I wish i had a girlfriend but i'll never have onedoes this happen in your country?
>>201404291move to east asia
i had one and never recoveredi hope you never find love, it's not worth it
>>201404343I would need to learn their language...>>201404402what was wrong?
>>201404291Same, I will never have a girlfriend nor even friends my life = lonely foreeeva like foregav
>>201404443i loved her and at some point she stopped having feelings for me
>>201404504This happens cuz you probably stopped doing romantic things together and just treat her as a roomate.
>>201404488did u know u'll be lonely 4ever when u picked up ur job?>>201404504y do u think that happened?
>>201404504same. since that moment i've been emotionally numb and apathetic to life. it made me realize i'm a total subhuman who does not deserve for happiness and i'm bound to die in misery and alone
>>201404715When I applied to study applied geodesy I had no slightest idea what geodesy even is, my brother who is geologist recommended me to study it
>>201404567I didn't>>201404715I talked about it with a close friend of hers and I guess she just didn't think I was the right guy for herI spent years thinking about it and I don't think I could've done anything to make it work but it still hurts
i think social media fucked us over.
>>201405003is Irkutsk the only place where u can do geodesy?or u could try studying something else. Become a based chemist like me>>201405041why do u think that was?>>201405323i think i would still be alone even if social media wasn't around
>>201404402I fell in love but she didn't want to say when we could meet up again and I've been thinking about her almost every day for 3 monthsStill a loveless, girlfriendless virgin...
>>201405418Every city has some kind of college where you can learn geodesy, or you can learn in institute. Top institute for geodesy is in Piter obviously.I dont like chemistry or any science subjects
>>201404291Okay, but do you look like that
>>201405323i agree, social media is at fault for a lot of todays problemthere were still people that couldn't get girlfriend before it, but i feel like outcasts used to have camaraderie
>>201405514why are you working at Irkutsk then? Was it the only place that was hiring?>>201405539no
>>201405686I'm working in Pever... Irkursk is my homeland and Irkutsk is not problem
>>201405418>why do u think that was?I honestly don't know man
I got a foreign whipGot Some juicy lipsBussy be real thickBut all bitch leave me for incel kings
>>201404291>meet with colleagues>talk with strangers>have nothing interesting to say>they barely react to what I say>notice their growing boredom and annoyance with me>go to festival the other day>start talking with vendors>have nothing interesting to say>they become annoyed with me>leaveI wish it was my paranoia, but I experienced it too many times for it to be fake. Those events led me to think that I have one of the least likeable characters. Aggressive people may easily make enemies, but at the same time, they can make like-minded friends and eventualy most of them get girlfriend, because they're also very confident. Meanwhile I'm just a blank slate and often feel like a background character. If only my parents made me go outside or signed me up for a sport so I would interacts with other kids. Maybe I wouldn't turn out to be such a weirdo.I think it happens in my country
>>201405705bro you're a legend
>>201406235Start attending drama classes, unironically They can boost your confidence and teach you how to at least act confident around people
>>201405705i see, i assumed u're working at Irkutsk...>>201405713what do you think it might have been?>>201406235i feel the same way
>>201404402I had a two way crush with a japanese blood indonesian, I was constantly spilling sphagetti and in my insecurity became more "toxic", after we distanced ourselves she always started flirting with a new transfer student in front of me, never knew if it was intentional or if they're always like that outside.
>>201406375to be honest i only blame my job because sometimes i want to stop blaming myself and shift the blame to something else. in fact even when i am at home when i dont work for months i dont do anything to fix my loneliness and no one really needs me except my parents and siblings .
>>201406348Are you really serious? I'm 23 years and I think that drama classes are for highschool kids. There literally was one in my high school but back then I was just not interested in that.
>>201406714Have thought about asking ur family 4 help?
yes
>>201408395How are they gonna help
>>201408553Idk maybe they can give u advice or help u find frens
>>201404291No, I've never even tried. I don't feel like it yet. Maybe in a couple of years.
>>201408852Y haven't u tried yet?
>>201404291the only kind of relationship I want is a fwb or hookers, I don't want a woman in my personal life
>>201409787Why not
>>201406375>what do you think it might have been?you won't get the answer you want no matter how much you ask
>>201409697>before 13no desire>before 18hatred of relationship drama + general misanthropy + incel mindset>before 24too shy to flirt with strangers + didn't want to ruin friendships with girls I knew + studying>nowI don't meet people because I've become a NEETI might try when I'm no longer a NEET.
>>201410888women are annoying as fuck on a personal level and you give up your freedomtrust me, they start to nag you quickly
>>201410943What are u gonna do to get out of neetdom?>>201410945Maybe i wanna be nagged... if she nagd it means she loves you...
>>201411274>What are u gonna do to get out of neetdom? Idk yet. Motivation is low because in SEAsia wagie jobs pay much worse than in firstie countries, meanwhile families are more likely to tolerate neetdom if it keeps their kid out of trouble and in the house to help with random shit. But I want to do something on my own eventually.
>>201408120it also exists for adults, there's no age at which you should stop doing dramai attended one in my high school but most of the time it was memory exercices such as> In my suitcase, I put: Toothpaste, strawberries, an image of Louis Cachet, a pencil...
>>201404291>does this happen in your country?Yes because i have been punish as the only incel in my country by god's hand
>>201411669Are u planning 2 go back 2 school maybe?>>201411972Why r u the only incel?
>>201412753Not sure yet. Don't really want to though.
>>201404291You will.
>>201406235This is a meme tho. I also had it happen my whole life, people saying that I have to approach others and talk my way in. But then I can't remember a single time in my entire life anyone ever tried to approach me and talk his way in, while some "popular" people that everyone talks with are the most boring unactive tards I've ever seen. They literally don't do shit and don't say anything at all yet people just keep to them. It's all just looks, if you're a chad or hot chick you can stand there doing nothing like an autist and people will still tryhard their way to talk to you and get your attention. Personally stopped caring, if I cared then I would have to tryhard 24/7 for people to even talk to me while they don't approach me ever.
>>201404291how old are you? if you havent graduated uni maybe there is hope, if you have graduated, its truly over. UNless u are an attractive guy or social guy with social circle then there is hope but if u have neither then u are fucked my friend welcome to the club. I wish I knew how to escape but i think its a done deal for me. I just rot at home all day now playing video games. I am part of an online community in a video game I play and its my only social interaction. It helps me not think about tfwnogf 247
im graduating college soon and still never had a GF. After finnishing education it's really hard to find a GF, you will never really get to deeply connect with people in schools
>>201404291I got so shat on by women and family during childhood and upbringing that I'm unable to positively see women in any scenario. The moment I see women something triggers and I want them to just fuck off. Not a single positive memory, never asked one out and never will.
Not wishing for that anymore. Ruining my own life is enough for me.
>>201413147why not?>>201413290how do u know?>>20141373923gonna go to college with 19 year olds soon>>201414584what sort of things did they do to you?>>201414842wut happen?
>>201404291I don't wish I had a girlfriend because I'm a mentally ill loser and I would fail completely at a relationship
>>201406235literally me
>>201404291Vast majority of men get girlfriends by the age of 25. If you're still a virgin past that then you should start getting professional help.You need to work on your body, but also your mind. You need to be confident in yourself. It's easier said than done I know.
>>201405323I wish I could blame social media, but my abysmal self worth and autism occurred without it. I've never used it.
I'm an uninteresting good-for-nothing idiot, I'm kind of good looking but looks are useless if you have nothing of good to say. Nothing satisfies me, my life is empty and meaningless, no hobbies, no passion, no motivation, no reason to live. Why even bother?
>>201414957Tired of studying. Idk what I would even pick to study next.
>>201414957>wut happen?I'm just a NEET loser, nothing that interesting.
>>201415012what if u had a mentally ill loser gf>>201415127only 2 more years 2 go...>>201415665can relate>>201415700is there something u like?>>201416238how old r u?
>>201416349>how old r u?So old that it's beyond over.
>>201413498Nah, it's not all looks. At school I've seen either manlets or fatties easily making friends because they just had that charisma. Always able to tell something funny on the spot.
>>20141711630?
>>201415127half of zoomers have never had a girlfriend, maybe boomers or your parents all had one but that's not true anymore
>>201420671A lot of the data gets skewed because of the 18-25 demographic. Past 25 the number of men who remain virgins drops off a cliff, same for women. The number of people 25+ who are virgins remains relatively stable. Maybe with Zoomers it will be different but historically this is what happens. Data I read suggested a quarter of men after high school are still virgins. Past 25 only like 5% still are.
>>201420844The latest I read said that like 60% of men graduate high school as virgins
>>201420926I can see it being worse for Zoomers but I still a majority of them will have girlfriends by 25. Maybe a higher percentage than normal will still remain past that, but I would think the general trend will be the same. I think they definitely need help though, something has seriously gone wrong with the sexual relations of young people.
im a 24 year old virgin
>>201421017I don't think soHalf of male zoomers have never even asked a girl out, I could see 40% having a gf but not more than that
I'm 24 and never had one too. I've never even tried. I'm straight and watch porn everyday but never felt like getting a gf
>>201421149You're better off never having a gf than dealing with women bullshit
>>201421149Are you the super rich turk?
