grindr thread
>>37469284he really likes beavis & butthead
Never respond to someone that uses that many emojisMore than 1 emoji in the opening message = ignore
>>37469284That guy owns. If you disagree you’re gay.
made me laugh unironically
>>37469284
you gotta be like 40 to make that sort of joke
>>37469405he asked what twt meanshe probably is 40
why are y'all assuming it's a guy ?
>>37469736because it's grindr?
>>37469856could be a trans woman or non-binary, hello ?!
>>37470100could also be a talking zebra, who knows
>>37469284You're just not on his level
>>37470100go back nigger
>>37470117i mean there are more than enough faggots out there who would literally fuck anything.....
>>37469284I hate grindr.
>>37470780you dont get to judge others if you drive a tesla
>>37469284Deleted 2 profiles this week and created 2 profiles this week.I fucking hate it, but it keeps pulling me in.
I got a whole folder of retarded grindr interactions. This one absolutely killed me.
>>37470809Having a nice car means I can't judge freaks?
>>37470923damn, i gotta steal this guys rizzdont lie, you let him hit, right?
Another reason I hate grindr
>>37471073
>>37471115lol
>>37471002teslas have never been and will never be nice "cars".
>>37471115this killed me lmfao
>>37471409Quiet, fast, roomy, comfy, never have to stop for fuel. It's my favorite car so far
>>37470835Why?
>>37471073Why do chasers react like this when you don't let them suck your dick? It's very weird behavior
>>37469419i'm 23 and i didn't know what twt means>t. despises twitterfags
>>37471115>tesla app notification
>>37471073why are guys like this
>>37470809>>37472837im glad both sides have come together to share their hate for t*sla
>>37472881Why you guys hate tesla?
>>37471115Wtf? Is the yellow person trolling or fucking retarded?
>>37473959Proprietary dogshit modern design principles, complete with intrusive feature subscriptions. You're lower than an apple cultist if you so much as own a Tesla
>>37469284you got rick roled instead of dick holed
Ooo I received a hilariously pathetic message earlier this year...
A lot of these are kinda goofy and endearing desu
>>37470923One time I replied to a message like this with:>Piqued*And the guy instantly blocked me kek
>>37471115lmao
>>37471874Ego in tatters from being rejected, lashes out. Many such cases.
>>37475825Later this year he'll send you this pasta again, he's probably been using this same opener forever.
>>37475886Men have very fragile self esteem when it comes to sex and they're just trying to protect their feelings, it's sad desu
>>37475903The ability to save pre-written messages was a mistake.It just encourages this type of cringe, over-written bullshit because now people don't have to re-write it every time they want to be cringe.
>>37469284I did bait him a little bit but still crazy to ask for CP
>>37475825>>37475903>>37475920Fuckin pasters..
>>37475970Holy shit what a pedo.
>>37475911Truth. I'm in Germany and the German males use unbelievably passive language to avoid putting their ego on the line.>Damn those fries on your plate look good>I wish I had some fries>I'm so hungry for some fries, and you have so many>Fries are my favorite foodLike nigga just fuckin ask for a fry then, don't leave it up to me to offer you one. Being told no can be extremely painful but it's the first shit test he needs to pass if he wants to proceed.
>>37471822Love opening the gear menu to press the reverse button and staring at the side to Check my speedDo the world a favor and Kill yourself.
Have another
>>37476106Amazing...
>>37476106Damn. Well, was he good at head tho?
>>37476062I get the frustration but men need to become stronger people before they can act strong, and we don't raise men to be strong anymore
>>37476137Send him my way
>>37476137Respectful, kudos to him
I had a ton of these i lost when I got a new phone
>>37476169lol, you should say yes and charge for it desu, you could easily make two-hundred by giving him a bottle of pee
>>37476169kek don't engage with Indians
>>37476187They're the worst. This guy annoyed me so much I gave him the address to the apartments next to my hotel and he stood outside some random apartment for half an hour lmao. They just don't take no for an answer
>>37476236Lmao
>>37476236Block him???
>>37469284not grindr but this is my favorite message ive ever gotten so i have to post it
his name is abe
And then there's this charming Casanova..
>>37476273Y u catfish
>>37476272His name Redflag McPsycho
>>37476236You can see the rape in every keystroke.. I don't know if Jeets really honestly believe you're gonna sleep with them but damn they act as if they do
>>37476300they absolutely believe you'll jump at the chance. its fun to mess with them.
Manmode confuses the gays
>>37476277You're the only fish around here Nemo
I never get any funny grindr chats it's always>Hi, you're gorgeous>Me: Thanks>Wanna come over to my place>Me: Uhm, noBoring as fuck.
Hurts my eyes
>>37476315Holy kek
>>37476331God damn
I hate babytrans
>>37476378Ughh cringe.
>>37476128Yeah I'm sorry for them, but if he doesn't have the balls to even say the words then he won't have the balls to save you in a house fire and should be discarded
>>37476331mogs me
>>37476323Sorry for you Nona, I used to have a whole tiktok page of these things, Grindr trolling is so much fun
>>37476494Hmmm, maybe I should play along instead of shutting them down immediately.
Why do you do this? You're girls, just use regular dating apps. You're only ever going to get chasers on grindr. Is that what you want?
>>37476323>Hi, you're gorgeous>Me: It's true>Wanna come over to my place>Me: Why, do you have an N64?
>>37476595Tindr can be fun too Anon but they guys there can be.. less experienced in communicating with troons (this message was his best compliment eheh)
>>37476319do pussy moders even go on grinder?
>>37476331Grim. Terrible punctuation, would not fuck.
>>37475970do they think calling you a failed male is going to help get them sex?
>>37476378That was mean haha
>>37476694>real girlsoof
Just deleted grindr last night. Can't deal with it. Nothing but an endless flood of olds and uglymasc flooding my inbox while all the cute people I message ignore me. I have an obscured pic of my face and I do send my face in the chat, maybe that's not good enough, but I don't like the idea of having a full on face pic as my profile. I know for a fact there are people on that app that I don't want to know I'm on there.How do I make cute niggas reply to me, anons? I'm 25 so borderline gaydead but I'm cute and Iook younger than I am. Is there something I should be doing? What do cute niqqas respond to?
>>37476323Why even engage if you don't wanna fuck?
>>37475970Did you actually post nudes on cripplechan when you were 13 though?
>>37476157What the actual fuck lmao
>>37476217ngl that is kinda hot
>>37476272Man what a fucking mess lol>fluffy>craft beer 400lb alcoholic*
>>37476893stop being black maybe?
>>37477015Tex likes craft beer and is fluffy
>>37476893>25 so borderline gaydeadKek skill issueI'm 31 and have no issue
>>37471822Fucking Moskvich 2140 is more pleasant to drive that that pos of yours
>>37477495T. Bus pass holder
>>37477028I'm not black I'm white longhaired 25yo aged twink.>>37477173How? Seriously, just give me some strats. I have always been useless at this shit. I am sociable af irl and generally able to make friends through mutuals but I have this block when it comes to getting attention and getting to know people online. Is there some formula? Am I just an autistic retard with a boomerbrain?
>>37477966Are you ugly?
>>37475920To me when they added that feature it was a light bulb moment. It made me realize why grindr is as disgusting as it is; because the developers of it are the kind of disgusting guys that populate the app, and cultivate a culture for the slimy no-standards loser pigs. They literally added a feature to make it easier to do something that no one with normal social skills would want to do in the first place.
Sad...
>>37479106Incel virgins have two roads in their 20s. Turn prison gay and pursue trans girls on grindr, or turn prison trans and pursue trans girls on grindr.
>>37479166The pajeet incel is next level cringe
>>37476972Honestly. I've recently gotten into the whole being called a faggot while getting pounded thing, but this way around? Me calling the guy a fag while blowing him. I just might have found my inner verbal dom.
Is there any reason to keep chatting with these people instead of just blocking them?
>>37479410Because I'm lonely and depressed T. Most of the chats here
>>37479455Oh :( Sorry...
bump
I get so many sex pests it’s not even funny. I don’t have “hookups” in expectations and I have “looking for something long term” in my bio.Also, I’ve gotten like 2 people a day asking to spoil me for nude pictures and sex, (which is super degrading and I would never do) and there was this one really guy with a weight gain fetish who suddenly blocked me a couple days before our date ;-;
>>37479841Don’t just fucking doxx someone you dolt
>>37471115You own a tesla AND you use grindr???Just detransition
>>37479988I did already. Don't wanna be a gross hon
>>37480014Frick, just how many detransitioners are out there
>>37476595It's an ego-building game
>>37480034Idk but if you keep being mean to ppl like me that number may increase
>>37480147So what, you have dysphoria but decided being trans is just not viable so you just live with that pain?
>>37476893stop impersonating me niggeryou didn't even get my age right
>>37477966Start with a teasing but not revealing pic. Have good stats/prefs set up to be clear about what you want. If you aren't sure what you want, pick whatever looks most appealing.Hop on the app a few times a day and check messages, make some replies, and maybe hit up a couple people who look interesting.Once the chat starts, don't be weird. No memes, no emoji dumps, no talking about personal problems and shit yet. I like to slide in with a really basic 'hey!' or 'hows it going hot stuff?', maybe one single wink or smile emoji. Don't overdo it. If you want to have variety, maybe take something about their pic/interests and lead with that - 'damn that's a tight looking ass' on the aggressive side, 'hmmm so you like long hikes huh? Where's best?' on the playful side. Again, don't overdo it.After a few messages, ask for body pics. Don't specify or get weird about whether they're nude, let the other person interpret your intention. In fact do a lot of that, be slightly vague while still engaging. That avoids accidentally putting your foot in your mouth early on before you scope their personality out.From there, just flirt. Match their level of energy and sexuality as long as you're comfortable doing it. If they start getting explicit, send a nude without announcing it. If they stay coy, play it cool and just keep the sexual tension going without addressing it.Also don't be afraid to say no, block people, or refuse a request. Good luck anon! You can do it, you can get laid!
>>37479959>text a person>don't set up a hookup the same day>get ignoredmany such cases
>>37479959>really guyreally what guy?
>>37480181Yeah. I don't wanna be a man in a dress. No pass = quit
how fast should i try to set up a date/hookup, the same day?also do i get any bonus points for being a virgin? (for twink/tranny tops)
I'm going to dinner with a friend from a game group I've known for a few years. Online so haven't seen each other but good chemistry. How do I make it clear I'm interested in hooking up? How bad is it that I can't host..
>>37470780Why wouldn't you take this offer
>>37480456Because eww
>>37479388You know that the whole time he's begging you he's thinking 'bloody bitch basterd' and planning on raping you if possible. Jeets are from another planet 1000 years in the past
>>37480279Lol, I meant to say really nice
>>37480936Oh okay. I'm a trans girl with that fetish so the post caught my eye lol... maybe I will get on hookup apps someday
>>37480868I struggle to see some pajeetcel actually being able to rape me
>>37480339Best strat is meet for a drink at a neutral place not too close to your house, only exchange numbers if they seem sane, set up the hookup for soon after via text
>>37481576but what if they cancel it after finding someone's open for sex faster?
>>37480356Show him one of your lewds on your phone.
>>37478859>>37475920The only saved phrase I have is>no pic no chatAnd I use it a lot
I fucking HATE when they use the word fun instead of the word sex, it's so fucking stupid and it pisses me off so fucking much. Is that just a Germany thing or is it universal? That's not what that word means, fucking spastics.
>>37482282>mfw you're old enough to consider mario kart 64 fun and also on Grindrdude where's your husband and kids
>>37480339>Twink/Tranny topsOh my god this poor fucking nigger. I'm so sorry
>>37482446Ok Fortnite, it's more fun than getting fucked up the ass by a stranger. Sometimes.
>go on grindr>act superior when it's just creepy guys that want sexYou're not gonna find love on aids doordash, and you're not a catch.
>>37482471they exist motherfucker
>>37481799Then you probably avoided an STD by not taking that particular load, my friend.
>>37469284I really hope of my simping messages to beautiful trans women turn up in this thread, and everyone laughs at them. I just want to be bullied by trans women so badly >>37479388I would pay for these messages
>>37482282TF did you expect?This place is full of coombrains spamming "sexo with le beautiful trains Qveen".It's just a quirky normie way of saying fuck
>>37480206great advice, thanks :)
>>37469284It talks like an autistic afab enby
>>37469419Twitter is a millennial/gen x thing more than anything.
>>37469284You know what fuck it, I'd let him
>>37480356touch their feet with yours
>>37476932another one...
>>37476912autism
one time i got a guy to put toilet paper on his holder
>>37485283lol
>>37476912Pathetic attention seeking losers hyping themselves up thinking they're better than anybody. It's on par with the self pitying fag's always saying bad things about themselves and side eying you when you don't immediately shower them in compliments
>>37485398>thinking they're better than anybody.I don't feel that way, I just know I have enough value on the sexual marketplace to give me just enough attention to not kms
>>37485473Braindead
>>37476912>>37485482More like fembrained, always wanting attention, but then again, there are a lot of nasty meth-draugrs and other degens on grindr so I don't blame them for turning them down.
>>37485482How so?
>>37479959Men do not read bios.Period.This is true on every dating app.They won't read what you're looking for, they won't read what your weight is, they won't read what your sexuality is, they won't read any part of your bio except your age.Then they will get mad if you are something that you explicitly mentioned in your bio (fat, trans, not looking for a hookup etc) that they just didn't fucking bother to read and will act like you were trying to trick them.Like fucker, read my fucking bio before you message me.I do not get men sometimes.
btw half these screenies are stolen from the r/lolgrindr subr*ddit or whatever
>>37485766Well obviously anon.Like 80 percent of the people who use this board are larpers juggling like 3-5 different identities as their fetishes dictate.Most of the posts on this board are some combination of made up larping and bullshit lies about things that never happened.
didn't read your reply, thnk u nxt
>>37485520Nice casual misogyny. It has nothing to do with being a woman and everything to do with being a narcissistic asshole
>>37485835All women are like that though
>>37476106that's fucking tragic wtf? id want to comfort him but i may be crazy
grindr screenshots are incredibly gauche, and you will be judged very harshly for posting them on non-anon social media sites. Dirty dalit behaviour.
>>37475970what a freaking moralist dude, you were obviously baiting him, he was into it and thought you were offering those pics (a reasonable assumption if you assume the other person is honest), and you got mad when he asked explicitly for your implicit bait? this is like signaling that you suppose a political position you don't, the other person reciprocates, and you start talking about how weird the other person is because they have the other view you don'tlet me be clear here I'm not a realtivist talking about pedophilic attraction as just another "view" - it's literally natural for all of human history, though me being this direct about it will likely blind you to the earlier more general point I made about your dishonesty... :/
>>37475976yeah, that orange guy who copy/pasted that meme response seems really lame, you're right
>>37487513Why would you do a mclovin fan like that?
>>37476169you are AMAB and you dress in girls clothes how is that any different? neither of you are weird
>>37476217do you say that when interacting with strangers, "hey, time waster", or only the ones you judge as not being able to provide value to you based on your first 5 second impression of them?you might think your record of your first 5 second impression is accurate, but it's fallacious since the way you treat people will affect the way they react to youso if you judge them poorly first 5 seconds, that will reflect in the conversation you have with them, where you will be closed off and they will sense that and close off in return, "confirming" your judgemental preconception that he couldn't have provided value to you anyway
>>37476269that guy seems cool let that physics major stud find the force of tension acting on your head as he pulls back your ponytail and the energy lost to friction as he rawdogs you through your moans
>>37476273you know, you have the exact same feeling about men on grindr, don't you? if you found someone really hot the thought would come into your head at least once: "ngl he's probably the only guy I'd let rail me on this app"
>>37476300it's good confidence, at the bare minimumwhy would you be apologetic and fumbling over yourself when you are on a 999/year sex partner app and you are propositioning sex?is your "the Ick" so strong you get subconscious evopsych rape-danger signals in your brain from TEXT messages?
>>37476315wow, you really are a social narcissist if you enjoy watching weaker men supplicate themselves to you all while feeling frustrated and resentful that you can't find a more charming and confident man to see through your games and shit tests to dominate over you
>>37476319you're so brave try saying that to a guy's face irl instead of "shooting behind cover" by sending snarky texts to guys online you immediately block because you can't even handle VERBAL confrontation on a SCREEN. pawsigh... *rubs temples* I need another fix of cartoons to get my mind off the real world
>>37476323what are you expecting? a rich boyfriend to take you in and marry you? app's designed for sex, people ask you for sex, you reject them, they see no reason to continue the conversation - they are the honest ones here, I have no idea what your intentions are on the app
>>37476331>this old crossdresser looks ugly, let me gossip to my friends about the feeling of intuitive disgust I felt about it - I may have transitioned at 25, but at least I'm not like that HON!
>>37476331Digital Friends:tm:
>>37476378lol if this was a troll this is the funniest one here yettell her the estrogen messed with your liver or kidneys or some pseudoreason, and now you are chronically ill
>>37476386he has nothing to lose by advertising, no?>>37476394would you have the balls to save someone in a HOUSE FIRE? ignore maternal instinct because that stuff is overpowered, say you had to go through a fire for a chance at saving your boyfriend - would you? is that the standard you want to hold someone to before you even go out on a date or have sex with them once?
>>37482813True, it just pisses me off that they use words incorrectly heh, I swear a lot of them think that 'fun' is just the English word for sex.
>>37476932i was 12 actually i think>>37488173pardon
>>37476494how rude and cruel can you be? this guy is being direct and honest that he wants to pay you for sex (what other job gives you 100 euro for less than an hour of work?)... I guess one issue is STD's, but you are on the app looking for sex so you are already either comfortable with the risk or you've mitigated it, and this guy is no more likely to not be clean than any other on the appif you are ever in need of money for rent, bills, etc, don't complain...
>>37476912>>37485398>>37485520How do you know if you want to sleep with somebody if you don't talk to them?
>>37476636how much social validation do you get from posting this to your Digital Friends?>>37476745Nukesaku wouldn't like this question...
>>37488256I ain't gonna meet someone without having a bit of a chat first.
Lesson of the thread: Pay a prostitute
>>37488300If I ever need $100 badly enough that I'll let some fat old hairy Turkish taxi driver fuck me in the ass then I'll have bigger problems. Fuck this prick for talking to me like I'm a prostitute
>>37477372he must not be very masculine himself if he's saying please...
>>37488312None, I just thought it was funny banter, he's allowed to reply, and if he can't handle it then he failed
>ITT Chasers annoyed that tranners won't immediately hookup with them and waste their time
>>37488181The pornographic opener from a blank profile with no pics was lame af. Or would that work on you Anon?
>>37478859why are you invoking your fear and disgust center by assuming "grossness" on the intent of the developers? the way I see it, the devs are catering to the whalers, like literally any mobile game company does. whalers being the boomers who use their 6 figure jobs to pay for grindr premium and etc, those whalers being the types who give people like you "the ick" sociallywould you ascribe the same sort of moral disgust and contempt to some businessman who sets the heart timer on Candy Crush to 35 minutes up from 30 minutes? sure it makes the experience worse for the average user and gives the whalers more competitive advantage in the app's playing field, but this simply doesn't match the "grossness" and "sickness" that you are trying to project onto the grindr devs here... you ascribe "piggishness" and "slimyness" as the devs' motives because want to feel more justified in your hate of them, but WHY should you choose to hate the far-away people who wrong you slightly when that hate is inactionable? the only pseudo-action you can take on that hate is venting (complaining) about it to internet people who share the same hate
>>37479106he's trolling you, r/whooosh>>37479388question: would you accept pity fucks from attractive men who are out of your league?
>>37479394you should try it at least once, you can make a fair amount of money from cuckold subs, I've done it in my spare time and it's absolutely worth the time I don't have to workfucking starbucks they won't even pay for my surgeries anymore
>>37479841lol this exact same exchange was in an mlp green I read, it's their shibbolethanon: you're a big marenightmare moon: for youand they recognize that it's each other and not changelings>>37479959why don't you say explicitly that you are NOT looking for hookups and you do NOT accept money for sex in your bio?
>>37488221No, not even close. More like me saying to someone:>wow I hate faggots but you're the least faggy one and I guess we could fuck if you don't tell anyone
>>37488231I get the ick from rapejeetcels, and this one is telling lies while he begs for sex while thinking about rape, it's the opposite of good confidence
>>37469284honestly, here in spain grindr is bleak as hell.you might as well just apply to art school if you want to get a trans gf
>>37480868you don't think confident and charismatic men aren't thinking the same thing? why is it even bad the thoughts that are in their head? since what affects you is their actions, and clearly their thoughts are not informing their actions since they are supplicating to youwhat disgusts you is the weakness you see in the male, not the "rapeyness"sincea confident male can be honest and direct about his rapeyness and use his social intuition and knowledge of social dynamics to make it suave
>>37482282you seem like you have a couple of pasted lines yourself, mario boy
>>37488249I never block people on Grindr, I do however get constantly blocked when I don't immediately and enthusiastically agree to anonymous buttsex with a stranger who didn't even send a picture. irl I would totally say the same thing to any stranger who asks me about my genital configuration with their first sentence.
>>37488389Imagine not understanding the difference between genuine charm and glibness holy shit lolThis board is so insane
>>37482282how about: "looking for some fun (sexual)">>37482664hahahaha, these people clearly aren't looking for sex, they know "long-term relationships" that stem from GRINDR are a farce, these people just want the self-esteem emotional validation of feeling desired, while never actualy having sex with the supplicators "below" them
I'll contribute
>>37488249>using RP text to try to insult someone>unironically talking about watching cartoons Underageb&
>>37488384I went to Marbella, the quality of man is 1000 times higher than the West Midlands, UK
>>37485283do X and i will THINK ABOUT giving you Yonly retards buy lottery tickers like this, only losers give everything they have in exchange for the promise of a "maybe"
>>37485729hmmmm maybe you should save "read my bio before you message me" as one of your pasted messages?
>>37488291are you going to ask an actual question about my beliefs, or are you just going to signal how taken aback you are by what I've said?
>>37488265looks like a crackhead independent of crossdressing, hasn't shavedyes, it's appropriate to mock cracked out unshaven CDs
>>37488399No I just mention N64 a lot because I get the same messages a lot and it's a wholesome example of fun, which is what he said he was looking for. If he means 'sex in the ass with a stranger' then he should just say that instead, how am I supposed to know what kind of fun he's looking for?
>>37488337ahh, so it's a shit test you're pulling to gauge how confident he is, alright, it's not a bad strategy, filters out the wheat from the chaffe doesn't it?
>>37488389It's rape when the other person doesn't want it Sukdeep
>>37488419men are ok, but if you r a chaser (me) you only find whores and not much else.i live in Valencia so maybe things are different somewhere else in this shithole>im just sad i still don't have my transGF
>>37488317I don't see how what he did was insultinglike, suppose you know a person who's really good at math, you walk up to them and say, hey, I have this test I need to study for, would you accept payment for tutoring?how is that objectification of the guy? the guy can provide value to you because he is able to do a thing, you gauge his ability to do the thing to an extent that satisfies you, and you proposition him with a value exchange - inf anything the guy should feel a little ego-boosted that people recognize him as smartnow, how is any of this different from a woman being beautiful, and a guy offering to make a value exchange with her? (more people should take economics classes, for celestia's cake)
>>37488337yup, you really are fembrained>>37488352two wrongs don't make a right. don't accuse other people of being lazy when you've standard social tricks you use to keep social situations "samey" and in fami
>>37488490familiar waters yourself>>37488383johnny johnny? yes papatelling lies? no papa
>>37488405glibness comes off as weak to females, dishonest and unattractiveconfident, charm can make even rapeyness appealing to them, though you have to have a high social power level and intuition for this to work
>>37488485If a fat hairy old Arab offered your mom or sister 20 bucks to suck his cock do you think that they might be a little offended by that? How about if I raise it to 25? I think you wouldn't like it, but I might be wrong.
>>37488460Wtf? I literally want a relationship,I want a bf I can cook for and go outside and do things, and no British man wants me, they are ashamed to like trans women
>>37488524if a mentally slow person offered a college student 25 bucks to help them do algebra or trig, why should the college student choose to feel offended by that? why does it matter if it's your or your brother or your father or your nephew? in fact, it makes even LESS sense to get offended if it's happening to someone else!
>>37488538in fact, it makes sense for the mentally slow person who needs help to proposition multiple different people should one proposition attempt failjust as your beauty is likely enough to make you attractive, but not enough to make you unique among females, there are plenty of males who know enough to do algebra or trig, but aren't exceptionally/uniquely good at mathwhy should being the subject of a proposition from a door-to-door propositioner offend someone?
>>37488235Nobody is into Indian men tho Anon
>>37480356if your both men, sexually molest him and if he's unreceptive just laugh it off, "just boys being boys," and if he is receptive fuck him right there
>>37488353Why is it always about hate for you people kek
How do I tell my wife I want to try crossdressing or how do I do it without her finding out? I am a 6’1” muscular chad btw.
>>37488567I don't understand, what pattern are you picking up on, can you make it explicit, what types of people, always make "it" about "hate", and WHY do they tend to do this (your prediction)?
>>37488411well show us the imaginary dick in the 2nd pic then...
>>37488450You have to give guys a little bit of pushback. Normal and healthy people breeze right through it, and unacceptables lose their shit and fall to pieces, and that's how you know if he's worth talking to or not
>>37488384>>37488460This is exactly how I got my trans girlfriend:>I know a boy who studies arts at university>I start dating him>I fuck him every day>feed his daddy issues during sex>a year later it begins to transition and the hrtI'm not from Valencia, but I'm from Spain. Trust the boy removal plan brother
>>37488408>how about: "looking for some fun (sexual)"Is perfect, it's an expression. My only issue is them interchangeably using the words 'fun' and sex' and I don't know if it's a German or a Grindr thing but it grinds my gears.>I had fun with my wife yesterday>Have you ever had fun in public>All day I dream about fun
>>37488360>>37479388 (You) #>question: would you accept pity fucks from attractive men who are out of your leagueI immediately reject attractive men who are out of my league because I know they're probably bots or pic collecting pajeet catfish
>>37477372>Please say masculine.
>>37488590No I don't particularly wish to dox myself
>>37488730>so many people have seen his cock that showing it is as if he were showing his faceWhat a whore you are...
>>37488603>You have to give guys a little bit of pushback. Normal and healthy people breeze right through it, and unacceptables lose their shit and fall to pieces, and that's how you know if he's worth talking to or notwhat sorts of things do "normal and healthy" people (i suspect probably like top 10% Emotional Quotient) people do to breeze right through your shit tests? easy to think that the tests are trivial when you are the one writing them, ask any professordon't mean my snideness to detract from my curiosity, I'm more interested in what the "correct" sort of responses are, or what the people who passes the tests did to pass them
>>37488759Isn't this a sex app? Omly question that matter is: Do you wanna fuck? Then you say yes or no. This shit in particular is stupid. Just say no.
>>37488775I'm very open and honest that I just want friends and not to have sex. And men try it. So why shouldn't I actually communicate.I'm not meeting up with someone so they can rob me and rape me
>>37488759Jesus fucking Christ can someone remove these AGP failed straight males from Grindr???
>>37488783So use discord. Why do this on an app made for sex hookups?
>>37488201Lol he's not a stranger. We hooked up once
>>37488793Make me
>>37488791I'm not hopping on some guys dick unless he can communicate properly
>>37486594I was more offended that he's trying to get lewd with me when he should be with his kid
>>37488759"what's special about you"? I get you're jaded after talking to low EQ indians for so long, but that just sounds rude and standoffish tbdesu"what's special about you" is such a vague question, those things he mentioned were objectively special things about himobviously the work and humor of a person inform the personality of a person, and he is literally telling you about his personal hobby... I thought girls ususally didn't like it when guys "interrogated" them by asking them a lot of questions... this guy is supplicating because he's staying within your frame of you being the one asking the questions and YOU being the one assessing HIS value, that means he's already "lost" in terms of social dynamicsnow you just ask 999 questions and wait until he fails the teststhe type of guy you would be attracted to would be the one who's able to navigate the conversation away from your "frame" and give you the thrill of something new, the positive kind of tensionbut as long as you are in your frame, feeling safe and in control but also BORED, you will lose attraction as you go through your "script" to assess valueit's cool, it's like the whole reporter question format is ITSELF a meta-test beyond the specific questions asked
>>37488235>you're a narcissist yes
>>37488857also, I don't think he's an imbecile or a hypocrite because he loved the wrong person multiple timesbecause, he placed his trust into people multiple times, and got betrayedbut he was saying specifically that loving someone who you KNOW ALREADY is untrustworthy is imbecilic, like doing something you KNOW will give you bad consequenceswhen you trust someone you are taking a calculated risk and you have to accept that may fail, but taking a risk you know to be prone to failure is just stupidso your snarky comeback about him being an imbecile by his own definition was actually based on a misinterpretation of what he said...and then when he mentions this exact same point (though I gave it with more detail since you didn't address it when he brought it up)you then stuck to *your* frame again and asked your next reporter-question...it's an interesting strategy but I don't think it will get you the results you wanthave you tried being up-front and honest about the things that you personally value are, instead of being so indirect about it with the reporter-format? if you have not, it is worth experimenting with for sure
>>37488859that's cool that you are honest about it, i'm curious about what this is like! - what sorts of social power/leverage gratify you the most? what does the gratification feel like? what part is best, when you are toying with the person, or when you are recounting your power over that person to other people? something else I am not accounting for?
>>37488857>now you just ask 999 questions and wait until he fails the tests>the type of guy you would be attracted to would be the one who's able to navigate the conversation away from your "frame" and give you the thrill of something new, the positive kind of tensionWell yeah, a man who is super confident wouldn't fuck about with my nonsense questions. That's why I ask them. My ex worked for Google and another a hedge fund company, I can tell when a man is propped up by his circumstances or when he is the real deal.He isnt real, because he mentioned his business twice so fucking what. He can't buy me anything I can't buy myself. He failed the tests anyway, I couldn't give a fuck if he works in a sewer, will he treat me right, will he look after me. That's all that matters.
>>37488812... literally your reasoning is inconsistent, if you truly did only want friends, would it not be more optimal to transfer all of the grindr networking time into discord networking time? unless, you had a secondary motivation for using grindr besides just looking for friends? are you entertained by the conversations men who don't meet your standards have with you when they proposition you? are you secretly holding out hope that a strong, confident, high EQ man will show up on grindr and get intimate with you? could be something else, maybe you've friends who use grindr, some other reason? who's to say, except you? I'm curious
>>37488774Ok Anon here's a basic shit test. Mr. Big Talk here, with a blank profile, no pics and this opener. He might be as big as he's acting, or he might be a little pussy, how can I know? So you have to see what he's actually made of. A normal and healthy person wouldn't think anything of my dumb little joke, but a weak pussy bitch would get buttmad and sperg out for being challenged, and either way now I know who I'm dealing with.
>>37488901this is really cool you have this abilityhate to have been so edgily accusatory earlier, but I want to learn more about what this is like for you, your process of sniffing out the "bad eggs" encased in good-looking shells... what are some tricks you have to find the "real deals"? what are some times you were "tricked" by "bad eggs", how did they do it, and what did you learn to prevent future occurrences of that?
Groomers. Pls just let me manmode in peace
>>37488880i like when people look up to me, but i also enjoy comments on my physical appearance. not everyone will like me, but those that do make me happy. (only if they're hot though) specifically if im messing with people, recounting it to others who will share my view is the best part of it
>>37488911this is fun I can test my social intuition!what about "need some help looking? I'll face you in the right direction and you won't miss it"?unrelated question: are you transgender or cisgender? more generally I am curious how you learned social dynamics, was it from real world-experience, talking to friends, reading sites? how much of the social skills come from intuition and how much from knowledge of general principlees?
>>37488420I think they were just being funny Sheldon
>>37488968ahh, also add a :thumbsup: emoji included in the text at the end
>>37488921The biggest one is show don't tell. My ex was a millionaire, he never told me until we were 2 years into a relationship. Look at it this way. I'm a pretty face he has never met, and doesn't know. And he is shooting his strongest shot already. Why? Is HE not enough? Is HE not appealing? I get he is trying to demonstrate value, but like I said, I'd be with him, not his business. I don't care what men do 9-5, that's not my role, my role is to look pretty and make his life easy.He told me nothing about him as a person, he could be a mean cunt and ruin my life, but instead he TELLS me his business is successful, so what. I don't walk up to people and say my tits are huge and my eyes are nice, it's demonstrable. I remember when my other ex told me he had a portfolio of cars. Do you know when he told me, after I got to know him lol, because he was secure in himself, the cars were just a side hobby to himI'm at the stage now a man could work in a chip shop, and I'd still find him attractive if he pressed the right buttons, money makes life easy, but you can't buy love. I want love
>>37488808So did you text his gf?
>>37488759>>37488901>>37488985lmao is this fucking kayla
>>37488985ahhhh this actually makes a lot more sense now based off of the things that you value, that being direct about the value you provide is signaling while not mentioning it is countersignaling which projects more confidence, and during the initial evaluation phase, the confidence you gauge is much more important than the literal facts gleaned (is this correct?)Now, I imagine the initial "show" comes in demonstration of confidence by not weakly adhering to your frame, then to follow-up you would need to maintain this, while also doing something "more" - in your case, i imagine this would mainly be a "good personality" over specific practical/technical skills and confidence in those skills? both? which one is more of a factor, though? and, I was a little vague on "good personality" because I don't know what precisely that looks like for you - what would this be?i.e. long-term, what are the right buttons for you?
I cannot believe people are doing job interviews over a fucking sex app.
>>37489042No
>>37489053Yeah, exactly, I don't care what a man's favourite colour is, it's tell nothing about him, personality is rooted in much more deeper terms, and they only come to the surface in unusual ways you have to learn to spot. The literal information is useless. Men really don't understand this, you'll get some really horrible man who gets given his dad's company to run, and wonder why the woman who uses him fucks a charming man behind his back.Yeah, the specific skills are nonsense, I don't care if he sells metal, or sells gold or sells stocks I don't care and I never will, the same way he doesn't care about my education. It all comes down to, will he treat me right, will he take care of me. If he wants to play Dota on the weekends, and stuffs a handful of cash in my hands and tells me to go shopping, great. Then when I get back, I show him the lingerie I bought, he jumps on top of me, im a happy woman. I'm so simple it's unreal
>>37488968You can just make a joke, the point is to push back a little and see if he reacts normally or not is all, because many actually can't handle it.Also I'm mtf and have had over 50 million conversations on the Grindr. I don't know much social dynamics but I can show you a Pressure Flip:>Him: Hey girl, how big are those titties?>You: B cup. How much money do you have?>Him: I- uh.. you.. uh..Puts him on the spot, pulls him out of his frame and reverses your positions. And again something like this is no issue for a normal and healthy man, he can just say>Enough to feed my dog and pay my Cosmopolitan subscription. Now are we gonna make some babies or what
>>37489216>>Enough to feed my dog and pay my Cosmopolitan subscription. Now are we gonna make some babies or whatI have decided I will use that line in the future
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>>37489325>Hey
>>37489325I don't get it He played into your wish and acted as if he had just messaged you based on your expressed wish, indicating he'd be that kind of man.Or am I muss a clue here?
>>37489531>mussmissing*
>>37489325>I want someone who will do the bare minimum of being a decent human beingSad. Get some standards and get off grindr.
>>37489544I havent ever experienced that before:(
>>37488808so fucking hto wtf
>>37476378how miserable is your life to not simply accept a compliment
>>37482282Words change depend on the culture and context i think your the spastic for caring what words someone uses
>>37489872>Laughing while crying emoji in response to being told someone got rapedFaggots have no soul
>>37489820Did you miss the part about the failed transition? How fucking miserable do you think i am?
>>37489916Lmaoo
>>37489872>>37489916how do you expect somebody to respond when youre on trauma dumping on a hookup app with no intention of hooking up
>>37489180yet you're looking on fucking grindr lmaoyou're legitimately deludedand someone's favourite colour does tell you a lot about them btw, if you actually cared to inquire further about them rather than what they could do for YOU
>>37489835You could not be more wrong Anon>>37488670'fun' and 'sex' are two different words with two different meanings.
Grindr is weird
>>37488360>>37488695Picrel, i have too many grindr screenshots
The worst thing about Grindr is specifying that you are Top. Thousands of old men from the stone age, damned boomers who look like dark souls bosses, come up to you and ask you to fuck them.When they open a chat with you by suddenly sending an unsolicited nude, it's horrible, like a medical encyclopedia of infections.If you get past this first layer you are left with an ocean of bears and gymbros (100% heterosexual, no faggots). I hate grindr.
>>37490328Is there a reason why you are this cautious?
>>37490439Because I've had really bad experiences dating, getting ghosted and flaked on the past few years and I have no confidence and I'm fat ugly and old etc I could go on
>>37488420>only losers give everything they have>putting toilet paper on toilet paper holder
>>37490328This one makes me sad Nona, get some of that honfidence that's going around pls
>>37490077He asked why I'm reluctant to meet, I say why, he laughs.What trauma dump, I just said what's happened to me. You're not a nice person
>>37488532well, if you ever go to Valencia, just look for a guy that looks like a ps2 npc, that will be meill be waiting
>>37490691I had it when I was a babytrans. I thought maybe i was actually kind of pretty and had potential to pass and then it all crumbled and here i am ;_;
>>37490727ok now I'm really sad. This is for you.
>>37490711Do you want a British trans woman who's been hurt a lot and just wants to sit in silence and rock back and forth?
>>37490489Sad to see you be so self defeating. Obviously take care and don't get raped or murdered please, but if someone finds you attractive you shouldn't disregard that person because of low confidence. maybe you are just not your type
>>37490818I'm nobody's type otherwise I would not be on grindr still
>>37490796i doesn't sound bad honestly, as long as you are ok with my autistic ramblings and terrible poemsi do cook some nice stuff tho>im 24 btw, but ive gone trough so much shit in life im unironically a 40yo mentally.
>>37490870I'm not going to humour your>woe meself flaggelation, so this is my last post on the matter, but consider that a person contacted you thinking you are good looking. You literally are someone's type
>>37492077>someone on grindr wants to fuck you, so you can't be that grossLol, lmao even
>>37491823I would like that very much, I like listening a lot and I would learn your language.I've suffered too, we can help heal each other
>>37492485i like you :)if you come to this forsaken land, look for "will" on grindr. ill buy you a drink
>>37493220I've been to Spain a lot, just never Valencia. If Spain is forsaken wtf is England lol. Cursed earth?Lol. Imagine leaving England AND having a boyfriend. I cant even imagine it. I cant imagine either event happening in my life I wanna go cry
>>37471874they are men.
