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Im bad at sex. I need /gif/ to send me gifs and tips on the best sex tips out there.

Was told "My stroke game is lacking" (didn't know what this was) blamed it on the alcohol.

Lets make this thread the ultimate how to FUCK manual.

Stole some good /gifs/ to start us off.
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>>20836988
Log of
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>>20836963
Penis in vagina, simple as that
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>>20836963
Work on your endurance. If your stroke game is lacking, you're not hitting it long and deep enough.
At least she didn't say you're small.
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Jerk off before you do it. Get rid of the fast nut. If she's willing to suck it out of you even better but make sure you get the Mexican jumping bean out your sack.
Smoke some weed if it will relax you. You'll get a testosterone boost and you'll have better nut control.
Eat the pussy if she's into it. If anything goes wrong at least she can say she got off in your mouth. Go down on her like that's all you wanted. Then move in to score.
Put it in and distract yourself. Make sure you get solid in and out strokes that run the whole van but don't focus on that. Keep your mind elsewhere so you don't get too excited for the nut.
When you feel it coming on and you're about to blow, take it out and calm yourself. Make out with her and maybe make her change positions. Do whatever you have to do to calm down and keep the nut in you.
If you go long and hard you'll get a cramp. Switch from using your abdomen to using your legs. Let the cramp sit on you but keep fucking until you lose voluntary control.
When that happens just enjoy the rest of the ride. You gave it your all and you now have permission to nut.

Thanks, Katt Williams.
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>>20836968
Who's the whore / sauce?
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>>20837288
My thoughts exactly. Weed can make it harder to cum for him, so keep in mind this
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>>20836963
making a thread on a board full of virgins seeking sexual advice is the most retarded shit ive seen on this site, second only to people arguing w other people about what they beat off to
cringe
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>>20836963
Search for "2 girls teach sex" by Shawna Lenee, I had a similar problem and after this the next girl I was with came twice before penetration, told me afterwards that my hand game was better than hers.

As long as they come, they're happy with everything after that.
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>>20836963
Not fucking specifically but this is actually an amazing technique. It won't make every girl squirt (plus that's basically pee why would you want that in your bed), but the vast majority of chicks I have been with love it.

That said I sort of like that most guys don't know how to do this. But you, anon, you're fine. Learn away.

https://www.xvideos.com/video259400/how_to_make_her_squirt_every_time
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>>20837288
My issue is that I last forever and lose my erection after she's satisfied, but I've only had condom on sex.

I think if I can just raw a chick, it'd be a different story
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>>20836968
She looks like Emma Raducanu lol
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>>20836963
Stop watching and sharing porn and just have good sex with someone you have an emotional connection with. Thats how you have good sex and get better at sex. All yall faggots are trying too hard to be hella cool sex godz when in reality that attitude is a turnoff for any girl who isnt a straight up trick and they dont care about your sex game to begin with. They want your money and your attention and power over you. Dont forget that and go find you a nice girl who is actually a productive member of society. Youll have better sex with a woman who actually enjoys sex with you and it wont cost you everything youre worth when you realize shes just a whore whos playing you at the end of the day
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>>20836963
A very, very commonly overlooked thing when it comes to sex is consistency. I mean, you want to change things up and not do the same thing for an hour, but when you find something that works, do it consistently. Increasing how fast you thrust doesn't scale linearly in terms of how good things feel, either.

And for christ's sake, if your partner starts enjoying something, don't go apeshit and change up. Orgasms (yours and hers) and their approach do not follow a linear path; it's a ramp up that escalates in waves. Think of it this way: the waves start small, going up and down, but growing over time. They ebb and flow until they reach a peak. When you're inconsistent, it's easy to "lose" that ebb and flow, particularly for women. This is where consistency comes (ha) into play.
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Imagine not replying "You still let me fuck/Still fucked/Still let me hit", she now feels comfortable disrespecting you.
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>>20839354
are you on anti depressants? because that's exactly how i was when i was on them. literally could last an hour some times and still not nut. now i cum immediately if i let myself.
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>>20839486
not him but percocet/oxycodone works too, they end upcalling for more but I don't nut.
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OP, you gotta make out and work the clit beforehand and get her most of the way there before you stick it in. Penetration alone doesn’t cut it most of the time.
>>20836968
This is a good position, standing makes you last longer (in my experience) and you can work the clit easily while you fuck. Move her legs back so her pelvis has a slight upward tilt, you’ll be hitting the g-spot more effectively. Make your bitch communicate with you so you can improve “your stroke game”. Her just laying there not enjoying it then criticizing you after the fact is not productive. Like you’re just supposed to know what she likes somehow? Modify your technique and ask her to tell you what feels the best. All the pressure is on dudes in sex, getting it up, keeping it up, not coming too soon, making her come. Hoes just have to lay there and critique you. It’s like having to win a sport you don’t get to train for. The only practice you get is when your actually playing it. It’s kinda fucked up really.
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>>20839510
the last thing i need is another addiction. /opi/ is not the spot for me, kratom is enough, and honestly probably too much. shit is addictive to me, like physically.
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just ask her what she likes. most women will be happy to show you and guide you because it means theyll have a good time, and if shes weird about it or wanted you to be more dominant/experienced then clearly its not gonna work anyway. one tip ill give is dont go as fast as you go when jerking off, yeah you might take a while to nut but thats better, most of the time at least
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>>20836963
If you're fucking a girl who criticises you without telling you what she wants, drop her. It means three simple things:

1. She's fucked other dudes and knows better dick. Unless you improve to her standards, she's gonna cheat or drop you first, and both options are gonna ruin you for a bit.

2. She's an immature cunt and incapable of having a mature relationship. She expects you to make her cum but is unwilling to work with you to make that happen. She is not worth your time. Get a girl that is with you for the good sex and the bad.

3. She's a destructive cunt that has no qualms about tearing other people down. That means she's got to go and you need a girl that's supportive.

Drop the bitch, move on.
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>>20839557
ive got a tip for OP, dont listen to sex advice from guys who take any opportunity to call a woman who theyve made up in their heads "cunt" :^)
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>>20839571
Listen up, son, one day you'll grow out of pretending to be a feminist to score and realise that life is too short to play games. Life is too short to tolerate shitty people. Too short to waste on terrible women. An open, honest, two-way relationship is the best. Is a woman being a cunt? Drop her. Get a better woman. It's really that simple, but I guess you're too busy buying knit pussy hats online to listen to the underlying truths.

Find a good girl that supports you, supports you when you cum too fast and laughs when her cunt makes funny noises. Tells you how she likes it, and asks you how you like it.

It's really that simple.
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Dude just ask them what does it for them, then do that thing.

Everyone has something different that gets their motor running, just fucking ask them.
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>>20837288
With weed i came twice without stopping. Not sure if i can do it sober. I think it also makes a difference if you've not nutted in a few days. Your advice seems solid.
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>>20839599
lmao
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>>20836963
FOREPLAY. Make sure her clit is being played with. Don't go too fast right away, take your time. Sounds weird, but fuck with your hips, not your thighs / butt.
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Any advice on how to initiate sex? My girl says she wishes we more "sexually compatible" and that I never make the first move. How do I know she's in the mood/what's some good ways to get going? She's the first woman I've had sex with lost my V to her.
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>>20838102
aidra fox
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>>20840299
Offer her a backrub. rub her back while straddling her. you'll be fine.

Controlling your orgasm for most males is more about breathing and slowing down when you get excited, long slow breaths, don't hold your breath.

Jerking off before hand although it will work this only masks the problem. Practice edging, this will familiarize yourself with how you feel when you're about to orgasm, and just focus and learning that feeling so you can tell later your orgasm is otw.

Also, walk up to her when you know she's relaxed and ready for sex, and turn her away from you and just start groping her like a piece of meat. If you don't alpha up a bit you girl is gona find a guy that will.

Sorry.
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>>20836963
>hes fucking the beat redhead and not touching the body on the right
wtf
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still havent learned a thing
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>>20836963
> There is no manual
> Good sex is more like a good improv / jamming session / dancing
> Talent / Hardskills only get you so far

Examples for weak stroke games:
- getting lost on your way to (her) orgasm (aimlessly changing pace / depth ..)
- lacking stamina to keep any rythm going
- lacking length / depth to actually make her feel what you feel
- sometimes your rythm is just incompatible
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>>20839571
>t. cunt
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>>20836963
swinger here, i have a wife and a gf, a big dick, and shit stamina. some tips i picked up over the years:
>shoot a load beforehand, good idea if you have extreme sensitivity, bad idea if you have trouble staying hard
>oral and fingering have to be on point. i cant count how many women ive made squirt for the first time. technique is everything
>make her cum without even using your dick, like dont even pull it out yet
>make her cum several times without using your dick
>she will BEG for the dick
>give her the dick, but when you get close pull out and revert to oral/fingering until she cums again
>repeat, keep switching between the dick and oral/fingering
>as you tire you will be able to stroke longer each time
>when shes finally had enough slam her home as hard and as long as you can until you go soft
>she'll be left in a satisfied pile
>people who have extreme sensitivity can use Stud100, a little bit inside a rubber can go a looooong way
>people who have trouble staying hard during physical exertion, this is a sign of being out of shape / oxygen absorption problems, its more common than you think, just use viagra
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>>20843021
this is surprisingly good advice
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>>20839354
I had the same problem with my first girlfriend a couple of times. The condom kind of dulled the sensation to the point where I was definitely e joying myself but couldn't cum. The solution could be one of two things:

1. Is to try and find a position that rubs you the right way. We found out after a while that fucking her in doggystyle rubbed my dick just the right way to get me to bust, even when wearing a condom. Try and find positions that rub your dick the right way.

2. Is tougher and requires some will, but you need to loosen your grip when jacking off. If you use even a slightly tight grip, your body will be too used to it and you won't be able to cum. When you jack off for the next week or so, use way less pressure than you're used to. The really hard part is that if you can't cum doing that, tough luck, you don't cum. After a few days, your body will get used to the new looser grip and you'll be able to cum using it, and that looser grip will be closer to what a pussy feels like.

It's tough but doable. The more you get used to the sensation with a condom on, and the more you use self control to readjust your body, the faster you'll be able to get off.
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>>20836968
the moaning here is fake as fuck
zero clitoral stimmies in this position
not even particularly deep penetration
she's just uncomfortable
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>>20837288
>Jerk off before you do it
horrible call.
It's always better to go in with a full load and then go for round 2 if needed.
Not to mention that you're much less horny after the first load, so there's chance of not even getting it up is higher, especially if he's already nervous about his dick game.
Hell if anything he should do the exact opposite, go a few days without jacking off first
Otherwise mostly agree
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>>20836963
>bad at sex
Lol, what? If you cum you're good at sex.
Who cares what a woman wants.
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>>20836963
MUBUTU SESESESECO

TRANSLATION THAT SNIZZ IS DRIED DRIED AND REDRIED
MAN I FELL INTO ICE! AT THAT POINT I WAS SOAKING! ALL THINGS ICE! BRRRR COLDEST I EVER WAS EVER
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>>20843593
this
Jerking off before is only useful if you are super sensitive. If you have problem cumming with condom, you need as much sensitivity as you can. Maybe try thinner condoms, the options are out there. There are multiple good advices here about pleasing chicks, but make sure you enjoy it and cum as well, because otherwise it just becomes a chore. Don't worry about cumming, if you continue pleasing her and go for round two, she will be okay with it. Also, stop jerking off and watching hardcore porn, it desensitizes you and makes you much less horny. I have problems staying hard if I watch too much porn and it is fucking embarassing, I would rather cum in a minute than go soft inside a chick. Also, don't smoke or drink too much alcohol, do drink a lot of water. And don't underestimate foreplay, it makes you more horny as well.
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>>20843631
THIS!
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Bump
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>>20839599
my man dropped a huge fact in here that I got a boner while reading this shit .
I know a lot of students in university that act to be feminists and shit just to get laid and end up being rejected.
Just be yourself and try to enjoy having sex don't see it as something that would make anxious like omg she didn't cum omg i didn't hit the g spot shit like that.
if she's a keeper she would tell what's wrong and tell you what the fuck she actually want to try .
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>>20836963

Good sex involves letting go. Not saying be submissive, but let go to your instincts. Generally women like men to be driving the experience. Smoking weed helps me. But basically there's a feeling you'll get from foreplay slowly leading to sex and orgasm. It's like riding a wave. If you're in your head thinking about it you aren't riding that wave. You aren't getting lost in the experience. You're rigid and unnatural because you're in your head.

Also porn is a terrible place to go for learning how to fuck properly. Unless you find porn where it's clear the women are actually enjoying it and not just fake enjoying it. This girl is actually enjoying it. But also there's little else you can learn from this clip. it's more about before and leading up to it, foreplay, being in the moment, feeding off each other's energy and pleasure.
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>>20836963
Dude, just ignore trying to finish and focus on making her feel good and orgasm. If you’re going to cum, just pull out and spend a minute kissing her and teasing with the head, or go down on her. After she has gotten off once or twice, then you can think about finishing. If you are too nervous and can’t finish, just say you didn’t feel like it, no biggie. It’s all in the confidence.
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>>20843021
Viagra/cialis is god-tier. If you have ED problems, it works. If you don’t, it makes you into a pornstar lol
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>>20845796
we swingers use it recreationally, makes 12 hour group sex sessions a LOT more fun, especially if you're bi
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>>20837288
Don't jerk off right before sex, unless you usually nut within 1 minute. If you feel about to burst just slow it down, girls like the change of pace and intimacy of going slow. At the end of the day you can always be honest; she'll probably appreciate you telling her she makes you bust instantly and you can both work out ways to make it last longer.
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>>20839290
Also Nina Hartley and sunny lane: there's this scene where she teaches you how to lick pussy and finger. First time I tried it I made my girlfriend squirt
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>>20840299
Listen to what she wants, and start making the fucking move.
Step 1, just fucking kiss her. From there try to kiss more openly/agressively, going from little kisses to french. if she's in the mood she'll be right along for the ride of heavy kissing, if not she'll just pull back. If it looks good, pull her in. grab her ass.
Try other shit too. Get handsy. Grab some titty while cuddling on the couch. Now, most girls will just let their boobs get fondled and go with it. That said, tweaking her nipples is pretty much a guaranteed "on" button. At this point (at least with my last 4 gfs) she'll either 1- tell you to stop as not in the mood, or 2- challenge you to not start something you don't intend to finish. If you hear #2, congrats, you're in, first move done.
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>>20836963
There might be real demand for prostitutes that double up as "teachers" charging about 5-10x the local rate.
Since women want even virgin men to be good at it from the get go, but for some fucking reason are unwilling give any feedback, there's some good money to be made here.
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>>20839290
I searched around for this but can't find it anywhere except for two clips on tna flix. Know where I can find the whole thing without having to buy it?
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>>20843593
Yeah even just masturbating if I go days without cumming that first nut I can make last forever.
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>>20836963
want a quick win? Go down on her and make her cum before you fuck. Everything after that will just be a bonus.
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>>20839354
Just a heads up, it didn't for me. I'd quit porn and take the opportunity to learn quality sex. As your sensitivity comes back (and it's NOT just penis sensitivity, it's a mental one) you'll be in a much better place with sex. You are probably porn'd out m8.
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My dick is small, 5"x4" and it kinda hurts knowing I will never be able to get a girl off by penetration alone.
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>>20846935
Literally average
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>>20846935
That's a lie just loosen them up make her cum by eating her clot first. You want to see how little penetration it takes to cum go watch a vid with a girl flicking it. She'll play with the opening while rubber her clit do what she does then fuck her after.
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>>20837288
you changed my life... Since i let the cramps do its thing.
30m+ and my calves look like Roman Pillars
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In my experience its always best to make your partner cum first.

Idk about you guys but, at best, i can go for about 3-4 minutes inside before I bust. Less if I go slowly and going too fast is not only uncomfortable for my wife but wears me out too.

Learn what they get really into and use it. Even if if its not something you're into you will learn to enjoy it too as long as its not 100% out of your comfort zone.

For example, my wife is really into getting hurt or threatened during foreplay and sex. Especially getting cut along her thighs and bruised under her collarbone so she can hide them in public. Before we met, I always enjoyed biting and choking but never hurt anyone like that and it made me uncomfortable at first.

Now, on particularly frisky days, I have no quarrels about grabbing my knife and pinning her against the wall with it until I can finger and choke her. By the time she cums I'm ready to burst at the seams and its fuckin fantastic.


And, like everything else, you'll get better at it in time. I can promise you that we've all been in a similar boat at some point.
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>>20836963

Unfortunately you'll never learn what you need to know from porn because porn is not made for the pleasure of women it's made for the pleasure of men. If you let porn try to be your guide you're going to get into a sexual relationship and be very sad and confused and frustrated.

The very best way for you to get good at pleasing a woman is by asking women to instruct you in what they like and want to try. If you start doing this you're going to see some trends. The most important thing to remember is even when having rough sex you still trying to take care of her so pay very close attention to how she's reacting to what you're doing. Don't do anything because you think it should please her. Do what You observe being pleasing to her when you do it. Ask questions ask for feedback and then play around with the information you're hearing.

If I could give you some general guidelines, I want money will like what you do with your penis 10 times more if she's sufficiently aroused first. She needs to be horny enough that her pussy and gorgeous on the inside and a little on the lips on the outside. She'll find your dick maximally pleasurable. If you rush in before this point you are reducing the pleasure that your dick can give her.

Women do like a dick real deep, but not usually right away. You have to usually work them into it. Again, pay close attention to the way your movements are making them feel and if you don't understand what you're seeing, ask.

Patience. Pleasing a woman requires it. If you can't develop this you'll never be very good in bed.

Off the top of my head that's all I got for you. 25 years of sex and that's what I've learned.
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>>20846935
Isn't this average?
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>>20847432
Yea it is.

Unless he literally means "5 by 4 inches," thats some third world country deformation right there
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>>20839290
>>20846109
This, they changed my life.
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>>20836963
I fucked about 200 women in my life and even I don't know what the fuck a goddamn stroke game is, this must be some nigger shit these bitches know from the hood - fuck them.
If you really suck at fuckin just copy the dude from netvideogirls classic and the dude with the huge dick who's doing the fuckin now.
15 years ago there was literally no good fuckin porn around depicting 'sex', it was all gonzo nigger shit assblasting teenies on a couch and throatraping, these nvg helped me and my friends A LOT to be valid fuck buddies in highschool.
Just go from there and establish a good basic set of fuckin, handling and positioning.

GL anon
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>>20837288
>Jerk off before you do it. Get rid of the fast nut.
>>20843593
>It's always better to go in with a full load and then go for round 2 if needed.

So I did both of these when I was younger and I think the advice to jack off first is awful advice. If you jack off first and you're nervous you'll limp out.
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>>20848024
All he does is just normal slamming with dirty talk before it.
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>>20840299
Flirt with her throughout the day.Be it through text,long kisses, mini make out sessions and physical contact.You need to do it even if you do not necessarily expect or want sex so she does not feel presssured or think you only do it when you want to fuck her.How you respond when she does not reciprocate your advances is also important.Avoid passive agresiveness and go do something else,be cool and with a take it or leave it attitude.
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>>20848086
Anon didn't tell us how old he is, so I assume between 18-20 or maybe even younger...
And at this age, some confident(!) dirtytalk and pussyeating is all you need to achieve the climax of fucking. I somehow ended up in the sexcorner of domination and many girls are able to cum with pure force and dirty talk, you don't even have to penetrate the coochie... Some strangling, violent nipple-play and towering over a girl making her to beg to get fucked is enough.
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>>20837288
jacking off first is some of the worst fucking advice you can take. ONLY VIGINS RECOMMEND THAT SHIT BECAUSE WHY WOULD YOU NOT JUST FUCK HER TWICE YOU FUCKS MAKE NO SNESE.
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>>20836963
First of all, thx for being vulnerable and asking for assistance.

Second, I would bet stroke game refers to how you're stroking your penis in whoever. Personally, I learned how to move my hips from dance and knowing how to properly activate your hips during sex can open up a lot more technique and style. It's really a huge foundation of it all.

So try practicing rotating your hips until it's a smooth movement that you can do without using your arms, then try it out on whoever.

Foreplay is really important too, if you can eat pussy/suck cock, you can do half the work of pleasuring a lady/man before inserting your penis anywhere. After a thorough finger/oral pleasing, most girls I've had are pleading with me to insert my cock.

And don't be afraid to buy yourself an actual sex manual. I was pretty okay fucking before I bought and read a book on sex from an expert, and I believe I became much better. But I recommend books that aren't just sex positions, but rather can provide you understanding of the acts, psychology, and such. Let knowledge light your way, and good fucking, brother...sister?
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>>20836963
Honest answer? Just ask what they like as for feedback, eventually you'll get a feel for it
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My erections are too inconsistent for sex. It seems the majority of the time it just goes to sleep after I put the condom on. But tonight I had sex with my girlfriend with literally no foreplay, while giving a back massage just took her pants off and started doing it prone bone - and it was all fine. Erection didn't go down the whole time and I lasted longer than usual.

What's going on? I am not overweight, don't have any obvious health issues and get boners from just standing next to a girl and talking to her
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>>20846935
>clit is right at the entrance
>g spot is 2-3 inches deep
the fuck are you talking about
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>>20849581
not him but my gf says that the spot that does it for her is like 6 inches in, I'm about 5,5 and can only sometimes hit it properly in certain positions
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>>20846935
u can always fist em
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>>20846892
I found a book apparently written by her
https://kupdf.net/queue/2-girls-teach-sex-book_5999a7e9dc0d60587053a1fd_pdf?queue_id=-1&x=1631545794&z=MTg3LjE2MC42MS40NA==
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>>20849548
>porn
Stop jacking off and have sex consistently. Your erections will be stronger for longer. If you can't switching to a pocket pussy helped the transition between porn and a real woman.
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>>20839516
Name?
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Not saying I'm some master but what I've noticed that helps on the few women I've had on their backs would be to USE YOUR WEIGHT. The whole meme of girls wanting to be dominated is true. Move her around, drag her around the bed, push her into the bed, bend her over. Do all these things without asking just do them. When you're in missionary and her legs are in the air let her hold up your weight and let her feel the pressure of you on top of her. Hold her down.

I also like having her on her back with her legs up and pushing down on her fupa while I'm sliding in and out of her. If she doesn't know what kegels are this really helps make her feel your dick more as it puts lots of abdominal pressure on her forcing her to feel you and added to that your weight on top of her it makes her feel helpless.
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Ay, tranny cuntboy here. I have a lotttt of experience fucking cis guys and cis girls, so I'm in a great position to give you in-tips.

Sex is the experience first, orgasms second. You will nearly always have a better time with someone you've played with multiple times. You've moved past nerves at that point. Try to make orgasm achievement a long game. Let me emphasize that: TAKE YOUR TIME. Lots of guys are saying to switch in and out of foreplay and they're right. Cis women/AFAB folks get caught in orgasm plateau hell a lot. Persistence is more important than intensity, but variety makes good sensations feel new again. Tire her out. Get her so riled up that her brain melts out of her ears, then go for the O.

When guys cum early, I just think it's flattering. Don't be embarrassed. Take your refractory period to go the hell down on her. Enjoy feeling her squirm under her, tell her about it. Compliment her body and how needy she's being for you. Having a guy cum twice for me is like, so fucking hot. So if you cum early, aim to cum twice.

Ask for feedback after. Take it with grace and use it next time. Tell her what YOU liked. Tell her what you were thinking of her while you two got up to shit.

Does she take a while to get there? Plan a day with a couple free hours. Don't let her chicken out because she's worried about taking too long. "Sorry, we can do something else, you're probably tired-" grab her hips, pin them to the bed. "Nope. Don't you dare go anywhere, I'm not done with you." At some point over the long game, you do want to stick around long enough to try and finish the job.

Your biggest barriers are insecurity, time, and trust. Make room for all of these things, then move past them, and you'll get what you want. Play the long game.
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>>20836963
Pay attention to what she reacts to, if you're close enough (not just a quick hook-up) ask her firstly if she knows herself if clit or penetration is what she goes for when she's looking to orgasm.

If it's clit, try to be verbal while fingering her. Make noises and see if she responds to certain movements more than others. If she reacts in a good way to certain movements, make noises with her, say things that she would like to hear, and simulate your own orgasm building up while also building up hers.

If it's penetration I would suggest learning the basics of the female anatomy, where certain parts are located inside her. "A-spot" (don't know if that's a scientific term) and "g-spot" and how to pleasure those spots in effective ways.

Also I'm fucking drunk so if this shit don't make sense, ask me to clearify. I just recently fell in love with a girl, she's so open so it taught me a lot about how to pleasure girls. (Yes, one girl can do that.)
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>>20840299
>How do I know she's in the mood/what's some good ways to get going?

You don't care what mood she's in ( even if you do ). Girls especially QT submissive baby types like being used as dolls for your pleasure. Literally just take what you want. If you're horny just grab her by the arm, lead her upstairs and start taking her clothes off. Direct her on what to do, move her body around based on where you want her.

Just be in charge basically, even if she's not horny in that moment, you just controlling things will make her horny.
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>>20836963
try to angle your penis as far upwards inside her as you can. You want to stroke the G spot with your dick head.

the most effective way to do this is when she is on her back, you should try to get your hips as low as possible and then thrust in and up.

you can also try to use your pubic mound to rub against her clitoris as you fuck this way.

if you feel resistance when you're fucking then it's going to feel less good for you both, as a general rule. But do stroke the g spot with your cock as much as you can.

WHen you're hitting from behind go slowly and go for depth. The easier you can hit cervix and maybe penetrate it the better it will feel for her.

Also as a rule you can basically always go slower, there isn't really a too slow, even when they are begging you to go faster or harder, but it's very easy to go to fast and they will lose pleasure as your strokes are shorter and they get much less sensation.
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>>20836963
Always finger the butthole
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>>20850780
Hey, this is great. Thanks for genuine advice.
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I cum too fast but thinking about my dead grandma helps. Still can't last more than 4 minutes though
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>>20854331
any counter argument to this? seems like an always do
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>>20857303
no counter. But save it... My current GF didn't get asshole play until years in our relationship. But I've done it to plenty women before. It's almost like a cheat code. If you're fucking or eating her pussy right, her asshole should be wet already. Lick your finger as high up as you wanna go (or use her pussy juice) but take it slowly.
The asshole will suck your finger right in and she'll lose it.
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>>20857101
Foreplay. If I'm worried about cumming to fast I make her orgasm my priority. Im great at giving head so I'll get her pretty close that way and either time it with how long I think I'll last or I'll just bust my first nut while eating her out, get hard again then go to town. That 2nd nut is where the longevity is. If that's not feasible, just try to nut before she comes over.
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>>20850538
neck yourself brainlet
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>>20845731
who this i must know
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>>20858956
what if she didnt clean inside? or do you now shove the finger all the way?
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>>20859072
All the sensory bits are on the outside and rim. You usually don't even have to "breach" to get the job done.
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>>20846109
Source on that vid? Or searching them together on ph and it should pop up?
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>>20846109
>>20839290
https://de.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5712f4fcadf9c
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>>20839290
>Search for "2 girls teach sex" by Shawna Lenee,
The book or the Video courses?
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>>20846892
https://1337x.to/torrent/2934695/2-Girls-Teach-Sex-2-0-Complete/
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>>20846109
this video is golden. i saw it when i was a teenager and have followed nina's advice ever since. multiple women have told me that i give the best head they every have and i owe it all to this
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Asing
https://youtu.be/6E94wSm8QGo
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>>20839388
Dubs of truth. This plus communicating in bed will lead to a satisfying sex life.
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>>20858956
Yep, you may have to ease it. But it also adds an extra layer of stimulation to push her more towards orgasming. It’s about hitting the right feelings, with the right strokes, with the right little details (spreading cheeks, changing where your hands are on her body, kissing neck, licking ears). You got it. Just be sensual
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>>20836963
Foreplay, lick before you dick.
Then... Rhythm bro. Gotta find the rhythm, and you get it by reading the mood. Always start real slow. Be 'sensual' or whatever these hos call it. Then work towards and up to a hard fast fuck. Practice hip thrusts in the gym. Stretch beforehand if you can lol.
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My bf last forever. Could it be because he doesn't like me or he is desensitized (we have been together for like 7 years)?

I'm kinda skinnyfat, flacid stomach but not overweight or chubby. However I have a flat butt.
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couldn't penetrate my girlfriend last night, afraid it might be dyspareunia or vaginimus but we're gonna try again thursday with more foreplay.
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Fucking too many of these! Someone can prolly reverse search these and find the thread I got these from. May post more. this captcha killing me. @_@
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>>20862047
I had it and it's easy to cure. Tell her to contract and relax her vaginal muscles (like kegel excercises). Get a lot of lube.

If you are still unable to penetrate her, try with some smaller toy first, until she gets used to it.

It's very embarrasing to have that, so let her know you support her.
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>>20862161
>endometriosis
oh man, that's really bad.

I hope it's an easy fix, should I ask her to go to the doctor? or is there some way I can gauge what might be happening?
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>>20839571
This

If you don't even minimally respect women you're considerably less likely to get any woman to even talk to you, much less let you hit it. I bet most of these dudes are virgins or have only fucked once or twice
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>>20862022
Probably desensitized. And men don't all cum as easily as the stereotypes would have you believe. Sex is an intimate thing, but it's not actually all that easy to cum during the piv parts, for either partner, generally speaking
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>>20862202
Yes, because women never talk shit behind their partners back. People in general actually can be divided into ABSOLUTELY good and absolutely bad. Gray tones anon.
People can deeply love you and still resent you, while also admire you, be grateful, and still leave your ass. That's why most guys can't cope: Life is not easy/simple/clear cut, and even unconditional love ends // comes with tradeoffs
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>>20861947
>sucking pussy
you lost me there
i aint no fag
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>>20839354
You jack off to much and have lost sensitivity. Condoms dull it, raw is best, but if you ain't cumming you got a mental or physical block you need to work on. Oddly I last longer w/o a condom because I know I can't bust in it and pace better.
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>>20839388
>>20861222

Dubs and trips confirming best advice here. Find someone who, like you, thinks they're bad at something everyone gets good at with practice, and then practice it. Have fun, experiment, its great.

>t. Just knocked up my wife, whom I love very much and tolerates my bullshit
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>>20840299
>How do I know she's in the mood
>I never make the first move
how do you have sex at all? if she wants you to make the first move, do that. try starting foreplay whenever you want, her reactions will teach you all you need if you're not autistic.
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>>20845731
honestly this. Sex starts with the first text message. Just find that little buzz and ride it all the way to orgasm
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any time i have sex doggy, i cannot last at all.
most other positions like missionary i can go the distance, especially when she's on top but i want to fuck longer in doggy cause most girls tend to prefer that over others
how do i last longer doing doggy outside trying again on the 2nd round? or is that pretty much it?
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>>20862022
maybe try get him off porn. people underestimate how much damage porn does to couples. ironic of me to post this on /gif/ i know.
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>>20863737
Oh top is usually the easiest to last with because they're in control and putting the pressure on the upper part of the dick. The least sensitive part. This is why the pillow under the bum thing (when going missionary) usually leads to longer fucks.
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>>20843573
its porn no shit its fake
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>>20839290
>Search for "2 girls teach sex" by Shawna Lenee
I strongly recommend to also read The Sex God Method by Daniel Rose. Compare the two books and the advice given in those books, because you will find contradicting advice. Women sometimes have no idea what they really like and give you bullshit advice.

I'm looking at the table of contents for Shawnas book right now, because I really can't remember what I read in which book. Maybe I'm wrong and her chapter title is misleading me but for example the advice in Shawnas book to "Make Sure She Cums". If you read Daniel Rose (and from personal experience) you will learn that her orgasm is NOT crucial for good sex. Women can have great sex without cumming because the psychological / emotional stimulation is so satisfying to them. For example a quicky in a public space, the thrill of getting caught, the feeling for a woman to be so desired by her man that he can not control himself and fucks her right here in the elevator. This could be a two minute fuck where she does not cum, but she sure as hell will remember it. Also Shawnas book sometimes drifts into "autism mode" advice, like stroke patterns where you have to perform a routine like a robot. 4 shallow, then 6 deep. 3 shallow, then 7 deep. 2 shallow, then 8 deep strokes. Sex is not a Street Fighter game where you have to perform a button combination for character special move.
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>>20836963

The clit is like a tiny dick. Everything that feels good to your dick, feels good to a clit. You can hit the clit from the inside, but it isn't as easy as pounding away in random positions. Your best bet is to try to use your pubic bone to rub against her clit while you go to pound town.
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>>20836963
>caring about what women want
You're "good" at sex if you can get a good nut while spending minimal time around women.
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>>20836963
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>>20862047
Biggest tip is to not fuck like this
This is done for the camera, what you want to do is pull her close to you and penetrate in a way that the base of your shaft (pubic mound or wathever) is rubbing against her clit.
The best way is to lay her on the edge of a bed and stand outside it, maybe put one knee on the bed for better angle, with one arm raise her shoulders against you and with the other push her hips agains yours, then rock back and forth together while holding her (kinda move her body up and down against yours to make your hips rub together insted of focusing on moving your penis in and out). Throw some pillows under her for max comfort. Doing this with my gf makes her cum faster than eating her out (which also works and I think I'm good at).
Also, eating a girl too soon in a relationship might be regarded as a cuck move, beware.
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>pic related
canceled the upload by mistake
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My gf has this thing where I'm eating her out and she starts getting wet as fuck, moaning, talking dirty, and squirming but eventually she pushes my head away because she says her clit became oversensitive. I don't know what the fuck I'm doing wrong. It frustrates me because it feels like if I kept going she'd orgasm
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>>20864893
>she says her clit became oversensitive
theres your answer - do other stuff and then go back to it --
bite her thigh - hicky on the calf - feet is worst fetish -- then go back every now and again -
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>>20864852
Bro, you sure are damn right but this keks me a lot
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>>20862231
I can edge for hours but cum really fast when fucking, especially doggy.
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>Also, eating a girl too soon in a relationship might be regarded as a cuck move, beware.
If you're overall dominant in the way you handle her it should be fine.
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>>20864893
leave her clit alone, put your fingers inside and tap away at the g-spot (the ridged pad inside, make the "come here" motion with your finger while inside her). Also if she's super sensitive on her clit, play around it, not on it. Suck the whole labia, not just her clit, that kind of thing
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>>20864893
Abandon clit and move on to her cunt.

Clit is like a cheat code to get her going, but don't over use it as it will ruin the experience.
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>>20864893
If you're just straight up licking the clit and jabbing at it you can just rest your whole tong against the clit area, apply some pressure and rub it gently up and down.
Also, I don't know how you do it, but instead of licking the clit directly from the beginning you should try to work the "hood" without revealing the clit itself instead, might help with the sensitivity

>>20864911
I'm glad it did

>>20864917
just warning that it might happen, specially since anon is asking for advice on a taiwanese basket weaving forum
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>>20839354
best tip i give everyone is get properly fitting condoms. IE measure your dick at the biggest circumference and get condoms that exact size at a sex shop or online. the default ones, even xxl squeeze your dick if its somewhat wide
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Probably one of the better threads here, thanks
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>>20861990
Sauce?
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My gf tells me about every single time a guy hits on her and it pisses me off. It feels like a shit test. I want to tell her to shut the fuck up or straight up smack her sometimes from how much it pisses me off. I feel like it's a lose lose situation no matter what I do or say. Anything move where I don't lose?
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>>20836963
start with putting a firm pillow under the lower back, or stomach if you going from behind, your girl will thank me later
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>>20836963
Anyone else thinks that Bunny's titjob looks really fucking good?
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>>20868496
Ignore her and change the subject every time she brings that up. Fuck her hard and good too every time you can. Or straight up tell her you don't like it when she says that.
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I think this is the last one from me. I need to re-watch these videos. I have a girl I'm into and want to do I, but I'm a virgin in his 30's and deathly fearful of messing up royally.

I hope these were able to help atleast someone out there. I dl'd them years ago from some topic like this. I don't think it's everything from that topic, but I'm sure there's more educational content out there that you can post.
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>>20868496
Why does it piss you off? Possibly the most beta fucking thing to be pissed off about that I can imagine.
I've dated a few beautiful women and they would tell me about how they got hit on too - which was pretty much daily - and we'd have a laugh about the creep/loser that tried to hit on them and then I would fuck them raw.
How are you getting worked up over dudes merely being attracted to your gf when shes coming home to you? Again, this has got to be the most insecure, beta shit I've ever heard of. I would clown you to oblivion if you told me this irl.
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>>20869330
>>20869338
Figure I would miss one
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>jerk off all the time
>1-3 times a day
>sometimes hard grip sometimes loose
>mostly head stimulation
>can literally cum in < 1 min nearly every time if i try
>virgin until 19
>sex for the first time while drunk
>still cum in <2 minutes
>chalk it up to being an unseasoned fucker
>try jerking off beforehand
>doesn't make me last longer
>try drinking alcohol or smoking weed
>best case nothing changes worst case lose erection
>try jerking off less
>makes me cum faster during sex
>if i try to pace myself and fuck slow or take extended pauses i lose erection
>6 years later fucked hundreds if not thousand+ times
>still cum in < 2 min
what the fuck is wrong with me. what do i even do at this point
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>>20836963
1. spend time on foreplay, especially heavy kissing. it arouses both of you and makes it easier to come

2. do go down on her all the way till she comes, not just a token lick and a half ... that way if you can't dick her to orgasm then at least she'll have that.

3. don't rub one out beforehand. you either last long time, or you come fast - in which case, pull out, come, then get hard again and go at it again. remember, she already came from oral so no pressure.
4. when you're fucking her, use your hands to arouse her further. touch her arousal zones. neck, belly, face, inner thighs, hips.... rub her clit as you pump, etc
5. when you feel like coming, pause and do more foreplay, change positions or something
6. do deliberate long strokes. that's what they like. nobody likes a turbo-rabbit with short fast strokes. no matter if you're small - longer strokes are better

then generally - communicate. ask her what she prefers, when you're doing what ever you're doing, ask her if she likes or hates it. ask for feedback. do it in a way that she will interpret it like you are a considerate lover, not selfish, and truly care about her -> this will get better info out of her, and more importantly will get her to relax, which will increase the chances of her cumming.

most women can't come from dick alone, despite porno showing you otherwise, so don't take it to heart. if you throw fingers into the mix (be it clit, or even fingering her asshole, which i find gets girls off very fast.. probably from excitement) ... there you go.
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>>20836963
First, make sure you like the person you're fucking. Make sure you want to have sex. Don't do it unless you both want to.

Ask her what she wants, and then do that. If she doesn't know, just go slow and try things out. Listen to her and make sure occasionally she's still enjoying herself. Make it clear you want honesty and that you won't be offended if she's not into something.

I suggest starting out with light massages, kissing, fingering and PIV. Oral and anal sex can happen later, especially anal. Consider using toys to spice things up if she's up for it.

If you can't get it up, it's ok. You may just need time to get to know her. If you come too soon, just wait a bit and go again. If you can't come, you probably need more time to get comfortable with her.

Use protection. Use condoms, for your sake and hers. Yes, the sensation is filled, but has she gotten tested for STDs recently? Do you know? Do you want to get her pregnant? These aren't questions you want to ask afterwards.
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stick it in and fuck it
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>>20869428
Sildenafil
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>>20859958
>https://de.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5712f4fcadf9c
thanks anon. godspeed
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unironically best advice,gf loves riding my dick for that exact reason, gets her legs shaking in no time. Yours is better too since you are the one doing the work, a vide would've been better tho
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so once my gf cums once she kinda dries up and starts really complaining about how much it hurts, what do I do?
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>>20869789
>his "girl"friend has a refractory period
probably come out of the closet for starters
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>>20869428
So, premature ejaculation doesnt have a cure?
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I just wanted to say this has been a very educational thread. I've learned a lot. Thank you anons. I hope another one with the same topic gets started in the future
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>>20845731
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>>20869789
Lubricant are you retarderd
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>>20836963
literally only thing you need to know is play with her clit as you fuck her it'll make her think you are good as sex
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>>20836963
Foreplay, figure it out yourself, all girls are different.
Find her tempo.
Save the last half inch, don’t give her the whole thing until she’s coming.
Figure out what you can think about to distract yourself, for me it’s game builds/itemization.
Try your best to avoid stopping and going, none of the “wait wait wait I’m close” bullshit, most girls hate it.
Lastly, be aware of your size. Motion of the ocean don’t matter if you’re girthy and/or long.
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>>20839603
>>20839556
Sex isn’t a personality quiz
>>20840299
Interrupt simple activities like watching shows or reading with touch/ kiss, shower raid
>>20843021
Quality post
>>20839571
>>20862202
Fags. Read the thread just to get offended. The take was an opinion, give good advice AND fk off.
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In the series of escalations, spend time in each stage and be deliberate and in the moment with awareness of what you're touching, and what you're building toward. Your thoughts and actions need to be unified, if your thoughts are separated from your actions, your lack of presentness will be noticed.
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>>20836963
Same boat. Keep trying!
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>>20837150
Log of what?
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>>20846935
I have a 7.25" dick that won't fit through a TP roll and my girl cums the most when it's only head deep against her G spot
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My problem is I pretty much can't cum at all. I was a virgin until 19 so years of jerking off must have done damage. First girl I ever fucked I used a condom and it's like I can just about get 80% of the way to cumming but can't get over that edge. Fucked the same girl without a condom and first time fucking raw I could barely last 20 minutes. Fucked 2 other girls raw after that and same thing. Only time I came with a condom on was when the first girl was on top of me and grinded on me in some way that shit was amazing almost immediately made me nut after not even being close for like 15-20 minutes. The other 2 girls gave meh head and their pussy just didn't grip as tight as the first girl. Even without a condom it's like I just get almost there but every time I feel like I'm about to tip over the edge it goes away.
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>>20839354
>Condom
Jesus, you pussies are hopeless. Sex is meant to be risky and raw. Get her drunk if you have to. Pull out if you really feel like it. But giving her a baby is not the end of the world, it's better than letting her ovaries rot until she's 35. I bet you're white.
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>>20836963
put a pillow or 2 under her ass and hold up her legs and lean on her when in missionary, it'll feel way better for her. I have a slightly above average dick here but have delivered on G spot orgasms this way. Also foreplay foreplay foreplay, eat that muff like your life depends on it
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>>20836963
Stick your dick in one of those Ninja Juicer machines. That’s all the practice you’ll need.
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>>20869428
how the heck did you go from being a virgin until 19 to fucking thousand+ times by 25??

>t. also person who was virgin until 19 and then never got laid since (25)
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Technique plays a role in great sex, but it's a pretty minor one. If you have awesome emotional intimacy, every part of your bodies becomes an erogenous zone and every fuck, from a 45 second quickie to an all night tantric, is mind blowing.
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>>20871876
Try pu condoms
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>>20869393
Good luck man! These are good tips so it's good that you know them. I'd suggest fucking a girl you don't like before you fuck a girl that you do like tho. It'll help a lot to have practice. You'll be less nervous when you actually have sex with the one you do like then
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>>20862202
Post tits or gtfo, dumb whore.
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>>20839516
the realest answer I've ever seen written in these autistic threads
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>>20839557
>unwilling to work with you to make that happ
based
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>>20864151
Half the problem is its hard to find even a good analysis of what's specifically bad. Some people act like seeing a boob or some people fucking ruins your sex drive, while others will say its the death grip and chronic masturbation, and I'm sure basically no one has looked at porn use as a symptom rather than a cause of some underlying problem.

Usually there's no follow up on solutions either, like "just stop" with no indications how things are supposed to feel going forward or other potential underlying issues.
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>>20850538
newfag detected
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>>20836963
Be hot.
Have big dick.
Sweet-talk in persuasive manner.
Grab melons and buns.
Caress tummy while kissing.
Thrust: tip to balls to tip...
Make sure she cums first.
Cum last.
gg ez
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Ok so you need two things. A) need to be able to last at a consistent rhythm for a decent period of time and B) you need to slightly alter the rhythm as you go

Sometimes ill start counting up to 10 and when I get to 10, I do a deeper stroke. Then I start over and repeat.

You also want to be constantly building up to climax. So start slow and work your way up. Dont just immediately start pounding. You start pounding first thing and you don't have anywhere to move up to

Remember sex is about tension and anticipation then and the eventual release. You want to focus on the woman's pleasure if you want to be known as a mr Dickerson

Also there's a important thing to be said about foreplay. If you don't get the girl in the mood, she's not gonna enjoy the fuck. If she's not in tbe mood, better not to fuck at all

Tease her, be handsy with her, make sure she's wet before sticking your dick in

With these tips you too can obtain a reputation for nice sex. Also, having a big probably helps too
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>>20859958
Thanks anon, stay safe out here
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Is making a girl squirt something that can be generally practiced or is it heavily dependent on whether the girl can?
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>>20839388
This right here folks
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>>20880806
First off, it's piss. Women leak easier because they don't have a prostate. They'll have varying degrees of control because of individual anatomy, having kids, age, etc. Putting pressure anteriorly with your fingers or rough sex against the bladder can cause it.
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>>20848086

That's all you need the majority of the time. Stop over complicating things. Women are more mental than anything. Dirty talk her and make her feel completely under your control and that'll do the trick. That doesnt necessarily mean slamming as hard as you can. There are many ways both fast and slow to exert control
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>>20849548

Stop jacking off. You're gripping your dick too tight while jerking it and it is reducing the sensation in the nerves. People talk a lot about guys with PE but they don't talk about the growing trend of guys who cannot get off from sex because they fucked up their sensation.

Take a few days off from porn and let the sensation come back. After that go lighter on your lil fella
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>>20836963
Female orgasm is a myth. Any further study is a waste of time.

Stop living your life for the approval of women.
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>>20849742

Thats the A spot. Anterior fornix erogenous zone. There are two deeper bundles of nerves above and below the cervix. The A spot and P spot. They work the same way as the G spot.

G spots are not 6 in deep and they shouldn't be difficult to find. Theyre the patch of skin that feels different from the rest
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>>20837288
>Jerk off before you do it.
bad advice
semen is life essence
women will like you more if you have it
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>>20869428
Do you go soft right after you cum? The main thing that made my sex life go from average to great was learning how to have chain orgasms and stay hard. I never had difficulty getting or staying hard but I was a pretty quick shooter. If you can find a partner who's totally fine with you cumming as much as you want in her (or even with a condom on) then you can use that to your advantage. I've been able to stay hard by just cumming over and over again for 20-40 minutes. Pretty good skill to learn and can help you fuck like a pro without worrying about much.
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>>20836963
lol, it is the epitome of autism to think you can gamefaqs your way into fucking good.

my dude, women don't care about sexual technique. they're entire experience is whether they think you're enjoying them. any effort you spend on them should only be because they think that for you to enjoy them, they need to enjoy themselves. if you never give them that idea, they'll never care one way or the other.

also, sex is so much inside the woman's head that you really have no clue what will get her off until you've fucked her 50 times and lived with her for a year at a bare minimum. but again, women don't actually like sex. they like pleasing their partners. so if you found one that thought "your stroke game" was lacking, what she (whether or not she knew it) was communicating was that
1) she didn't want you; or
2) she wanted you at some point, but you seemed so underconfident that she lost interest
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To all the retards in this thread who think they have a secret for how to please women...

what you've actually discovered is that you have a fetish for the technique of woman pleasing, and your girlfriend picked up on that, so she's encouraging you, and when she does that and see's that it gets you off, she then enjoys seeing you get off. it's a feedback loop. if she were really into you and instead you wanted anal, or a third, or bondage, or pegging, and you acted the same way about it, you'd find that she'd "be into" that instead of whatever technique your technique fetish drove her into indulging you.
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>>20864633
Just want to throw in that different women like different things. I've been with women who wanted tons of foreplay, and women who wanted me to stick it in as soon as they were turned on. Some women liked it gentle, some liked it intense; some got off more to oral and some to penetration. Some want to get their orgasm as fast as possible; some want to edge and savor it.

Different people like different things. It's good to learn about some examples and try out some techniques, but the only way to really know what's up with your girl is practice and communication.
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>>20864893
Hm. Maybe different techniques? Don't hammer the clit; stimulate it through the hood (the bit on top), gently suck, tease her a bit, use a broad flat soft tongue instead of a pointed one?

Can she do it on her own? If she hasn't figured out how to orgasm at all, it may not be anything specific you're doing wrong.
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>>20868496
Maybe she had someone cheat on her and it's really important for her to be honest with you. You can ask, you know. Is she telling you because it makes her feel wanted? Because she doesn't want to hide anything from you? Because she's hoping you have a cuck fetish?
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>>20846935
Dude.. I got a 4 inch dick and I make my wife squirt, we also have a side girlfriend that she let's me fuck and does lizzy shit with and they both love my little weiner.. have some confidence, be a fucking man.. a real man.. lift weights and act like you don't give a fuck... its never been hard for me to please women... you just gotta find the right ones... the kind that fuck niggers and are obsessed with 8" and up are no women you wanna be around anyway.. my 2 cents.. grow some balls and have some fucking confidence..
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>>20883300
Flip it back on her and tell her how much you get hit on at work... she might just be really stupid or she's testing you... my wife does that shit too.. I also make it very clear I don't give a fuck and if it's some kind of test then to kick rocks.. I always keep a couple bitches who love me in my life in case wifey goes south.. never ever let a woman know how much you've them... marriage is a game of poker... never show weakness, always have a poker face.. these bitchea test for weakness and the minute they know you can't go on without them you'll be manipulated... you gotta fuck with her mind to land a hook in her stinkin ass.. fucking bitches...
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>>20869428
For what it's worth, I'm on 50mg/day of sertraline (Zoloft) for sleep issues, and it's made my orgasm feel more distant from my arousal. Like, I can still get there easily enough, but I have to try. If I pace myself, I can go for a lot longer.

I really appreciate the side effect.
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>>20869789
Well, stop fucking her if it hurts. If you're taking longer than she is, maybe switch to a position that's particularly good for you, have her give you a handjob or blowjob to get you worked up before you fuck, or have her finish you off that way after she comes.
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>>20870083
There's plenty you can do; you can practice start-and-stopping, I've heard good things about regularly doing kegels, and SSRIs can have that effect.
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>>20883178
>women don't actually like sex. they like pleasing their partners.
which partner are they pleasing when they masturbate?
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Tips for lasting longer? I know that you can always go for round 2 but I'm trying to train up somehow so I'm not nervous about disappointing a chick? Which may be a self defeating mindset. And jerking off beforehand has led to me going limp just cuz I'm nervous.
Any tips?
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>>20862047
I have a gf with vaginismus. It can be worked through, but it means you'll have to be patient and, frankly, explore some mutual interests. Like, yes, oral is good and you should be giving and receiving joyfully but it may also be time to start talking about fantasies and kinks to keep things fresh. There are nights when she's just not able to accept me into her, but now we both know that probably means I'm gonna tie her up and edge her with a vibe or three until she's pleading, then make liberal use of her throat.
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>>20883147
Well how do you learn anon
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>>20836988
shit skin
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>>20871493
log of shit going in her vagina
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>>20861982

Hey, this reminds me of a webm I saw here on /gif/ recently, but didn't save because I'm a proper fucking idiot. It was also 2 girls with the one sucking on the right, and the one receiving on the left. The girl performing oral was also fingering the other's pussy, and then unceremoniously sticks her finger on the other's ass. Pretty hot. Anyone knows which one I'm talking about?
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>>20836963
Most of the advice on this thread is pretty good. Mental game and foreplay are half the battle. Don't put your whole ego on your dick, your hands or mouth may be your best tools. A penis is an inconsistent thing.
Saying women are not the same is a massive understatement. You won't know right off the bat if they like aggression or dirty talk so I wouldn't lead with it. Same with spanking, slapping, hair pulling and choking. Try to talk and escalate over time to what works. Some women just will not talk about sex no matter how long you've had it. Fair warning it can be as bad as assuming you can read their mind. Women probably assume they are normal when statistically there isn't much of a normal between their sexual preferences. Just some general things that tend to work.
Women don't really like the same physical action when you try and break it down mechanically. Vaginas are differently sized and shape, so your size can be too big or small depending. They don't prefer the same speed of stoke. 1 in 5 women don't like their breast being touched. Not all women can cum from both penetration and rubbing the clit. Most don't masturbate enough to know how to get off. So you get left trying to sort it out. It's possible she either can't orgasm or has a massive mental block that takes forever to break through.
So no it's not all you. Women often get in their own way when it comes to sex.



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