contact list
>Browsing /fit/ for god knows how long a day
Ffs this is my end
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>>43856993
gay cunt, bet you dont have a chin
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>>43864390
having a fit body doesnt make it easier, just increase the chance of getting dates.
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>>43860133
Because it is easy. It is a cop out. A life without perpetual struggle or suffering is inherently meaningless. Although I think I am doomed to be miserable either way
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>>43866288
kek
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>>43867611
buy prostitutes
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Qt 5'2 girlfriend ruined my gym routine, made me drink excessively then fucked her ex, we made up, got back together, she broke it off, we try again, and she did the same. I know it's all my doing, and i'm the fool, but why is it so addictive getting hurt by someone you love?
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>>43868456
its sucks but the earlier the better, she was just doing for the attention. Forget about her
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>>43868456
cut contact, no friends, if she reaches out fair game, be brutal
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>>43868527
thats exactly how i feel, that void is boredom, try to find what you love to do, dont try to fill it with a gf because that isnt going to work
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tfw you want her back in your life but you remember how much she changed
for the worse that is
full blown feminism, nose piercing, probably cut hair, muh patriarchy and all that siht

this girl was literally spoouting nigger jokes a year back

christ
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>>43875551
if she can go one way, she can go back the other, It will take time, live your life and see what happens
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>>43875658
i do hope so anon but i can't and will not wait for that to happen
really don't know what's been happening to her lately
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>>43869637
>stop smoking weed
I don't smoke weed
>Stop drinking
I don't drink anything besides water, milk and juice
>stop playing video games
I don't play videos games
>stop watching tv
I added this one in, but its also something I don't do

I'm as miserable as ever btw, slowly losing sanity from isolation at the age of 20
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>>43869637
>Start high fiving people you don't know as you walk by them on the street for no reason.
top zozzle
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>>43856944
>finally gf my gym crush

The relationship is perfect in every way and she thinks the world of me and I am very sure she wouldn'tcheat on me.
Also she has not had that many partners before me given her looks and instagram following, but still I get the worst case of retroactive jealousy and is is making me distant. She looks very innocent but she has still slept with more people that I am comforable with, even though that I have slept with three times her score.

I'm probably projecting my own past fucked up sexual experiences on to her thinking she has done similar stuff, even though she most likely hasn't. I have seen and done too much stuff with girls to be able to believe that the girl I choose to partner with would be any different.
What do?
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>>43875914
>The relationship is perfect in every way and she thinks the world of me and I am very sure she wouldn'tcheat on me.
this is lit er ally what every guy says before getting cheat on
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>>43875914
>but she has still slept with more people that I am comforable with, even though that I have slept with three times her score
So you slept with more people than she has and you're jealous of her
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>>43875914
can already tell you're not gonna make it
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>want her back so badly
>know it will end with her cheating on me again
all i do all day is struggle with these two realities
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>>43875936
Well that would apply to anyone then would it?
Trust me, I know the signs.

>>43875941
>So you slept with more people than she has and you're jealous of her
Pretty much.

>>43875951
How so Anon?
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>>43875963
>Trust me, I know the signs.
we all say that anon, we all regret it the second she turns on us, just keep your eyes open
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>>43875483
>A life without perpetual struggle or suffering is inherently meaningless
OKAY MARCUS
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>>43875963
>Pretty much.
The fuck is your problem then? Christ almighty i swear
Having a sexual experienced partner is wayyy better than a stiff virgin
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>>43856944
To all anons in this thread, it's important to remember: you think about her more than she thinks about you.
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>>43856944

there is no escape until man has had enough of a mediocre and meaningless existence
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>>43875985
why would she send me voicechats at 2 am after im sleeping even if she has a bf then
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>>43875985
no shit retard
its all i think about
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>>43875985
>>43876012
why would she unblock me, tell me to mail her stuff and then block me again
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>>43876015
>>43875985
This is pretty sad tho. Think about it, she's been moving on so quickly after everything that it seems the quality time you two spent together was for nothing
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>>43858711
pls delet
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>>43876038
it was for nothing, i was merely a distraction until someone "better" came along
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>>43876146
hurts dunnit
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>>43876170
yeah, i moved to another city to try and escape the feels, it only mildly helped.
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>>43876190
feel ya. my "she" moved way closer to me, broke up in the middle of moving
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>>43861064
spare me pupper
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>>43861064
just end it, pupper.
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>>43860274
I have a script for vyvanse and addy . Try not to take it too much, just when you really need it. At least get on some antioxidants: ALA, ALCAR, CoQ10. Amphetamines are neurotoxic and you don't want to fuck yourself over long term.
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>>43860356
Good job brother
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>>43875141
The way I see it with this kind of thing, if you see yourself being in love with this girl your friend might understand, but you might lose him forever. The best thing is to always have your brother's back.
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>>43859689
My industry is one big manager hopping board. Nobody stays in their supervision role for more than 2 years. It's expected to climb up the ladder.

So here I am, a tech, busting my ass. Get good treatment, but then that manager, or that other one is gone. Start a working relationship all over. If only I could have the feels you have.
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>>43876556
>>43875141
she will cheat on anon, emotionally maybe a tad physically
just like she did with anon on her bf

in the trash it goes
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>>43875975
Thanks for the giggle m8
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>>43866489
go join that gym anon
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>>43876569
>Get good treatment

maybe there is something I can learn? How do you kiss ass or suck up to bosses? How do you get good treatment from them?

I usually only focus on work and I don't kiss anyone ass. I say this because I've had people kiss my ass and suck up to me but I'm different, it doesn't mean you'll be getting anything from me if you kiss my ass

Respect is earned
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>>43859724
do not keep giving here that sweet sweet validation. She wants to know that she is desirable and where she stands on the hierarchy (of the sexual marketplace). Since she can get something better she will only settle for you if that better thing disappears. There are more Chads out there too.
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>>43874517
>today i ruined a good friendship with a girl by coming on to her in an attempt to forget about the fling

Nah bruh, that's a good attitude, you understand why it failed and you had a go and if it paid off - great. Keep at it, some many just give up, take the embarrassing rejections on the chin, play the numbers game and when it pays off you wont care about the battles lost.
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>>43875498
had one yesterday that did a back oil massage... used her big polish boobs as an aid. didn't even bother with the up and down stuff. no gf would even bother doing that and just chatted afterwards and watched her funny little face move around, even told me she had no bf.
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>>43858793
>180kg deadlift
nice

i can do about 70
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Things are going to be tough today. I can feel it already. About to try some berthing exercises
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>>43859724
She's just really good at playing you. Even if she likes you, you don't want to be her second best.
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>Get close with this girl over two smesters of classes we were both in
>Have a little dinner date at the mall last week
>Goes good
>Text her later asking her on a "real date"
>Says sorry but no
>Not ready for another relationship after leaving a 5 year one recently
> Says she Considers me a good friend

It's col and all I got rejected, but the salt in the wound was the friend line. I then see she is actually hooking up with some other guy on social media.

I just feel shitty, I'm fine with the rejection and not bitter,just sad and lonely guys. But I will say that it makes me want to hit the gym harder than ever to release what i'm feeling, so I guess thats nice.
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>>43868456
what an awful person, don't be her friend
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>ex girlfriend is completely distant
>no empathy
>no sympathy
>no nothing
it's like she forgot the past 2 years ever happened

hurts more than the actual break-up famalam
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>>43865492
That get me. I sill wonder what she is doing sometimes.
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>>43877055
Yeah but you're ex's now, so that's the point, you move on from each other. Usually implying you'll never really connect on even a friend level again.
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>>43877056
>>43865492
Wished my "her" a happy birthday after 4 years
Got the "liked" button
She looks rather sad-ish on her picture, standing all alone

Thought about texting her, but that'd bring up the last 3,4 pls respond messages from years ago
The dilemma.gif
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>>43877066
well, of course that's what being someones ex is defined as. on the other hand, isn't that construct rather weird?
like, you've spent time and exchanged emotions with this person and suddenly you're forced to drop em, like a toy you no longer want to play with / broken toy
rather sad fempai
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>>43877079
Yeah it's a weird construct in that respect. Personally I fucking hate change so after a breakup it's just uncomfortable existing by yourself at first.

Stay strong and get stronger for us.
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>>43877079
from the other perspective (i.e., divorced with kids) and can't put into terms my ex understands that i don't want anything to do with her (affair); texts on when to pick up the kids is all i want yet she rings and tries to use the kids as a way in to show face all the time. Almost as if she's rubbing it in.
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>went on a date for first time ever
>she wants to meet up again

M-makin' it?
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>>43876945
>but the salt in the wound was the friend line. I then see she is actually hooking up with some other guy on social media.

regardless of her actual reasons, whatever she said to you had only one purpose: trying to minimize your hurt. don't take it personally
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>>43877169
You're right, thanks.it's just it's the first time i've opened up and asked someone out after being a shut in all of high school. I just would've preferred a yes or no.

I don't i'm just sad from it overall I guess.
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ever since my grand parents visited I fear aging, just them being reduced to shuffling around and looking like goblins. i hope i die at age 59 or something at least
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>>43877105
it sure is.
sure m8
>>43877125
well of course the reason why it ended matter a lot i.e. i wouldn't want to have anything to do with a cheating person at all
other than that, if you two had a connection and things didn't work out because of other mundane reasons, why not stay in touch ?
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>>43877193
You just need to move forward and find someone else. Consider using a dating site. It eliminates the need to figure out if she has a bf, if she's interested, if your advances will make things awkward etc. It takes a lot of the pressure off when you're both looking for the same thing, and it's only a matter of meeting to see if you're compatible or not.

I'm in my 30s now and I basically gave up on finding
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>>43877315
>I'm in my 30s now and I basically gave up on finding
well fuck me
t. soon 27
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>>43877299
if you both wanted to ofc. not normally the case though, unless you have a lot of mutual friends etc.
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>>43877331
sure, overall just sad that you let go of this person, not only because the relationship didn't work out, but you're driven to do so even if a mutual friendship on some level would've been a okay
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>>43877325
shit, I got distracted and posted that before I should. I meant to say that I gave up on finding a woman in the wild because pretty much all of them were in a relationship, and it's so annoying spending time getting to know a potential partner only to realize she's married and have 3 kids. The only woman I though was single turned out to be in an open relationship. I finally gave up and went on a dating site. It only took a couple of months to find someone.
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>>43877376
really reluctant to try dating sites here in europe
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>>43867327
Looking down and to the side is classic IOI, anon.
Not even being autist.
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>>43857588
>>43859625
>>43870553

I am the guy who wrote this:

>>43857083

I saw her today with someone else. It's all over.
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>>43875204
>If you don't love yourself, do you really have time to love someone else
you hear this all the time but what the fuck does that even mean.
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>>43878099
confidence nigga
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>>43861064
"spare me pupper"
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>>43857588
What if she is a Lesbian ?
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Think i might be falling out of love with her after 3 years bros..feels bad man
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>>43873890
We had been together for 4 days and they have a long history so I understand her. Plus being classmates is tough.
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>>43856944
>tfw party sluts are too easy
>good girls sense my insecurities
Good thing you dont have to be sad if youre lonely. Ive been working on retraining negative thoughts to be good ones. Seems to work for me
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>>43860254
Ive passed out on them before so idk depends on how tired you are. Stay on your antioxidants and such to keep any negative effect they have at a minimum. I used to take em and slam beers a couple summers ago. They make you feel like a king desu. Straight edge now so no bully




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